Many will disagree .. do you think this is GOOD parenting?

Started by b7, December 04, 2017, 06:23:54 PM

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Navyman

This is also why we have a lot of emotionally messed up men also.

Kaeli.

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This is kinda why black men usually end up being emotionally unstable messes that can?t process their emotions correctly. I?d have to lash my man for talking to my child like that, personally :guys:

And it?s really weird that he recorded this...let?s me know the bby didn?t do anything tbh how corny

BAPHOMET.



b7

Quote from: TEXASbama on December 04, 2017, 06:43:53 PM
You can raise your kids how you want buttttt i think it?s a bit much for a damn baby.  Let that lil dude enjoy being a kid there is plenty of time to make a hotep out of him
ssdddd yea there needs to be balance


Let a kid be a kid. ?whining? is something i see a lot of parents try and cut down and THAT i can understand, but emotions in general ... that has to be allowed

b7

Quote from: TEXASbama on December 04, 2017, 06:43:53 PM
You can raise your kids how you want buttttt i think it?s a bit much for a damn baby.  Let that lil dude enjoy being a kid there is plenty of time to make a hotep out of him
ssdddd yea there needs to be balance


Let a kid be a kid. ?whining? is something i see a lot of parents try and cut down and THAT i can understand, but emotions in general ... that has to be allowed

Vonc2002

Quote from: 1RIG on December 04, 2017, 06:55:22 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on December 04, 2017, 06:29:57 PM
I'm conflicted. I think it's amazing that he's being a father and  everything but he's reinforcing that men aren't supposed to cry, hyper masculine ideal that's kinda EH! Ultimately tho, I'm with it.  And him being a bby is irrelevant imo. That's exactly when ur supposed to mold ur kids into the people they're   gonna be.  Ur a sponge at that age
!!! But that?s my point. The specifics that he?s teaching him are why a lot of guys end up suppressing so much and it becomes damaging and super unhealthy

It?s not the end of the world and he isn?t some shitty father because of it, but I?d definitely make some..  tweaks and alterations ssssss
Well I think we'd probably make tweaks and alterations to many people's parenting styles if we were to put them under a microscope and scrutinize the way we're doing here. Ultimately this probably is more good than bad and will probably serve him well in his future imo. Id rather him be getting some "toughen up" principles from his father than the shit he'd be getting on the street. There is no perfect way to parent and i think ultimately this is good tbh. I ain't mad at it
This is my pass to say WHATEVER tf I wanna say about the mess she releases so I don't wanna hear SHIT! Baby mama is a mess of a song btw





b7

Quote from: TEXASbama on December 04, 2017, 06:43:53 PM
You can raise your kids how you want buttttt i think it?s a bit much for a damn baby.  Let that lil dude enjoy being a kid there is plenty of time to make a hotep out of him
ssdddd yea there needs to be balance


Let a kid be a kid. ?whining? is something i see a lot of parents try and cut down and THAT i can understand, but emotions in general ... that has to be allowed

b7

Quote from: Vonc2002 on December 04, 2017, 07:03:43 PM
Quote from: 1RIG on December 04, 2017, 06:55:22 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on December 04, 2017, 06:29:57 PM
I'm conflicted. I think it's amazing that he's being a father and  everything but he's reinforcing that men aren't supposed to cry, hyper masculine ideal that's kinda EH! Ultimately tho, I'm with it.  And him being a bby is irrelevant imo. That's exactly when ur supposed to mold ur kids into the people they're   gonna be.  Ur a sponge at that age
!!! But that?s my point. The specifics that he?s teaching him are why a lot of guys end up suppressing so much and it becomes damaging and super unhealthy

It?s not the end of the world and he isn?t some shitty father because of it, but I?d definitely make some..  tweaks and alterations ssssss
Well I think we'd probably make tweaks and alterations to many people's parenting styles if we were to put them under a microscope and scrutinize the way we're doing here. Ultimately this probably is more good than bad and will probably serve him well in his future imo. Id rather him be getting some "toughen up" principles from his father than the shit he'd be getting on the street. There is no perfect way to parent and i think ultimately this is good tbh. I ain't mad at it
yea and it?s just a snippet

Who knows how he parents off of the football field :dead:

Loving this thread btw


Kaeli.

