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Title: Is being called Cute or Handsome an insult?
Post by: BrokenHeartsHeal on September 24, 2016, 08:38:48 PM
Like does it offend you when someone calls you cute or handsome as opposed to being called hot or sexy? I just feel like doesn't everyone want to make someone cream before they even get their draws off?

I think what's even worse is the "Oh you look nice... :udontlookok:" that people say in person or I see on under pictures (regular people of course). Just call em ugly or don't say nothing at all hun.
Title: Re: Is being called Cute or Handsome an insult?
Post by: FAMÈ on September 24, 2016, 08:41:17 PM
No. Everybody can't turn everybody on.
Title: Re: Is being called Cute or Handsome an insult?
Post by: BrokenHeartsHeal on September 24, 2016, 08:44:06 PM
Cute is like a little boy to me and could be annoying. I feel like if you're being called cute in your mid twenty and 30s its time to get roided.

And I feel like ugly ppl get called handsome a lot lol
Title: Re: Is being called Cute or Handsome an insult?
Post by: FAMÈ on September 24, 2016, 08:45:44 PM
Innocence is sexy to me. So "cute" can be good.
Title: Re: Is being called Cute or Handsome an insult?
Post by: Eternal Bell on September 24, 2016, 08:46:40 PM
un stinky ppl is cute to me
Title: Re: Is being called Cute or Handsome an insult?
Post by: Jon on September 24, 2016, 08:51:09 PM
I don't think so. My coworker used to call be me "unique" and "exotic" looking so i think vague things like this are more offensive.
Title: Re: Is being called Cute or Handsome an insult?
Post by: BranLover on September 24, 2016, 08:55:46 PM
Lol a little. I feel like it's someone's way of saying I'm average or not desirable, but then again I overthink shyt a lot.
Title: Re: Is being called Cute or Handsome an insult?
Post by: Young on September 24, 2016, 08:59:11 PM
I mean we all give different teas

n

A compliment is a compliment IMO
Title: Re: Is being called Cute or Handsome an insult?
Post by: Eternal Bell on September 24, 2016, 09:00:22 PM
Quote from: Young on September 24, 2016, 08:59:11 PM
I mean we all give different teas

n

A compliment is a compliment IMO
i see wat ure sayin

but it kinda sound like...'take wat u can get faggot! lols'  :omgwatshappening:
Title: Re: Is being called Cute or Handsome an insult?
Post by: BranLover on September 24, 2016, 09:01:59 PM
Quote from: Young on September 24, 2016, 08:59:11 PM
I mean we all give different teas

n

A compliment is a compliment IMO

True. Can't wait to give a jocked out mess tho.
Title: Re: Is being called Cute or Handsome an insult?
Post by: FAMÈ on September 24, 2016, 09:02:31 PM
Quote from: Young on September 24, 2016, 08:59:11 PM
I mean we all give different teas

n

A compliment is a compliment IMO
!!!!!!
Title: Re: Is being called Cute or Handsome an insult?
Post by: Young on September 24, 2016, 09:05:21 PM
Quote from: TAE! on September 24, 2016, 09:01:59 PM
Quote from: Young on September 24, 2016, 08:59:11 PM
I mean we all give different teas

n

A compliment is a compliment IMO

True. Can't wait to give a jocked out mess tho.

dddddff

Waiiiiii :takeallofme:
Title: Re: Is being called Cute or Handsome an insult?
Post by: charlie. on September 24, 2016, 09:06:30 PM
never knew "cute" was offensive :uhh: I call people cute all the time
and that means I'm still attracted to them and would fuck them/date them.

same for handsome... but I rarely hear that used anymore and I never use it.
Title: Re: Is being called Cute or Handsome an insult?
Post by: charlie. on September 24, 2016, 09:07:25 PM
Quote from: i'm mixed. on September 24, 2016, 09:05:31 PM
Quote from: Young on September 24, 2016, 08:59:11 PM


A compliment is a compliment IMO
Title: Re: Is being called Cute or Handsome an insult?
Post by: Eternal Bell on September 24, 2016, 09:08:34 PM
now tht i think 'bout it..good as i fckin look

i onl' wanna hear gorge' or beaut'
thas jus me tho
Title: Re: Is being called Cute or Handsome an insult?
Post by: Eternal Bell on September 24, 2016, 09:12:03 PM
 :udontlookok:
Title: Re: Is being called Cute or Handsome an insult?
Post by: Eternal Bell on September 24, 2016, 09:14:06 PM
o wait i means
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Title: Re: Is being called Cute or Handsome an insult?
Post by: Eternal Bell on September 24, 2016, 09:16:16 PM
 :omgwatshappening:
Title: Re: Is being called Cute or Handsome an insult?
Post by: Kurama on September 24, 2016, 09:18:25 PM
No. Some ppl don't even get that!
Title: Re: Is being called Cute or Handsome an insult?
Post by: .betterwiseup on September 24, 2016, 09:21:27 PM
Outside the club, this guy told my friend's cousin she was cute and she went off on him. She was like, "Nigga, cute is for dogs! You better come better than that."
It wasn't that serious. :dead:
Title: Re: Is being called Cute or Handsome an insult?
Post by: Eternal Bell on September 24, 2016, 09:26:03 PM
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Title: Re: Is being called Cute or Handsome an insult?
Post by: Eternal Bell on September 24, 2016, 09:26:38 PM
& also

there bettr be a 'DAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAMMMNN!"

