Quote from: kitty box on June 02, 2019, 11:52:15 AM
Quote from: Young on June 02, 2019, 11:47:25 AM
Quote from: kitty box on June 02, 2019, 11:17:53 AM
So when you guys lust over other men's pics on here, you really don't mean that?
As in, there's nothing that catches your eye about the dicks and balls...and boochie/toochie you chat about and stuff?
Saying you'd bend over and let them fuck you and suck their dicks, and stuff...
I'm trying to make sense of this.
Cuz if it's all truly lies, I would have to wonder why ya'll don't make those posts about men like Rick Ross.
I can't speak for the other girls here but anything I say on here my man knows about
He knows I love Quincy, Blueface etc...
Celeb crushes/jokes don't equate to wanting to have a free for all mess out
I think when you truly find love & you're totally satisfied; you're not going to ACTUALLY go out and do everything you say .
You can see someone as attractive and still have self control .
I'm not one to judge the choices of others, but for me monogamy >>>
Also because I believe strongly in soul ties, karma, how sex is more than just an act and things of that nature
But many of you in here would have people to believe that once you're with someone, you only have eyes for that person.
A crush would imply that there's some attraction there. And describing sexual acts means those things are crossing your mind in some way.
Of course you wouldn't cheat because you've decided that you aren't going to do that. It makes sense. That's not what I am questioning. It's the attraction to others.
And let's call it what it is. Let's not sugarcoat it as "oh a little elementary school crush!". No, it's LUST when you are describing inserting someone's dick into your mouth, licking their boovy and bending over to take their dick.
It's SEXUAL.
but I think you're bleeding too many things into one here sis
Because the OP is about relationships and being only being with one person to have control over them
Yes we have eyes; were human .
When I'm out with my man and we see someone fine walk by we can both acknowledge that they're attractive and keep it moving .
Seeing someone as attractive doesn't automatically mean "welp! Lemme leave this nigga I'm with to fuck this one! "

That's animalistic and there's a lack of self control if that's what you're alluding to.
And yes...the thought has DEFINITELY crossed my mind of Quincy inserting his penis in my mouth ddddd

But then I snap back to reality and realize what I have
And I by no means would want a life with him over the life I have with my man ; or even both at the same time for that matter
Having someone totally committed to you >>>
And if we're keeping it fonky; as the OP is concerned ,I think people who think like that are scared of being hurt or have been before.
Being in a committed , loving relationship is a beautiful spiritual journey ; and I simply could not imagine bouncing from penis to penis just because I thought someone was attractive. There's so many deeper levels to it behind fleshly desires.