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[Herb.]

I've noticed that lately I've been caring less and less of who likes me and who doesn't.

Kinda like, I'll say what I say, I'll do what I do, and if you don't like it, that's an issue you'll have to deal with on your time.

Long as I know I'm not doing or saying anything to hurt anyone, it's like why care who approves and who doesn't?

Am I the only one who feels that way?

[FINE.]

No.



I've been like that for a while tho.

[Vonc2002]

No LOLZ

[Ｂｏｏｍｚ]

Not since I was in high school

[Herb.]

No.



I've been like that for a while tho.

I had a feeling that I'd get a few responses like this.

Like...gorl u late!

I mean it's natural for us to want acceptance, as humans it is crucial to our well being that we feel some sort of sense of community and friendship.

But I think that need can easily turn into becoming a people pleaser when its in higher doses. I feel I've been that for a long time.

It feels good to really not care. Like genuinely.

[MosDef]

Not really...BUT I'd be concerned if no one liked me.
I try to remain my cognizant of how I come off to people, so I try not to get too comfortable in my "I don't give a fuck, this is me" attitude.

[COD.]

That's always been a huge flaw of mine. I have severe social anxiety and always have the feeling that someone is judging me. Like I can walk in a room and be a nervous WRECK because I think everyone is looking at me and judging. So naturally I often crave the acceptance of others.

I hate it.....but it's something I have to work on.

[SUPREME]

Only people I care about

[Lane Bryant Jumpsuit]

well ppul usually stop liking me once they discover that even if im cool with you im not going to cosign if you're in the wrong
when i stand up for whats right i dont care who is standing next to me  some ppul think its noble trait others think its a form of 2 faceness
but i will never compromise my values for friendship or alliances or whatev

but other than that i kinda dont care
i think its just a natural progression of getting older tho

[Ｂｏｏｍｚ]

Not really...BUT I'd be concerned if no one liked me.
I try to remain my cognizant of how I come off to people, so I try not to get too comfortable in my "I don't give a fuck, this is me" attitude.

Definitely. Especially in the workplace.

I've been approached by my boss before "Kevin, you need to try to be more personable."

I guess...

[yummy]

I care about what co-workers or anyone who could possibly help me advance my career think of me.

Other than that...no.

[Herb.]

Not really...BUT I'd be concerned if no one liked me.
I try to remain my cognizant of how I come off to people, so I try not to get too comfortable in my "I don't give a fuck, this is me" attitude.

Great answer. As I said in my previous post to QUEtie, I think to some degree we all care about it. We're human, we NEED acceptance. We need love, we need friendship, cannot survive with it. And that's scientifically proven.

And it is DEFINITELY important to be careful about the way you come off to others. I'm especially careful when I am @ work. Speaking with peers, superiors, etc. Being liked sometimes is the difference between keeping a job and losing it. that's real.

[King]

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oh unbothered! didn't even notice!

yall are full of shit

[Herb.]

I care about what co-workers or anyone who could possibly help me advance my career think of me.

Other than that...no.

I think that's where I'm @ tbh.

If you can't help me pay a bill, why am I worried what you don't like about me? Bye! lol. And stop talking to me

[FINE.]

No.



I've been like that for a while tho.

I had a feeling that I'd get a few responses like this.

Like...gorl u late!

I mean it's natural for us to want acceptance, as humans it is crucial to our well being that we feel some sort of sense of community and friendship.

But I think that need can easily turn into becoming a people pleaser when its in higher doses. I feel I've been that for a long time.

It feels good to really not care. Like genuinely.

it depends on who the people are. When I was growing up I couldn't careless about no joe smoe accepting me or liking me. And now that I'm an adult it's really like I don't have time
Other ppl aren't the same. I've witnessed people looking for attention from strangers. Bragging to strangers etc.

But ur right. Everyone wants to be accepted and liked. Some more than others.