in frunna tha gorge' & beaut' wen approachin me wit a fckin compliment
Title: Re: Is being called Cute or Handsome an insult?
Post by: Vonc2002 on September 24, 2016, 09:37:59 PM
Nah, who cares tbh. I don't look for validation from others anyway so cute, handsome, sexy, or even ugly, it don't matter.
Title: Re: Is being called Cute or Handsome an insult?
Post by: charlie. on September 24, 2016, 09:41:29 PM
Quote from: .betterwiseup on September 24, 2016, 09:21:27 PM
Outside the club, this guy told my friend's cousin she was cute and she went off on him. She was like, "Nigga, cute is for dogs! You better come better than that."
It wasn't that serious. :dead:

!!!!!


I called my ex-girlfriend that and she said literally the same thing.

Except she said "that's what you call puppies"  :dead:
Title: Re: Is being called Cute or Handsome an insult?
Post by: BrokenHeartsHeal on September 24, 2016, 09:51:05 PM
Quote from: CH∆RLIЄ. on September 24, 2016, 09:06:30 PM
never knew "cute" was offensive :uhh: I call people cute all the time
and that means I'm still attracted to them and would fuck them/date them.

same for handsome... but I rarely hear that used anymore and I never use it.

now see... I would never fuck anyone I think is cute or pretty. Idk I'm weird. It's more of an "awwww" innocence type of thing and it freaks me out.

Title: Re: Is being called Cute or Handsome an insult?
Post by: BrokenHeartsHeal on September 24, 2016, 09:53:05 PM
Quote from: Jonovan on September 24, 2016, 08:51:09 PM
I don't think so. My coworker used to call be me "unique" and "exotic" looking so i think vague things like this are more offensive.

Oh naw I would have lost my job that day. Explain further or ima... :everythingok:
Title: Re: Is being called Cute or Handsome an insult?
Post by: Kaeli. on September 24, 2016, 10:01:50 PM
Mess if I think ur ugly I'll just say "oh you look good today"
Title: Re: Is being called Cute or Handsome an insult?
Post by: Eternal Bell on September 24, 2016, 10:05:03 PM
Quote from: i'm mixed. on September 24, 2016, 10:02:37 PM
mjlnvyhi;cgltuxrylucgt;

what about the other 364 days? :usureuok:


wat about 'em..
:udontlookok:
Title: Re: Is being called Cute or Handsome an insult?
Post by: Eternal Bell on September 24, 2016, 10:07:53 PM
Quote from: BrokenHeartsHeal on September 24, 2016, 09:51:05 PM
Quote from: CH∆RLIЄ. on September 24, 2016, 09:06:30 PM
never knew "cute" was offensive :uhh: I call people cute all the time
and that means I'm still attracted to them and would fuck them/date them.

same for handsome... but I rarely hear that used anymore and I never use it.

now see... I would never fuck anyone I think is cute or pretty. Idk I'm weird. It's more of an "awwww" innocence type of thing and it freaks me out.
:omgwatshappening:
Title: Re: Is being called Cute or Handsome an insult?
Post by: Eternal Bell on September 24, 2016, 10:08:07 PM
wen did u get so shallow keif ..

so UPPITY
Title: Re: Is being called Cute or Handsome an insult?
Post by: BrokenHeartsHeal on September 24, 2016, 10:09:28 PM
when I started fucking white men

you know the early Brad Pitts of sorts  :welllol:
Title: Re: Is being called Cute or Handsome an insult?
Post by: como la whore on September 24, 2016, 10:17:39 PM
Quote from: Tinker Hell on September 24, 2016, 09:08:34 PM
now tht i think 'bout it..good as i fckin look

i onl' wanna hear gorge' or beaut'
thas jus me tho

:plzstop:
Title: Re: Is being called Cute or Handsome an insult?
Post by: GLOCK on September 24, 2016, 11:21:49 PM
Quote from: Jonovan on September 24, 2016, 08:51:09 PM
I don't think so. My coworker used to call be me "unique" and "exotic" looking so i think vague things like this are more offensive.
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Title: Re: Is being called Cute or Handsome an insult?
Post by: GLOCK on September 24, 2016, 11:22:53 PM
Quote from: i'm mixed. on September 24, 2016, 10:05:24 PM
Quote from: Tinker Hell on September 24, 2016, 10:05:03 PM
Quote from: i'm mixed. on September 24, 2016, 10:02:37 PM
mjlnvyhi;cgltuxrylucgt;

now that "today" mess is borderline insulting
what about the other 364 days? :usureuok:


wat about em hon
:udontlookok:
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Title: Re: Is being called Cute or Handsome an insult?
Post by: FINE. on September 24, 2016, 11:26:35 PM
Quote from: TAE! on September 24, 2016, 08:55:46 PM
Lol a little. I feel like it's someone's way of saying I'm average or not desirable, but then again I overthink shyt a lot.
Title: Re: Is being called Cute or Handsome an insult?
Post by: CHOKE on September 24, 2016, 11:40:45 PM
I've been told I look cute when I'm giving head

