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[Stewie]

The few times I've experienced it, i didn't know how to handle it because I've always told myself I'm the best Antonio i can be

So when it happened i got angry ncncnccn

And of course it was within a relationship

waitt

[Herb.]

Envy is such a natural, human emotion. And although many of us don't admit that we have these feelings sometimes, we've all experienced it countless times during our lives (and I expect that to be denied by some lol).

But here's my question. How do you handle it?

To me jealousy is such a useless emotion, even tho it's natural. It is really a green-eyed monster used for destruction (Othello)

I count my blessings and keep it moving

Good job lil sis. I agree.

Remembering how wonderful and blessed you are is a perfect antidote for these moments.

[deez]

Envy is such a natural, human emotion. And although many of us don't admit that we have these feelings sometimes, we've all experienced it countless times during our lives (and I expect that to be denied by some lol).

But here's my question. How do you handle it?

To me jealousy is such a useless emotion, even tho it's natural. It is really a green-eyed monster used for destruction (Othello)

I count my blessings and keep it moving

Good job lil sis. I agree.

Remembering how wonderful and blessed you are is a perfect antidote for these moments.

[RekeRig]

Let it fuel me.  it should really just be turned into motivation, depending on what we're talking about.  In terms of relationships, I just get quiet, keep to myself even more and become a little cold/short. I'm not argumentative or confrontational, but you'll know I'm pissed or upset

[Herb.]

Let it fuel me.  it should really just be turned into motivation, depending on what we're talking about.  In terms of relationships, I just get quiet, keep to myself even more and become a little cold/short. I'm not argumentative or confrontational, but you'll know I'm pissed or upset

you're passive aggressi'. like me. lolz I get the same way when I feel some type of way, if I feel hurt more so. Not jealous.

I handle envy pretty much the same way as everyone's stated in here, including you. Turning it into motivation is a fabulously productive way to make something out of nothing.

[BranLover]

Remind myself that I don't know what that person had to endure to obtain the blessing(s) they have. And I'd imagine how it would make me feel if someone discredited the blessings I have without knowing how hard I worked for them. I turn that emotion into a positive thought.

[Herb.]

Remind myself that I don't know what that person had to endure to obtain the blessing(s) they have. And I'd imagine how it would make me feel if someone discredited the blessings I have without knowing how hard I worked for them. I turn that emotion into a positive thought.

ugh. Your honesty is appreciated luv. Beautiful. I love how you think just a bit negatively in order to think positively . What matters is the end result.

[BranLover]

I don't know how I would handle it in a relationship now. I imagine the same way I do in any other instance.

[SUPREME]

The few times I've experienced it, i didn't know how to handle it because I've always told myself I'm the best Antonio i can be

So when it happened i got angry ncncnccn

And of course it was within a relationship

waitt

why do you think I'm called ton fag

[BranLover]

Remind myself that I don't know what that person had to endure to obtain the blessing(s) they have. And I'd imagine how it would make me feel if someone discredited the blessings I have without knowing how hard I worked for them. I turn that emotion into a positive thought.

ugh. Your honesty is appreciated luv. Beautiful. I love how you think just a bit negatively in order to think positively . What matters is the end result.

Thanks luv. I'd say realistically instead of negatively though.

[Herb.]

Remind myself that I don't know what that person had to endure to obtain the blessing(s) they have. And I'd imagine how it would make me feel if someone discredited the blessings I have without knowing how hard I worked for them. I turn that emotion into a positive thought.

ugh. Your honesty is appreciated luv. Beautiful. I love how you think just a bit negatively in order to think positively . What matters is the end result.

Thanks luv. I'd say realistically instead of negatively though.

Well what we see as their end result is the positive, what they had to endure, we'd assume that some of that history may include a bit of negative or unsavory experiences. Reality is in such a large part negativity. Turning on the news for 10 minutes will confirm that. That's what I meant by thinking negatively. Not in a bad way. I know what you mean. We don't know their struggle. So why continue to envy their success.

[BranLover]

Remind myself that I don't know what that person had to endure to obtain the blessing(s) they have. And I'd imagine how it would make me feel if someone discredited the blessings I have without knowing how hard I worked for them. I turn that emotion into a positive thought.

ugh. Your honesty is appreciated luv. Beautiful. I love how you think just a bit negatively in order to think positively . What matters is the end result.

Thanks luv. I'd say realistically instead of negatively though.

Well what we see as their end result is the positive, what they had to endure, we'd assume that some of that history may include a bit of negative or unsavory experiences. Reality is in such a large part negativity. Turning on the news for 10 minutes will confirm that. That's what I meant by thinking negatively. Not in a bad way.

I know you didn't mean it in a bad way and I love how you just put this.

[Herb.]

Remind myself that I don't know what that person had to endure to obtain the blessing(s) they have. And I'd imagine how it would make me feel if someone discredited the blessings I have without knowing how hard I worked for them. I turn that emotion into a positive thought.

ugh. Your honesty is appreciated luv. Beautiful. I love how you think just a bit negatively in order to think positively . What matters is the end result.

Thanks luv. I'd say realistically instead of negatively though.

Well what we see as their end result is the positive, what they had to endure, we'd assume that some of that history may include a bit of negative or unsavory experiences. Reality is in such a large part negativity. Turning on the news for 10 minutes will confirm that. That's what I meant by thinking negatively. Not in a bad way.

I know you didn't mean it in a bad way and I love how you just put this.

[Lane Bryant Jumpsuit]

Relationship jealousy is a big pne for me   career and material things not so much

But :(

[Vix]

I've never been jealous....of anything. But naturally it's ok to be jealous in a relationship....I think people are afraid of losing something naturally so yea jealously is normal