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Title: Tichina Arnold aka Pam Posts About The "Emasculation Of The Black Man"
Post by: Freemala Harris on April 13, 2022, 01:02:59 PM
https://www.instagram.com/p/CcS4qGnLDF8/

Well show us your true colors then Pam

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Title: Re: Tichina Arnold aka Pam Posts About The "Emasculation Of The Black Man"
Post by: Freemala Harris on April 13, 2022, 01:03:34 PM
The "emasculation" "gay agenda" hotep mess is so played out

Its 2022 guys but alas, we live in a world without sense
Title: Re: Tichina Arnold aka Pam Posts About The "Emasculation Of The Black Man"
Post by: Freemala Harris on April 13, 2022, 01:04:12 PM
https://twitter.com/TichinaArnold/status/1513158991907500041?s=20&t=TNtR_jcI9fJRuJ7X3V7w5A

mmmmmmm
Title: Re: Tichina Arnold aka Pam Posts About The "Emasculation Of The Black Man"
Post by: The Only BLACK Kalmyks on April 13, 2022, 01:04:22 PM
Pam... u in danger gor
Title: Re: Tichina Arnold aka Pam Posts About The "Emasculation Of The Black Man"
Post by: Freemala Harris on April 13, 2022, 01:05:29 PM
But lets cut to the damn chase

Pam is fed AHP w/ these fags/limp wrist zorls! 
Title: Re: Tichina Arnold aka Pam Posts About The "Emasculation Of The Black Man"
Post by: The Only BLACK Kalmyks on April 13, 2022, 01:07:54 PM
I'd really need to hear her expound a bit though

there's a lot of ways to emasculate a man, aside from making him appear fem/gay

this actually could have something to do with will Smith .
Title: Re: Tichina Arnold aka Pam Posts About The "Emasculation Of The Black Man"
Post by: Freemala Harris on April 13, 2022, 01:09:38 PM
Quote from: Child of Brazil on April 13, 2022, 01:07:54 PM
I'd really need to hear her expound a bit though

there's a lot of way to emasculate a man

this actually could have something to do with will Smith .

True

But I can only imagine the quotes/comments on the blogs under this

The anti-queer/hotep gors are gonna respond to this dog whistle and have a field day from validation

Title: Re: Tichina Arnold aka Pam Posts About The "Emasculation Of The Black Man"
Post by: The Only BLACK Kalmyks on April 13, 2022, 01:18:15 PM
Quote from: Freemala Harris on April 13, 2022, 01:09:38 PM
Quote from: Child of Brazil on April 13, 2022, 01:07:54 PM
I'd really need to hear her expound a bit though

there's a lot of way to emasculate a man

this actually could have something to do with will Smith .

True

But I can only imagine the quotes/comments on the blogs under this

The anti-queer/hotep gors are gonna respond to this dog whistle and have a field day from validation
:omf:
Title: Re: Tichina Arnold aka Pam Posts About The "Emasculation Of The Black Man"
Post by: Nine on April 13, 2022, 01:25:11 PM
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Title: Re: Tichina Arnold aka Pam Posts About The "Emasculation Of The Black Man"
Post by: Freemala Harris on April 13, 2022, 01:27:01 PM
Meanwhile in pickmelandia/land of our skrong black kangs:

https://twitter.com/Phil_Lewis_/status/1514232789209694215?s=20&t=P25vRjSwzy_1kL6iQGrhRg

:omf:
Title: Re: Tichina Arnold aka Pam Posts About The "Emasculation Of The Black Man"
Post by: RAY7 on April 13, 2022, 01:48:07 PM
Quote from: Child of Brazil on April 13, 2022, 01:07:54 PM
I'd really need to hear her expound a bit though

there's a lot of ways to emasculate a man, aside from making him appear fem/gay

this actually could have something to do with will Smith .
!! She said "emasculate" instead of "effeminate" so I think she's talking about in heterosexual relationships how women treat men, not about the gays
Title: Re: Tichina Arnold aka Pam Posts About The "Emasculation Of The Black Man"
Post by: JCJ on April 13, 2022, 02:04:15 PM
The words are kinda synonymous guys
Title: Re: Tichina Arnold aka Pam Posts About The "Emasculation Of The Black Man"
Post by: klappa. on April 13, 2022, 02:11:03 PM
Quote from: Child of Brazil on April 13, 2022, 01:07:54 PM
there's a lot of ways to emasculate a man, aside from making him appear fem/gay

THAT part

this didn't come off as having anything to do with homosexuality imo
Title: Re: Tichina Arnold aka Pam Posts About The "Emasculation Of The Black Man"
Post by: klappa. on April 13, 2022, 02:14:18 PM
Quote from: JCJ on April 13, 2022, 02:04:15 PM
The words are kinda synonymous guys

theu are not. completely different in fact. one is a verb and the other is an adjective for starters.
Title: Re: Tichina Arnold aka Pam Posts About The "Emasculation Of The Black Man"
Post by: JCJ on April 13, 2022, 02:15:02 PM
Yeah. They are
Title: Re: Tichina Arnold aka Pam Posts About The "Emasculation Of The Black Man"
Post by: Freemala Harris on April 13, 2022, 02:16:20 PM
For me its moreso not knowing her intentions

