Y?all really feel like this place is genuinely negative?

Started by GLOCK, January 31, 2019, 12:52:41 PM

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LOONA.

I find it weird that people think taking "breaks" from a website will fix their real life problems.

GLOCK

Quote from: Kurama on January 31, 2019, 01:00:44 PM
Ppl are built differently and i think sometimes folks downplay the impact that being an online "family" for so long can have on someone.

If someone decides this place is negatively affecting them i have no choice but to understand because thats their experience.
That?s real
I just don?t really understand how this place could negatively impact a person tho..
I?m literally nothing like my b source persona

But some ppl are who they are outside of this place while online.. so maybe those ppl?

I feel like I?m more fun and hilarious on here

In real life .. am more of a centered, calm, laid back person.. who happens to be funny if I feel comfortable around ya


GLOCK

Quote from: Kalifornia on January 31, 2019, 01:01:01 PM
I've learned a lot from this place and shared many laughs. Once I log out life goes on.
this!


GLOCK

Quote from: Vonc2002 on January 31, 2019, 01:06:57 PM
Quote from: Young on January 31, 2019, 01:01:55 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on January 31, 2019, 01:00:25 PM
Quote from: Young on January 31, 2019, 12:55:04 PM
Love everyone and I def wont let it affect me and my spirit

If it were to, I'd have to back away..

This place is no worse than Social media for the most part..
This place IS social media.  I was just talking to glock about this the other day. Everyone aint built to survive this shit. U need a strong sense of self to withstand summa this and everyone ain't able.

Dnfnfnfnfnfnfnf

Built different !
Ford tough!

Boy hush :plzstop:

But yeah BSource = Social Media
I actually describe myself EXACTLY this way all the time.  Bsource just aint able to shake me in that way.  SOR'!
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I wanna fight u so bad

LOONA.

As far as the negativity part you are what you think.

If you walk around thinking negatively then that will be  your experience whether it's online or in real life.

Your thoughts can literally make or break your day

GLOCK

Quote from: Black Indian on January 31, 2019, 01:20:25 PM
A lot of internet culture isn't the most positive.

People always speak about comments on ShadeRoom - how the people leaving comments are miserable, mean, inappropriate have no lives, etc.

But honestly people could look at this place the same as well considering its content.  It's understandable how people may see this as a negative place.

But ultimately, it's up to that person to sit and read it, engage in it, or log off. It's gonna keep going whether you put your two cents in or not.
That?s real

Idk. Maybe I?m just easy breezy about this place
I truly applaud every bit of mess I?ve partook in

Outside of exposing Adrian  :unsure:
That?s my one regret

When Lis and I gathered up his social media and fed it to the girls
Dragged him for a year..
I?m not proud of that

And I can see how that could negatively affect someone

Ugh .. hate I did that
But outside of that
This place is so fun to me

GLOCK

It was bullying
Regardless of his mess or behavior
It wasn?t cool

I?d never do that again


GLOCK

Quote from: LOONA. on January 31, 2019, 01:23:44 PM
As far as the negativity part you are what you think.

If you walk around thinking negatively then that will be  your experience whether it's online or in real life.

Your thoughts can literally make or break your day
thats true

Do u feel this place is toxic? I honestly don?t

Buy The Stars✨

Yeah I would never let this board mess with me so much that I have to leave.  Like ppl come for me or talk about me but at the end of the day I'm a grown man with a life outside here.  Once I exit a thread what was said stays there. I don't bring it with me day to day to where I need to leave an online site.

Though as someone else said others get super invested and mentally cant handle it so they have to a " I'm leaving thread grrrrrr " but yeah Anyway no shade to anyone who has done thAt lolz



LOONA.

Quote from: Glock on January 31, 2019, 01:25:15 PM
Quote from: LOONA. on January 31, 2019, 01:23:44 PM
As far as the negativity part you are what you think.

If you walk around thinking negatively then that will be  your experience whether it's online or in real life.

Your thoughts can literally make or break your day
thats true

Do u feel this place is toxic? I honestly don?t

No

And if the gurs can't handle a website that they don't have to subject themselves to in the first place then idk how they navigate through everyday life.

This is literally font on a screen. Idgi

Kalifornia.

January 31, 2019, 01:37:08 PM #28 Last Edit: January 31, 2019, 01:49:15 PM by Kalifornia
I will say though, it is kinda crazy how long many of us have been interacting with each other.

I'd be lying if I said you guys haven't had an influence on how I see a lot of shit. Me becoming more woke to the ways & realities of the world and people in general, especially when it comes to race, is largely because of BSource.

Opposites Attract.

I think some people aren't honest with their actual opinions. Simply put the actions of some members don't align with that who "don't affect me" "stronger than yesterday" shtick. The board is negative. Yes that is the culture but just like turning on the news and seeing bad shit constantly can have a negative impact on your psychological wellbeing so does logging on to a social media platform constantly seeing disgusting appalling behavior as well. It is what it is. Some individuals have feelings whether it's online or irl. They don't log onto to excape reality but like I said it is what it is.


It's unconditional, these days you know....