Quote from: mylogistics on August 30, 2019, 12:14:46 AM
Quote from: Neo. on August 29, 2019, 11:55:50 PM
Quote from: mylogistics on August 29, 2019, 11:01:58 PM
It's baffling how so many of you are stuck on the fact that he's dating a human of a different shade. I swear, the African American gay community is the epitome of crabs in a barrel. Just because some of you are siloed on your path to finding a connection with real substance, does not give you the right to pull Ryan down to your level because of HIS choice. Let this black king live in bliss with whoever his heart aligns with in this fickle world.
n
Boy...not when there are multitude of options for him to date his own you won't. But sheeet...have at it then. As for me and mine.....we keep within HOME.
There are a multitude of options for him to date among the human race. Why should he limit himself to one specific racial group? Just because his shade resembles that of others does not mean there's correlation to comparability. You should definitely break down your walls (figuratively) and enjoy some cross functional relationships to increase the probability of finding a man/woman of substance. Loving free and unbounded to societal differentiations is such an amazing feeling.
This situation screams circumstantial
Like i said earlier whatever is needed for ur growth and others is whats best
But being with ur own kind is the most fufilling and rewarding experience of understanding and partnership and a reflection of self love
I find it hard to belive he simply fell in love with a white guy
Some level of self rejection had to occur for it to be an option
If his connection with him helps him come to terms with that self rejection
And evolves him than if this man is not his true destiny they will part ways because he learned is lesson and had a catalyst for his growth
If the white man really is part of his destiny then they will be life long partners
If not hes just preparing ryan for his next phase or true soulmate
So because the white community is alot more liberal and doesnt have as many hiccups with left fieldism
Alot of blacks benefit from evolving with them (to come back to themselves)
We can be with anyone and love anyone we choose
But its no coincidence that guys with a hidden past or secret bust out with a white person and often this creates a coreleation between whites and freedom but many dont see its just a catalyst to self love and appreciation which os proudly standing in ur black skin and loving THOSE like urself