And also use of her platform

Cause just peep into the comments/quotes of wherever its posted and you can see the usual toxicity. Even if she didn't intend for so, its too late now 
Title: Re: Tichina Arnold aka Pam Posts About The "Emasculation Of The Black Man"
Post by: JCJ on April 13, 2022, 02:17:33 PM
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Male (masculine) role and identity. Same concept
Title: Re: Tichina Arnold aka Pam Posts About The "Emasculation Of The Black Man"
Post by: United Nations Barbie 🇺🇳 on April 13, 2022, 02:37:33 PM
Quote from: Child of Brazil on April 13, 2022, 01:07:54 PM
I'd really need to hear her expound a bit though

there's a lot of ways to emasculate a man, aside from making him appear fem/gay

this actually could have something to do with will Smith .
Title: Re: Tichina Arnold aka Pam Posts About The "Emasculation Of The Black Man"
Post by: United Nations Barbie 🇺🇳 on April 13, 2022, 02:38:10 PM
Quote from: Nine on April 13, 2022, 01:25:11 PM
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Kwee wanted that faggot OFF the stage!
Title: Re: Tichina Arnold aka Pam Posts About The "Emasculation Of The Black Man"
Post by: RAY7 on April 13, 2022, 02:44:50 PM
Quote from: JCJ on April 13, 2022, 02:17:33 PM
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Male (masculine) role and identity. Same concept
has nothing to do with being feminine or gay, it's all about power dynamics
Title: Re: Tichina Arnold aka Pam Posts About The "Emasculation Of The Black Man"
Post by: JCJ on April 13, 2022, 02:51:00 PM
Emasculating someone strips them of their manhood, their male role, masculinity, etc. Emasculating refers to masculinity  :kii: a masculine man is supposed to do x, y, z. A man being in power is masculine. Can't let a woman be the breadwinner or else he's weak, a woman, not a man!
Title: Re: Tichina Arnold aka Pam Posts About The "Emasculation Of The Black Man"
Post by: JCJ on April 13, 2022, 02:52:10 PM
Masculinity doesn't mean just whether or not your wrists are limp
Title: Re: Tichina Arnold aka Pam Posts About The "Emasculation Of The Black Man"
Post by: GYNandTONIC on April 13, 2022, 02:52:57 PM
I think this is a sub at Jada honestly.

But on a serious note, emasculation starts with a lack of a father. That's the point a lot of the blk men and women miss. They jump straight to what can women do. Black women by no real fault of their own have been put in leadership positions in the house and in the community. This hands off approach men have taken to their sons over the last 30 years has caused many boys to grow up with female authority and men who are only concerned w/ fucking and mind control. In the black community manhood has been reduced to how street/hard you are which doesn't translate well to building homes, husbands, and good fathers. Look at how the black community views Russell W vs. Future. Some would actually argue Future is more of a man or more real than Russ. It's starts with the men
Title: Re: Tichina Arnold aka Pam Posts About The "Emasculation Of The Black Man"
Post by: JCJ on April 13, 2022, 02:56:13 PM
Preach  :feelinmyself:


https://twitter.com/jordansumbu/status/1514292085062451204?s=21&t=GO6_SZyDu3dfBgwXnnx6Ew
Title: Re: Tichina Arnold aka Pam Posts About The "Emasculation Of The Black Man"
Post by: RAY7 on April 13, 2022, 03:05:07 PM
Quote from: JCJ on April 13, 2022, 02:52:10 PM
Masculinity doesn't mean just whether or not your wrists are limp
which is why there's a difference between effeminate and emasculate
a man can be submissive or subordinate without being flamboyant
Pam is speaking on the former and not the latter
Title: Re: Tichina Arnold aka Pam Posts About The "Emasculation Of The Black Man"
Post by: Dr Naomi Campbell on April 13, 2022, 03:44:16 PM
Wasn't her show based on...
Ummm
Title: Re: Tichina Arnold aka Pam Posts About The "Emasculation Of The Black Man"
Post by: klappa. on April 13, 2022, 03:49:18 PM
Quote from: JCJ on April 13, 2022, 02:17:33 PM
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Male (masculine) role and identity. Same concept

lmfao no

this snippet  :dead:

you cannot efemminate a man. efemminate is an adjective used to describe behavior

imasculate is a verb describing an action toward a man

so yea theyre not synonymous, which means to have the same meaning, because they... well DON'T

:omf:
Title: Re: Tichina Arnold aka Pam Posts About The "Emasculation Of The Black Man"
Post by: Freemala Harris on April 13, 2022, 03:56:39 PM
Quote from: Naomi's cheekbones on April 13, 2022, 03:44:16 PM
Wasn't her show based on...
Ummm

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Title: Re: Tichina Arnold aka Pam Posts About The "Emasculation Of The Black Man"
Post by: Demetri Collier Electronics 🤴🏾 on April 13, 2022, 03:58:09 PM
Quote from: GYNandTONIC on April 13, 2022, 02:52:57 PM
I think this is a sub at Jada honestly.

