Why do people always question others happiness/growth?

Started by Herb., November 30, 2015, 08:13:07 PM

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Herb.


SUPREME

But really, I'm not into explaining myself beyond a certain point.

Nobody is obligated to care about what I say. I'm just supreme.

Herb.

I really don't care about your ramblings about me to be honest.

Regardless of what you say, nothing's changing.

I just felt the need to discuss it, and since I didn't want this thread to come off as passive or shady, I made sure to mention why I made the thread and who "inspired" it. Me taking your words into serious account is irrelevant. I'm here to state my point and keep it moving. Not to absorb your personal doctrine.

I thank you for participating and explaining yourself, though.

Lane Bryant Jumpsuit

Quote from: Herbie on November 30, 2015, 10:53:24 PM
Quote from: TheNextLew on November 30, 2015, 10:49:33 PM
well lol in my opinion i always taken afro at face value
ive always believed  he was an opportunist with two sides of his face always
and the play two hands in the middle type and although some of that has changed i still see glimpses here and there
and im all for change cause ive gon thru a lil bit of change online and off but yeah i dunno what to say about this mother earth thing lol
I can TOTALLY accept this. And agree completely.

I am still very much a work in progress. Sometimes I get very SNAPPY, sometimes I get carried away. Sometimes I can still be shady. And I have to work more on that. But I have never claimed to be perfect. I am not "Mother Earth" who walks around here trying to be perfect. :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: Do I avoid conflict more often? Yes. Am I quite ashamed of mess I've done in the past? Absolutely. Am I striving to be my definition of better? YES.

This is why I love you Lew. You always swoop through with an unbiased, balanced and realistic perspective.

thankies

but i applaud the efforts tho cause at the end of the day it does no body good
being messy all the time



Lewie D Im Caramel Bitches Ion Wanna hear Im Actin
Different

Herb.

November 30, 2015, 11:08:01 PM #79 Last Edit: November 30, 2015, 11:08:24 PM by Herbie
Quote from: TheNextLew on November 30, 2015, 11:05:44 PM
Quote from: Herbie on November 30, 2015, 10:53:24 PM
Quote from: TheNextLew on November 30, 2015, 10:49:33 PM
well lol in my opinion i always taken afro at face value
ive always believed  he was an opportunist with two sides of his face always
and the play two hands in the middle type and although some of that has changed i still see glimpses here and there
and im all for change cause ive gon thru a lil bit of change online and off but yeah i dunno what to say about this mother earth thing lol
I can TOTALLY accept this. And agree completely.

I am still very much a work in progress. Sometimes I get very SNAPPY, sometimes I get carried away. Sometimes I can still be shady. And I have to work more on that. But I have never claimed to be perfect. I am not "Mother Earth" who walks around here trying to be perfect. :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: Do I avoid conflict more often? Yes. Am I quite ashamed of mess I've done in the past? Absolutely. Am I striving to be my definition of better? YES.

This is why I love you Lew. You always swoop through with an unbiased, balanced and realistic perspective.

thankies

but i applaud the efforts tho cause at the end of the day it does no body good
being messy all the time
I fucking LOVE you. Ugh.

You get it Lew. This is why I ride for you , even though you yank at my fucking wig.

You're so real. And fucking unfiltered. And not trying to impress people on here. Gorls could really learn from you, including myself. :stressed:

Just Dropped In To See What Condition My Condition Was In

Okay, I have to say something:

As someone who has known Afro on and off message boards for well over 10 years now, (I was one of the few people who helped Afro start BH (Brandy's Horizons) along with Michelle and Corey (he's not on here but I still talk to his goofy self on FB) he is a genuinely nice person. We've had our own mess way back but we've actually talked on the phone many times outside of this board. Like we actually know things about one another personally that people on this board don't even know and probably wouldn't even care to know (that's from knowing some of the weird characters on this bitch anyway) we've talked about a number of things. Plus, we share something that most of you probably already know and that's our love for Toni Braxton that's where we originally bonded. But I see the growth within you and I guess it's because I hardly come on and post and so forth and my age as well. But you've grown a lot Afro and I see it bby. Don't worry about what others say just keep doing you.. Because most of you wasn't around when Afro used to REALLY MESS. That's all. Trust me. I know that Malcolm for one, wouldn't last a second around 2005 Afro. That's all. *drops mic* 
I am scarred, so fucking scarred
These are the scars of me
The very fucking scars of me
This is my tragic heart
My tragic heart

