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Young

Quote from: Ton on June 02, 2019, 08:17:39 AM
I don't agree about being sexually aroused by others even if you're in a relationship, because you're a man

Whenever I'm with my mans, I honestly don't SEE anyone else  :dead:

I know imma get what I want when I get home lolz and nobody else is doing it for me

I like to think of relationships as physical and emotional connections


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If you're with that person and every attractive thing is catching you're eye; that person you're with ain't the one




Barbie Dangerous

Quote from: kitty box on June 02, 2019, 11:17:53 AM
So when you guys lust over other men's pics on here, you really don't mean that?

As in, there's nothing that catches your eye about the dicks and balls...and boochie/toochie you chat about and stuff?
Saying you'd bend over and let them fuck you and suck their dicks, and stuff...
Holy fucking shit. Contradictions called out once again, not surprised.


African Queen

Can y'all cut the crap. Men can't be monogamous. PERIOD!

Barbie Dangerous

Quote from: kitty box on June 02, 2019, 11:27:49 AM
Quote from: BowDown on June 02, 2019, 11:25:11 AM
Quote from: kitty box on June 02, 2019, 11:17:53 AM
So when you guys lust over other men's pics on here, you really don't mean that?

As in, there's nothing that catches your eye about the dicks and balls...and boochie/toochie you chat about and stuff?
Saying you'd bend over and let them fuck you and suck their dicks, and stuff...
Holy fucking shit. Contradictions called out once again, not surprised.
l,pkdw

I mean, I just want to know.

Help me make this make sense.


Barbie Dangerous

I believe monogamy is a choice and can be achieved with the right mindset but anyone who says they're not attracted to anyone else while in a relationship is a flat out liar.


Barbie Dangerous

Quote from: kitty box on June 02, 2019, 11:35:06 AM
Quote from: BowDown on June 02, 2019, 11:30:55 AM
I believe monogamy is a choice and can be achieved with the right mindset but anyone who says they're not attracted to anyone else while in a relationship is a flat out liar.
mmmmmmmm,m,

People WILL themselves into monogamy. It's a social expectation. But I think a lot of posts on here can give us insight into some fantasies that many men still have.

But, I only have eyes for youuuu and stuff



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Young

Quote from: kitty box on June 02, 2019, 11:17:53 AM
So when you guys lust over other men's pics on here, you really don't mean that?

As in, there's nothing that catches your eye about the dicks and balls...and boochie/toochie you chat about and stuff?
Saying you'd bend over and let them fuck you and suck their dicks, and stuff...

I'm trying to make sense of this.
Cuz if it's all truly lies, I would have to wonder why ya'll don't make those posts about men like Rick Ross.

I can't speak for the other girls here but anything I say on here my man knows about

He knows I love Quincy, Blueface etc...

Celeb crushes/jokes don't equate to wanting to have a free for all mess out

I think when you truly find love & you're totally satisfied; you're not going to ACTUALLY go out and do everything you say .
You can see someone as attractive and still have self control .

I'm not one to judge the choices of others, but for me monogamy >>>

Also because I believe strongly in soul ties, karma, how sex is more than just an act and things of that nature


Barbie Dangerous

Quote from: kitty box on June 02, 2019, 11:41:45 AM
Quote from: BowDown on June 02, 2019, 11:40:45 AM
Quote from: kitty box on June 02, 2019, 11:35:06 AM
Quote from: BowDown on June 02, 2019, 11:30:55 AM
I believe monogamy is a choice and can be achieved with the right mindset but anyone who says they're not attracted to anyone else while in a relationship is a flat out liar.
mmmmmmmm,m,

People WILL themselves into monogamy. It's a social expectation. But I think a lot of posts on here can give us insight into some fantasies that many men still have.

But, I only have eyes for youuuu and stuff



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Young

Quote from: RUN TINGZ. on June 02, 2019, 11:45:36 AM
Nah, being in a monogamous relationship >>>

i cant do that sleeping around mess, don't know how the gorls do it.

ssssssss

Am sorr' But yeah

Outside of the diseases that spread like wildfire ; I can't get intimate with any and everybody

I think society has become to demoralized tbh


Barbie Dangerous

Quote from: Young on June 02, 2019, 11:47:25 AM
Quote from: kitty box on June 02, 2019, 11:17:53 AM
So when you guys lust over other men's pics on here, you really don't mean that?

As in, there's nothing that catches your eye about the dicks and balls...and boochie/toochie you chat about and stuff?
Saying you'd bend over and let them fuck you and suck their dicks, and stuff...

I'm trying to make sense of this.
Cuz if it's all truly lies, I would have to wonder why ya'll don't make those posts about men like Rick Ross.

I can't speak for the other girls here but anything I say on here my man knows about

He knows I love Quincy, Blueface etc...

Celeb crushes/jokes don't equate to wanting to have a free for all mess out

I think when you truly find love & you're totally satisfied; you're not going to ACTUALLY go out and do everything you say .
You can see someone as attractive and still have self control .

I'm not one to judge the choices of others, but for me monogamy >>>

Also because I believe strongly in soul ties, karma, how sex is more than just an act and things of that nature
I agree with all of this tho! I'm not saying that you can't control yourself when you're in a relationship but I saw some were trying to say they're not attracted to others when they're in a relationship..


