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[Mariah4ever]

boy...like i told drais n sinn'
u got me

u dnt need no moe friens

[Mariah4ever]

& to u...u stfu

[LOONA.]

boy...like i told drais n sinn'
u got me

u dnt need no moe friens

FAG you're not even around   

[Mariah4ever]

boy...like i told drais n sinn'
u got me

u dnt need no moe friens

FAG you're not even around   

boy im comin'...get my new phone this friday

[BrokenHeartsHeal]

Not saying you have to do this or that it would be easy. But I was able to find a group of guys to hang out with that are around the 28 and older crowd, with oldest being 47 lol (but he has a young soul when it comes to pop culture and music). I know some old gay men can be just as messy and into the gay shit like anybody else but they're not. I just found that ONE friend and they were able to introduce me to other guys that were masculine and/or mature that have other things going on with them other than partying and hooking up within the crew. They've been there done that so it was easier for me to just make friends and luckily they weren't thirsty for young meat. I also have no issue with the age difference because I'm not worried about group image if we're going out. That's the problem with these fags... everyone wants their "bestie" to look like the instagram dude they know they wanna fuck.

In general it might just mean you have to put yourself out there a little more and also find friends through other friends by doing some awkward mingling at gatherings, parties, etc.

Oh and like Drais said, stay away from the formally DL/closeted dudes they're at the start of their hoe phase READY

[GLOCK]

get at me whenever you're in NY. 

dddd
On some friendly shit?

[GLOCK]

Aww don't put pressure on yourself to find masc gay friends. They'll come eventually.
It's good that you nurture the friendships with your out of state friends though.

thanks Twin!
Good advice! Def gotta keep them close

[GLOCK]

All my gay friends live out of state

Forming strictly platonic friendships locally within the gay community is hard as fuck. I have some fem friends but outside of video games we don't really have much in common. I'm not into makeup or putting on ballroom performances to Beyonc? in the middle of the living room.

Masc gays are a little difficult too though because alot of them aren't into the "gay scene" so obviously you can't make gay friends if you're not willing to put yourself out there. I've also noticed alot of masc gays don't have much sexual experience so as soon as they meet a guy they be ready to MESS. I don't have any masc gays friends that haven't tried to push up on me in some way. It's honestly annoying as fuck because sometimes you just want a FRIENDSHIP with no sexual mess involved.

All you can do is keep trying though. They're out there

I kinda have to blame myself though because I'm not the most adventurous or outgoing guy myself. Whenever I go to an event or club I be ready to go back home.     

drais this is so real and this is why are understand each other
I?m the same exact way
It?s very hard
I just want to have sexual history with my friends
Like I don?t want u to know how I look naked
Or when I?m asking u for advice u bring up our sexual past

And yes it is my fault a bit too.. because I barely go out and when I do it?s for business and I?m ready to dip after being there for 10 mins
I really don?t like people as a whole .. especially not crowds
So yes. I guess I?ll take my time by putting myself out there in my social settings
It?s just hard to really figure out what?s what because I don?t want any more straight friends or at least If it happens then it just happens
I want niggas that understand all of me
Just crazy that most of us are hiding among straight groups or in the dl scene smh

It?s mess

[GLOCK]

My therapist has made that an assignment for me this week.


This guy I recently met, I want to be cool with him because I think he's a cool person. But he's really pushing for us too become something. In this moment in time I don't need a partner. I need friends who understand me completely or the best to our abilities...

that is so annoying
And it Lowkey makes u feel bad a bit because it?s not like they?re ugly or anything in some cases
It?s just that FAGG.. I?m looking for a damn Brother/friend
Can u relax? And find someone to damn do?

Keep me updated with the mess Btw

[GLOCK]

ffhhhff

I hate when I see regular ass gay dudes on social media I have so much in common and know I'd be good friends with.

yes!!!!

Can?t DM them or like their pics because they will get the wrong damn impression
This shit is sooooooo damn dumb
Partially we are to blame

[GLOCK]

Awww.

Well you live in Atlanta. There's definitely not a shortage of trade that you could connect with on some buddy buddy mess.

Hell, maybe even get your bvy pee wee sucked here and there as an added benefit. Let have king

dddddd
King that?s not what I want 
I want a true friend or 2 where there?s no sexual history or MESS .. and the line is drawn

All of my real friends live out of state
Atlanta is really hard because no shade.. these dudes are just thirsty and trying to garner their next nut.

Or I just feel like I can?t really vibe with a lot of these ppl
I know everyone is gonna say ?oh fag just move?
But meh.. Lowkey this might be the case everywhere
I feel like it?s just really hard being a masculine dude tryna find other masculine friends

I know it sounds a bit ignorant
But it?s true
It?s so easy for fems to link up and become friends
Real shit

It's everywhere G. I'm currently going through here in southern Cali.

that is crazy as hell!

But I figured as much
Ugh

[GLOCK]

boy...like i told drais n sinn'
u got me

u dnt need no moe friens

FAG you're not even around   

boy im comin'...get my new phone this friday

bdbjjsjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjj

[Lane Bryant Jumpsuit]

Awww.

Well you live in Atlanta. There's definitely not a shortage of trade that you could connect with on some buddy buddy mess.

Hell, maybe even get your bvy pee wee sucked here and there as an added benefit. Let have king

dddddd
King that?s not what I want 
I want a true friend or 2 where there?s no sexual history or MESS .. and the line is drawn

All of my real friends live out of state
Atlanta is really hard because no shade.. these dudes are just thirsty and trying to garner their next nut.

Or I just feel like I can?t really vibe with a lot of these ppl
I know everyone is gonna say ?oh fag just move?
But meh.. Lowkey this might be the case everywhere
I feel like it?s just really hard being a masculine dude tryna find other masculine friends

I know it sounds a bit ignorant
But it?s true
It?s so easy for fems to link up and become friends
Real shit

It is ignorant but there is a void for non sexual male affection and friendship
I seen it all the time on atlanta craigslist ads
Being friends without attraction can be difficult
Attraction is what brings u together at least
Best way is to find a bisexual roomate  u dont find attractive
Once u live with them attraction will.be gone
And ur already not attracted to them so no chance of mess

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Keef that?s a good idea.
Meeting friends through friends
I guess I just need to make an atlanta friend first

[fresh]

But it?s hard because I feel like making new friends comes with a process of them liking me or being attracted to me

It?s such a headache.
But I?m tired of having just straight friends primarily
They don?t understand shit.. and even if I tried to explain it they wouldn?t damn get it

This is really aggy
I feel like everyone thinks I have this huge wall in front of me and Lowkey it?s true but it?s this way because I?m tryna protect myself and save ppl from being my friend if they like me

I know this sounds a bit of a mess but this shit is real
I want to find friend that have this same damn issue

UGH!
I was jut talking about this. I don't have many gay/bi friends. most of my friends are straight.
and when I do meet a gay dude, they want to fuck or are attracted to me. I just want a platonic friend that I can talk about gay shit to or just hang out and do regular shit with out the added pressure of sex.

I had a cool friend that was like that, he was DL and we were platonic. once he came out, he started hanging with all the local fags, and going to the clubs and it turned me off. and I cut his ass off.