Title: Re: Is being called Cute or Handsome an insult?
Post by: FUCK Bey on September 25, 2016, 12:08:11 AM
G

Yea... I agree with Young. Tbh, it's actually more respectful and appropriate.. :dead:
Title: Re: Is being called Cute or Handsome an insult?
Post by: Rxxf on September 25, 2016, 12:11:47 AM
Honestly, some people don't want to come off extra.
:dead:
So saying "hot, sexy" may be a embarrassing to do.

Pretty, cute, handsome, beautiful... are things you can say without someone thinking you want to jump their bones.
:dead:
Title: Re: Is being called Cute or Handsome an insult?
Post by: Mel. on September 25, 2016, 12:17:34 AM
I see nothing wrong with it.
Title: Re: Is being called Cute or Handsome an insult?
Post by: wizzy on September 25, 2016, 01:36:39 AM
Not an insult but it goes in 1 ear and out the other
Probably cuz if this oversexed world we're in now
my grandma tells me I'm cute
I wanna hear 'U look good as fuck omg'
Title: Re: Is being called Cute or Handsome an insult?
Post by: hewritez on September 25, 2016, 01:42:34 AM
Quote from: Jonovan on September 24, 2016, 08:51:09 PM
I don't think so. My coworker used to call be me "unique" and "exotic" looking so i think vague things like this are more offensive.

f you're desi right?

I hate when people say "you're so exotic"


Actually i love it

:ohwow:
Title: Re: Is being called Cute or Handsome an insult?
Post by: Palladium on September 25, 2016, 01:55:05 AM
Nah, but I think Oh, you look nice is shady af.

Title: Re: Is being called Cute or Handsome an insult?
Post by: hewritez on September 25, 2016, 01:57:23 AM
m
I hate when people ask me "Do I look cute?"

:uhh:

Bitch don't ask me that. I'll tell you if you do, you won't even have to fish.
I usually just say "yeah" and quickly turn my head so they don't see the dishonesty in my eyes

:pourup:
Title: Re: Is being called Cute or Handsome an insult?
Post by: hewritez on September 25, 2016, 03:45:29 AM
Quote from: i'm mixed. on September 25, 2016, 03:20:32 AM
Quote from: hewritez on September 25, 2016, 01:42:34 AM
Quote from: Jonovan on September 24, 2016, 08:51:09 PM
I don't think so. My coworker used to call be me "unique" and "exotic" looking so i think vague things like this are more offensive.

f you're desi right?

I hate when people say "you're so exotic"

where do u live?
Must be in a place where u guys r few in number

Here in NYC we have Indians everywhere

I'm in LA now but I grew up in the Midwest lol
But I got it mostly from white people
Title: Re: Is being called Cute or Handsome an insult?
Post by: BrokenHeartsHeal on September 25, 2016, 04:11:01 AM
Yeah, nobody in nyc is 'exotic' we seen them all. No special treatment for anybody. The competition is STIFF  :letsmessfag:
Title: Re: Is being called Cute or Handsome an insult?
Post by: SouravMay on September 25, 2016, 04:29:24 AM
Those are really good compliments to use :uhh:

When I use them I mean them well. Usually I would put "really", "very" or "sooo" before the word to emphasize
Title: Re: Is being called Cute or Handsome an insult?
Post by: FlowerBomb on September 25, 2016, 06:58:01 AM
Quote from: Uni on September 25, 2016, 01:36:39 AM
Not an insult but it goes in 1 ear and out the other
Probably cuz if this oversexed world we're in now
my grandma tells me I'm cute
I wanna hear 'U look good as fuck omg'
awww does granny know, you're a...uno..
Title: Re: Is being called Cute or Handsome an insult?
Post by: FAMÈ on September 25, 2016, 09:11:09 AM
Quote from: BOOCHIE MANE on September 24, 2016, 11:21:49 PM
Quote from: Jonovan on September 24, 2016, 08:51:09 PM
I don't think so. My coworker used to call be me "unique" and "exotic" looking so i think vague things like this are more offensive.
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Jon' luv...
Title: Re: Is being called Cute or Handsome an insult?
Post by: GRAND on September 25, 2016, 09:31:25 AM
Not exotic

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Title: Re: Is being called Cute or Handsome an insult?
Post by: FlowerBomb on September 25, 2016, 09:32:32 AM
Quote from: GRAND SUPREME on September 25, 2016, 09:31:25 AM
Not exotic

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fgf I'd be fucking offended
Title: Re: Is being called Cute or Handsome an insult?
Post by: L0NZ. on September 25, 2016, 09:41:16 AM
from my perspective...

