Why do people always question others happiness/growth?

Started by Herb., November 30, 2015, 08:13:07 PM

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Herb.

This isn't a shady or passive thread...so Lemme just put it out there and say that this is based on my recent interactions with Vonc and Preme....and yum as well.

Why are some people so quick to question someone's "growth" but are always willing to accept behavior which is opposite in nature?

It reminds me of how Mary's fans just wanted her back in the trenches...just so she can better entertain them. :plzstop:

Not saying these are my fans, but u get my drift. The way I feel is.... If I wanted to be a bitch, or nasty etc. I'd be just that. And have no apologies about it.

Why r u so worried about what I'm supposedly portraying? Would u be as annoyed if I were portraying a malicious bitch? Wait don't even answer that cuz i already know the answer. U weren't annoyed. U found it to be fun! Delightful!

Now ask anyone outside of BSource who HERBERT is...and they'll tell u exactly whT u see now. A nice person who avoids confrontation but will get SNAPPY if He needs to. And is a little moody lol.

Even people on here who's talked with me outside the confines of this board will say that.

If you don't like me that's fine. But stop following me around accusing me of being fake.

Cocoa

November 30, 2015, 08:15:07 PM #1 Last Edit: November 30, 2015, 08:18:31 PM by Turtle Scuttler
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Hun do me a fvr and shut the fuck up.

Good lord, you love to hear yourself talk.

Herb.

Quote from: Turtle Scuttler on November 30, 2015, 08:15:07 PM
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Hun do me a fvr and shut the fuck up.

Good lord, you love to hear yourself talk.
Can't really hear text.

But I do enjoy writing.

Cocoa



Kurama

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I don't generally think people question others growth or happiness, I think its more so the means/time it takes to get there. I also think there's this big misconception on here that when you have an opinion about something that's not to someones' liking, you're somehow upset or mad.

With someone with a LONG history of messing on the internet like yourself, doing a complete 180 merely months after to become this "high-road" "im above" type is definitely a reason to make others skeptical. Change is usually gradual and organic its not something that happens overnight or the span of 3 months. So the skepticism should really be understandable. If this is genuinely you then comments shouldn't really bother you too much, but that's another topic I dont feel like getting into.

Hope this helps put things into perspective for you tho.


Stewie

Quote from: Kurama on November 30, 2015, 08:55:35 PM
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I don't generally think people question others growth or happiness, I think its more so the means/time it takes to get there. I also think there's this big misconception on here that when you have an opinion about something that's not to someones' liking, you're somehow upset or mad.

With someone with a LONG history of messing on the internet like yourself, doing a complete 180 merely months after to become this "high-road" "im above" type is definitely a reason to make others skeptical. Change is usually gradual and organic its not something that happens overnight or the span of 3 months. So the skepticism should really be understandable. If this is genuinely you then comments shouldn't really bother you too much, but that's another topic I dont feel like getting into.

Hope this helps put things into perspective for you tho.


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L0NZ.

Nah I don't get fake from your evolution. Probably because we're around the same age, I get you.


mauza

Quote from: Kurama on November 30, 2015, 08:55:35 PM


With someone with a LONG history of messing on the internet like yourself, doing a complete 180 merely months after to become this "high-road" "im above" type is definitely a reason to make others skeptical. Change is usually gradual and organic its not something that happens overnight or the span of 3 months.

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QuoteHope this helps put things into perspective for you tho.

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L0NZ.

Quote from: Kurama on November 30, 2015, 08:55:35 PM


With someone with a LONG history of messing on the internet like yourself, doing a complete 180 merely months after to become this "high-road" "im above" type is definitely a reason to make others skeptical. Change is usually gradual and organic its not something that happens overnight or the span of 3 months. So the skepticism should really be understandable.

But you're only speaking to what he chooses to give online, which is never 100% intrinsically accurate or true to any of us. You can't say Herbert did a 180 in merely months. I don't think you can question how genuine one's personal growth is, based on a change in how they handle internet people and how fast you saw it.


Stewie

Quote from: L0NZ. on November 30, 2015, 09:07:03 PM
Nah I don't get fake from your evolution. Probably because we're around the same age, I get you.

!!!


its really just a maturity thing.

MAY