I mean ... tbh ... Phaedra told a friend something in confidence, for whatever her reasons, she was letting Porsha know
Kandi, of course, kept getting into it with Porsha and it all spilled out on national tv
every rumor is harmless until it goes public

I'm not saying Phaedra wasn't wrong, I'm just saying maybe if Kandi never started fighting with Porsha, maybe we wouldn't know anything about a rumor ... maybe it's Kandi's fault
btw ... fck 'andi