Quote from: Lee on May 20, 2020, 02:56:37 PM
Quote from: BRockaBaby on May 20, 2020, 02:49:21 PM
Quote from: Lee on May 20, 2020, 02:47:24 PM
Quote from: BRockaBaby on May 20, 2020, 02:45:40 PM
Quote from: Lee on May 20, 2020, 01:07:10 PM
Quote from: BRockaBaby on May 20, 2020, 11:37:29 AM
Y'all can't tell people how to be a fan. Like this place is obviously too FOS for him so he had to realize that the hard way. But it's no ones place to tell someone how to be a fan.
if his little side hobby is promoting his favorite artists in super Stan mode including making pages and request parties then that's his prerogative.
just like some of y'all choose to fake Stan.
he chooses to Stan hard.
Yea, but just because people choose not to participate doesn't make them the scum of the earth either 
He didn't do that....
I mean, he kinda stormed off and ranted about this place on his personal platform
But he didn't address any of you on this board in that way. Furthermore his response came after y'all antics. It's just unfortunate because his intentions were positive. It could've been an easy not interested let's keep this in the brandy section.

I'm not included in "y'all"
But I didn't see anyone maliciously attack him. I also can't tell people how to respond to some jokes either. I don't think anyone is at "fault," he just got lsensitive, which is his prerogative.
I've seen it done on this board before and it is a form of bullying. It may not be outright but it is without a doubt a form of bullying. People start with the bsource lingo and start quoting their girlfriends with a bunch of kii-like commentary alienating the person because they're not privy to the rapport that some of you have. Which ultimately leaves them feeling like an outsider and ganged up on.
Many of us on here can take it. Some people can't and frankly don't want to because they come here assuming anything brandy related will be received with "love and light". The response was very "sis we don't do that anymore give it up don't be foolish" and while to some of us on here that's the case, that's not the case for everyone.
I've seen it done before and it's unfortunate. That's all. It's not gonna stop so as I said before and as I said to him, best to just never come back on here.