Have you ever been mentally or physically abused by your lover?

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L0NZ.

Quote from: GLO' UP on May 08, 2019, 10:59:47 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on May 08, 2019, 10:58:14 PM
My ex was a lesser and only had looks going for him. He envied me secretly, and was possessive, insecure, and jealous. It got to a point where he became violent and I saw rage for the first time. His eyes were black. It happened twice but it was never like a FIGHT FIGHT with bruises and blood or whatever.... Just like.....licks? And twisting back my arm but the man I thought I knew wouldn't do me no harm. I was afraid to really give it a go anyway because he was crazy and I didn't know how far either of us would have to go.
this could've ended so badly
I couldn't imagine seeing someone eyes turning black and rage coming out
Sounds like he has some dark dark experiences in his life

How did u dip?

Omg such a long story but it was basically over after I caught him messing with some gremlin. If I ever ran into said gremlin I would actually thank him tho.


L0NZ.

Quote from: Vileblood. on May 08, 2019, 11:00:59 PM
I personally cannot understand someone letting someone hit them but tbh it might be the way I was raised. Gay physical abusive relationships are the strangest things to me. There needs to be a documentary of some sort.

I also cannot even imagine someone talking sideways to me or try to fuck with me mentally.

What do you find strange?


GLOCK

Quote from: Vileblood. on May 08, 2019, 11:00:59 PM
I personally cannot understand someone letting someone hit them but tbh it might be the way I was raised. Gay physical abusive relationships are the strangest things to me. There needs to be a documentary of some sort.

I also cannot even imagine someone talking sideways to me or try to fuck with me mentally.
I think mental abuse is more common than we would like to believe

And it's a gradual thing
I've never faced it but the way it happens .. ch!

It's like they sift the mess in their everyday communication
And from speaking to others it seems that the abusers prey on a person that is in their most vulnerable and open state

Kinda don't see it coming

But yeah
I couldn't imagine someone raising their hand to me

I think most dudes are afraid of me anyway based off my demeanor and build so it ain't happening


GLOCK

Quote from: L0NZ. on May 08, 2019, 11:03:50 PM
Quote from: GLO' UP on May 08, 2019, 10:59:47 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on May 08, 2019, 10:58:14 PM
My ex was a lesser and only had looks going for him. He envied me secretly, and was possessive, insecure, and jealous. It got to a point where he became violent and I saw rage for the first time. His eyes were black. It happened twice but it was never like a FIGHT FIGHT with bruises and blood or whatever.... Just like.....licks? And twisting back my arm but the man I thought I knew wouldn't do me no harm. I was afraid to really give it a go anyway because he was crazy and I didn't know how far either of us would have to go.
this could've ended so badly
I couldn't imagine seeing someone eyes turning black and rage coming out
Sounds like he has some dark dark experiences in his life

How did u dip?

Omg such a long story but it was basically over after I caught him messing with some gremlin. If I ever ran into said gremlin I would actually thank him tho.
eek

At least it didn't have to be something physical from his crazy self

Did finding out he was fucking with an Ugly make u insecure?

L0NZ.

Quote from: GLO' UP on May 08, 2019, 11:09:49 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on May 08, 2019, 11:03:50 PM
Quote from: GLO' UP on May 08, 2019, 10:59:47 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on May 08, 2019, 10:58:14 PM
My ex was a lesser and only had looks going for him. He envied me secretly, and was possessive, insecure, and jealous. It got to a point where he became violent and I saw rage for the first time. His eyes were black. It happened twice but it was never like a FIGHT FIGHT with bruises and blood or whatever.... Just like.....licks? And twisting back my arm but the man I thought I knew wouldn't do me no harm. I was afraid to really give it a go anyway because he was crazy and I didn't know how far either of us would have to go.
this could've ended so badly
I couldn't imagine seeing someone eyes turning black and rage coming out
Sounds like he has some dark dark experiences in his life

How did u dip?