But on a serious note, emasculation starts with a lack of a father. That's the point a lot of the blk men and women miss. They jump straight to what can women do. Black women by no real fault of their own have been put in leadership positions in the house and in the community. This hands off approach men have taken to their sons over the last 30 years has caused many boys to grow up with female authority and men who are only concerned w/ fucking and mind control. In the black community manhood has been reduced to how street/hard you are which doesn't translate well to building homes, husbands, and good fathers. Look at how the black community views Russell W vs. Future. Some would actually argue Future is more of a man or more real than Russ. It's starts with the men
All this!!!!
Title: Re: Tichina Arnold aka Pam Posts About The "Emasculation Of The Black Man"
Post by: The Only BLACK Kalmyks on April 13, 2022, 03:59:34 PM
Men can feel "emasculated" with something as simple as their spouse/partner becoming the bigger earner in the home and telling them what to do as if they're the "wife"

Having a wife or girlfriend who acts like they're "wearing the pants in the relationship"

A man can appear to be completely "masculine" and be or feel "emasculated" . Many times it is a feeling that a man has and not an Actual appearance or behavior.

So again, it can be many things .


Title: Re: Tichina Arnold aka Pam Posts About The "Emasculation Of The Black Man"
Post by: JCJ on April 13, 2022, 04:02:00 PM
Quote from: Child of Brazil on April 13, 2022, 03:59:34 PM
Men can feel "emasculated" with something as simple as their spouse/partner becoming the bigger earner in the home and telling them what to do as if they're the "wife"

Having a wife or girlfriend who acts like they're "wearing the pants in the relationship"

A man can be completely "masculine" and be or feel "emasculated" . Many times it is a feeling and not an Actual appearance or behavior.

So again, it can be many things .


Which is somewhat my overall point.
Title: Re: Tichina Arnold aka Pam Posts About The "Emasculation Of The Black Man"
Post by: The Only BLACK Kalmyks on April 13, 2022, 04:03:20 PM
Quote from: JCJ on April 13, 2022, 04:02:00 PM
Quote from: Child of Brazil on April 13, 2022, 03:59:34 PM
Men can feel "emasculated" with something as simple as their spouse/partner becoming the bigger earner in the home and telling them what to do as if they're the "wife"

Having a wife or girlfriend who acts like they're "wearing the pants in the relationship"

A man can be completely "masculine" and be or feel "emasculated" . Many times it is a feeling and not an Actual appearance or behavior.

So again, it can be many things .


Which is my overall point. It all stems from the same thing
well then we all agree it can be many things and that Pam may need to expound on what SHE means with her usage of the term

Why r we arguing in here then

Fmfjnfnf
Title: Re: Tichina Arnold aka Pam Posts About The "Emasculation Of The Black Man"
Post by: JCJ on April 13, 2022, 04:05:23 PM
Quote from: Child of Brazil on April 13, 2022, 04:03:20 PM
Quote from: JCJ on April 13, 2022, 04:02:00 PM
Quote from: Child of Brazil on April 13, 2022, 03:59:34 PM
Men can feel "emasculated" with something as simple as their spouse/partner becoming the bigger earner in the home and telling them what to do as if they're the "wife"

Having a wife or girlfriend who acts like they're "wearing the pants in the relationship"

A man can be completely "masculine" and be or feel "emasculated" . Many times it is a feeling and not an Actual appearance or behavior.

So again, it can be many things .

Which is my overall point. It all stems from the same thing
well then we all agree it can be many things and that Pam may need to expound on what SHE means

Why r we arguing in here then

Fmfjnfnf

Basically, I'm saying she could be referring to men being usurped by women or men acting gay. They're both under same umbrella of being feminine and "emasculating"

They're saying she can't possibly be talking about gays.
Title: Re: Tichina Arnold aka Pam Posts About The "Emasculation Of The Black Man"
Post by: The Only BLACK Kalmyks on April 13, 2022, 04:06:47 PM
Quote from: JCJ on April 13, 2022, 04:05:23 PM
Quote from: Child of Brazil on April 13, 2022, 04:03:20 PM
Quote from: JCJ on April 13, 2022, 04:02:00 PM
Quote from: Child of Brazil on April 13, 2022, 03:59:34 PM
Men can feel "emasculated" with something as simple as their spouse/partner becoming the bigger earner in the home and telling them what to do as if they're the "wife"

Having a wife or girlfriend who acts like they're "wearing the pants in the relationship"

A man can be completely "masculine" and be or feel "emasculated" . Many times it is a feeling and not an Actual appearance or behavior.

So again, it can be many things .

Which is my overall point. It all stems from the same thing
well then we all agree it can be many things and that Pam may need to expound on what SHE means

Why r we arguing in here then

Fmfjnfnf

Basically, I'm saying she could be referring to men being usurped by women or men acting gay. They're both under same umbrella of being feminine and "emasculating"
yeah it could be either thing .

Title: Re: Tichina Arnold aka Pam Posts About The "Emasculation Of The Black Man"
Post by: klappa. on April 13, 2022, 04:07:16 PM
Quote from: GYNandTONIC on April 13, 2022, 02:52:57 PM
I think this is a sub at Jada honestly.

