How to deal with abusive parents?

Started by Hatsumomo, January 05, 2018, 11:48:17 AM

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Hatsumomo

My mother is so verbally abusive. Sometimes I want to hate her but then I catch myself and tell myself that she gave me birth , ect. She has four children and neither one of us get along with her.  Is there a better way of dealing with abusive parents? I see some of you post nothing but positive things about your parents but I cannot relate  :plzstop:

LOONA.


BAPHOMET.



Vonc2002

People definitely posts mess about their parents here.  My parents aren't abusive but I have standards and stipulations for anyone in my life in regards to how I'm treated and what I'll allow. I don't subscribe to the whole  "it's family, so you gotta deal" thing. If you plan on being a part of my life you'll show me the respect I deserve. I don't disrespect my family or friends so I'll settle for nothing less.  U too can be booted from my life, if that's what you'd like
This is my pass to say WHATEVER tf I wanna say about the mess she releases so I don't wanna hear SHIT! Baby mama is a mess of a song btw





Hatsumomo

It's scary though when you hear you own parent like say certain things about you and you're like...  :omgwatshappening:

I pay her bills every month, I buy her things ect.. but she keeps coming for me..  :everythingok:

Kaeli.


fresh

Quote from: Vonc2002 on January 05, 2018, 11:53:12 AM
People definitely posts mess about their parents here.  My parents aren't abusive but I have standards and stipulations for anyone in my life in regards to how I'm treated and what I'll allow. I don't subscribe to the whole  "it's family, so you gotta deal" thing. If you plan on being a part of my life you'll show me the respect I deserve. I don't disrespect my family or friends so I'll settle for nothing less.  U too can be booted from my life, if that's what you'd like

Facts!
:lopsided:

Eternal Bell

January 05, 2018, 11:57:55 AM #7 Last Edit: January 05, 2018, 11:58:18 AM by Tinkestar
id firs let my parents kno...like HEY!
lols
u aint gonna be talkin' to me any kinda way

if they ignore me
its cut off time
i have a vry VRY short fuse for negative n combative ppl in real life

GRAND

Get rid of her

Being related doesn't mean you have to tolerate disrespect

But have you ever just told her she's...well a BITCH!

Vonc2002

Quote from: fresh on January 05, 2018, 11:56:52 AM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on January 05, 2018, 11:53:12 AM
People definitely posts mess about their parents here.  My parents aren't abusive but I have standards and stipulations for anyone in my life in regards to how I'm treated and what I'll allow. I don't subscribe to the whole  "it's family, so you gotta deal" thing. If you plan on being a part of my life you'll show me the respect I deserve. I don't disrespect my family or friends so I'll settle for nothing less.  U too can be booted from my life, if that's what you'd like

Facts!
:lopsided:
You know how we be LMAO!!!!!!!
This is my pass to say WHATEVER tf I wanna say about the mess she releases so I don't wanna hear SHIT! Baby mama is a mess of a song btw





Hatsumomo

Quote from: LORD GRAND SUPREME PRIME CELESTIAL MARSHALL on January 05, 2018, 11:59:00 AM
Get rid of her

Being related doesn't mean you have to tolerate disrespect

But have you ever just told her she's...well a BITCH!

She a Jehovah's Witness baby ..she thinks she knows everything and is perfect. We have vicious arguments.

Genesis

If you are over 18, what are you afraid of?  :plzstop:

Parents can be wrong too. Just because they gave birth to you doesnt mean you have to give them a pass for being fucked up.

fresh

Are you under age/ living at home?
If not then I don?t see why this is even a problem. As an adult, no one is gonna verbally abuse me.

If you?re not dependent on her, tell her to straighten up or show her the door.

Period.

Hatsumomo

Quote from: Genesis on January 05, 2018, 12:00:53 PM
If you are over 18, what are you afraid of?  :plzstop:

Parents can be wrong too. Just because they gave birth to you doesnt mean you have to give them a pass for being fucked up.

!!!!!!

Vonc2002

Quote from: Ntwadumela on January 05, 2018, 12:00:04 PM
Quote from: LORD GRAND SUPREME PRIME CELESTIAL MARSHALL on January 05, 2018, 11:59:00 AM
Get rid of her

Being related doesn't mean you have to tolerate disrespect

But have you ever just told her she's...well a BITCH!

She a Jehovah's Witness baby ..she thinks she knows everything and is perfect. We have vicious arguments.
Ntw' this is your fault.  U have to have a line that u don't allow people to cross.  U have to teach people how to treat u. If you're going to continue to allow the disrespect then don't whine about it.  Either deal or DONT
This is my pass to say WHATEVER tf I wanna say about the mess she releases so I don't wanna hear SHIT! Baby mama is a mess of a song btw