-Me "Tragic Heart"

Lane Bryant Jumpsuit

Quote from: Herbie on November 30, 2015, 11:08:01 PM
Quote from: TheNextLew on November 30, 2015, 11:05:44 PM
Quote from: Herbie on November 30, 2015, 10:53:24 PM
Quote from: TheNextLew on November 30, 2015, 10:49:33 PM
well lol in my opinion i always taken afro at face value
ive always believed  he was an opportunist with two sides of his face always
and the play two hands in the middle type and although some of that has changed i still see glimpses here and there
and im all for change cause ive gon thru a lil bit of change online and off but yeah i dunno what to say about this mother earth thing lol
I can TOTALLY accept this. And agree completely.

I am still very much a work in progress. Sometimes I get very SNAPPY, sometimes I get carried away. Sometimes I can still be shady. And I have to work more on that. But I have never claimed to be perfect. I am not "Mother Earth" who walks around here trying to be perfect. :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: Do I avoid conflict more often? Yes. Am I quite ashamed of mess I've done in the past? Absolutely. Am I striving to be my definition of better? YES.

This is why I love you Lew. You always swoop through with an unbiased, balanced and realistic perspective.

thankies

but i applaud the efforts tho cause at the end of the day it does no body good
being messy all the time
I fucking LOVE you. Ugh.

You get it Lew. This is why I ride for you , even though you yank at my fucking wig.

You're so real. And fucking unfiltered. And not trying to impress people on here. Gorls could really learn from you, including myself. :stressed:

I agree :wub: i mean i know ppul be like well u are too honest and upfront or whatevs but
to hold it back imo means that there is a bit of shame there and on this road of life everything  helps shape us and everything happens for a reason and is a learning experience
i belive the devil hides in the lies we tell and the secrets that we keep

and im not about to be held hostage #letitgo  :caramelapple:





Lewie D Im Caramel Bitches Ion Wanna hear Im Actin
Different

Just Dropped In To See What Condition My Condition Was In

At the end of the day, everyone is experiencing growth in some way, shape, or form. You have to respect a person for that and if you don't, then the problem must be with YOU. Think about it. It's not shade or anything like that. This is just wise words that a 34 year old man is trying to pass on to people. Because I can tell from what I'm seeing in this thread some people need to read this. Read it, remember it, embrace it. It'll make YOU a better YOU.
I am scarred, so fucking scarred
These are the scars of me
The very fucking scars of me
This is my tragic heart
My tragic heart

-Me "Tragic Heart"



Cocoa

this is yummy btw

just borrowing this account from a friend

what's up


Just Dropped In To See What Condition My Condition Was In

I am scarred, so fucking scarred
These are the scars of me
The very fucking scars of me
This is my tragic heart
My tragic heart

-Me "Tragic Heart"

Herb.

Quote from: Jay. on November 30, 2015, 11:13:35 PM
Okay, I have to say something:

As someone who has known Afro on and off message boards for well over 10 years now, (I was one of the few people who helped Afro start BH (Brandy's Horizons) along with Michelle and Corey (he's not on here but I still talk to his goofy self on FB) he is a genuinely nice person. We've had our own mess way back but we've actually talked on the phone many times outside of this board. Like we actually know things about one another personally that people on this board don't even know and probably wouldn't even care to know (that's from knowing some of the weird characters on this bitch anyway) we've talked about a number of things. Plus, we share something that most of you probably already know and that's our love for Toni Braxton that's where we originally bonded. But I see the growth within you and I guess it's because I hardly come on and post and so forth and my age as well. But you've grown a lot Afro and I see it bby. Don't worry about what others say just keep doing you.. Because most of you wasn't around when Afro used to REALLY MESS. That's all. Trust me. I know that Malcolm for one, wouldn't last a second around 2005 Afro. That's all. *drops mic*
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jay :plzstop:

Thank you. :wub:

And you brought up a good point....this has all been a very gradual process....From BH (me being a completely wild off the wall, who want war, don't give a fuck kinda gorl)....to BSource (being a shady, long as u dn't fuck with me, we good ...but if u do, i'll rip u apart....type of gorl...) to now...just being one who just doesn't wanna be in MESS all the time, or as little as possible. And may even turn the cheek once or twice, or even three times.

I think it's totally related to slowly but gradually growing up. And I'm happy.

Herb.


Cocoa