Time is amazing. The way we are created, time has a way of healing the most devastating emotional wounds. Just allow yourself to feel all of the sadness and pain head on. I find that's the best way, because you come out of it stronger and learning to love yourself more in the process. And please don't rush into anything else until you know you're ready. And if that's never, that's fine too. It's all about being stronger. Remember that at the end of the day, all you have is yourself, and all you can trust is yourself and a higher power, if you believe in it. So the best relationship to cultivate is the one with yourself, because people will hurt you, disappoint you, and leave you all the time.