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[Lane Bryant Jumpsuit]

Yes you need to have sex to know if you want a long term commitment with someone
sex is not only a physical act but a shared energy knowing how that energy flows is crucial to moving forward

I have a friend that's been in a relationship with someone for over a year and they still haven't had full on intercourse

Now for the life of me.. I don't understand 
But yeah I definitely think once ur in a relationship it is unhealthy to not be having sex

But I don't think it's necessarily a must before commitment


Sex makes shit complicated.. especially if u don't have a end goal in mind

LOL well I have been in a 4 year long distance relationship and its just as real as anything but
for the most part we would just be close friends without being intimate
extended time without it changes the dynamic to more platonic as i mentioned
so its possible but it will shift the dynamics

the sex will?

Ur in a relationship outside of ur marriage?

yes a close relationship without sex becomes a platonic connection


Yes and NO
When I explained the connection to my husband He accepted it and isnt insecure about it
but that maybe because He isnt physically here
but for the most part they are friends as well because me and him are so close
we say i love you s and flirt as well and hubby knows about it and is a secure King about it

[GLOCK]

It honestly depends
I did feel that way until I've encountered someone that made me feel differently
Just being around them and sharing each other's time.. talking and just understanding each other.. the vibe felt strong enough that it didn't matter whether or not the sex was good .. and that it was worth committing to and then figuring each other out sexually

Aw that's beautiful.
I reckon it didn't work out in the end though?

oh the end hasn't happened.. I was just saying even before having the conversation I feel the connection is strong enough to wait until we decide to or not to commit.
It's so much bigger than sex.. having energies that truly intertwine
It becomes spiritual. I wouldn't never want sex to interrupt that without us saying "boom we doing this 100% all in".

[Lane Bryant Jumpsuit]

Would've been an amazing thread, but I ain't scrolling past lews insane mind boggling bs in here

you can leave dyke

[𝖘𝖖𝖚𝖎𝖉]

It honestly depends
I did feel that way until I've encountered someone that made me feel differently
Just being around them and sharing each other's time.. talking and just understanding each other.. the vibe felt strong enough that it didn't matter whether or not the sex was good .. and that it was worth committing to and then figuring each other out sexually

Aw that's beautiful.
I reckon it didn't work out in the end though?

oh the end hasn't happened.. I was just saying even before having the conversation I feel the connection is strong enough to wait until we decide to or not to commit.
It's so much bigger than sex.. having energies that truly intertwine
It becomes spiritual. I wouldn't never want sex to interrupt that without us saying "boom we doing this 100% all in".

Ack

[GLOCK]

Yes you need to have sex to know if you want a long term commitment with someone
sex is not only a physical act but a shared energy knowing how that energy flows is crucial to moving forward

I have a friend that's been in a relationship with someone for over a year and they still haven't had full on intercourse

Now for the life of me.. I don't understand 
But yeah I definitely think once ur in a relationship it is unhealthy to not be having sex

But I don't think it's necessarily a must before commitment


Sex makes shit complicated.. especially if u don't have a end goal in mind

LOL well I have been in a 4 year long distance relationship and its just as real as anything but
for the most part we would just be close friends without being intimate
extended time without it changes the dynamic to more platonic as i mentioned
so its possible but it will shift the dynamics

the sex will?

Ur in a relationship outside of ur marriage?

yes a close relationship without sex becomes a platonic connection


Yes and NO
When I explained the connection to my husband He accepted it and isnt insecure about it
but that maybe because He isnt physically here
but for the most part they are friends as well because me and him are so close
we say i love you s and flirt as well and hubby knows about it and is a secure King about it

Well I can't really judge...
I have my idea of marriage and it being very sacred but if it works for u guys then that is beautiful..
you have someone that understands who u were before them and they love u through that

That's a huge level of security
You guys pretty much have an open marriage

I'm way too possessive for that bby 🥴

[GLOCK]

Would've been an amazing thread, but I ain't scrolling past lews insane mind boggling bs in here

ffff I'm hearing him out a bit
Lew thinks differently than a lot of us but when it comes to love and some mess.. it's a bit more fathomable

dddddd

He's just sharing his truth in here

[Lane Bryant Jumpsuit]

Yes you need to have sex to know if you want a long term commitment with someone
sex is not only a physical act but a shared energy knowing how that energy flows is crucial to moving forward

I have a friend that's been in a relationship with someone for over a year and they still haven't had full on intercourse

Now for the life of me.. I don't understand 
But yeah I definitely think once ur in a relationship it is unhealthy to not be having sex

But I don't think it's necessarily a must before commitment


Sex makes shit complicated.. especially if u don't have a end goal in mind

LOL well I have been in a 4 year long distance relationship and its just as real as anything but
for the most part we would just be close friends without being intimate
extended time without it changes the dynamic to more platonic as i mentioned
so its possible but it will shift the dynamics

the sex will?

