What do y'all think of this? I'm conflicted...

Started by Gilgamesh., January 30, 2019, 08:18:45 AM

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Gilgamesh.




fedswatchin

I think it's sweet. Alzheimer's is nasty enough, it's good that she has a strong support system as unconventional as it is

Gilgamesh.

January 30, 2019, 08:50:02 AM #4 Last Edit: January 30, 2019, 09:17:09 AM by Gilgamesh.
When I say i'm conflicted what I mean is, should he divorce her? Clearly she doesn't have any living relatives cause I can't see a Black family letting this shit fly, so if he leaves her she's alone.

Kurama

I heard he's  living off of her too. Lemme see...

African Queen

I don't blame him one bit. This disease not only destroys the person but those around them too. You can't really judge this situation unless you have experienced it first hand.

Gilgamesh.

Quote from: ZAIYE on January 30, 2019, 09:05:47 AM
Hmmm...I don't think I like that he has a girlfriend while he's still married to B. Even though the explanation he gave (sorta) makes sense, he made a promise to stick by this woman and remain faithful to her through thick and thin.

It just doesn't seem right

All this!

It makes sense when you listen to hs side but the reality is, you're married and you've moved your gf/mistress in to your WIFE's home.

GLOCK

January 30, 2019, 09:33:08 AM #8 Last Edit: January 30, 2019, 09:34:37 AM by Glock
This is a lot to digest
When i think of marriage I think of it as a lifetime commitment
It?s just unfortunate that he would have to live everyday waiting for her to die so that he can continue to live..

Eek.
I couldn?t imagine counting the days and subconsciously hoping they die before u
Maybe they should place her into a home..

But I honestly could see myself just remaining invested in my husband
And just cheating on the side .. away from the home :unsure:

I don?t see anything wrong with that imo
The human body and mind has needs
But actually getting into a relationship while being married

Nahhh
But i can?t judge .. they seem to have a system

RAY7

Quote from: Glock on January 30, 2019, 09:33:08 AM
This is a lot to digest
When i think of marriage I think of it as a lifetime commitment
It?s just unfortunate that he would have to live everyday waiting for her to die so that he can continue to live..

Eek.
I couldn?t imagine counting the days and subconsciously hoping they die before u
Maybe they should place her into a home..

But I honestly could see myself just remaining invested in my husband
And just cheating on the side .. away from the home :unsure:

I don?t see anything wrong with that imo
The human body and mind has needs
But actually getting into a relationship while being married

Nahhh
But i can?t judge .. they seem to have a system
all of this !!!

GLOCK

Quote from: ZAIYE on January 30, 2019, 09:41:44 AM
Quote from: Glock on January 30, 2019, 09:33:08 AM
This is a lot to digest
When i think of marriage I think of it as a lifetime commitment
It?s just unfortunate that he would have to live everyday waiting for her to die so that he can continue to live..

Eek.
I couldn?t imagine counting the days and subconsciously hoping they die before u
Maybe they should place her into a home..

But I honestly could see myself just remaining invested in my husband
And just cheating on the side .. away from the home :unsure:

I don?t see anything wrong with that imo
The human body and mind has needs
But actually getting into a relationship while being married

Nahhh
But i can?t judge .. they seem to have a system
I wouldn't have a problem with this system if
1. He wasn't still married to B
2. He didn't MOVE this new bitch into her house
3. He cared for B from a reasonable distance or maybe got her a live in maid/caregiver
mess

Its definitely messy

HUGO

Oh no... :-/

I think the fact that he knows if B was still well she wouldn?t be okay with this white woman living in her house, fucking her man, and being friendly with her doesn?t sit well with me. I think the right thing to do would be to divorce her. You can still care for her

Gilgamesh.

He ain't divorcing her cause he wants those coins lol.


FlowerBomb

Quote from: Gilgamesh. on January 30, 2019, 09:20:08 AM
Quote from: ZAIYE on January 30, 2019, 09:05:47 AM
Hmmm...I don't think I like that he has a girlfriend while he's still married to B. Even though the explanation he gave (sorta) makes sense, he made a promise to stick by this woman and remain faithful to her through thick and thin.

It just doesn't seem right

you're married and you've moved your gf/mistress in to your WIFE's home.
excuse me?

FlowerBomb

fdfd well Glock move me in when Hugo starts to lose it a bit ok