Omg such a long story but it was basically over after I caught him messing with some gremlin. If I ever ran into said gremlin I would actually thank him tho.
eek

At least it didn't have to be something physical from his crazy self

Did finding out he was fucking with an Ugly make u insecure?

Well at the time I mostly convinced myself gremlin was ugly. I may be exaggerating....it kinda just stuck.



BAPHOMET.

Quote from: L0NZ. on May 08, 2019, 11:05:42 PM
Quote from: Vileblood. on May 08, 2019, 11:00:59 PM
I personally cannot understand someone letting someone hit them but tbh it might be the way I was raised. Gay physical abusive relationships are the strangest things to me. There needs to be a documentary of some sort.

I also cannot even imagine someone talking sideways to me or try to fuck with me mentally.

What do you find strange?

A man just letting another man lash them up on the regular. With women I SORTA can understand because in most of all cases they're much weaker and dont feel like they have much of a chance if they struck back.



HUGO

Quote from: GLO' UP on May 08, 2019, 10:47:33 PM
Quote from: Ton on May 08, 2019, 10:44:46 PM
Mentally yeah

Taught me not to deal with manipulative fags

I was only like 23? And he would play victim when we had the smallest arguments, then use that as an excuse to fuck around

xxx c ccx he's kinda fat now so I'm happy
that's so trash

I can't say I've been there but one of my ex's was such a damn liar and his ex kept popping up in our relationship for 3 damn years

That really imparted insecurity in me tbh.. I'm so glad I left that situation alone

I feel like it was a form of abuse

Lying so damn much .. and parts of me feels as tho he led this boy on.. they were together for 5 years
I was a fool to think that a year was long enough for them to be over each other

I was abused spiritually
Hmph


Awwww Glock

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You deserved every bit of this

yummy

Quote from: L0NZ. on May 08, 2019, 10:58:14 PM
My ex was a lesser and only had looks going for him. He envied me secretly, and was possessive, insecure, and jealous. It got to a point where he became violent and I saw rage for the first time. His eyes were black. It happened twice but it was never like a FIGHT FIGHT with bruises and blood or whatever.... Just like.....licks? And twisting back my arm but the man I thought I knew wouldn't do me no harm. I was afraid to really give it a go anyway because he was crazy and I didn't know how far either of us would have to go.

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someone ban this nigga from this thread

yummy

I did have an ex that I dated in my early 20's that could drunk and show the fuck out if he wanted to

He was typical masc nigga "grr! tough! don't fuck with meh!". I feel like a complete for ever even finding that bullshit attractive.

It was NYE 2012, he had too many drinks. I hop in a cab and he calls himself trying to drag me back out of the cab to make me stay. One of his friends ran outside the party we were at and pulled him back inside. I hopped back in the cab,  went home, blocked his number and never heard from him again.

L0NZ.

Quote from: Vileblood. on May 08, 2019, 11:17:11 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on May 08, 2019, 11:05:42 PM
Quote from: Vileblood. on May 08, 2019, 11:00:59 PM
I personally cannot understand someone letting someone hit them but tbh it might be the way I was raised. Gay physical abusive relationships are the strangest things to me. There needs to be a documentary of some sort.

I also cannot even imagine someone talking sideways to me or try to fuck with me mentally.

What do you find strange?

A man just letting another man lash them up on the regular. With women I SORTA can understand because in most of all cases they're much weaker and dont feel like they have much of a chance if they struck back.

Ah, well it's def more than just a physical strength thing. For one, as cheesy as it sounds, with the feelings I had for him, I couldn't imagine doing something to intentionally cause him harm. And this was IN the moment, as it's happening :dead: . I knew you don't let anyone touch you but I also knew this was the person I felt in love with and had been with for 3 yrs. I was very conflicted and the decision I made was to not retaliate. He blacked, and I was super present and thinking.


