Damn, Lizzo starting to second guess her body positivity?

Started by penny., December 12, 2020, 09:42:06 AM

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penny.

How long did she think it would last? Her fat era was pretty epic but she'll have real longevity if she loses 100lbs

Justaway_

Quote from: king of hearts on December 12, 2020, 09:53:12 AM
i've said this a million times in the past but,
i think the issue is that people take being "fat" as an entire identity

it's not who you are. it's not who you're "born to be".
it's just something that accumulates on ur body when u have  an excess of calories and not enough exercise.

it's something u can control, unless you have some sort of condition which prevents you from doing so (which is rare).
whenever you're ready, and are serious enough, you can change it.
period. it's pretty simple.

people have to stop making it such an "identity" topic and think logically - address it like the numbers game it is.

what she probably sees in the mirror is a need for her to change.
it's possible that she may be having the same moment mo'nique had when she decided to switch things up

all of that "woo! large and in charge! lovin it! dis who i iz! fuck u skinny bitches!" mess may be wearing off a bit and i can see her eventually buckling down and taking her health seriously.

vanity is the least of ur worries with this type of thing so i hope those around her who love her, encourage her to do what's best for her.

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Hatsumomo

Maybe if she didn't take her clothes off on film and subject us all to looking at it she wouldn't feel so bad now. You wanted the attention now you got it fattie now what? 

L0NZ.

!!!! the classy based fat girls don't get as much flack for being fat as the ones who wear thongs to show us how proud the are of being fat


JCJ

It's been clear that she's insecure for a while. She made her weight into a gimmick, parading around in thongs just because

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Dr Naomi Campbell

Quote from: Catherine Of Aragon on December 12, 2020, 01:00:20 PM
Maybe if she didn't take her clothes off on film and subject us all to looking at it she wouldn't feel so bad now. You wanted the attention now you got it fattie now what?

Nine

Most of the "body positive" girls are all full of shit.

oomph! big gorl don't care! love the skin you're in!

But trust, when they lose the weight they aren't singing the same tune at all.

Gilgamesh.

Quote from: Nine Fushiguro. on December 12, 2020, 01:21:08 PM
Most of the "body positive" girls are all full of shit.

oomph! big gorl don't care! love the skin you're in!

But trust, when they lose the weight they aren't singing the same tune at all.

ATLien

December 12, 2020, 01:30:09 PM #24 Last Edit: December 12, 2020, 01:30:45 PM by king of hearts
I think a lot of it is just defense mechanism

mo'nique admitted that when her husband finally told her "listen this shit is gettin outta hand. how much do u weigh?"

she was really upset about it.

but that's true love. Telling people stuff they may not wanna hear, even if they're parading around like everything is perfect and nothing bothers them.



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Quote from: king of hearts on December 12, 2020, 09:53:12 AM
i've said this a million times in the past but,
i think the issue is that people take being "fat" as an entire identity

it's not who you are. it's not who you're "born to be".
it's just something that accumulates on ur body when u have  an excess of calories and not enough exercise.

it's something u can control, unless you have some sort of condition which prevents you from doing so (which is rare).
whenever you're ready, and are serious enough, you can change it.
period. it's pretty simple.

people have to stop making it such an "identity" topic and think logically - address it like the numbers game it is.

what she probably sees in the mirror is a need for her to change.
it's possible that she may be having the same moment mo'nique had when she decided to switch things up

all of that "woo! large and in charge! lovin it! dis who i iz! fuck u skinny bitches!" mess may be wearing off a bit and i can see her eventually buckling down and taking her health seriously.

vanity is the least of ur worries with this type of thing so i hope those around her who love her, encourage her to do what's best for her.


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ATLien

Fanci Beast has now reached 400+ monthly listeners on Spotify since part 1 of their debut album dropped two weeks ago.

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"Watch The Clown" (ATL Mix)


Joyce Grace

Quote from: king of hearts on December 12, 2020, 09:53:12 AM
i've said this a million times in the past but,
i think the issue is that people take being "fat" as an entire identity

it's not who you are. it's not who you're "born to be".
it's just something that accumulates on ur body when u have  an excess of calories and not enough exercise.

it's something u can control, unless you have some sort of condition which prevents you from doing so (which is rare).
whenever you're ready, and are serious enough, you can change it.
period. it's pretty simple.

people have to stop making it such an "identity" topic and think logically - address it like the numbers game it is.

what she probably sees in the mirror is a need for her to change.
it's possible that she may be having the same moment mo'nique had when she decided to switch things up

all of that "woo! large and in charge! lovin it! dis who i iz! fuck u skinny bitches!" mess may be wearing off a bit and i can see her eventually buckling down and taking her health seriously.

vanity is the least of ur worries with this type of thing so i hope those around her who love her, encourage her to do what's best for her.