Have you ever been mentally or physically abused by your lover?

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Quote from: HUGO on May 08, 2019, 11:18:43 PM
Quote from: GLO' UP on May 08, 2019, 10:47:33 PM
Quote from: Ton on May 08, 2019, 10:44:46 PM
Mentally yeah

Taught me not to deal with manipulative fags

I was only like 23? And he would play victim when we had the smallest arguments, then use that as an excuse to fuck around

xxx c ccx he's kinda fat now so I'm happy
that's so trash

I can't say I've been there but one of my ex's was such a damn liar and his ex kept popping up in our relationship for 3 damn years

That really imparted insecurity in me tbh.. I'm so glad I left that situation alone

I feel like it was a form of abuse

Lying so damn much .. and parts of me feels as tho he led this boy on.. they were together for 5 years
I was a fool to think that a year was long enough for them to be over each other

I was abused spiritually
Hmph


Awwww Glock

:stressed:



You deserved every bit of this
what in the hell

yummy

Quote from: GLO' UP on May 08, 2019, 11:29:30 PM
Quote from: animmai. on May 08, 2019, 11:22:52 PM
I did have an ex that I dated in my early 20's that could drunk and show the fuck out if he wanted to

He was typical masc nigga "grr! tough! don't fuck with meh!". I feel like a complete for ever even finding that bullshit attractive.

It was NYE 2012, he had too many drinks. I hop in a cab and he calls himself trying to drag me back out of the cab to make me stay. One of his friends ran outside the party we were at and pulled him back inside. I hopped back in the cab,  went home, blocked his number and never heard from him again.
how did u compose yourself? I would've blacked tf owt

Honestly feel like people that put on that tough act mess are some of the weakest girls

And the fact that some of y'all friends saw this mess
I would've never talked to that fag ever again myself

I was just fed up and wasn't about to let this turn into some regular thing

And I didn't know anyone at the party, they were his people  :plzstop: I was scared that they might try to jump me if I fought him back

🦚

N

No

A libra is no candidate for the fuckury...I don't care enough to participate in the game of mental manipulaylay. My confidence is at a billi...so there's no way for you to get under my skin.  :howfestive:

And as far as physical...im from the islands bby...they wouldnt even find your ashes  :raycharles2urmess:

I did have a mentally abusive friendship or 2. Thought ne that if it is a chore to be or maintain a mess with you...I have better things to do.  :sobusyjetsetter:
Hear 'em swarmin', right? (Zz) 🐝 🐝  is known to bite (Zz, zz)
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https://justiceforbreonna.org/

GLOCK

Quote from: animmai. on May 08, 2019, 11:33:09 PM
Quote from: GLO' UP on May 08, 2019, 11:29:30 PM
Quote from: animmai. on May 08, 2019, 11:22:52 PM
I did have an ex that I dated in my early 20's that could drunk and show the fuck out if he wanted to

He was typical masc nigga "grr! tough! don't fuck with meh!". I feel like a complete for ever even finding that bullshit attractive.

It was NYE 2012, he had too many drinks. I hop in a cab and he calls himself trying to drag me back out of the cab to make me stay. One of his friends ran outside the party we were at and pulled him back inside. I hopped back in the cab,  went home, blocked his number and never heard from him again.
how did u compose yourself? I would've blacked tf owt

Honestly feel like people that put on that tough act mess are some of the weakest girls

And the fact that some of y'all friends saw this mess
I would've never talked to that fag ever again myself

I was just fed up and wasn't about to let this turn into some regular thing

And I didn't know anyone at the party, they were his people  :plzstop: I was scared that they might try to jump me if I fought him back
nnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn

That was probably smart of u 🥴

Gays are infamous for damn jumping



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Quote from: .:::Slærya Stark:::. on May 08, 2019, 11:33:20 PM
A libra is no candidate for the fuckury..
CCCGGVCVG

Funny you say that

I dated one Libra when I was younger and the moment I wanted to MESS and be dramatic he would just ignore me

:plzstop:

I used to be fucking distraught..... Especially since the sex was amazing

Like fag just deal with my crazy ass lolz

🦚

Quote from: Ton on May 08, 2019, 11:39:14 PM
Quote from: .:::Slærya Stark:::. on May 08, 2019, 11:33:20 PM
A libra is no candidate for the fuckury..
CCCGGVCVG

Funny you say that

I dated one Libra when I was younger and the moment I wanted to MESS and be dramatic he would just ignore me

:plzstop:

I used to be fucking distraught..... Especially since the sex was amazing

Like fag just deal with my crazy ass lolz

Thats a typical libra tea ignore it until it goes away  :howfestive:

And i've dated too many gemini's before i realized they were all born a bit mental. Aint no crazy i havent seen already.
Hear 'em swarmin', right? (Zz) 🐝 🐝  is known to bite (Zz, zz)
——————///——————-
https://justiceforbreonna.org/

GRAND ETERNAL SUPREME

Quote from: GLO' UP on May 08, 2019, 11:34:42 PM
Quote from: animmai. on May 08, 2019, 11:33:09 PM
Quote from: GLO' UP on May 08, 2019, 11:29:30 PM
Quote from: animmai. on May 08, 2019, 11:22:52 PM
I did have an ex that I dated in my early 20's that could drunk and show the fuck out if he wanted to

He was typical masc nigga "grr! tough! don't fuck with meh!". I feel like a complete for ever even finding that bullshit attractive.

It was NYE 2012, he had too many drinks. I hop in a cab and he calls himself trying to drag me back out of the cab to make me stay. One of his friends ran outside the party we were at and pulled him back inside. I hopped back in the cab,  went home, blocked his number and never heard from him again.
how did u compose yourself? I would've blacked tf owt

Honestly feel like people that put on that tough act mess are some of the weakest girls

And the fact that some of y'all friends saw this mess
I would've never talked to that fag ever again myself

I was just fed up and wasn't about to let this turn into some regular thing

And I didn't know anyone at the party, they were his people  :plzstop: I was scared that they might try to jump me if I fought him back
nnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn

That was probably smart of u 🥴

Gays are infamous for damn jumping
ugh

I know friendships can be natural

But gays do this thing of making a 'family' based on being gay and not because they naturally click

When I moved to Central Florida and made friends with this white fag hag, they were trying to like, recruit me :plzstop: only because I'm gay

I'm like umm you know nothing about me? I'm glad I didn't get involved with the mess. Those girls were shading each other and one had AIDS   :dead: :dead:

And they were pulling schemes. Such a mess. Just let relationships happen naturally

GRAND ETERNAL SUPREME

Quote from: .:::Slærya Stark:::. on May 08, 2019, 11:43:08 PM
Quote from: Ton on May 08, 2019, 11:39:14 PM
Quote from: .:::Slærya Stark:::. on May 08, 2019, 11:33:20 PM
A libra is no candidate for the fuckury..
CCCGGVCVG

Funny you say that

I dated one Libra when I was younger and the moment I wanted to MESS and be dramatic he would just ignore me

:plzstop:

I used to be fucking distraught..... Especially since the sex was amazing

Like fag just deal with my crazy ass lolz

Thats a typical libra tea ignore it until it goes away  :howfestive:

And i've dated too many gemini's before i realized they were all born a bit mental. Aint no crazy i havent seen already.
oh no I'm Aries

Confident and self centered

:dead:

And loves too hard

GLOCK

Quote from: Ton on May 08, 2019, 11:44:00 PM
Quote from: GLO' UP on May 08, 2019, 11:34:42 PM
Quote from: animmai. on May 08, 2019, 11:33:09 PM
Quote from: GLO' UP on May 08, 2019, 11:29:30 PM
Quote from: animmai. on May 08, 2019, 11:22:52 PM
I did have an ex that I dated in my early 20's that could drunk and show the fuck out if he wanted to

He was typical masc nigga "grr! tough! don't fuck with meh!". I feel like a complete for ever even finding that bullshit attractive.