Navyman

Quote from: GLO' UP on May 08, 2019, 10:58:13 PM
Quote from: Tonkaman on May 08, 2019, 10:55:34 PM
Mentally yes. I did some physical abuse after. :plea:







Not proud of that by the way. And I find it so funny that shit didn't happen to me until I started dating men. :melmel:
to the person that mentally abused u?
Yeah. He insisted on playing mind games and I wasn't here for it. This all happened in the heat of the moment, I hate liars and manipulative people.

GLOCK

Quote from: L0NZ. on May 08, 2019, 11:13:33 PM
Quote from: GLO' UP on May 08, 2019, 11:09:49 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on May 08, 2019, 11:03:50 PM
Quote from: GLO' UP on May 08, 2019, 10:59:47 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on May 08, 2019, 10:58:14 PM
My ex was a lesser and only had looks going for him. He envied me secretly, and was possessive, insecure, and jealous. It got to a point where he became violent and I saw rage for the first time. His eyes were black. It happened twice but it was never like a FIGHT FIGHT with bruises and blood or whatever.... Just like.....licks? And twisting back my arm but the man I thought I knew wouldn't do me no harm. I was afraid to really give it a go anyway because he was crazy and I didn't know how far either of us would have to go.
this could've ended so badly
I couldn't imagine seeing someone eyes turning black and rage coming out
Sounds like he has some dark dark experiences in his life

How did u dip?

Omg such a long story but it was basically over after I caught him messing with some gremlin. If I ever ran into said gremlin I would actually thank him tho.
eek

At least it didn't have to be something physical from his crazy self

Did finding out he was fucking with an Ugly make u insecure?

Well at the time I mostly convinced myself gremlin was ugly. I may be exaggerating....it kinda just stuck.
ugly is probably ugly tho

GLOCK

Quote from: Tonkaman on May 08, 2019, 11:26:02 PM
Quote from: GLO' UP on May 08, 2019, 10:58:13 PM
Quote from: Tonkaman on May 08, 2019, 10:55:34 PM
Mentally yes. I did some physical abuse after. :plea:







Not proud of that by the way. And I find it so funny that shit didn't happen to me until I started dating men. :melmel:
to the person that mentally abused u?
Yeah. He insisted on playing mind games and I wasn't here for it. This all happened in the heat of the moment, I hate liars and manipulative people.
baby listen
Liars are so fucking disgusting to me

Navyman

Quote from: GLO' UP on May 08, 2019, 11:08:15 PM
Quote from: Vileblood. on May 08, 2019, 11:00:59 PM
I personally cannot understand someone letting someone hit them but tbh it might be the way I was raised. Gay physical abusive relationships are the strangest things to me. There needs to be a documentary of some sort.

I also cannot even imagine someone talking sideways to me or try to fuck with me mentally.
I think mental abuse is more common than we would like to believe

And it's a gradual thing
I've never faced it but the way it happens .. ch!

It's like they sift the mess in their everyday communication
And from speaking to others it seems that the abusers prey on a person that is in their most vulnerable and open state

Kinda don't see it coming

But yeah
I couldn't imagine someone raising their hand to me

I think most dudes are afraid of me anyway based off my demeanor and build so it ain't happening
:'(

GLOCK

Quote from: animmai. on May 08, 2019, 11:22:52 PM
I did have an ex that I dated in my early 20's that could drunk and show the fuck out if he wanted to

He was typical masc nigga "grr! tough! don't fuck with meh!". I feel like a complete for ever even finding that bullshit attractive.

It was NYE 2012, he had too many drinks. I hop in a cab and he calls himself trying to drag me back out of the cab to make me stay. One of his friends ran outside the party we were at and pulled him back inside. I hopped back in the cab,  went home, blocked his number and never heard from him again.
how did u compose yourself? I would've blacked tf owt

Honestly feel like people that put on that tough act mess are some of the weakest girls

And the fact that some of y'all friends saw this mess
I would've never talked to that fag ever again myself