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[Bentley!]

She shouldn't have been brought up

wow yea. now that you mention it 

well she was... and I did it

[Bentley!]

ssssssss

but... a Stacy Francis duet

lemme find this.

[Vonc2002]

ssssssss

but... a Stacy Francis duet

lemme find this.

I was DISGUSTED

[Zankou.]

ssssssss

but... a Stacy Francis duet

lemme find this.

I was DISGUSTED

you've heard it?

[Miranda]

ssssssss

but... a Stacy Francis duet

lemme find this.

On her 2008 album "My Soulful Side".

I wanted to find it and then do a snippet mess on insta, but I just didn't have the energy.

[AIDS!]

Sorry to sound 'negative'
But I don't buy it
You'll always come off combative, slimey and condescending to me.

[Miranda]

Sorry to sound 'negative'
But I don't buy it
You'll always come off combative, slimey and condescending to me.

That's ok. I acknowledge that with this post. You have every right to feel the way you feel, it's just. I admitted that I did act combatively and condescending. However could you stop perpetuating the tension by removing your avi. I would appreciate that.

[∧ ∨ ∩ ∪]

Sorry to sound 'negative'
But I don't buy it
You'll always come off combative, slimey and condescending to me.

Yeah which is why he should just laugh and move on but I think the issue is, he doesn't know how to properly lash the girls and once things get going they post that footage of him and it's kinda an automatic defeat.

A "Finish Ha" of sorts.

[Lazarus]

Don't get me wrong, I like you or whatever and I'll call you out where I see fit because you definitely do way too much but yall take this shit way too seriously. Just laugh and move on.

!!!!

[Bentley!]

I agree with the lighthearted comment. I hate when some gorls "insert" themselves into a beef just to be noticed

like... you've stated your opinion
.. move along like you "suggested" Mack do

it's really not that serious to keep repeating ... either move on or just go do something productive with your day, messy ass 

[Miranda]

Margo stop making this an argument!

I simply own up to my part. That's it. And in my post I extensively explained how in fact resorting to blind rage and wild group ridiculing ends my enjoyment. I like to stay in the realm of arguing, and the members know that so instead of giving me the debate they will just pull out their collages and start a group kii session. It's their way of disarming me. And while I do not find it okay, I can definitely see where the urge comes from.

It's important to own your shortcomings.

[Bentley!]

Mack .... BOOK for the writing credits tho! I remember when you wrote that cute tune to a track from Garlic's instrumental alberm

am mean.... can you write me some rNb/alternative mess?
lemme know bby

[Phantom]

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[Nine]

Hey everybody,

first of all, I want to make it perfectly clear, I have never reported the board and I did not get it shut down. Had I done so, my egocentric self would have claimed it a long time ago. Probably I also would have archived some of the best screenshots or something... I was just as surprised as anybody else when I typed in brandysource.net... and nothing popped up. 

Having cleared that up, there are a few things I need to address. Before I get into those it is important to share that before anything else I am a massive Brandy fan, have been so for many years, ever since my childhood. I know everything there is to know about her, I sat down for months creating, and editing dozens of her Wikipedia entries in several different languages. I have all her CD's and on a daily basis I look for any news regarding Brandy.

For example I just recently discovered she had a duet with Stacy Francis. Now I am trying my best to buy this CD, just to get this record.



I simply love everything about this woman and I want to stay in touch with whatever she does and stay updated, I also love interacting with other people who know her just as well and also enjoy her music, it is a great exchange, however exactly this exchange gets very difficult and draining, and regarding this circumstance, I want to personally acknowledge some of the sentiments among you:

YES I do get under people's skin, I am annoying and persistent as FUCK, I make a point and I never let go, I can argue about literally anything from whether it is ethically justifiable to live in and perpetuate the exploitation of billions of human beings via the Western World to whether Inoj has had a bigger impact on hip hop music than Truth Hurts. I really enjoy discussing stuff and arguing. Language and linguistic exchange has always been my pet peeve. I love using it and applying it in different situations and in a combative fashion especially, as it pushes the individuals to their limits language-wise.

I have on various occasions, disregarding several user's feelings, turned into a condescending, patronizing, disparaging asshole trying to spark the debate to an extreme, sometimes taking stances just to see whether I can argue them through, without considering how somebody else feels being constantly nagged and pushed. That is a very disruptive and asocial quality and I can perfectly see why it can turn lots of people off. I constantly create havoc and conflict, I antagonize all the time, without considering the bridges that are burned or the feelings that get hurt and the stress that is caused.

I want those whom I've argued with the most to understand, that it takes a certain level of acknowledgement and respect for me to even indulge in this type of back and forth with you. Knowing Jayden is so interested and informed about various things concerning the continent of Africa, qualifies him for some extra debates as I share that interest. Knowing you all understand and love R&B, makes a debate about R. Kelly a given. When Bre and Yumz discuss their feelings towards the LGBT community, I like to argue with them, seeing whether I can broaden my horizon. I just have a way on PUSHING my discussion on to something and overshadowing anything else, and that is disrespectful as hell to a plethora of members who don't want every thread they go to turn into a "Let's prove Malcolm wrong" show.

I rhetorically am very pushy, and very persistent and also I STING and I POKE wherever I can, I try to hit where it hurts (in the confines of the debate usually), and then I would expect the same form of retaliation. But many people have understood that this type of retaliation is exactly what I want and therefore have developed a pattern of throwing argumentative attacks out the window and move on to spreading video material, digitally altered gifs and pictures, including remarks and videos of my immediate family, screenshots of previous statements or perpetuating lies to defame my character. Basically aiming to completely destroy and devalue my entire persona. It literally always derails to blind rage and a feasting festival where everybody takes turns at getting a lick in when I start or spearhead a debate, and I understand now that it is a defense mechanism against my constant form of terrorism towards this board.

Initially I just could not follow how one can't just stick to arguing something out without making it some senseless hate rage. But I now have to realize, that the hate/antipathy comes from genuine annoyance over the years and is indeed some form of helplessness in trying to get my self-absorbed self to shut the fuck up. "Like get the fuck over yourself, you are not all that!"

I have a difficult time showing kindness and appreciation and I do tend to make every- and anything competitive or about myself or both. I am overly ambitious and I sometimes tend to get show-offy and that rightfully so can rub many people the wrong way.

So, while I still don't actually condone these actions or find them okay, I can officially sit here and say that I can understand where this frustration comes from and had it coming in one way or another, I take ownership in what I have done and what I still did until just recently and maybe will continue to do.

I still love this board and I will duke it out with my sis iman once those Buffet numbers come in, but I want to try my best to not be systematically disruptive anymore and let you guys have your fun. I have to understand that other people's opinions and feelings do matter and I have to understand that it is okay to be liked and not to always try and beat and out-run, out-wit etc the next person. It is a very ugly trait, online or offline.


XoXo,

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[Miranda]

Mack .... BOOK for the writing credits tho! I remember when you wrote that cute tune to a track from Garlic's instrumental alberm

am mean.... can you write me some rNb/alternative mess?
lemme know bby

Gar shat for the beat!

Anything you need, you can ask my email in the PM's...
Feel free to send me some beats, sis. Can't wait for you to hear my artist's debut album. He's coming guys.