But on a serious note, emasculation starts with a lack of a father. That's the point a lot of the blk men and women miss. They jump straight to what can women do. Black women by no real fault of their own have been put in leadership positions in the house and in the community. This hands off approach men have taken to their sons over the last 30 years has caused many boys to grow up with female authority and men who are only concerned w/ fucking and mind control. In the black community manhood has been reduced to how street/hard you are which doesn't translate well to building homes, husbands, and good fathers. Look at how the black community views Russell W vs. Future. Some would actually argue Future is more of a man or more real than Russ. It's starts with the men

disagree a bit. what you're describing isn't emasculation. you're touching on how the warped sense of what masculinity IS in the black community. lack of a father in the home has definitely led to a warped sense of masculinity. thats different.

i think tichina is referring TO those "good husbands, fathers, etc" who are emasculated by women. and if she was referring to will and jada, that would reinforce the idea that she's referring to the emasculation of  "good men"

although, i dont see how jada has emasculated will. twitter did that.
Title: Re: Tichina Arnold aka Pam Posts About The "Emasculation Of The Black Man"
Post by: RAY7 on April 13, 2022, 04:08:13 PM
It can't be either thing, she said the specific word she was referring to :dead:. 
Title: Re: Tichina Arnold aka Pam Posts About The "Emasculation Of The Black Man"
Post by: The Only BLACK Kalmyks on April 13, 2022, 04:08:15 PM
Except that "being feminine" part you mentioned

that sounds more like behavior and appearance

a man can FEEL emasculated and not "be feminine" at all.

That feeling he may have doesn't mean he's crossed over to femininity completely. Just means he doesn't "feel like a man" in that moment . But Doesn't mean he feels like a woman . If that makes sense .


Title: Re: Tichina Arnold aka Pam Posts About The "Emasculation Of The Black Man"
Post by: RAY7 on April 13, 2022, 04:10:01 PM
Quote from: Child of Brazil on April 13, 2022, 04:08:15 PM
Except that "being feminine" part you mentioned

that sounds more like behavior and appearance

a man can FEEL emasculated and not "be feminine" at all.
exactly. It is not the same
Title: Re: Tichina Arnold aka Pam Posts About The "Emasculation Of The Black Man"
Post by: JCJ on April 13, 2022, 04:10:31 PM
Quote from: Child of Brazil on April 13, 2022, 04:08:15 PM
Except that "being feminine" part you mentioned

that sounds more like behavior and appearance

a man can FEEL emasculated and not "be feminine" at all.

It may sound like it but it's not. A man doing dishes could be considered feminine because it's a part of that feminine role.
Title: Re: Tichina Arnold aka Pam Posts About The "Emasculation Of The Black Man"
Post by: JCJ on April 13, 2022, 04:10:53 PM
Some of y'all need to take a gender studies class and it shows  :dead:
Title: Re: Tichina Arnold aka Pam Posts About The "Emasculation Of The Black Man"
Post by: klappa. on April 13, 2022, 04:11:02 PM
Quote from: Child of Brazil on April 13, 2022, 03:59:34 PM
Men can feel "emasculated" with something as simple as their spouse/partner becoming the bigger earner in the home and telling them what to do as if they're the "wife"

theres a difference between feeling emasculated and being emasculated. intentional emasculation by an outside source. i think its safe to say she's referring to that latter
Title: Re: Tichina Arnold aka Pam Posts About The "Emasculation Of The Black Man"
Post by: The Only BLACK Kalmyks on April 13, 2022, 04:12:11 PM
Quote from: JCJ on April 13, 2022, 04:10:31 PM
Quote from: Child of Brazil on April 13, 2022, 04:08:15 PM
Except that "being feminine" part you mentioned

that sounds more like behavior and appearance

a man can FEEL emasculated and not "be feminine" at all.

It may sound like it but it's not. A man doing dishes could be considered feminine because it's a part of that feminine role.
many men may feel doing dishes or vacuuming the floor is not feminine at all.

Or cooking, etc.

It depends on the man.


Title: Re: Tichina Arnold aka Pam Posts About The "Emasculation Of The Black Man"
Post by: JCJ on April 13, 2022, 04:13:31 PM
Quote from: Child of Brazil on April 13, 2022, 04:12:11 PM
Quote from: JCJ on April 13, 2022, 04:10:31 PM
Quote from: Child of Brazil on April 13, 2022, 04:08:15 PM
Except that "being feminine" part you mentioned

that sounds more like behavior and appearance

a man can FEEL emasculated and not "be feminine" at all.

It may sound like it but it's not. A man doing dishes could be considered feminine because it's a part of that feminine role.
many men may feel doing dishes or vacuuming the floor is not feminine at all.

Or cooking, etc.

It depends on the man.

I'm talking traditionally what these things are considered
Title: Re: Tichina Arnold aka Pam Posts About The "Emasculation Of The Black Man"
Post by: klappa. on April 13, 2022, 04:15:01 PM
Quote from: JCJ on April 13, 2022, 04:10:31 PM
Quote from: Child of Brazil on April 13, 2022, 04:08:15 PM
Except that "being feminine" part you mentioned

that sounds more like behavior and appearance

a man can FEEL emasculated and not "be feminine" at all.

It may sound like it but it's not. A man doing dishes could be considered feminine because it's a part of that feminine role.

to an ignorant misogynist maybe. because that's EXACTLY what we call niggas who think its a woman's "role" to do the dishes.

so to normal ppl, theres nothing feminine abt washing dishes
Title: Re: Tichina Arnold aka Pam Posts About The "Emasculation Of The Black Man"
Post by: klappa. on April 13, 2022, 04:20:46 PM
Quote from: Child of Brazil on April 13, 2022, 04:06:47 PM
Quote from: JCJ on April 13, 2022, 04:05:23 PM
Quote from: Child of Brazil on April 13, 2022, 04:03:20 PM
Quote from: JCJ on April 13, 2022, 04:02:00 PM
Quote from: Child of Brazil on April 13, 2022, 03:59:34 PM
Men can feel "emasculated" with something as simple as their spouse/partner becoming the bigger earner in the home and telling them what to do as if they're the "wife"

Having a wife or girlfriend who acts like they're "wearing the pants in the relationship"

A man can be completely "masculine" and be or feel "emasculated" . Many times it is a feeling and not an Actual appearance or behavior.