Ur in a relationship outside of ur marriage?

yes a close relationship without sex becomes a platonic connection


Yes and NO
When I explained the connection to my husband He accepted it and isnt insecure about it
but that maybe because He isnt physically here
but for the most part they are friends as well because me and him are so close
we say i love you s and flirt as well and hubby knows about it and is a secure King about it

Well I can't really judge...
I have my idea of marriage and it being very sacred but if it works for u guys then that is beautiful..
you have someone that understands who u were before them and they love u through that

That's a huge level of security
You guys pretty much have an open marriage

I'm way too possessive for that bby 🥴

lol It is not open lol 
But after my awakening Ive realized its only fear that tells us a piece of paper binds you to someone
or that someone owns you or that you cant love anyone else
and the idea that if you share something with another you are cheating the you only belong to me system

its not congruent with the human experience
this is where monique was right in that having an open marriage really means the trust and honesty is there with one another to have a safe enough space to share your emotions and feelings and express them

the paradox is usually this brings a couple closer

[Dr Naomi Campbell]

Would've been an amazing thread, but I ain't scrolling past lews insane mind boggling bs in here

ffff I'm hearing him out a bit
Lew thinks differently than a lot of us but when it comes to love and some mess.. it's a bit more fathomable

dddddd

He's just sharing his truth in here

good luck with that
I got some paracetamol for you after

[Lane Bryant Jumpsuit]

Would've been an amazing thread, but I ain't scrolling past lews insane mind boggling bs in here

ffff I'm hearing him out a bit
Lew thinks differently than a lot of us but when it comes to love and some mess.. it's a bit more fathomable

dddddd

He's just sharing his truth in here

thanks glock

Ive definetly learned alot in this department 

[GLOCK]

Yes you need to have sex to know if you want a long term commitment with someone
sex is not only a physical act but a shared energy knowing how that energy flows is crucial to moving forward

I have a friend that's been in a relationship with someone for over a year and they still haven't had full on intercourse

Now for the life of me.. I don't understand 
But yeah I definitely think once ur in a relationship it is unhealthy to not be having sex

But I don't think it's necessarily a must before commitment


Sex makes shit complicated.. especially if u don't have a end goal in mind

LOL well I have been in a 4 year long distance relationship and its just as real as anything but
for the most part we would just be close friends without being intimate
extended time without it changes the dynamic to more platonic as i mentioned
so its possible but it will shift the dynamics

the sex will?

Ur in a relationship outside of ur marriage?

yes a close relationship without sex becomes a platonic connection


Yes and NO
When I explained the connection to my husband He accepted it and isnt insecure about it
but that maybe because He isnt physically here
but for the most part they are friends as well because me and him are so close
we say i love you s and flirt as well and hubby knows about it and is a secure King about it

Well I can't really judge...
I have my idea of marriage and it being very sacred but if it works for u guys then that is beautiful..
you have someone that understands who u were before them and they love u through that

That's a huge level of security
You guys pretty much have an open marriage

I'm way too possessive for that bby 🥴

lol It is not open lol 
But after my awakening Ive realized its only fear that tells us a piece of paper binds you to someone
or that someone owns you or that you cant love anyone else
and the idea that if you share something with another you are cheating the you only belong to me system

its not congruent with the human experience
this is where monique was right in that having an open marriage really means the trust and honesty is there with one another to have a safe enough space to share your emotions and feelings and express them

the paradox is usually this brings a couple closer

but bby how is it not when ur carrying on still with a 4 year relationship mess that was started before ur marriage? 

Well considering that u agree with Mon, how is ur situation any different when it's literally that?
Even though it's not physical .. you are spiritually, mentally and emotionally invested in this other guy..
it's an open marriage bby
And that's ok 

Cuz u have someone that loves u through it
How would u feel if ur hubby stepped owt a bit tho?

[GLOCK]

Would've been an amazing thread, but I ain't scrolling past lews insane mind boggling bs in here

ffff I'm hearing him out a bit
Lew thinks differently than a lot of us but when it comes to love and some mess.. it's a bit more fathomable

dddddd

He's just sharing his truth in here

thanks glock

Ive definetly learned alot in this department 

dddd I can tell
You seem genuinely happy

Still a mess but happy and evolved a tad 

[Lane Bryant Jumpsuit]

Yes you need to have sex to know if you want a long term commitment with someone
sex is not only a physical act but a shared energy knowing how that energy flows is crucial to moving forward

I have a friend that's been in a relationship with someone for over a year and they still haven't had full on intercourse

Now for the life of me.. I don't understand 
But yeah I definitely think once ur in a relationship it is unhealthy to not be having sex

But I don't think it's necessarily a must before commitment


Sex makes shit complicated.. especially if u don't have a end goal in mind

LOL well I have been in a 4 year long distance relationship and its just as real as anything but
for the most part we would just be close friends without being intimate
extended time without it changes the dynamic to more platonic as i mentioned
so its possible but it will shift the dynamics

the sex will?

