Quote from: squid on December 08, 2018, 12:58:04 PM
Quote from: Sinyonc? on December 07, 2018, 08:04:05 PM
Blacks and even Gay blacks love divorcing homosexuality and making it a purely white thing so that when MESS happens they can give an "Oh well" even if it technically affects them too (black gays)
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I noticed it from people here too
I think it's because black gays seem to be black first then gay, where as white gays tend to be gay first then white, and why not? They're already white and privileged why not use that other aspect of their being to play the "woe is me" card to reap the benefits
Black gays dont put so much stock in their sexuality, it's not an everyday identity for us, especially for those of us coming from or living in communities where it isn't allowed, I don't think we THROW it in people she faces and shove it down people's throats as much, we already have a visible identity that's still being shitted on, we're still dealing with that before we turn our heads and face the reality of being a double negative in society and there's def' also some internalised homophobia in there too.