I saw this old lady from Suriname on the news the other day and it was heartbreaking to hear when slavery ended they just had to be grateful. You couldn't talk about how wrong it was, it was better to leave it in the past. Now I know the generation who went through the Second World War felt the same way, just never talk about the pain again because it is in the past. But at least a lot of the survivors hated nazis and even Germans with passion. There was no 'let's be grateful they are gone' attitude. That just sounds like Stockholm syndrome.