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[KING BENTLEY.]

Everyone done cussed her out lmao at the end of tge day shes not a professional

She?s actually very professional because she never stoops to their level. She lets them get their anger out until it reaches a point of threats of violence. Then she shuts it down. Her methods are actually very good and they don?t just leave people to fend for themselves after the show is over. We only see what?s filmed. That?s doesn?t mean that?s all the help that?s provided.

People are there because they are anger, depressed, violence, or combination of these things. It?s only natural that when faced with help, they lash out because they?ve either never been offered the proper help or they aren?t ready to stop playing the victim. Some people?s whole lives are wrapped around their victimhood so once they are threatened with no longer being a victim, they lash out because it?s all they know.

oh wow Rocka... break it all the way down then!

[fresh]

And this girl is completely disrespectful.

Completely!!!!!

there is no way, I'd feel comfortable cussing out an elder like that. Especially at that age.
and the person didn't do anything to disrespect me.

this new generation of kids are out of line

I couldn't see myself disrespecting an elder either as a child.

BUT I never had someone up in my space with cameras around talking about i'm here to fix ur life. No shade but if I said move and they didn't get the message I would have opened a can of southside jamaica on that ass too. I don't care how old you are. She clearly felt cornered.

It's not simple as saying "This rude lil girl is so disrespectful, poor Iyanla" IMO

Iyanla hit a nerve or triggered her in a way.

nah, it was an agreed thing. she came on the show for some sort of healing. she wasn't forced. So that in it's self required some sort of respect.

I could see if it was some kind of court ordered thing. Sis got on tv and wanted to act out like they do on love and hip hop or bad girls club. She had a point to prove.

[ya rock muh world.]

So she knew Iyanla would be there? Filming and mess? If thats the case I don't get it

[Freemala Harris]

And this girl is completely disrespectful.

Completely!!!!!

there is no way, I'd feel comfortable cussing out an elder like that. Especially at that age.
and the person didn't do anything to disrespect me.

this new generation of kids are out of line

I couldn't see myself disrespecting an elder either as a child.

BUT I never had someone up in my space with cameras around talking about i'm here to fix ur life. No shade but if I said move and they didn't get the message I would have opened a can of southside jamaica on that ass too. I don't care how old you are. She clearly felt cornered.

It's not simple as saying "This rude lil girl is so disrespectful, poor Iyanla" IMO

Iyanla hit a nerve or triggered her in a way.

She told her dad & her stepmother (not her) that she would try to trigger her so that she could finally express herself.

I remember the dad saying "what if you're wrong". And well this was the result...

The full episode is so sad

http://www.oprah.com/own-iyanla-fix-my-life/kidnapped-at-birth

[ya rock muh world.]

And this girl is completely disrespectful.

Completely!!!!!

there is no way, I'd feel comfortable cussing out an elder like that. Especially at that age.
and the person didn't do anything to disrespect me.

this new generation of kids are out of line

I couldn't see myself disrespecting an elder either as a child.

BUT I never had someone up in my space with cameras around talking about i'm here to fix ur life. No shade but if I said move and they didn't get the message I would have opened a can of southside jamaica on that ass too. I don't care how old you are. She clearly felt cornered.

It's not simple as saying "This rude lil girl is so disrespectful, poor Iyanla" IMO

Iyanla hit a nerve or triggered her in a way.

She told her dad & her stepmother (not her) that she would try to trigger her so that she could finally express herself.

I remember the dad saying "what if you're wrong". And well this was the result...

The full episode is so sad

http://www.oprah.com/own-iyanla-fix-my-life/kidnapped-at-birth

That makes sense.

She definitely seemed triggered to me.

Iyanla got what she wanted then. Happy?

[Freemala Harris]

Here's the clip:

[Freemala Harris]

That outburst was very ugly

But for someone who has basically lost a parent

AND her birth mother isn't fucking w/ her (they're not on speaking terms & she didn't even show up)

For Iyanla to posture like she's preventing her from contacting her dad & co must have made her feel cornered. She might have also experienced some feelings of abandonment as well. That was a recipe for disaster tbh.

Who knows since the whole thing went South. I feel bad for everyone involved because the father was visibly hurting as well.

[Vonc2002]

I did feel bad for the father.  U could tell he wanted to both be respectful of Iyanla but still was very concerned about his daughter's well being

[ya rock muh world.]

Here's the clip:

Tears.

This is a child. Break her down?

She ultimately succeeded in doing what she wanted to do. The girl blacked the fuck owt on her.

So anything that came out of her mouth from the point of this trigger session is all on Iyanla. Don't feel bad for her.

You literally got what the fuck you asked for. Ugly bitch.

And now this girl out here looking crazy.

[ya rock muh world.]

That outburst was very ugly

But for someone who has basically lost a parent

AND her birth mother isn't fucking w/ her (they're not on speaking terms & she didn't even show up)

For Iyanla to posture like she's preventing her from contacting her dad & co must have made her feel cornered. She might have also experienced some feelings of abandonment as well. That was a recipe for disaster tbh.

Who knows since the whole thing went South. I feel bad for everyone involved because the father was visibly hurting as well.

I could tell she felt alone and cornered when she asked "Why did you leave me?" at the end of the clip.

I didn't even know that Iyanla planned to trigger her and I could tell that's what was happening here.

It's a pretty fucked up thing to do with a child and I honestly wanna drag her by that yarn on her head and finish her the fuck awf in here.

[Vonc2002]

Yea, there was no cause for that girl to rage out like that.  She's ghetto trash tbh. Sorry she was 'napped tho

[BrokenHeartsHeal]

it was intense

Iyanla was so sweet to that girl during the bedroom scene

[ya rock muh world.]

Thanks for explaining it to me Free. I knew something was off.

I'll dig into the episode later. This guy looks a lot like DMX snndnn

[fresh]

yeah, she was out of line. she's 19, and needs her ass beat.
you agree to go on a tv show, then snap.

that lil bitch wanted exposure. this ain't the bad girls club, and you aint talking to Karlie Red.
getto bird.

[Freemala Harris]

She said that she thought she would be able to recover her after making her angry