Do You Feel Pressured To Get Married and/or Shack Up With Someone?
whats the point of marriage
marriage is overrated and outdated tbh
I know I don't want to get married or have my significant other to move in with me, just yet
There's many people around me getting married, having kids... sacrificing other factors in their lives, which is not appealing to me.
I'd rather focus on my career.
But every now and again, I feel a little... :-/
I like the idea of it
But I know deep down I wouldn't be happy with that kind of setup right now
Is there anyone else experiencing this?
It's scary to even think about dealing with some man for the rest of my life. Yuck.
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yeh i think our generation is probably the first to wake up and question why we do the things we do
who invented this idea of getting married to one person and staying with that person your whole life.
Quote from: R. on February 04, 2016, 05:07:32 PM
I like the idea of it
But I know deep down I wouldn't be happy with that kind of setup right now
Is there anyone else experiencing this?
so just wait until you're ready :dead: what exactly is the dilemma here, babe
No.
It's actually better while you're young for you and the person you're dating to have your own space.
and especially no to the Marry thing. :kii: Its a wonderful thought but nahhhh not until im like late 30's do I wanna see a ring mess.
I know I'm not ready for that. A guy I used to date got engaged like 3 times in an 8 month span and in between the times that he and I dated. He was so desperate to marry somebody and he said that he was scared to be with me because he felt that I wouldn't settle down with just him. In other words, he wanted to marry me and I was gonna say "no" off the rip, because I'm not ready. However, he eventually got married back in December, so good for him.
No
No tbh.
I'd be ok never getting married. Who needs to be tied down with kids anyway, just yuck.
Marriage aint for me.
If I cant tell yo ass to bounce at any given moment, it aint for me
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Don't think I'll get married
Although for the first time ever I'm considering a kid one day with my boo thang.
Quote from: SUPREME on February 04, 2016, 07:29:28 PM
Don't think I'll get married
Although for the first time ever I'm considering a kid one day with my boo thang.
:wub:
nah don't have family to put pressure on me about these things. But I will say that I do intend on having a son, because as I grow the more wisdom I plan on sharing with him. Haven't decide on if I'll conceive with a woman or adapt w a man
I do want a bvy tho
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so sick of people asking me if I have a boyfriend
no I don't!
and why you care so much?
for the gossip and the lolz?
"ooh mikey really is a faggot, he got a mans in his house now!"
FUCK OFF!
nobody really cares
people just want entertainment
my life is not tabloid fodder!
take care of your own shit,
'stead worrying bout mines
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ch ... these hoes ain't loyal. :ohwow:
I want kids before I'm 30
Just recently this white boi tried to pressure me into a relationship and I cut off all ties with him because he started acting up and getting mad when I said no because I wasn't ready ... I'm too young and unstable right now for a relationship mess. So I KNOW if I don't have time for a relationship I sure don't have time for a marriage.
Plus I didn't want a relationship with him. :ohwow:
Quote from: BigDawg on February 04, 2016, 07:49:53 PM
I do want a bvy tho
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My mom wants grandkids and I told her, "Well you have two other kids that you will get one, cause I won't be" lol. Children ain't for me and most kids love me, but I don't like kids like that to have some of my own lol
Nope
No