so question for the "non-binary" zorls
what does it mean to "feel" or "not feel" like a man or a woman? i never seen that explained. it seems moreso like these individuals don't want to adhere to the societal expectations of being a man or a woman. to me, it's like if you don't want to adhere, just DON'T. but when they say "oh im not a man or a woman because i don't identify with those", seem like they're really just saying they don't agree with the societal expectations that those genders hold. and by denouncing your natural born gender based solely on what society expects of that gender, you are buying directly into gender policing and this notion of "men should be this, women should wear that". instead of just saying i'm a man but i reject gender policing and stereo types and i'm going to define what it means to be a man on my own terms. niggas just wanna be "different". but u can call yourself him, her, they, them, thine, thou, it, thing, etc. u still a NIGGA.
