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[Nine]

I'd really need to hear her expound a bit though

there's a lot of ways to emasculate a man, aside from making him appear fem/gay

this actually could have something to do with will Smith .

!! She said "emasculate" instead of "effeminate" so I think she's talking about in heterosexual relationships how women treat men, not about the gays

Now come on

The whole "they're trying emasculate black male" rhetoric is a homophobic dogwhistle

we've seen it time and time again

[The Only BLACK Kalmyks]

Men can feel "emasculated" with something as simple as their spouse/partner becoming the bigger earner in the home and telling them what to do as if they're the "wife"

Having a wife or girlfriend who acts like they're "wearing the pants in the relationship"

A man can be completely "masculine" and be or feel "emasculated" . Many times it is a feeling and not an Actual appearance or behavior.

So again, it can be many things .

Which is my overall point. It all stems from the same thing

well then we all agree it can be many things and that Pam may need to expound on what SHE means

Why r we arguing in here then

Fmfjnfnf

Basically, I'm saying she could be referring to men being usurped by women or men acting gay. They're both under same umbrella of being feminine and "emasculating"

yeah it could be either thing .

no it couldn't tho lol

how would women be aiding in men "acting gay?" in the first place for her to ask how they can stop? that angle just doesn't make any sense bbys

emasculation can literally have nothing to do with "acting gay". But people do use it in that way

It depends on what Pam is trying to communicate 

[klappa.]

I'd really need to hear her expound a bit though

there's a lot of ways to emasculate a man, aside from making him appear fem/gay

this actually could have something to do with will Smith .

!! She said "emasculate" instead of "effeminate" so I think she's talking about in heterosexual relationships how women treat men, not about the gays

Now come on

The whole "they're trying emasculate black male" rhetoric is a homophobic dogwhistle

we've seen it time and time again

it CAN be

but there is ALSO an issue of men being emasculated by women

like thats always been a thing as well. and imo the way she worded it here makes it clear what she's referring to

[RAY7]

I'd really need to hear her expound a bit though

there's a lot of ways to emasculate a man, aside from making him appear fem/gay

this actually could have something to do with will Smith .

!! She said "emasculate" instead of "effeminate" so I think she's talking about in heterosexual relationships how women treat men, not about the gays

Now come on

The whole "they're trying emasculate black male" rhetoric is a homophobic dogwhistle

we've seen it time and time again

that's usually the ppl who think that white ppl are pushing the "gay agenda" on to our young boys. Tichina is more talking about the "angry Black woman" trope it sounds like. Where women are loud, and rude to their men, or talk down to them because they make more money etc

[klappa.]

Men can feel "emasculated" with something as simple as their spouse/partner becoming the bigger earner in the home and telling them what to do as if they're the "wife"

Having a wife or girlfriend who acts like they're "wearing the pants in the relationship"

A man can be completely "masculine" and be or feel "emasculated" . Many times it is a feeling and not an Actual appearance or behavior.

So again, it can be many things .

Which is my overall point. It all stems from the same thing

well then we all agree it can be many things and that Pam may need to expound on what SHE means

Why r we arguing in here then

Fmfjnfnf

Basically, I'm saying she could be referring to men being usurped by women or men acting gay. They're both under same umbrella of being feminine and "emasculating"

yeah it could be either thing .

no it couldn't tho lol

how would women be aiding in men "acting gay?" in the first place for her to ask how they can stop? that angle just doesn't make any sense bbys

emasculation can literally have nothing to do with "acting gay". But people do use it in that way

It depends on what Pam is trying to communicate

yea, i've heard it used incorrectly when ppl are talking about society and the media and how that ties into the whole gay agenda bs...

but tichina is asking the question specifically to black women. that, to me, says shes referring to the relationship aspect of emasculation of men by women.

[The Only BLACK Kalmyks]

Sub-zero is right ... rare instance for him but even a broken clock... it is def usually code language for "let's talk about fags "

Only reason I'm waiting is cuz tichina seems just a bit more clever and put-together  to me than to come out with some random  hotep mess .

I think there could actually be more depth to what she's throwing out there

[Nine]

Sub-zero is right ... rare instance for him but even a broken clock...

[The Only BLACK Kalmyks]

[Rxxf]

I want to hear more from her... to make sure... before I attack her. 

[Demetri Collier Electronics 🤴🏾]

Except that "being feminine" part you mentioned

that sounds more like behavior and appearance

a man can FEEL emasculated and not "be feminine" at all.

It may sound like it but it's not. A man doing dishes could be considered feminine because it's a part of that feminine role.

many men may feel doing dishes or vacuuming the floor is not feminine at all.

Or cooking, etc.

It depends on the man.

And its not.

[Young]

I'd really need to hear her expound a bit though

there's a lot of ways to emasculate a man, aside from making him appear fem/gay

this actually could have something to do with will Smith .

[Demetri Collier Electronics 🤴🏾]

I'd really need to hear her expound a bit though

there's a lot of ways to emasculate a man, aside from making him appear fem/gay

this actually could have something to do with will Smith .

[Pearls Khan]

there's a lot of ways to emasculate a man, aside from making him appear fem/gay

THAT part

this didn't come off as having anything to do with homosexuality imo

!!!

The auto-tears with some fags <

[RedOctober]

Some Black women have to let go of their idea of what makes a black man, a man. It's really unfortunate because it puts Black men in a box.

And sometimes it's what attracts heterosexual Black men to women of other races.

[Just Dropped In To See What Condition My Condition Was In]

I understood what Tichina was referring to. She's talking about how black women emasculate black men for their own selfish purposes. It's not about the "gay agenda" not everything is about the "gay agenda" there are other forms of emasculation besides the gay bullshit. Mothers, wives tend to emasculate men. It's not just black women who does it . White women does it as well. It's a form of control and manipulation.