So again, it can be many things .

Which is my overall point. It all stems from the same thing
well then we all agree it can be many things and that Pam may need to expound on what SHE means

Why r we arguing in here then

Fmfjnfnf

Basically, I'm saying she could be referring to men being usurped by women or men acting gay. They're both under same umbrella of being feminine and "emasculating"
yeah it could be either thing .

no it couldn't tho lol

how would women be aiding in men "acting gay?" in the first place for her to ask how they can stop? that angle just doesn't make any sense bbys
Title: Re: Tichina Arnold aka Pam Posts About The "Emasculation Of The Black Man"
Post by: Nine on April 13, 2022, 04:26:32 PM
Quote from: RAY7 on April 13, 2022, 01:48:07 PM
Quote from: Child of Brazil on April 13, 2022, 01:07:54 PM
I'd really need to hear her expound a bit though

there's a lot of ways to emasculate a man, aside from making him appear fem/gay

this actually could have something to do with will Smith .
!! She said "emasculate" instead of "effeminate" so I think she's talking about in heterosexual relationships how women treat men, not about the gays
Now come on

The whole "they're trying emasculate black male" rhetoric is a homophobic dogwhistle

we've seen it time and time again
Title: Re: Tichina Arnold aka Pam Posts About The "Emasculation Of The Black Man"
Post by: The Only BLACK Kalmyks on April 13, 2022, 04:31:05 PM
Quote from: ophelia_b on April 13, 2022, 04:20:46 PM
Quote from: Child of Brazil on April 13, 2022, 04:06:47 PM
Quote from: JCJ on April 13, 2022, 04:05:23 PM
Quote from: Child of Brazil on April 13, 2022, 04:03:20 PM
Quote from: JCJ on April 13, 2022, 04:02:00 PM
Quote from: Child of Brazil on April 13, 2022, 03:59:34 PM
Men can feel "emasculated" with something as simple as their spouse/partner becoming the bigger earner in the home and telling them what to do as if they're the "wife"

Having a wife or girlfriend who acts like they're "wearing the pants in the relationship"

A man can be completely "masculine" and be or feel "emasculated" . Many times it is a feeling and not an Actual appearance or behavior.

So again, it can be many things .

Which is my overall point. It all stems from the same thing
well then we all agree it can be many things and that Pam may need to expound on what SHE means

Why r we arguing in here then

Fmfjnfnf

Basically, I'm saying she could be referring to men being usurped by women or men acting gay. They're both under same umbrella of being feminine and "emasculating"
yeah it could be either thing .

no it couldn't tho lol

how would women be aiding in men "acting gay?" in the first place for her to ask how they can stop? that angle just doesn't make any sense bbys
emasculation can literally have nothing to do with "acting gay". But people do use it in that way

It depends on what Pam is trying to communicate 
Title: Re: Tichina Arnold aka Pam Posts About The "Emasculation Of The Black Man"
Post by: klappa. on April 13, 2022, 04:36:21 PM
Quote from: Nine on April 13, 2022, 04:26:32 PM
Quote from: RAY7 on April 13, 2022, 01:48:07 PM
Quote from: Child of Brazil on April 13, 2022, 01:07:54 PM
I'd really need to hear her expound a bit though

there's a lot of ways to emasculate a man, aside from making him appear fem/gay

this actually could have something to do with will Smith .
!! She said "emasculate" instead of "effeminate" so I think she's talking about in heterosexual relationships how women treat men, not about the gays
Now come on

The whole "they're trying emasculate black male" rhetoric is a homophobic dogwhistle

we've seen it time and time again

it CAN be

but there is ALSO an issue of men being emasculated by women

like thats always been a thing as well. and imo the way she worded it here makes it clear what she's referring to
Title: Re: Tichina Arnold aka Pam Posts About The "Emasculation Of The Black Man"
Post by: RAY7 on April 13, 2022, 04:39:23 PM
Quote from: Nine on April 13, 2022, 04:26:32 PM
Quote from: RAY7 on April 13, 2022, 01:48:07 PM
Quote from: Child of Brazil on April 13, 2022, 01:07:54 PM
I'd really need to hear her expound a bit though

there's a lot of ways to emasculate a man, aside from making him appear fem/gay

this actually could have something to do with will Smith .
!! She said "emasculate" instead of "effeminate" so I think she's talking about in heterosexual relationships how women treat men, not about the gays
Now come on

The whole "they're trying emasculate black male" rhetoric is a homophobic dogwhistle

we've seen it time and time again
that's usually the ppl who think that white ppl are pushing the "gay agenda" on to our young boys. Tichina is more talking about the "angry Black woman" trope it sounds like. Where women are loud, and rude to their men, or talk down to them because they make more money etc
Title: Re: Tichina Arnold aka Pam Posts About The "Emasculation Of The Black Man"
Post by: klappa. on April 13, 2022, 04:40:21 PM
Quote from: Child of Brazil on April 13, 2022, 04:31:05 PM
Quote from: ophelia_b on April 13, 2022, 04:20:46 PM
Quote from: Child of Brazil on April 13, 2022, 04:06:47 PM
Quote from: JCJ on April 13, 2022, 04:05:23 PM
Quote from: Child of Brazil on April 13, 2022, 04:03:20 PM
Quote from: JCJ on April 13, 2022, 04:02:00 PM
Quote from: Child of Brazil on April 13, 2022, 03:59:34 PM
Men can feel "emasculated" with something as simple as their spouse/partner becoming the bigger earner in the home and telling them what to do as if they're the "wife"

Having a wife or girlfriend who acts like they're "wearing the pants in the relationship"

A man can be completely "masculine" and be or feel "emasculated" . Many times it is a feeling and not an Actual appearance or behavior.

