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[Drogon]

Me and my ex had a conversation today and he made the statement that I'm too independent and that I need to learn to let him do thing's for me.

I've never been that type of nigga; plus I don't need it. If I needed it that would be somthing different. I think he's use to caking on broke 'aggots.

[oph.]

ffgghhj

yeah this is weird to me. even when men say this abt women it sounds weird to me, but due to the indoctrinated misogyny it doesn't seem AS strange.

but nah. "too" independent how? he trynna open your door for u & mess?

[Drogon]

ffgghhj

yeah this is weird to me. even when men say this abt women it sounds weird to me, but due to the indoctrinated misogyny it doesn't seem AS strange.

but nah. "too" independent how? he trynna open your door for u & mess?

Nah he very macho or whatever

I put my jeep in the shop and I took a uber to go pick it up when it was done. He called me while i was in the uber and asked what i was doing and it turned to him lashing me for taking a uber and for me not telling him it was in the shop.

 

We still fuck around but I don't want him thinking he has to do stuff like that.

[oph.]

ffgghhj

yeah this is weird to me. even when men say this abt women it sounds weird to me, but due to the indoctrinated misogyny it doesn't seem AS strange.

but nah. "too" independent how? he trynna open your door for u & mess?

Nah he very macho or whatever

I put my jeep in the shop and I took a uber to go pick it up when it was done. He called me while i was in the uber and asked what i was doing and it turned to him lashing me for taking a uber and for me not telling him it was in the shop.

 

We still fuck around but I don't want him thinking he has to do stuff like that.

wait

is he your MAN

just dating

or a fuck bud?

if he was your MAN, i woulda lashed you a bit too. communicate w/ me and let me be there for u when u need it.

now if ya'll just dating/fuckin... u don't owe him shit

[Drogon]

ffgghhj

yeah this is weird to me. even when men say this abt women it sounds weird to me, but due to the indoctrinated misogyny it doesn't seem AS strange.

but nah. "too" independent how? he trynna open your door for u & mess?

Nah he very macho or whatever

I put my jeep in the shop and I took a uber to go pick it up when it was done. He called me while i was in the uber and asked what i was doing and it turned to him lashing me for taking a uber and for me not telling him it was in the shop.

 

We still fuck around but I don't want him thinking he has to do stuff like that.

wait

is he your MAN

just dating

or a fuck bud?

if he was your MAN, i woulda lashed you a bit too. communicate w/ me and let me be there for u when u need it.

now if ya'll just dating/fuckin... u don't owe him shit

We stopped talking but we still fuck and that's where i thought we left it.

It hasn't been a problem until last week. Ugh this about to be a MESS

[Admin]

You can't be too independent, da fuck?

[Navyman]

I get cautious when people say this, the ones who usually do say this because they can't manipulate or control you if you don't give over any of your power.

But there are some people who genuinely like helping, but fuck boi's usually use this tactic of too independent

[oph.]

ffgghhj

yeah this is weird to me. even when men say this abt women it sounds weird to me, but due to the indoctrinated misogyny it doesn't seem AS strange.

but nah. "too" independent how? he trynna open your door for u & mess?

Nah he very macho or whatever

I put my jeep in the shop and I took a uber to go pick it up when it was done. He called me while i was in the uber and asked what i was doing and it turned to him lashing me for taking a uber and for me not telling him it was in the shop.

 

We still fuck around but I don't want him thinking he has to do stuff like that.

wait

is he your MAN

just dating

or a fuck bud?

if he was your MAN, i woulda lashed you a bit too. communicate w/ me and let me be there for u when u need it.

now if ya'll just dating/fuckin... u don't owe him shit

We stopped talking but we still fuck and that's where i thought we left it.

It hasn't been a problem until last week. Ugh this about to be a MESS

ooooooh see

yea

this boy still got feelings for you and is wanting more than just a fwb mess owt

either you did not communicate clearly enough to him the current status of your relationship together or he just did not comprehend/accept it

either way, a conversation needs to be had

and do me a favor. be brutally (yet respectfully) honest so that there is no room for misunderstanding. y'all both deserve that. if he's mature enough to be able to maintain the fucking relationship without anything additional, great. but if not, do yourselves both a favor and cut him off. plenty of niggas out there willing to fuck and go.

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I don't want anyone doing anything for me.

[Edge gorl]

gngng

my thing is....bitch nigga its not tht im too independent...its tht u aint MAN enough for me

ive onl' had this problem wit one nigga nd he was such an insecure asshole

[Drogon]

You can't be too independent, da fuck?