Certain features and demeanors just lend themselves to certain terminology. I see cute for guys with smaller frames, or baby faces, or dimples, or maybe there's something about them that you can't pinpoint but you are attracted to their look. They may be shy or unsure of themselves and not know that they book, actually.

Hot, to me is for guys with great body and confident attitudes.

Sexy is someone with an all around good look, a little this, a little that, but it's more about how they move. And ug mug can be sexy.

Handsome is a cookie cutter face. Like that 'anonymous' mask. Symmetry, probably nice manly bone structure. attractive in a mature, dignified way. Usually has a great smile.

FOINE is anything that makes you gag and a make weird noises to yourself inside. Makes you hold your breath, triple take, feel insecure, and do u-turns.
Title: Re: Is being called Cute or Handsome an insult?
Post by: FlowerBomb on September 25, 2016, 09:43:49 AM
Quote from: L0NZ. on September 25, 2016, 09:41:16 AM


FOINE is anything that makes you gag and a make weird noises to yourself inside. Makes you hold your breath, triple take, feel insecure, and do u-turns.
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Title: Re: Is being called Cute or Handsome an insult?
Post by: FUCK Bey on September 25, 2016, 09:54:28 AM
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"Wow youre so........... exotic... Yea, thats it."

:udontlookok:

Title: Re: Is being called Cute or Handsome an insult?
Post by: SouravMay on September 25, 2016, 10:06:41 AM
biiiiiit


YASSSS @ FOINE nnn


When you see one.

:loose2when: :loose2when: :stressed:
Title: Re: Is being called Cute or Handsome an insult?
Post by: 4 fucking k on September 25, 2016, 10:12:20 AM
I think that's so childish to get offended by that lol.  I remember I was saltly af when a family member called my sister "cute" and me "beautiful" when I was a kid :kii: Now that I'm older I see it as a bigger compliment. Now, I would be kinda :uhh: if someone called me "cute". I'm grown, hun. The fuck. Thankfully, I only get "pretty" and "beautiful" comments.

I honestly think handsome > sexy. If a guy calls you handsome or beautiful, I feel like they're speaking about your features and your all around look. Your energy. Cute feels shady to me :kii: Idk. Like it's like someone patting you on the head for the effort. Sexy feels very in the moment like LUST is. Someone can be hit in the face and be "sexy" to someone in that moment lol.
Title: Re: Is being called Cute or Handsome an insult?
Post by: BranLover on September 25, 2016, 10:16:07 AM
Quote from: Uni on September 25, 2016, 01:36:39 AM
Not an insult but it goes in 1 ear and out the other
Probably cuz if this oversexed world we're in now
my grandma tells me I'm cute
I wanna hear 'U look good as fuck omg'

I agree with this. Lol
Title: Re: Is being called Cute or Handsome an insult?
Post by: BranLover on September 25, 2016, 10:16:56 AM
Quote from: COCO on September 25, 2016, 09:43:49 AM
Quote from: L0NZ. on September 25, 2016, 09:41:16 AM


FOINE is anything that makes you gag and a make weird noises to yourself inside. Makes you hold your breath, triple take, feel insecure, and do u-turns.
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This damn truth tho
Title: Re: Is being called Cute or Handsome an insult?
Post by: BranLover on September 25, 2016, 10:18:26 AM
Quote from: L0NZ. on September 25, 2016, 09:41:16 AM
from my perspective...

Certain features and demeanors just lend themselves to certain terminology. I see cute for guys with smaller frames, or baby faces, or dimples, or maybe there's something about them that you can't pinpoint but you are attracted to their look. They may be shy or unsure of themselves and not know that they book, actually.

Hot, to me is for guys with great body and confident attitudes.

Sexy is someone with an all around good look, a little this, a little that, but it's more about how they move. And ug mug can be sexy.

Handsome is a cookie cutter face. Like that 'anonymous' mask. Symmetry, probably nice manly bone structure. attractive in a mature, dignified way. Usually has a great smile.

FOINE is anything that makes you gag and a make weird noises to yourself inside. Makes you hold your breath, triple take, feel insecure, and do u-turns.

I'm kinda taking HEED to all of this.
Title: Re: Is being called Cute or Handsome an insult?
Post by: LOONA. on September 25, 2016, 11:31:42 AM
I don't see anything wrong with any of those terms. It also depends on who it comes from and the setting you're in. Would anyone want their family members calling them hot and sexy? It also wouldn't be a very appropriate term to use at work, especially from a superior.

Adults seem to get offended by the word cute. They find it babyish and childish. Like a dog, baby, puppy mess etc. I think it just means you have youthful features and carry yourself a certain way. Maybe you're super shy and timid. Alot of people find that cute.

