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[I. Hate. Monica.]

fuck what herb said Bre. Roll up on that bitch. lemme know if you need assistance 

[rosone1]

You ever have someone repay you,  then ask for more money days later.Like stuck in a loop.I really don't feel like I'm being repaid..just holding on to it for a couple of days.

[I. Hate. Monica.]

I likes ta fight 

[Monika]

I only give money to my mom. That's it. My dad doesn't like to take money from us so we just give it to mom. Sometimes we slip somethin' in a card for him without him knowing.  i recently borrowed money from someone, and the person was getting annoying about it. I was like, I'm working on it now!  i hated to borrow it, but it was needed. I try my best not to borrow ish! If i dont have the money, oh well! 

[Monika]

I usually just gift it.

The most someone's asked me for was when a friend asked me to cover their rent for the month, AFTER they had just gotten a new job. And I did it only because I was happy to see them trying to get back on their feet. If someone's been between jobs for a while and had to get new clothes, transportation, etc. it was understandable how it was eating into their money a bit and making things extra tight. So I was happy to help because they were trying to help themselves.

Their request was for it to be a loan, but I didn't want a dollar amount hanging over our friendship. So I told them to just keep it.

If your finances are that tight it's obviously gonna be a while before you can pay me back in full. I don't want someone to have that in the back of their mind every time we chat on the phone, or they see a text from me thinking I'm checking up to collect the mess, etc.

But I've always been a giver. So it's easy for me to do that without expecting anything in return. I never loan people money.

omgggg, this is so sweet! 

[yummy]

fuck what herb said Bre. Roll up on that bitch. lemme know if you need assistance

!!! Vonc jus texted me asking for the address to her child's school

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[Navyman]

Ok, so for the ones who lend out or borrow, fo you want the initial amount back/pay back initial amount or pay interest?

A good point was made, when you borrow someone else money it could been used for that person in other ways to make money on it but they tied it up with you. So do you?

[b7]

a very good friend of mine (tonio) asked me to pay his rent last year.

cvvvvvvvvbhhhh

[Monika]

Don't waste your time airing her out on Facebook and mess. Don't go that low for some funds you won't get back.
And don't subject your friends and family to seeing you out of your character like that on their timelines because of her.

You're not getting that money back.  She's complete trash, but it's a lesson learned.

At least you got to vent a bit. But you're gonna have to just breathe and let it go. I know it's extra hard because you're in the process of moving and could really use the extra hundred dollars. I mean that's a utility bill covered for a month or two. So I get it.

But just breathe, exhale, let it go. Take a few minutes to lock yourself in a room and curse her out if you need to. But after that, let it go.
When shit like that happens to me I just try to remember that some lessons in life are free, and some are more expensive. You paid for your mess already in full. So keep it pushing King.

Fuck ha

Skdjjd

Damns yeah. Thx Herb!

Omg, that's Afro? Ugh, such wisdom! 

[Opposites Attract.]

Yall are fucking ghetto.

Not putting ppl on blast, sending letters n call the authorities

Just say no next time. Lol

b

Not it being ghetto to request your funds back

U ok bbydll. I didnt say anything about requesting it back.

The letters tho...

n

How is that ghetto faggot? If I didn't hesitate to loan you my money why should there be hesitation to give it back? Had they gotten a loan the bank would have done the same thing.

I've even gotten my home girl car towed until she paid me my money. I'm the one who paid the down payment on a whim that I was gonna he my money back and sis thought shit was sweet.

[🦚]

Yall are fucking ghetto.

Not putting ppl on blast, sending letters n call the authorities

Just say no next time. Lol

b

Not it being ghetto to request your funds back

U ok bbydll. I didnt say anything about requesting it back.

The letters tho...

n

How is that ghetto faggot? If I didn't hesitate to loan you my money why should there be hesitation to give it back? Had they gotten a loan the bank would have done the same thing.

I've even gotten my home girl car towed until she paid me my money. I'm the one who paid the down payment on a whim that I was gonna he my money back and sis thought shit was sweet.

Its all very ghetto. Couldn't catch me going back n forth with anyone over a few red cents.

Its a test of character and they failed...move on.

Thats why yall be 20 looking 45. All this damn stress.

Put the cape down and say no sometimes... especially if it's this damn deep.

[I. Hate. Monica.]

slAIDS is so elitist 

[Freemala Harris]

No

[🦚]

Sars... fuck u.

[Kurama]

Boy zip it!