Ur in a relationship outside of ur marriage?

yes a close relationship without sex becomes a platonic connection


Yes and NO
When I explained the connection to my husband He accepted it and isnt insecure about it
but that maybe because He isnt physically here
but for the most part they are friends as well because me and him are so close
we say i love you s and flirt as well and hubby knows about it and is a secure King about it

Well I can't really judge...
I have my idea of marriage and it being very sacred but if it works for u guys then that is beautiful..
you have someone that understands who u were before them and they love u through that

That's a huge level of security
You guys pretty much have an open marriage

I'm way too possessive for that bby 🥴

lol It is not open lol 
But after my awakening Ive realized its only fear that tells us a piece of paper binds you to someone
or that someone owns you or that you cant love anyone else
and the idea that if you share something with another you are cheating the you only belong to me system

its not congruent with the human experience
this is where monique was right in that having an open marriage really means the trust and honesty is there with one another to have a safe enough space to share your emotions and feelings and express them

the paradox is usually this brings a couple closer

but bby how is it not when ur carrying on still with a 4 year relationship mess that was started before ur marriage? 

Well considering that u agree with Mon, how is ur situation any different when it's literally that?
Even though it's not physical .. you are spiritually, mentally and emotionally invested in this other guy..
it's an open marriage bby
And that's ok 

Cuz u have someone that loves u through it
How would u feel if ur hubby stepped owt a bit tho?

well yes my connection is everything but the physical connection
and i cant turn that off because I love someone else and i shouldnt have to lol
it would be weird to tell him oop gotta drop u now 

my husband betta not step oWT nuthib unless we both agree on the mess and the person


ion play that sneaky shit

but yes technically it would be open but not really i see it as alike a baby mma situation lol
if it wasnt open id be having an emotional affair i guess

[GLOCK]

Yes you need to have sex to know if you want a long term commitment with someone
sex is not only a physical act but a shared energy knowing how that energy flows is crucial to moving forward

I have a friend that's been in a relationship with someone for over a year and they still haven't had full on intercourse

Now for the life of me.. I don't understand 
But yeah I definitely think once ur in a relationship it is unhealthy to not be having sex

But I don't think it's necessarily a must before commitment


Sex makes shit complicated.. especially if u don't have a end goal in mind

LOL well I have been in a 4 year long distance relationship and its just as real as anything but
for the most part we would just be close friends without being intimate
extended time without it changes the dynamic to more platonic as i mentioned
so its possible but it will shift the dynamics

the sex will?

Ur in a relationship outside of ur marriage?

yes a close relationship without sex becomes a platonic connection


Yes and NO
When I explained the connection to my husband He accepted it and isnt insecure about it
but that maybe because He isnt physically here
but for the most part they are friends as well because me and him are so close
we say i love you s and flirt as well and hubby knows about it and is a secure King about it

Well I can't really judge...
I have my idea of marriage and it being very sacred but if it works for u guys then that is beautiful..
you have someone that understands who u were before them and they love u through that

That's a huge level of security
You guys pretty much have an open marriage

I'm way too possessive for that bby 🥴

lol It is not open lol 
But after my awakening Ive realized its only fear that tells us a piece of paper binds you to someone
or that someone owns you or that you cant love anyone else
and the idea that if you share something with another you are cheating the you only belong to me system

its not congruent with the human experience
this is where monique was right in that having an open marriage really means the trust and honesty is there with one another to have a safe enough space to share your emotions and feelings and express them

the paradox is usually this brings a couple closer

but bby how is it not when ur carrying on still with a 4 year relationship mess that was started before ur marriage? 

Well considering that u agree with Mon, how is ur situation any different when it's literally that?
Even though it's not physical .. you are spiritually, mentally and emotionally invested in this other guy..
it's an open marriage bby
And that's ok 

Cuz u have someone that loves u through it
How would u feel if ur hubby stepped owt a bit tho?

well yes my connection is everything but the physical connection
and i cant turn that off because I love someone else and i shouldnt have to lol
it would be weird to tell him oop gotta drop u now 

my husband betta not step oWT nuthib unless we both agree on the mess and the person


ion play that sneaky shit

but yes technically it would be open but not really i see it as alike a baby mma situation lol
if it wasnt open id be having an emotional affair i guess

lew this isn't fair 

U get to continue this relationship with this other nigga and expect ur husband to allow u both to mess with someone if he decides he wants to step owt
What if the other party didn't want u luv?



Jdjsjdj
This is kinda ghetto 

Like what
How dare u carry owt this one sided mess

Ur being greedy

[🦚]

Sex is just sex. Im not saying be a hoe, but I don't get the saving myself for marriage / the Right one mess.

It's 2020. 

[GLOCK]

Sle u ever been in a relationship bby?