So again, it can be many things .

Which is my overall point. It all stems from the same thing
well then we all agree it can be many things and that Pam may need to expound on what SHE means

Why r we arguing in here then

Fmfjnfnf

Basically, I'm saying she could be referring to men being usurped by women or men acting gay. They're both under same umbrella of being feminine and "emasculating"
yeah it could be either thing .

no it couldn't tho lol

how would women be aiding in men "acting gay?" in the first place for her to ask how they can stop? that angle just doesn't make any sense bbys
emasculation can literally have nothing to do with "acting gay". But people do use it in that way

It depends on what Pam is trying to communicate

yea, i've heard it used incorrectly when ppl are talking about society and the media and how that ties into the whole gay agenda bs...

but tichina is asking the question specifically to black women. that, to me, says shes referring to the relationship aspect of emasculation of men by women.
Title: Re: Tichina Arnold aka Pam Posts About The "Emasculation Of The Black Man"
Post by: The Only BLACK Kalmyks on April 13, 2022, 04:43:03 PM
Sub-zero is right ... rare instance for him but even a broken clock... it is def usually code language for "let's talk about fags "

Only reason I'm waiting is cuz tichina seems just a bit more clever and put-together  to me than to come out with some random  hotep mess .

I think there could actually be more depth to what she's throwing out there
Title: Re: Tichina Arnold aka Pam Posts About The "Emasculation Of The Black Man"
Post by: Nine on April 13, 2022, 04:52:52 PM
Quote from: Child of Brazil on April 13, 2022, 04:43:03 PM
Sub-zero is right ... rare instance for him but even a broken clock...

:ummwhat:
Title: Re: Tichina Arnold aka Pam Posts About The "Emasculation Of The Black Man"
Post by: The Only BLACK Kalmyks on April 13, 2022, 04:54:26 PM
:woohoo:
Title: Re: Tichina Arnold aka Pam Posts About The "Emasculation Of The Black Man"
Post by: Rxxf on April 13, 2022, 05:13:23 PM
I want to hear more from her... to make sure... before I attack her. 
Title: Re: Tichina Arnold aka Pam Posts About The "Emasculation Of The Black Man"
Post by: Demetri Collier Electronics 🤴🏾 on April 13, 2022, 05:22:26 PM
Quote from: Child of Brazil on April 13, 2022, 04:12:11 PM
Quote from: JCJ on April 13, 2022, 04:10:31 PM
Quote from: Child of Brazil on April 13, 2022, 04:08:15 PM
Except that "being feminine" part you mentioned

that sounds more like behavior and appearance

a man can FEEL emasculated and not "be feminine" at all.

It may sound like it but it's not. A man doing dishes could be considered feminine because it's a part of that feminine role.
many men may feel doing dishes or vacuuming the floor is not feminine at all.

Or cooking, etc.

It depends on the man.
And its not.
Title: Re: Tichina Arnold aka Pam Posts About The "Emasculation Of The Black Man"
Post by: Young on April 13, 2022, 05:23:36 PM
Quote from: Child of Brazil on April 13, 2022, 01:07:54 PM
I'd really need to hear her expound a bit though

there's a lot of ways to emasculate a man, aside from making him appear fem/gay

this actually could have something to do with will Smith .
Title: Re: Tichina Arnold aka Pam Posts About The "Emasculation Of The Black Man"
Post by: Demetri Collier Electronics 🤴🏾 on April 13, 2022, 05:26:19 PM
Quote from: Young on April 13, 2022, 05:23:36 PM
Quote from: Child of Brazil on April 13, 2022, 01:07:54 PM
I'd really need to hear her expound a bit though

there's a lot of ways to emasculate a man, aside from making him appear fem/gay

this actually could have something to do with will Smith .
Title: Re: Tichina Arnold aka Pam Posts About The "Emasculation Of The Black Man"
Post by: Pearls Khan on April 13, 2022, 05:31:05 PM
Quote from: ophelia_b on April 13, 2022, 02:11:03 PM
Quote from: Child of Brazil on April 13, 2022, 01:07:54 PM
there's a lot of ways to emasculate a man, aside from making him appear fem/gay

THAT part

this didn't come off as having anything to do with homosexuality imo

!!!

The auto-tears with some fags <
Title: Re: Tichina Arnold aka Pam Posts About The "Emasculation Of The Black Man"
Post by: RedOctober on April 13, 2022, 07:28:12 PM
Some Black women have to let go of their idea of what makes a black man, a man. It's really unfortunate because it puts Black men in a box.