It was NYE 2012, he had too many drinks. I hop in a cab and he calls himself trying to drag me back out of the cab to make me stay. One of his friends ran outside the party we were at and pulled him back inside. I hopped back in the cab,  went home, blocked his number and never heard from him again.
how did u compose yourself? I would've blacked tf owt

Honestly feel like people that put on that tough act mess are some of the weakest girls

And the fact that some of y'all friends saw this mess
I would've never talked to that fag ever again myself

I was just fed up and wasn't about to let this turn into some regular thing

And I didn't know anyone at the party, they were his people  :plzstop: I was scared that they might try to jump me if I fought him back
nnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn

That was probably smart of u 🥴

Gays are infamous for damn jumping
ugh

I know friendships can be natural

But gays do this thing of making a 'family' based on being gay and not because they naturally click

When I moved to Central Florida and made friends with this white fag hag, they were trying to like, recruit me :plzstop: only because I'm gay

I'm like umm you know nothing about me? I'm glad I didn't get involved with the mess. Those girls were shading each other and one had AIDS   :dead: :dead:

And they were pulling schemes. Such a mess. Just let relationships happen naturally
whats "pulling schemes"?

BAPHOMET.

QuoteWhat were your own experiences of domestic abuse that spurred this campaign into being?

My experiences spanned over 15 months. Looking back, the warning signs were obvious from the beginning of our relationship, but I still fell madly in love with him. He maintained the high lifestyle in a penthouse apartment, had charisma, charm, was carefree, and people seemed to love his company. He was the complete opposite of every moral thing I was brought up to respect and I loved him.

He was a heavy drug user and although prior to meeting him I had never taken them, he eventually influenced me to use them with him. Over the course of the next 15 months with him trying to hang himself and me having to pull him down, or stabbing himself, or trying to stab me with shards of glass, or with a chef's knife, or sleeping around and treating me like a trophy, or trying to jump out of my car down the motorway because he didn't like what I was saying about our relationship, or anything else that's on the endless list of events, all added to the strain I was under, which resulted in me turning to drugs as a crutch from the relationship.

By the end of our relationship I was in a severe state of anxiety, isolation and depression. We had another row, which resulted in him pushing my head into the corner of a brick wall – he was trying to push me over the stairs banister – and me ending up in hospital with my ear ripped in two and my skull cut open. I turned to drugs heavily after this and ended up in hospital having suffered a massive overdose in 2012. My mom phoned ReThink to arrange counselling sessions for me.

I had four months' intensive trauma counselling sessions and a few small sessions after that. It wasn't until 2013 that I finally felt myself again. I've now gained three stone since my experience, work out, am training in boxing and will no longer take any form of abuse. I am quick to defend others and will always help someone who is in trouble.

Do you think domestic abuse in gay relationships is often a subject swept under the carpet?

Yes it is. The Guardian wrote in an article that same sex abuse is a "silent epidemic". Mankind Initiative have recently published research that shows some alarming statistics in domestic abuse towards men from women and also gay men. Their findings found that gay and bisexual men are twice as likely to experience domestic abuse over heterosexual men.

Biiiiiiitch  :omgwatshappening:


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Quote from: GLO' UP on May 08, 2019, 11:46:05 PM
Quote from: Ton on May 08, 2019, 11:44:00 PM
Quote from: GLO' UP on May 08, 2019, 11:34:42 PM
Quote from: animmai. on May 08, 2019, 11:33:09 PM
Quote from: GLO' UP on May 08, 2019, 11:29:30 PM
Quote from: animmai. on May 08, 2019, 11:22:52 PM
I did have an ex that I dated in my early 20's that could drunk and show the fuck out if he wanted to

He was typical masc nigga "grr! tough! don't fuck with meh!". I feel like a complete for ever even finding that bullshit attractive.

