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lil sis was ready to play ball.
I wish 'Yan woulda dug in a bit

[Rxxf]

Wow.

[Rxxf]

http://www.oprah.com/own-iyanla-fix-my-life/iyanla-checks-in-with-her-crew-following-kamiyah-mobleys-outburst

[Freemala Harris]

Let me dig in

[Vonc2002]

I'm literally watching this right now so I'm not gonna click play. This story is sad tho

[Freemala Harris]

Its really sad

But im watching this and crying

Iyanla is wonderful but she's not qualified for all of this tbh

Why'd she have to set that girl up to blow up like that. I just...

[Freemala Harris]

omg

chile she read the bricks off of iyanla

[Annie]

It is an interesting episode
I have wondered during previous episodes why she would say harsh things (sometimes I can?t stand her)..I guess they trigger something in people. In this episode she explains that she has to provoke people to get a reaction. I don?t know if that is the best way to handle the situation. Sometimes she does force people to open up and that is good, but I can tell this time the girl was so uncomfortable. Never did I hear Iyanla console her and say it was going to be alright. She basically said it would be the hardest thing to do, clearly this girl is not strong enough. It could even be traumatic..I mean this victim and her reactions will be online forever. This fragile girl needs a safe environment, but now she is on tv as the ?angry black female?

[Annie]

Its really sad

But im watching this and crying

Iyanla is wonderful but she's not qualified for all of this tbh

Why'd she have to set that girl up to blow up like that. I just...

When she forces these people to lay their head on her breast 
No wonder she looked disgusted

[Vonc2002]

I understand Iyanla's methods alot of the time.  She's dealing with broken people and alot of times our first reaction is to hide that and pretend that we're okay, So she breaks thru that.  U have to be broken down to be built up.  I get it

[Vonc2002]

And this girl is completely disrespectful.

[fresh]

And this girl is completely disrespectful.

Completely!!!!!

there is no way, I'd feel comfortable cussing out an elder like that. Especially at that age.
and the person didn't do anything to disrespect me.

this new generation of kids are out of line

[Vonc2002]

And this girl is completely disrespectful.

Completely!!!!!

there is no way, I'd feel comfortable cussing out an elder like that. Especially at that age.
and the person didn't do anything to disrespect me.

this new generation of kids are out of line

Like NO WAY! Man looking bitch.  I'll smack tf outta this old ass bitch
Like
I was cringing and embarrassed FOR her. She's gonna look back on that and feel ashamed

[fresh]

http://www.oprah.com/own-iyanla-fix-my-life/iyanla-checks-in-with-her-crew-following-kamiyah-mobleys-outburst

the bald guy with the red beard is fine sexy

[KING BENTLEY.]

I understand Iyanla's methods alot of the time.  She's dealing with broken people and alot of times our first reaction is to hide that and pretend that we're okay, So she breaks thru that.  U have to be broken down to be built up.  I get it

!!!!!!!!!
you can't heal anybody else or yourself tip-toeing around the real issues.

I hate when ppl act like they are so broken ... and beyond healing.

my philosophy is, once you wallow in something past the point of ppl reaching out to help you, you're no longer a victim. now you're proving that's the place you want to stay in.

like Iyanla said, the disturbing part is the fact the outburst was even inside her. That's moreso part of her character and needs to be addressed