Quote from: LiiVE on December 23, 2015, 04:12:40 AM
Quote from: Herbie on December 22, 2015, 10:41:16 PM
I've finally found the last piece of my ancestral puzzle. 
I'll begin with this picture. This is my great great great Grandmother, on my mother's side.
She was of French and Black descent, and was a DeBerry (a Northern French name -- my mother's maiden name.)
Looking at this, you can clearly tell she was not enslaved. And possibly had some wealth, even. I later learned the term for what she was, which is a free person of color.
"Free people of color" was a term most used in FRENCH colonies.

I decided to look up the details of the free people of color:
When I looked it up @ https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Free_people_of_color
I kept seeing one word keep popping up: Haiti. The French actually had colonies in Haiti where a lot of these free people of color existed.
I was like whoa
Because I remembered these words...
Taron told me months ago:
Quoteyour features remind me of this Hatian girl from NYC that I went to school with. She had the prettiest chocolatey skin with this LONG beautiful wavy hair and her brother was so sexy
Monk told me months ago:
QuoteI rlly thought Afro was Haitian
idk why
had some Haitian coworkers in NYC
and they all have this similar look
u look distinctly Haitian
Now i'm not gonna lie, when they told me this mess I was originally looking like ... Haitian?
gor... sdnnsdndssd

I would have NEVER thought to look there for anything, because my family is not "Caribbean".
When I say my mouth DROPPED. I totally forgot how closely Haitian and French relations were!
She was basically Creole.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Creole_peoples
My mother's DNA is strong as fuck. 
omgwow its amazing how strong genes can be. I was amazed how much you look like your great grandmother. I wish I had your patience & dedication to sit down and really see where my family is from

I think what fueled my curiosity is other people honestly. People like you and Monk who assume my roots are somewhere besides America. Monk was so SURE.

A lot of people are like that, they swear up and down that me and my sisters are from the West Indies or something.
But as you can see through my intensive research, my grandmother knew very little about a lot of her heritage. So we were raised as black Americans.
So you can imagine my confusion when people are asking me if I'm Haitian, or Jamaican, or West Indian. It's like where the FUCK are u getting that from?

I'm not Caribbean
It got especially bad when I started growing my hair out. Which is something I've never done before.
That's what fueled me. I didn't want to stop until I had a solid answer. I'm satisfied now!!!!!!!!