This work colleague I thought I was really cool with has been calling me a nigga ape behind my back. He told another colleague that black people had not evolved from apes. He moved recently but I still feel kinda a ways cos we hanged out a lot and he was so nice and helpful to my face. He really helped me a lot.
He did tell me though when I started that he had not been around black people a lot and that his father was bonafide racist. He also made funny comments about how amazing, smart and superior white people are when he is Asian. He displayed a lot of self hate talking about his small dick and shit.
He is also married to a white woman and when he showed me a pic of his son I told him the kid looks 100% Asian and he got upset.