Going through his page and he seems really fucking irritating and pretentious

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Quote from: Vonc2002 on December 04, 2017, 06:36:35 PM
Quote from: AYR on December 04, 2017, 06:33:09 PM
Quote from: ANIMMAI on December 04, 2017, 06:31:36 PM
q

this nigga probably sees him
half the battle is won
He's teaching him what some feels is to be a man. And it looks like he's teaching him respect as well, so those are 2 good weekends a month. Iono what baph could say that's racist btw because these are principles that are taught in the military, hence him saluting at some point in the video.

You're teaching a two year old CHILD how to be a MAN? How about letting him be a child first? Geez...

Vonc2002

Quote from: Alotta Vagyna on December 04, 2017, 07:16:21 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on December 04, 2017, 06:36:35 PM
Quote from: AYR on December 04, 2017, 06:33:09 PM
Quote from: ANIMMAI on December 04, 2017, 06:31:36 PM
q

this nigga probably sees him
half the battle is won
He's teaching him what some feels is to be a man. And it looks like he's teaching him respect as well, so those are 2 good weekends a month. Iono what baph could say that's racist btw because these are principles that are taught in the military, hence him saluting at some point in the video.

You're teaching a two year old CHILD how to be a MAN? How about letting him be a child first? Geez...
The same can be said about Asians who have really high expectations on their children academically, so much so that they aren't allowed to play or " be a child first".  He can raise his son the way he wants, u just make sure you're allowing ur child grow up time since those are the principles u value
This is my pass to say WHATEVER tf I wanna say about the mess she releases so I don't wanna hear SHIT! Baby mama is a mess of a song btw






Vonc2002

This is my pass to say WHATEVER tf I wanna say about the mess she releases so I don't wanna hear SHIT! Baby mama is a mess of a song btw





❄️☃️🌨� Shuji Feels Different 🌨�☃️❄️

Quote from: Vonc2002 on December 04, 2017, 07:20:32 PM
Quote from: Alotta Vagyna on December 04, 2017, 07:16:21 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on December 04, 2017, 06:36:35 PM
Quote from: AYR on December 04, 2017, 06:33:09 PM
Quote from: ANIMMAI on December 04, 2017, 06:31:36 PM
q

this nigga probably sees him
half the battle is won
He's teaching him what some feels is to be a man. And it looks like he's teaching him respect as well, so those are 2 good weekends a month. Iono what baph could say that's racist btw because these are principles that are taught in the military, hence him saluting at some point in the video.

You're teaching a two year old CHILD how to be a MAN? How about letting him be a child first? Geez...
The same can be said about Asians who have really high expectations on their children academically, so much so that they aren't allowed to play or " be a child first".  He can raise his son the way he wants, u just make sure you're allowing ur child grow up time since those are the principles u value

I hate kids and I don't want any. He's putting these videos out there for people to have a say, not me.

Vonc2002

Quote from: Alotta Vagyna on December 04, 2017, 07:23:38 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on December 04, 2017, 07:20:32 PM
Quote from: Alotta Vagyna on December 04, 2017, 07:16:21 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on December 04, 2017, 06:36:35 PM
Quote from: AYR on December 04, 2017, 06:33:09 PM
Quote from: ANIMMAI on December 04, 2017, 06:31:36 PM
q

this nigga probably sees him
half the battle is won
He's teaching him what some feels is to be a man. And it looks like he's teaching him respect as well, so those are 2 good weekends a month. Iono what baph could say that's racist btw because these are principles that are taught in the military, hence him saluting at some point in the video.

You're teaching a two year old CHILD how to be a MAN? How about letting him be a child first? Geez...
The same can be said about Asians who have really high expectations on their children academically, so much so that they aren't allowed to play or " be a child first".  He can raise his son the way he wants, u just make sure you're allowing ur child grow up time since those are the principles u value

I hate kids
Oh ok.
This is my pass to say WHATEVER tf I wanna say about the mess she releases so I don't wanna hear SHIT! Baby mama is a mess of a song btw