The word sexy is eh to me. I've gotten it a few times but it's always followed by a comment on my body or a body part. Yeah I'm not really here for that. I don't wanna be seen as an object mess.

I really like the word handsome. I get called this and pretty alot. I definitely try to keep myself up and dress for my body type. And alot of people find me being mysterious very attractive or whatever. IDK why       

Title: Re: Is being called Cute or Handsome an insult?
Post by: KING BENTLEY. on September 25, 2016, 12:46:27 PM
a lot of male models get "handsome" their entire lives..... couldn't see why it would be an insult.
when I see someone that is just SO well put together and exudes confidence and is a bit sex' as well, good attitude.... that's handsome to me
Title: Re: Is being called Cute or Handsome an insult?
Post by: Rxxf on September 25, 2016, 01:57:37 PM
It all depends on who is giving you a compliment.

At work, "so handsome", "so pretty", "so nice", and "you look good", are usually the terms used. And your TONE of voice and the way you say it is very important.
Title: Re: Is being called Cute or Handsome an insult?
Post by: Rxxf on September 25, 2016, 01:58:58 PM
Or "I love your new hair color/style", is another way of complimenting someone.
Title: Re: Is being called Cute or Handsome an insult?
Post by: Rxxf on September 25, 2016, 02:01:25 PM
"stunning, exotic, oh wow" are terms I think that are used for people who look almost model-like, in an unique way. This is rare. Not everyone gets this privilege, honestly.
Title: Re: Is being called Cute or Handsome an insult?
Post by: Rxxf on September 25, 2016, 02:22:32 PM
Quote from: african sle' on September 25, 2016, 02:18:01 PM
Quote from: R on September 25, 2016, 02:01:25 PM
"stunning, exotic, oh wow" are terms I think that are used for people who look almost model-like, in an unique way. This is rare. Not everyone gets this privilege, honestly.
!

i honestly don't see exotic as an insult.
simply means u look like ur from somewhere else. an island or something.
ur something that is rarely seen where ur at. its a book tbfh

but of course it depends on context.

It's not. Lol.
It's a slay, honestly.

And if you look "crazy", people would fix their mouth to say "not cute" before anything.
So yeah.
:dead:
Title: Re: Is being called Cute or Handsome an insult?
Post by: SouravMay on September 25, 2016, 02:27:18 PM
I get exotic often actually. But not in a romantic or fetishizing way, more so descriptive as in hard to place.
Title: Re: Is being called Cute or Handsome an insult?
Post by: Opposites Attract. on September 25, 2016, 02:36:19 PM
I've never called anyone hot or sexy and I don't call anyone handsome except ugly trans gurs.
Title: Re: Is being called Cute or Handsome an insult?
Post by: hewritez on September 25, 2016, 02:57:16 PM
I feel like as an Indian, I get "cute" or "pretty eyes" more than anything.

Very few people say "sexy". I don't know if that's because, generally speaking, my community isn't viewed as being sexy the way blacks and latinos are.

I think we fall into a very specific category of fetishism, where as blacks and latinos are more widely recognized as being sexy.


I feel bad for East Asians. They gets nuthin  :cheerup:
Title: Re: Is being called Cute or Handsome an insult?
Post by: Eternal Bell on September 25, 2016, 03:02:27 PM
Quote from: african sle' on September 25, 2016, 10:14:57 AM
Quote from: imani on September 25, 2016, 10:12:20 AM
Thankfully, I only get "pretty" and "beautiful" comments.


das my lil sis :ohwow: :raycharles2urmess:
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Title: Re: Is being called Cute or Handsome an insult?
Post by: Eternal Bell on September 25, 2016, 03:08:04 PM
Quote from: Drais. on September 25, 2016, 11:31:42 AM
alot of people find me being mysterious very attractive or whatever. IDK why       

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Title: Re: Is being called Cute or Handsome an insult?
Post by: Eternal Bell on September 25, 2016, 03:08:59 PM
Quote from: african sle' on September 25, 2016, 03:03:57 PM
Quote from: Tinker Hell on September 25, 2016, 03:02:27 PM
Quote from: african sle' on September 25, 2016, 10:14:57 AM
Quote from: imani on September 25, 2016, 10:12:20 AM
Thankfully, I only get "pretty" and "beautiful" comments.


das my lil sis :ohwow: :raycharles2urmess:
j
shes shitting all over u mutant
and ur lil trans dog too

:supluv:
Title: Re: Is being called Cute or Handsome an insult?
Post by: Young on September 25, 2016, 03:16:55 PM
I think people get offended because they don't wanna identify with the tea they give.
A guy wants to probably be seen as sexy when he gives cute, for example.  So the issue with how you perceive those compliments are really internal issues; Because they're all indeed compliments.

n
People don't HAVE to say anything.

If you're cute you're cute. Sometimes I actually prefer the cuter guys.