Barbie Dangerous

Quote from: kitty box on June 02, 2019, 11:52:15 AM
Quote from: Young on June 02, 2019, 11:47:25 AM
Quote from: kitty box on June 02, 2019, 11:17:53 AM
So when you guys lust over other men's pics on here, you really don't mean that?

As in, there's nothing that catches your eye about the dicks and balls...and boochie/toochie you chat about and stuff?
Saying you'd bend over and let them fuck you and suck their dicks, and stuff...

I'm trying to make sense of this.
Cuz if it's all truly lies, I would have to wonder why ya'll don't make those posts about men like Rick Ross.

I can't speak for the other girls here but anything I say on here my man knows about

He knows I love Quincy, Blueface etc...

Celeb crushes/jokes don't equate to wanting to have a free for all mess out

I think when you truly find love & you're totally satisfied; you're not going to ACTUALLY go out and do everything you say .
You can see someone as attractive and still have self control .

I'm not one to judge the choices of others, but for me monogamy >>>

Also because I believe strongly in soul ties, karma, how sex is more than just an act and things of that nature
But many of you in here would have people to believe that once you're with someone, you only have eyes for that person.

A crush would imply that there's some attraction there. And describing sexual acts means those things are crossing your mind in some way. 

Of course you wouldn't cheat because you've decided that you aren't going to do that. It makes sense. That's not what I am questioning. It's the attraction to others.

And let's call it what it is. Let's not sugarcoat it as "oh a little elementary school crush!". No, it's LUST when you are describing inserting someone's dick into your mouth, licking their boovy and bending over to take their dick.

It's SEXUAL.
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Didn't know we were gonna get so graphic on a Sunday but yea.
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June 02, 2019, 11:56:34 AM #41 Last Edit: June 02, 2019, 11:57:03 AM by Ton
Quote from: kitty box on June 02, 2019, 11:17:53 AM
So when you guys lust over other men's pics on here, you really don't mean that?

As in, there's nothing that catches your eye about the dicks and balls...and boochie/toochie you chat about and stuff?
Saying you'd bend over and let them fuck you and suck their dicks, and stuff...

I'm trying to make sense of this.
Cuz if it's all truly lies, I would have to wonder why ya'll don't make those posts about men like Rick Ross.
people will always be attractive but that doesn't mean I want to fuck them

I find women attractive but I'd never attempt that. Single or not :dead:

Arousal just doesn't turn on for me if I'm with someone I care about

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Young

June 02, 2019, 12:00:00 PM #43 Last Edit: June 02, 2019, 12:01:25 PM by Young
Quote from: kitty box on June 02, 2019, 11:52:15 AM
Quote from: Young on June 02, 2019, 11:47:25 AM
Quote from: kitty box on June 02, 2019, 11:17:53 AM
So when you guys lust over other men's pics on here, you really don't mean that?

As in, there's nothing that catches your eye about the dicks and balls...and boochie/toochie you chat about and stuff?
Saying you'd bend over and let them fuck you and suck their dicks, and stuff...

I'm trying to make sense of this.
Cuz if it's all truly lies, I would have to wonder why ya'll don't make those posts about men like Rick Ross.

I can't speak for the other girls here but anything I say on here my man knows about

He knows I love Quincy, Blueface etc...

Celeb crushes/jokes don't equate to wanting to have a free for all mess out

I think when you truly find love & you're totally satisfied; you're not going to ACTUALLY go out and do everything you say .
You can see someone as attractive and still have self control .

I'm not one to judge the choices of others, but for me monogamy >>>

Also because I believe strongly in soul ties, karma, how sex is more than just an act and things of that nature
But many of you in here would have people to believe that once you're with someone, you only have eyes for that person.

A crush would imply that there's some attraction there. And describing sexual acts means those things are crossing your mind in some way. 

Of course you wouldn't cheat because you've decided that you aren't going to do that. It makes sense. That's not what I am questioning. It's the attraction to others.

And let's call it what it is. Let's not sugarcoat it as "oh a little elementary school crush!". No, it's LUST when you are describing inserting someone's dick into your mouth, licking their boovy and bending over to take their dick.

It's SEXUAL.

but I think you're bleeding too many things into one here sis

Because the OP is about relationships and being only being with one person to have control over them

Yes we have eyes; were human .
When I'm out with my man and we see someone fine walk by we can both acknowledge that they're attractive and keep it moving .
Seeing someone as attractive doesn't automatically mean "welp! Lemme leave this nigga I'm with to fuck this one! " :uhh:

That's animalistic and there's a lack of self control if that's what you're alluding to.

And yes...the thought has DEFINITELY crossed my mind of Quincy inserting his penis in my mouth ddddd :young:
But then I snap back to reality and realize what I have
And I by no means would want a life with him over the life I have with my man ; or even both at the same time for that matter

Having someone totally committed to you >>>

And if we're keeping it fonky; as the OP is concerned ,I think people who think like that are scared of being hurt or have been before.
Being in a committed , loving relationship is a beautiful spiritual journey ; and I simply could not imagine bouncing from penis to penis just because I thought someone was attractive. There's so many deeper levels to it behind fleshly desires.


Barbie Dangerous

I wanna got FUCKED tonight.