And sometimes it's what attracts heterosexual Black men to women of other races.
Title: Re: Tichina Arnold aka Pam Posts About The "Emasculation Of The Black Man"
Post by: Just Dropped In To See What Condition My Condition Was In on April 13, 2022, 08:07:20 PM
I understood what Tichina was referring to. She's talking about how black women emasculate black men for their own selfish purposes. It's not about the "gay agenda" not everything is about the "gay agenda" there are other forms of emasculation besides the gay bullshit. Mothers, wives tend to emasculate men. It's not just black women who does it . White women does it as well. It's a form of control and manipulation. 
Title: Re: Tichina Arnold aka Pam Posts About The "Emasculation Of The Black Man"
Post by: b7 on April 13, 2022, 08:10:29 PM
Quote from: Child of Brazil on April 13, 2022, 01:04:22 PM
Pam... u in danger gor
hdhdjfj I've never seen her get lashed before

:stressed:
Title: Re: Tichina Arnold aka Pam Posts About The "Emasculation Of The Black Man"
Post by: b7 on April 13, 2022, 08:12:43 PM
Quote from: JCJ on April 13, 2022, 02:56:13 PM
Preach  :feelinmyself:


https://twitter.com/jordansumbu/status/1514292085062451204?s=21&t=GO6_SZyDu3dfBgwXnnx6Ew
he ate that

I love this too

(https://i.postimg.cc/DzfYkrzk/146566-D7-8619-4-C3-E-B28-E-12-F59684-C2-FE.jpg)
:kii:
Title: Re: Tichina Arnold aka Pam Posts About The "Emasculation Of The Black Man"
Post by: Edge gorl on April 13, 2022, 08:23:33 PM
Quing rlly got tha gorls upset
Title: Re: Tichina Arnold aka Pam Posts About The "Emasculation Of The Black Man"
Post by: klappa. on April 13, 2022, 10:07:44 PM
Quote from: Saving All My RIGs on April 13, 2022, 08:12:43 PM
Quote from: JCJ on April 13, 2022, 02:56:13 PM
Preach  :feelinmyself:


https://twitter.com/jordansumbu/status/1514292085062451204?s=21&t=GO6_SZyDu3dfBgwXnnx6Ew
he ate that

I love this too

(https://i.postimg.cc/DzfYkrzk/146566-D7-8619-4-C3-E-B28-E-12-F59684-C2-FE.jpg)
:kii:

yikes. they said a bunch of nothing here bbys. this is what happens when ppl think their perspective/experience is the ONLY one.

gays shouldnt be chiming in on it tbh. cuz she talking about the dynamic between straights mens & womens. this aint got nothing to do with the girls. gays mostly ONLY see "masculinity" as a negative thing because its weaponized against us. but the concept of masculinity is not what's negative. the weaponization of it is. so assuming someone is talking about the gays everytime they even utter the words masculinity or emasculation is not only incorrect, its also extremely short sighted. there are more experiences and understanding of masculinity that just the gay perspective.

not everything is an attack on the gors
Title: Re: Tichina Arnold aka Pam Posts About The "Emasculation Of The Black Man"
Post by: klappa. on April 13, 2022, 10:08:33 PM
Quote from: Just Dropped In To See What Condition My Condition Was In on April 13, 2022, 08:07:20 PM
I understood what Tichina was referring to. She's talking about how black women emasculate black men for their own selfish purposes. It's not about the "gay agenda" not everything is about the "gay agenda" there are other forms of emasculation besides the gay bullshit. Mothers, wives tend to emasculate men. It's not just black women who does it . White women does it as well. It's a form of control and manipulation.

!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Title: Re: Tichina Arnold aka Pam Posts About The "Emasculation Of The Black Man"
Post by: RAY7 on April 13, 2022, 10:10:44 PM
I really agree with Oaf in here. We are living in our last days 
Title: Re: Tichina Arnold aka Pam Posts About The "Emasculation Of The Black Man"
Post by: klappa. on April 13, 2022, 10:11:56 PM
cvcxc fag i'll cut u  :uhh:
Title: Re: Tichina Arnold aka Pam Posts About The "Emasculation Of The Black Man"
Post by: The Only BLACK Kalmyks on April 13, 2022, 10:54:28 PM
I needs me a nigga that'll put me in my PLACE.  :trannyjblige:
Title: Re: Tichina Arnold aka Pam Posts About The "Emasculation Of The Black Man"
Post by: Demetri Collier Electronics 🤴🏾 on April 14, 2022, 04:23:34 AM
Quote from: RedOctober on April 13, 2022, 07:28:12 PM
Some Black women have to let go of their idea of what makes a black man, a man. It's really unfortunate because it puts Black men in a box.

And sometimes it's what attracts heterosexual Black men to women of other races.
Yup.
Title: Re: Tichina Arnold aka Pam Posts About The "Emasculation Of The Black Man"
Post by: CHOKE on April 14, 2022, 04:37:10 AM
Quote from: Freemala Harris on April 13, 2022, 01:27:01 PM
Meanwhile in pickmelandia/land of our skrong black kangs:

https://twitter.com/Phil_Lewis_/status/1514232789209694215?s=20&t=P25vRjSwzy_1kL6iQGrhRg

:omf:

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Title: Re: Tichina Arnold aka Pam Posts About The "Emasculation Of The Black Man"
Post by: ❄️☃️🌨� Shuji Feels Different 🌨�☃️❄️ on April 14, 2022, 07:07:35 AM
The whole idea of "emasculation" is bullshit. What does masculinity look like anyway? I'm pretty sure it's not the same to everyone. What might seem like "emasculation" to one person could be perfectly masculine to someone else.
Title: Re: Tichina Arnold aka Pam Posts About The "Emasculation Of The Black Man"
Post by: M-Rocka on April 14, 2022, 08:42:49 AM
https://www.instagram.com/p/CcTkVNmv6CA/?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=
Title: Re: Tichina Arnold aka Pam Posts About The "Emasculation Of The Black Man"
Post by: klappa. on April 14, 2022, 08:47:48 AM
Quote from: M-Rocka on April 14, 2022, 08:42:49 AM
https://www.instagram.com/p/CcTkVNmv6CA/?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=

now why this girl name gotta be ms kelly diva deluxe and she on here talking nonsense

:fuming:
Title: Re: Tichina Arnold aka Pam Posts About The "Emasculation Of The Black Man"
Post by: Demetri Collier Electronics 🤴🏾 on April 14, 2022, 09:46:46 AM
Birds of a feather flock together!
Title: Re: Tichina Arnold aka Pam Posts About The "Emasculation Of The Black Man"
Post by: M-Rocka on April 14, 2022, 09:52:07 AM
Quote from: ophelia_b on April 14, 2022, 08:47:48 AM
Quote from: M-Rocka on April 14, 2022, 08:42:49 AM
https://www.instagram.com/p/CcTkVNmv6CA/?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=

now why this girl name gotta be ms kelly diva deluxe and she on here talking nonsense

:fuming:
!!!!!

Not her name being "hoochie doll" and arguing with people in the comment section.
Title: Re: Tichina Arnold aka Pam Posts About The "Emasculation Of The Black Man"
Post by: RAY7 on April 14, 2022, 10:08:47 AM
Quote from: M-Rocka on April 14, 2022, 08:42:49 AM
https://www.instagram.com/p/CcTkVNmv6CA/?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=
she definitely thought she ate that but it made no sense. It was Martin's show she was a supporting character, she did not have any say in what he did on the show
Title: Re: Tichina Arnold aka Pam Posts About The "Emasculation Of The Black Man"
Post by: klappa. on April 14, 2022, 10:11:41 AM
and the idea that she thinks his show/characters were in any way an emasculation of martin shows the ignorance on HER part

:plzstop:
Title: Re: Tichina Arnold aka Pam Posts About The "Emasculation Of The Black Man"
Post by: RAY7 on April 14, 2022, 10:17:03 AM
Right. He dressed as a female character but he was still in the dominant role. They had to answer to him in a wig and all. 
If anything the more emasculating thing is that Pam would also crack on Martin himself. Ppl try to be so "woke" and act like he was just constantly insulting her but they went back and forth every episode 
Title: Re: Tichina Arnold aka Pam Posts About The "Emasculation Of The Black Man"
Post by: M-Rocka on April 14, 2022, 11:10:37 AM
They better leave Pamela James alone.
Title: Re: Tichina Arnold aka Pam Posts About The "Emasculation Of The Black Man"
Post by: Pearls Khan on April 14, 2022, 02:15:00 PM
Quote from: RAY7 on April 14, 2022, 10:08:47 AM
Quote from: M-Rocka on April 14, 2022, 08:42:49 AM
https://www.instagram.com/p/CcTkVNmv6CA/?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=
she definitely thought she ate that but it made no sense. It was Martin's show she was a supporting character, she did not have any say in what he did on the show

I am legit tired. How did Martin dressin in drag for laughs emasculate black men? Black women and black faggs be the first ones talmbout how black men are so "hyper-this" and can't express a, b and c with stigma x, y and z being attached but is this failed logic helping??
Title: Re: Tichina Arnold aka Pam Posts About The "Emasculation Of The Black Man"
Post by: The Only BLACK Kalmyks on April 14, 2022, 02:17:22 PM
:omgwatshappening:
Title: Re: Tichina Arnold aka Pam Posts About The "Emasculation Of The Black Man"
Post by: Pearls Khan on April 14, 2022, 02:19:24 PM
Where are my cheese wontons
Title: Re: Tichina Arnold aka Pam Posts About The "Emasculation Of The Black Man"
Post by: The Only BLACK Kalmyks on April 14, 2022, 02:25:07 PM
Just fired up the deep fryer :woohoo:
Title: Re: Tichina Arnold aka Pam Posts About The "Emasculation Of The Black Man"
Post by: Demetri Collier Electronics 🤴🏾 on April 14, 2022, 02:25:50 PM
I do not agree with the Kelly Deluxe fan. But, i can understand her logic between what she said. Their are plenty people who accuse black actors in drag as setting us back or emasculating the strong black male IMAGE.
Title: Re: Tichina Arnold aka Pam Posts About The "Emasculation Of The Black Man"
Post by: klappa. on April 14, 2022, 03:24:36 PM
Quote from: Pearls Khan on April 14, 2022, 02:15:00 PM
Quote from: RAY7 on April 14, 2022, 10:08:47 AM
Quote from: M-Rocka on April 14, 2022, 08:42:49 AM
https://www.instagram.com/p/CcTkVNmv6CA/?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=
she definitely thought she ate that but it made no sense. It was Martin's show she was a supporting character, she did not have any say in what he did on the show

I am legit tired. How did Martin dressin in drag for laughs emasculate black men? Black women and black faggs be the first ones talmbout how black men are so "hyper-this" and can't express a, b and c with stigma x, y and z being attached but is this failed logic helping??

the girls r preaching in here tday huh