They're normally less cocky, funny, and all around a sweet person.  They aren't too into themselves either
Title: Re: Is being called Cute or Handsome an insult?
Post by: Rxxf on September 25, 2016, 03:18:13 PM
Quote from: Young on September 25, 2016, 03:16:55 PM
I think people get offended because they don't wanna identify with the tea they give.
A guy wants to probably be seen as sexy when he gives cute, for example.  So the issue with how you perceive those compliments are really internal issues; Because they're all indeed compliments.



I agree with this.
Title: Re: Is being called Cute or Handsome an insult?
Post by: KING BENTLEY. on September 25, 2016, 03:19:44 PM
Quote from: Tinker Hell on September 25, 2016, 03:08:04 PM
Quote from: Drais. on September 25, 2016, 11:31:42 AM
alot of people find me being mysterious very attractive or whatever. IDK why       

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Title: Re: Is being called Cute or Handsome an insult?
Post by: KING BENTLEY. on September 25, 2016, 03:21:04 PM
Quote from: Young on September 25, 2016, 03:16:55 PM
I think people get offended because they don't wanna identify with the tea they give.
A guy wants to probably be seen as sexy when he gives cute, for example.  So the issue with how you perceive those compliments are really internal issues; Because they're all indeed compliments.

n
People don't HAVE to say anything.

If you're cute you're cute. Sometimes I actually prefer the cuter guys.

They're normally less cocky, funny, and all around a sweet person.  They aren't too into themselves either
!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


that and the fact I don't see a lot of ppl calling others FIONE casually to their face :dead:
you tell your friends, but usually face to face contact, it's limited to handsome or beautiful for me, it's the more gentleman approach
Title: Re: Is being called Cute or Handsome an insult?
Post by: Young on September 25, 2016, 03:23:06 PM
Quote from: BENTLEY! on September 25, 2016, 03:21:04 PM
Quote from: Young on September 25, 2016, 03:16:55 PM
I think people get offended because they don't wanna identify with the tea they give.
A guy wants to probably be seen as sexy when he gives cute, for example.  So the issue with how you perceive those compliments are really internal issues; Because they're all indeed compliments.

n
People don't HAVE to say anything.

If you're cute you're cute. Sometimes I actually prefer the cuter guys.

They're normally less cocky, funny, and all around a sweet person.  They aren't too into themselves either
!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


that and the fact I don't see a lot of ppl calling others FIONE casually to their face :dead:
you tell your friends, but usually face to face contact, it's limited to handsome or beautiful for me, it's the more gentleman approach

That's true too!
Title: Re: Is being called Cute or Handsome an insult?
Post by: b7 on September 25, 2016, 03:26:21 PM
Quote from: african sle' on September 24, 2016, 10:02:37 PM
mjlnvyhi;cgltuxrylucgt;

now that "today" mess is borderline insulting
what about the other 364 days? :usureuok:
ssdddddff yea that shit isn't so great

But "cute", adorable and handsome is certainly not something I'd take as an INSULT :dead: maybe I'm just not that sensitive or something but anything complimentary is great
Title: Re: Is being called Cute or Handsome an insult?
Post by: Rxxf on September 25, 2016, 03:28:06 PM
Quote from: african sle' on September 25, 2016, 03:22:46 PM
Quote from: BENTLEY! on September 25, 2016, 03:21:04 PM
Quote from: Young on September 25, 2016, 03:16:55 PM
I think people get offended because they don't wanna identify with the tea they give.
A guy wants to probably be seen as sexy when he gives cute, for example.  So the issue with how you perceive those compliments are really internal issues; Because they're all indeed compliments.

n
People don't HAVE to say anything.

If you're cute you're cute. Sometimes I actually prefer the cuter guys.

They're normally less cocky, funny, and all around a sweet person.  They aren't too into themselves either
!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


that and the fact I don't see a lot of ppl calling others FIONE casually to their face :dead:
you tell your friends, but usually face to face contact, it's limited to handsome or beautiful for me, it's the more gentleman approach
true

foine gives a fiend mess owt

I only say FIONE when I'm describing a person who is FIONE to someone else.
:dead: :dead:
Title: Re: Is being called Cute or Handsome an insult?
Post by: Rxxf on September 25, 2016, 03:28:31 PM
Like, Gorl, he is FIONEz
:ohwow:
Title: Re: Is being called Cute or Handsome an insult?
Post by: FAMÈ on September 25, 2016, 03:28:46 PM
Quote from: Tinker Hell on September 25, 2016, 03:08:04 PM
Quote from: Drais. on September 25, 2016, 11:31:42 AM
alot of people find me being mysterious very attractive or whatever. IDK why       

GBNMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMJTDD


(https://uploadir.com/u/7vyx5q93)
Wtf
Title: Re: Is being called Cute or Handsome an insult?
Post by: yummy on September 25, 2016, 03:29:12 PM
A compliment is a compliment, but there's a way it can be received because of the delivery.