It was NYE 2012, he had too many drinks. I hop in a cab and he calls himself trying to drag me back out of the cab to make me stay. One of his friends ran outside the party we were at and pulled him back inside. I hopped back in the cab,  went home, blocked his number and never heard from him again.
how did u compose yourself? I would've blacked tf owt

Honestly feel like people that put on that tough act mess are some of the weakest girls

And the fact that some of y'all friends saw this mess
I would've never talked to that fag ever again myself

I was just fed up and wasn't about to let this turn into some regular thing

And I didn't know anyone at the party, they were his people  :plzstop: I was scared that they might try to jump me if I fought him back
nnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn

That was probably smart of u 🥴

Gays are infamous for damn jumping
ugh

I know friendships can be natural

But gays do this thing of making a 'family' based on being gay and not because they naturally click

When I moved to Central Florida and made friends with this white fag hag, they were trying to like, recruit me :plzstop: only because I'm gay

I'm like umm you know nothing about me? I'm glad I didn't get involved with the mess. Those girls were shading each other and one had AIDS   :dead: :dead:

And they were pulling schemes. Such a mess. Just let relationships happen naturally
whats "pulling schemes"?
Glock

The first time I went to a gay club it was cool then we get back to her house and it's like 6 of us just hanging out

They were talking about sugar daddies and credit card scams :plzstop: :plzstop:

I was SHOCKED. I don't mess like that  :plzstop: :plzstop:

And the fact that they JUST met and were comfortable talking about this shit in front of me

I just...I didn't know what to do so I got on my phone and after like an hour I left.

I think I went to that club like 3? Times to make my friend happy but I just couldn't hang with her anymore. We actually still talk but that's it. One of those girls was in fucking jail  :plzstop: :plzstop: fuck no. I'll stick to my black sis

BAPHOMET.

Im trying to google for NON-WHITE gay abusive relationships. Abusive relationships in gays of colors seems interesting.

Whites are inherently are weak and ion wanna see a video of them crying about some mess


GLOCK

Quote from: Ton on May 08, 2019, 11:50:46 PM
Quote from: GLO' UP on May 08, 2019, 11:46:05 PM
Quote from: Ton on May 08, 2019, 11:44:00 PM
Quote from: GLO' UP on May 08, 2019, 11:34:42 PM
Quote from: animmai. on May 08, 2019, 11:33:09 PM
Quote from: GLO' UP on May 08, 2019, 11:29:30 PM
Quote from: animmai. on May 08, 2019, 11:22:52 PM
I did have an ex that I dated in my early 20's that could drunk and show the fuck out if he wanted to

He was typical masc nigga "grr! tough! don't fuck with meh!". I feel like a complete for ever even finding that bullshit attractive.

It was NYE 2012, he had too many drinks. I hop in a cab and he calls himself trying to drag me back out of the cab to make me stay. One of his friends ran outside the party we were at and pulled him back inside. I hopped back in the cab,  went home, blocked his number and never heard from him again.
how did u compose yourself? I would've blacked tf owt

Honestly feel like people that put on that tough act mess are some of the weakest girls

And the fact that some of y'all friends saw this mess
I would've never talked to that fag ever again myself

I was just fed up and wasn't about to let this turn into some regular thing

And I didn't know anyone at the party, they were his people  :plzstop: I was scared that they might try to jump me if I fought him back
nnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn

That was probably smart of u 🥴

Gays are infamous for damn jumping
ugh

I know friendships can be natural

But gays do this thing of making a 'family' based on being gay and not because they naturally click

When I moved to Central Florida and made friends with this white fag hag, they were trying to like, recruit me :plzstop: only because I'm gay

I'm like umm you know nothing about me? I'm glad I didn't get involved with the mess. Those girls were shading each other and one had AIDS   :dead: :dead:

And they were pulling schemes. Such a mess. Just let relationships happen naturally
whats "pulling schemes"?
Glock

The first time I went to a gay club it was cool then we get back to her house and it's like 6 of us just hanging out

They were talking about sugar daddies and credit card scams :plzstop: :plzstop:

I was SHOCKED. I don't mess like that  :plzstop: :plzstop:

And the fact that they JUST met and were comfortable talking about this shit in front of me

I just...I didn't know what to do so I got on my phone and after like an hour I left.

I think I went to that club like 3? Times to make my friend happy but I just couldn't hang with her anymore. We actually still talk but that's it. One of those girls was in fucking jail  :plzstop: :plzstop: fuck no. I'll stick to my black sis
bxjdjsjsjjd
Oh fucking god

:plzstop:
I seriously would've left the moment they started talking about that mess

It's a kii how gays are always looking for a way to rob a girl or trick them jdjdjdjd

No damn maam