He's dated women most of his life so I guess he's use to doing that.  I had a ex do something for me in past and he brought it up when he got mad even tho he offered it and i didn't need it. I regret accepting it and I promised I'd never do it again.

[oph.]

You can't be too independent, da fuck?

He's dated women most of his life so I guess he's use to doing that.  I had a ex do something for me in past and he brought it up when he got mad even tho he offered it and i didn't need it. I regret accepting it and I promised I'd never do it again.

ch

don't let that one ignorant nigga cause you to sabotage more healthy relationships. yo man should be allowed to provide/spoil u a bit. and vice versa.

[Drogon]

ffgghhj

yeah this is weird to me. even when men say this abt women it sounds weird to me, but due to the indoctrinated misogyny it doesn't seem AS strange.

but nah. "too" independent how? he trynna open your door for u & mess?

Nah he very macho or whatever

I put my jeep in the shop and I took a uber to go pick it up when it was done. He called me while i was in the uber and asked what i was doing and it turned to him lashing me for taking a uber and for me not telling him it was in the shop.

 

We still fuck around but I don't want him thinking he has to do stuff like that.

wait

is he your MAN

just dating

or a fuck bud?

if he was your MAN, i woulda lashed you a bit too. communicate w/ me and let me be there for u when u need it.

now if ya'll just dating/fuckin... u don't owe him shit

We stopped talking but we still fuck and that's where i thought we left it.

It hasn't been a problem until last week. Ugh this about to be a MESS

ooooooh see

yea

this boy still got feelings for you and is wanting more than just a fwb mess owt

either you did not communicate clearly enough to him the current status of your relationship together or he just did not comprehend/accept it

either way, a conversation needs to be had

and do me a favor. be brutally (yet respectfully) honest so that there is no room for misunderstanding. y'all both deserve that. if he's mature enough to be able to maintain the fucking relationship without anything additional, great. but if not, do yourselves both a favor and cut him off. plenty of niggas out there willing to fuck and go.

You're so RIGHT.

We had put everything behind us and just been fucking. We messed around today and he whispered "I love you" I was in the dark like




I got to figure this shit out before it gets out of hand or maybe we should give it another shot

[Drogon]

You can't be too independent, da fuck?

He's dated women most of his life so I guess he's use to doing that.  I had a ex do something for me in past and he brought it up when he got mad even tho he offered it and i didn't need it. I regret accepting it and I promised I'd never do it again.

ch

don't let that one ignorant nigga cause you to sabotage more healthy relationships. yo man should be allowed to provide/spoil u a bit. and vice versa.

I can't argue with you at all. We are both to blame as to why we are in this place but I def caused a good share of it. I did some crazy shit a few months ago.  Whew !

[oph.]

ffgghhj

yeah this is weird to me. even when men say this abt women it sounds weird to me, but due to the indoctrinated misogyny it doesn't seem AS strange.

but nah. "too" independent how? he trynna open your door for u & mess?

Nah he very macho or whatever

I put my jeep in the shop and I took a uber to go pick it up when it was done. He called me while i was in the uber and asked what i was doing and it turned to him lashing me for taking a uber and for me not telling him it was in the shop.

 

We still fuck around but I don't want him thinking he has to do stuff like that.

wait

is he your MAN

just dating

or a fuck bud?

if he was your MAN, i woulda lashed you a bit too. communicate w/ me and let me be there for u when u need it.

now if ya'll just dating/fuckin... u don't owe him shit

We stopped talking but we still fuck and that's where i thought we left it.

It hasn't been a problem until last week. Ugh this about to be a MESS

ooooooh see

yea

this boy still got feelings for you and is wanting more than just a fwb mess owt

either you did not communicate clearly enough to him the current status of your relationship together or he just did not comprehend/accept it

either way, a conversation needs to be had

and do me a favor. be brutally (yet respectfully) honest so that there is no room for misunderstanding. y'all both deserve that. if he's mature enough to be able to maintain the fucking relationship without anything additional, great. but if not, do yourselves both a favor and cut him off. plenty of niggas out there willing to fuck and go.

You're so RIGHT.

We had put everything behind us and just been fucking. We messed around today and he whispered "I love you" I was in the dark like




I got to figure this shit out before it gets out of hand or maybe we should give it another shot

sggggghh king i think u like this boy more than just a fwb TOO

accckkk go get ur man bby!!!