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Modern monogamous

"Monogamy used to be one person for life; today it is one person at a time."
-Esther Perel

You are a modern monogamist aka a serial monogamist. For you, when it comes to structuring your relationships, it's not out with the old and in with the new; your values are a combination of traditional and modern concepts of coupling. This means that while you believe in exclusivity and unwavering faithfulness, you also believe in letting go of what/ who is holding you back, even if that means divorce. People live longer, women are equal economic contributors and people's values are shifting. Thus, the world is outgrowing a one-size-fits-all concept of love, and 'til death do us part' may not fit ALL of your goals/ needs. You reserve the right to opt out if necessary, but as long as you choose to be in - you're all in!

Modern monogamy is the most popular form of coupling and one that is depicted most often in media. BUT, don't fall into the trap of taking this for granted by assuming everyone has the same relationship structure goals as you. It is still extremely essential to emphasize not just how important fidelity is to you, but also to explain why it is uniquely necessary for you to love and feel loved.

[Kalifornia.]

I agree more with the modern monogamous mess.

I don't even like to date 

You can't sit with us babe. Now go enjoy your open thotty mess.

[Kaeli.]

I agree more with the modern monogamous mess.

I don't even like to date 

You can't sit with us babe. Now go enjoy your open thotty mess.

excuse me?

[LOONA.]

I agree more with the modern monogamous mess.

I don't even like to date 

You can't sit with us babe. Now go enjoy your open thotty mess.

You're a certified WHORE hun.     

[BAPHOMET.]

Modern monogamous

"Monogamy used to be one person for life; today it is one person at a time."
-Esther Perel

You are a modern monogamist aka a serial monogamist. For you, when it comes to structuring your relationships, it's not out with the old and in with the new; your values are a combination of traditional and modern concepts of coupling. This means that while you believe in exclusivity and unwavering faithfulness, you also believe in letting go of what/ who is holding you back, even if that means divorce. People live longer, women are equal economic contributors and people's values are shifting. Thus, the world is outgrowing a one-size-fits-all concept of love, and 'til death do us part' may not fit ALL of your goals/ needs. You reserve the right to opt out if necessary, but as long as you choose to be in - you're all in!

Modern monogamy is the most popular form of coupling and one that is depicted most often in media. BUT, don't fall into the trap of taking this for granted by assuming everyone has the same relationship structure goals as you. It is still extremely essential to emphasize not just how important fidelity is to you, but also to explain why it is uniquely necessary for you to love and feel loved.

[Kalifornia.]

Damns. Drais & Kae are sluts, huh?

[Blamblam]

I got modern monogamist.It felt like this quiz is very pro-poly and the answers were framed in a way to make it seem like you either want to see your partner free and happy with other people or you're a jealous degenerate.

[BAPHOMET.]

I got modern monogamist.It felt like this quiz is very pro-poly and the answers were framed in a way to make it seem like you either want to see your partner free and happy with other people or you're a jealous degenerate.

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I get what you're saying

[BAPHOMET.]

I like soooo many different types of guys/personalities I just dont think its fair to myself to try to STICK with one person if im gravitating to something else.  
But I can definitely be faithful no doubt and im extremely honest.  I dont, however, like to discard people because thats not fair to myself or them. ONLY if they arent a trash person. 
Definitely would still keep in contact and be good friends. 

[Freemala Harris]

I got:
MODERN MONOGAMOUS -

"Monogamy used to be one person for life; today it is one person at a time."
-Esther Perel

You are a modern monogamist aka a serial monogamist. For you, when it comes to structuring your relationships, it's not out with the old and in with the new; your values are a combination of traditional and modern concepts of coupling. This means that while you believe in exclusivity and unwavering faithfulness, you also believe in letting go of what/ who is holding you back, even if that means divorce. People live longer, women are equal economic contributors and people's values are shifting. Thus, the world is outgrowing a one-size-fits-all concept of love, and 'til death do us part' may not fit ALL of your goals/ needs. You reserve the right to opt out if necessary, but as long as you choose to be in - you're all in!

Ditto

[LOONA.]

I got modern monogamist.It felt like this quiz is very pro-poly and the answers were framed in a way to make it seem like you either want to see your partner free and happy with other people or you're a jealous degenerate.

Alot of the answer choices were ridiculous     

[Kurama]

You a slut babe, end of. 

[LOONA.]

Speaking of SLUT

My ex boyfriend and his new guy want me to JOIN them.... I think im interested.

[Kurama]

Gggh

[I. Hate. Monica.]

Serial Non committed dating

You love the idea of what a committed relationship can provide: friendship, comfort, shared history, shared beds, frequent communication and some level of partnership. BUT, you're not quite ready (or entirely in to) the accountability, exclusivity and pressure that a formal commitment comes with.

Unlike someone who is into casual dating - you do want your partner's to rely on you and vice versa to some extent, but not in the full way that you perceive a formal relationship would. You're not actively searching for new partners, but you enjoy the idea that you can engage at will without having to consult with anyone else.

In short you're looking for a medium-level of commitment without a high-level of accountability with a preference for mid-term partners. For you to exist in your sweet spot, managing expectations is going to be essential. And not just in the beginning of the connection when you say "I'm not looking for anything too serious right now," but all the way through. You're giving people the relationship experience without wanting the title, which is awesome because you do prioritize your relationships in many meaningful ways, but not necessarily in the traditional ways. This can be confusing for some so be open to having the relationship status chat frequently.

this paragraph that basically boils down to you being a ho