Someone calling me handsome or cute would be weird because that sounds more like something your grandmother would say. :diddraispoot:
Title: Re: Is being called Cute or Handsome an insult?
Post by: Rxxf on September 25, 2016, 03:30:40 PM
I think "Look Good" is the common term when you're talking about the opposite/same sex.
No?
Title: Re: Is being called Cute or Handsome an insult?
Post by: yummy on September 25, 2016, 03:31:14 PM
Quote from: Tinker Hell on September 25, 2016, 03:08:04 PM
Quote from: Drais. on September 25, 2016, 11:31:42 AM
alot of people find me being mysterious very attractive or whatever. IDK why       

GBNMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMJTDD


(https://uploadir.com/u/7vyx5q93)

vvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvscscdccdcvsf

The only thing mysterious is where the stench is coming from, your mouth or your ass

(https://uploadir.com/u/7vyx5q93)
Title: Re: Is being called Cute or Handsome an insult?
Post by: Buy The Stars✨ on September 25, 2016, 03:34:53 PM
Quote from: R on September 25, 2016, 12:11:47 AM
Honestly, some people don't want to come off extra.
:dead:
So saying "hot, sexy" may be a embarrassing to do.

Pretty, cute, handsome, beautiful... are things you can say without someone thinking you want to jump their bones.
:dead:

!!
Title: Re: Is being called Cute or Handsome an insult?
Post by: LOONA. on September 25, 2016, 03:45:45 PM
Quote from: ANIMMAI on September 25, 2016, 03:31:14 PM
Quote from: Tinker Hell on September 25, 2016, 03:08:04 PM
Quote from: Drais. on September 25, 2016, 11:31:42 AM
alot of people find me being mysterious very attractive or whatever. IDK why       

GBNMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMJTDD


(https://uploadir.com/u/7vyx5q93)

vvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvscscdccdcvsf

The only thing mysterious is where the stench is coming from, your mouth or your ass

(https://uploadir.com/u/7vyx5q93)

Dhbnfdff

Do you faggots wanna catch a fade?

:omgwatshappening:
Title: Re: Is being called Cute or Handsome an insult?
Post by: b7 on September 25, 2016, 04:31:04 PM
Quote from: COCO on September 25, 2016, 09:43:49 AM
Quote from: L0NZ. on September 25, 2016, 09:41:16 AM


FOINE is anything that makes you gag and a make weird noises to yourself inside. Makes you hold your breath, triple take, feel insecure, and do u-turns.
graehtrtskudytmrtshae5y46utrhzed\dvs
c. C ccvvvvvvv this BREAKDOWN

Lonz is king lolz
Title: Re: Is being called Cute or Handsome an insult?
Post by: b7 on September 25, 2016, 04:34:24 PM
Quote from: Young on September 25, 2016, 03:16:55 PM
I think people get offended because they don't wanna identify with the tea they give.
A guy wants to probably be seen as sexy when he gives cute, for example.  So the issue with how you perceive those compliments are really internal issues; Because they're all indeed compliments.

n
People don't HAVE to say anything.

If you're cute you're cute. Sometimes I actually prefer the cuter guys.

They're normally less cocky, funny, and all around a sweet person.  They aren't too into themselves either
vsccvvvvvb what're u saying
Title: Re: Is being called Cute or Handsome an insult?
Post by: Rxxf on September 25, 2016, 04:34:27 PM
Drais... body type, you say?
:ohwow:
Title: Re: Is being called Cute or Handsome an insult?
Post by: Inject My Lips on September 25, 2016, 04:36:08 PM
Everybody can't be sexy, if you're cute own it.
Title: Re: Is being called Cute or Handsome an insult?
Post by: FINE. on September 25, 2016, 05:05:56 PM
I made this exact same thread a while back and everybody gave a "no big deal!"
"Cute is the new fione!"

(https://uploadir.com/u/7vyx5q93)
Title: Re: Is being called Cute or Handsome an insult?
Post by: Vonc2002 on September 25, 2016, 05:13:53 PM
Quote from: Tinker Hell on September 25, 2016, 03:08:04 PM
Quote from: Drais. on September 25, 2016, 11:31:42 AM
alot of people find me being mysterious very attractive or whatever. IDK why       

GBNMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMJTDD


(https://uploadir.com/u/7vyx5q93)
I am crying OUT  :kii:
Title: Re: Is being called Cute or Handsome an insult?
Post by: Vonc2002 on September 25, 2016, 05:15:42 PM
That slight lip quiver has me on this floor
Oprah is the fck CONFUSED :kii:
Title: Re: Is being called Cute or Handsome an insult?
Post by: Rxxf on September 25, 2016, 05:17:59 PM
It's really how you say it.

