Were ya
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Got my ass to' AHP!
That's why I know how to act now :feelinmyself:
My mom tapped my hand and told me no if I was doing something wrong. Up until the age of 4.
That was it.
Yes, and i agree with it tbh
Yes. I did some stupid shit as a child.
whipped
I was slapped a few times
Had to go get switches off the tree n mess
My dad had a trick where he would make his belt clap
If we heard that clapping sound coming down the hallway we already fckn KNEW
Yes. As a result, I know how to behave now.
Define spoiled
Yes, but not too many times. And when I actually did, I felt like it was for something so petty and minor. :dead:
Although I don't see myself spanking my kids, I'm glad I had fairly strict parents and they disciplined me the way that they did.
Oh spanked
No I was behaved
Yeah, but I don't think it had to do anything with how I grew up like I used to think.
A bunch of other children who got whipped I know are still in jail and dead
I used to get my ass tore out the frame! :loose2when:
Quote from: Don't Hurt Yourself on July 24, 2016, 05:45:34 PM
Yeah, but I don't think it had to do anything with how I grew up like I used to think.
A bunch of other children who got whipped I know are still in jail and dead
yeah, i don't understand how ppl say beatings shaped them to be who they are today, especially if they're proud of who they are
Quote from: Young on July 24, 2016, 05:14:22 PM
Got my ass to' AHP!
That's why I know how to act now :feelinmyself:
Quote from: aGhoulact on July 24, 2016, 05:57:26 PM
Quote from: Don't Hurt Yourself on July 24, 2016, 05:45:34 PM
Yeah, but I don't think it had to do anything with how I grew up like I used to think.
A bunch of other children who got whipped I know are still in jail and dead
yeah, i don't understand how ppl say beatings shaped them to be who they are today, especially if they're proud of who they are
I think some parents use spanking too often.
I understand using them as a last resort, and I'm not against whippings but if your first instinct is t smack the shit out of your child then there's something wrong with you.
My mother would READ me then I would SUCCUMB to her lashings which made it worse
I would act out every once in a blue though. I barely remember the times
Nah. My mom would threaten me and I'd be like
"okay...girl...u got it"
:usuresis:
Quote from: aGhoulact on July 24, 2016, 05:57:26 PM
Quote from: Don't Hurt Yourself on July 24, 2016, 05:45:34 PM
Yeah, but I don't think it had to do anything with how I grew up like I used to think.
A bunch of other children who got whipped I know are still in jail and dead
yeah, i don't understand how ppl say beatings shaped them to be who they are today, especially if they're proud of who they are
Because it teaches you to respect and submit to authority, and consider consequences for your actions. The threat of violence is very compelling. :dead:
Now, I do think there is a right way and wrong way to hit your kids. Everyone beating their kids isn't actually helping them. Further, I think you shouldn't rely of hitting as the ONLY, or even primary, form of discipline. To raise reasonable adults, you have to learn to talk to them and teach them in other ways. Especially when they get older.
Once kids are teens, I think hitting them is pretty useless except for flagrant offenses. If you did your job from birth to age 13, they really shouldn't need to be hit often, IMO. When my mom hit me during my teens, she was just channeling anger and pissing me off, instead of teaching me anything. :overit:
My mom had the nerve to say she didn't beat us that much.
My brother and I were like :omgwatshappening: Are you senile?
She was strict and went overboard on minor stuff sometimes. But I'd be lying if I said I never reconsidered doing something wrong or stupid because I knew I'd catch a beat down if she found out. :dead:
Wow were u abused
it always seemed like someone teaching their kid to use violence as a solution to a problem, rather than words.
If I ever got beat, about an hour or two later my Dad would come IN and talk to me and tell why what I did was wrong and what he expects etc etc.
He'd pick me up and kiss me and say he loved me.
I would always learn.
But I'd fine new ways to try it :plzstop:
The biggest Kii are the parents that don't understand why an 8 year old is crying while getting beat
'Why u crying! stop all that crying!"
:plzstop:
My mom used to be all kinds of "black bitches" when she left the room
Thank GOD she never heard me
Never
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Quote from: Drais. on July 24, 2016, 06:19:09 PM
Wow were u abused
I got LASHED with a belt. Depends on if you view that as abuse. I don't.
Yeah, not that often though.
DeSTROYED. :gorlonfire:
Quote from: aGhoulact on July 24, 2016, 05:57:26 PM
Quote from: Don't Hurt Yourself on July 24, 2016, 05:45:34 PM
Yeah, but I don't think it had to do anything with how I grew up like I used to think.
A bunch of other children who got whipped I know are still in jail and dead
yeah, i don't understand how ppl say beatings shaped them to be who they are today, especially if they're proud of who they are
I agree.
That way you're justifying child beatings. And in the next minute it's "I would never do that to my kids though. Words will do!"
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Yea, Whippings>>>>>
Yeah, but the last time I got one was when I was like ten :dead: I think I had learned my lesson at that point and stopped trying my parents
I loved watching my brothers get their asses kicked tho
I used to perch in front of the cracked door like
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Quote from: ANIMMAI on July 24, 2016, 06:49:54 PM
I loved watching my brothers get their asses kicked tho
I used to perch in front of the cracked door like
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!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :plzstop:
My Brother was such an asshole, loved seeing him knocked upside the damn head
I was a bit of an actress. Trying to cut it spanking short "oof! ack!" and the mess didn't even touch me yet :plzstop:
And I hated when you got beat and ur parents tried to be nice shortly after
Swty, u just went upside my head. I need a few DAYS to warm back up to you
I'm sensitive :ohwow:
Quote from: FINE. on July 24, 2016, 07:04:24 PM
And I hated when you got beat and ur parents tried to be nice shortly after
Swty, u just went upside my head. I need a few DAYS to warm back up to you
I'm sensitive :ohwow:
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Wait how did your moms spank y'all? :kii: My brother swats all the lashings :udontlookok: I can't take it seriously when they discipline his harambe built self. He's like twice their height and still talks back :udontlookok:
I got one spanking. One was when my dad thought I was walking around the house naked, well it was true but I feel like he invaded my privacy.
Wait there was another, I got caught earjacking one of my dad's phone conversation.
There was also the time I knocked out my cousins tooth. Then the time I dropped a jar of tomato sauce in the grocery store. Then that time my mom thought I yelled "fish dicks" in the grocery store.
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So yes
Quote from: ANIMMAI on July 24, 2016, 06:49:54 PM
I loved watching my brothers get their asses kicked tho
I used to perch in front of the cracked door like
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sssnsjdn it was so fascinating seeing my cousins get their asses beat because I never had to deal with it :ohwow:
Yep.
Yes Queen beat the hell out of me whenever I got out of line
My dad spoiled me
Only beat me once my entire life
:blessed:
yup
one time I got beat in the park at 4 because my Grandma heard me repeat what some hooligans were saying :stressed:
Quote from: MelMel on July 24, 2016, 08:48:24 PM
yup
one time I got beat in the park at 4 because my Grandma heard me repeat what some hooligans were saying :stressed:
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:hmph:
I was a great child though. Only got beat a few times. My parents confirmed this yesterday :stressed:
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