honesty hour: have you ever desired lighter skin?

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tigernathan

Quote from: Herbie on December 29, 2015, 04:08:31 PM
Quote from: Gilgamesh. on December 29, 2015, 03:15:15 PM
yes.
I'm gonna be honest and say I'm not surprised by this.
I've always noticed in your sig there's either a white person, or if they're black, they're light as a fluorescent light bulb. Small things like that speak volumes to me.

Which is why when you made a comment which implied that I permed my hair I was looking like :uhh: :uhh: :uhh: but I didn't say anything crazy to you.

And this is not me judging you, it's just saying that it makes sense. And I appreciate your honesty.

You're gorgeous just the way you are. I'm sure you remember years ago when I was about to ban you for being a newbie with too much lip :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: until I saw your pic :ohwow: you're more than good hun. :cheerup:

omf

Phantom

Quote from: Herbie on December 29, 2015, 04:08:31 PM
Quote from: Gilgamesh. on December 29, 2015, 03:15:15 PM
yes.
I'm gonna be honest and say I'm not surprised by this.
I've always noticed in your sig there's either a white person, or if they're black, they're light as a fluorescent light bulb. Small things like that speak volumes to me.

Which is why when you made a comment which implied that I permed my hair I was looking like :uhh: :uhh: :uhh: but I didn't say anything crazy to you.

And this is not me judging you, it's just saying that it makes sense. And I appreciate your honesty.

You're gorgeous just the way you are. I'm sure you remember years ago when I was about to ban you for being a newbie with too much lip :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: until I saw your pic :ohwow: you're more than good hun. :cheerup:


Uh oh

BAPHOMET.



Herb.

December 29, 2015, 04:14:26 PM #48 Last Edit: December 29, 2015, 04:15:23 PM by Herbie
What are the uh oh's for? :dead:

I'm not reading him or being rude.

He just admitted that he struggled with  colorism and I said that it makes sense.
I didn't take it upon myself to say he did, didn't jump to a conclusion. But the dots just connected themselves.



Herb.

Romero, it wasn't a shady post towards you. PLease don't take it that way.

The gorls clearly wanna see a Royal Rumble. :dead:


Gilgamesh.

I didn't take offense Afro. lol.

If itt was something I was insecure about I wouldn't even have shared it. :letsmessfag:


yummy

Quote from: Gilgamesh. on December 29, 2015, 04:08:11 PM
Quote from: ANIMMAI on December 29, 2015, 03:33:38 PM
Quote from: Gilgamesh. on December 29, 2015, 03:15:15 PM
yes.

why dvy and what changed your mind

Well my Mum is really light and so is my my brother so growing up I always felt some type of way about that. I went through a brief phase a couple years ago where I tried fade creams, but I got over it.


:raycharles2urmess:

I'm glad you got over that, my chocolate Trini adonis  :ohwow:

Herb.

Quote from: Gilgamesh. on December 29, 2015, 04:21:34 PM
I didn't take offense Afro. lol.

If itt was something I was insecure about I wouldn't even have shared it. :letsmessfag:
:wub: :wub: :wub: :wub: :wub: :wub: :wub: :wub:

Love you. It takes strength to realize there's a problem and that something is wrong.
Not only did you pinpoint it, you corrected it. That's not easy living in a light and white is right world.

And it's NEVER any of our faults when we go through mess like this.
EVER.


Gilgamesh.

! Especially in the Caribbean where colorism was a foundation of our society. Trinidad particularly because we have such a diverse cultural mix.

Herb.

Quote from: Gilgamesh. on December 29, 2015, 04:27:45 PM
! Especially in the Caribbean where colorism was a foundation of our society. Trinidad particularly because we have such a diverse cultural mix.
isn't GODyana Ali Trini?

omffff   :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop:

u guys are beautiful :ohwow: :ohwow: :ohwow: :ohwow: :ohwow:

caribbeans >>>>  :howfestive: :howfestive: :howfestive:

Herb.

Come to think of it, GODyana Ali spoke about her struggles within the community as well.
"Oh she's so dark! But she has good hair so its OK lolz"

I was wondering who she was talking about, I thought for sure it sounded like some mess a Jamaican would say
Black Americans don't talk exactly like that. now that you're saying this about Trinidad, it makes sense.
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Gilgamesh.

Quote from: Herbie on December 29, 2015, 04:31:08 PM
Quote from: Gilgamesh. on December 29, 2015, 04:27:45 PM
! Especially in the Caribbean where colorism was a foundation of our society. Trinidad particularly because we have such a diverse cultural mix.
isn't GODyana Ali Trini?

omffff   :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop:

u guys are beautiful :ohwow: :ohwow: :ohwow: :ohwow: :ohwow:

caribbeans >>>>  :howfestive: :howfestive: :howfestive:

Nia Long and Nicki are Trini too