Quote from: 1RIG on January 14, 2018, 03:29:10 AM
This sucks cuz i can see why she became uncomfortable, especially when he kept trying after she already expressed in her own way that she didn?t use his style of getting down
I see both sides of it really. A lot of women put their feelings aside to try and appease men, so we have to keep that in mind as well. Whether it be that nervous laugh or creating obvious space between each other.
I think she wanted to give him the benefit of the doubt based on who he is, and a chance to redeem himself and it just kept getting more aggressive and worse over time. By that point, she probably got scared and didn?t know how far he?d really take it
See I think that?s problematic tho. And really the underlying problem of the entire female equality and empowerment movement.
On one hand. They want to be viewed as equals to men.
But the other, they want to be seen as preyed upon.
Non-verbal communication is very unreliable, especially in a situation with someone who is your equal.
So even tho she had every instance to voice her concern, she chose the option of doing it over text after. Seems more like regret and not being satisfied with the events rather than assault. Cause it seems like he made it clear what he wanted

And it goes for men too! Don?t fckn flirt, send me mixed signals. Just to get over to the crib and expect to finish the fckn movie.
?Oh well all you wanted was sex?!?
Yes dummy! And It?s actually the only reason you?re sitting on my fckn couch. Matter fact, strip or get yo ass outta here.