If I say someone is "cute" in one shot, that's different than me saying "oh he's cuteeeeeee..."
:dead:
Title: Re: Is being called Cute or Handsome an insult?
Post by: wizzy on September 25, 2016, 07:33:33 PM
Quote from: Tinker Hell on September 25, 2016, 03:08:04 PM
Quote from: Drais. on September 25, 2016, 11:31:42 AM
alot of people find me being mysterious very attractive or whatever. IDK why       

GBNMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMJTDD


(https://uploadir.com/u/7vyx5q93)
c
omg
Title: Re: Is being called Cute or Handsome an insult?
Post by: FlowerBomb on September 26, 2016, 05:42:22 AM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on September 25, 2016, 05:13:53 PM
Quote from: Tinker Hell on September 25, 2016, 03:08:04 PM
Quote from: Drais. on September 25, 2016, 11:31:42 AM
alot of people find me being mysterious very attractive or whatever. IDK why       

GBNMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMJTDD


(https://uploadir.com/u/7vyx5q93)
I am crying OUT  :kii:
bjjnsjsjdksllslso
Title: Re: Is being called Cute or Handsome an insult?
Post by: LOONA. on September 26, 2016, 09:09:10 AM
Quote from: R on September 25, 2016, 04:34:27 PM
Drais... body type, you say?
:ohwow:

Yes

All of my clothes are very form fitting so either you'll know I'm gay or just like showing off my mess.  :)       

Title: Re: Is being called Cute or Handsome an insult?
Post by: Real on September 26, 2016, 09:11:03 AM
Quote from: Corporate Cannibal. on September 25, 2016, 05:12:25 PM
Cute does annoy me a lil.

But I love handsome.
Title: Re: Is being called Cute or Handsome an insult?
Post by: Kurama on September 26, 2016, 09:44:39 AM
🙄
Title: Re: Is being called Cute or Handsome an insult?
Post by: Scott. on September 26, 2016, 09:46:52 AM
Quote from: TAE! on September 24, 2016, 08:55:46 PM
Lol a little. I feel like it's someone's way of saying I'm average or not desirable, but then again I overthink shyt a lot.
hell thats how I feel about myself all the time tbh
Title: Re: Is being called Cute or Handsome an insult?
Post by: Zankou. on September 26, 2016, 09:50:49 AM
Quote from: Real on September 26, 2016, 09:11:03 AM
Quote from: Corporate Cannibal. on September 25, 2016, 05:12:25 PM
Cute does annoy me a lil.

But I love handsome.
Title: Re: Is being called Cute or Handsome an insult?
Post by: Vonc2002 on September 26, 2016, 09:56:49 AM
Quote from: Scott. on September 26, 2016, 09:46:52 AM
Quote from: TAE! on September 24, 2016, 08:55:46 PM
Lol a little. I feel like it's someone's way of saying I'm average or not desirable, but then again I overthink shyt a lot.
hell thats how I feel about myself all the time tbh
When i think about it, that's how i use cute. Ur not ugly but i dont want ya LOLZ. Nothing wrong with it still tho. Everyone ain't desirable to everyone
Title: Re: Is being called Cute or Handsome an insult?
Post by: wizzy on September 26, 2016, 10:03:10 AM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on September 26, 2016, 09:56:49 AM
Quote from: Scott. on September 26, 2016, 09:46:52 AM
Quote from: TAE! on September 24, 2016, 08:55:46 PM
Lol a little. I feel like it's someone's way of saying I'm average or not desirable, but then again I overthink shyt a lot.
hell thats how I feel about myself all the time tbh
When i think about it, that's how i use cute. Ur not ugly but i dont want ya LOLZ. Nothing wrong with it still tho. Everyone ain't desirable to everyone
!!!! Its so awkward when I send pics and they've already said Im handsome and then I see theirs and Im like
You look so nice! :blush:

I never like leading people on
Title: Re: Is being called Cute or Handsome an insult?
Post by: Real on September 26, 2016, 10:09:43 AM
Quote from: Scott. on September 26, 2016, 09:46:52 AM
Quote from: TAE! on September 24, 2016, 08:55:46 PM
Lol a little. I feel like it's someone's way of saying I'm average or not desirable, but then again I overthink shyt a lot.
hell thats how I feel about myself all the time tbh

How tall are you?

I feel like if you're under a certain height, "cute" is the first go-to  :hmph:
Title: Re: Is being called Cute or Handsome an insult?
Post by: Scott. on September 26, 2016, 12:22:52 PM
Quote from: Real on September 26, 2016, 10:09:43 AM
Quote from: Scott. on September 26, 2016, 09:46:52 AM
Quote from: TAE! on September 24, 2016, 08:55:46 PM
Lol a little. I feel like it's someone's way of saying I'm average or not desirable, but then again I overthink shyt a lot.
hell thats how I feel about myself all the time tbh

How tall are you?

I feel like if you're under a certain height, "cute" is the first go-to  :hmph:

6'1
Title: Re: Is being called Cute or Handsome an insult?
Post by: FlowerBomb on September 26, 2016, 04:54:29 PM
Quote from: Corporate Cannibal. on September 26, 2016, 04:53:18 PM
I always get "you are so cute"

Ch, fuck you, tbh!
but you are  :dead:
I don't see 'cute' as bad tbh
Title: Re: Is being called Cute or Handsome an insult?
Post by: Zankou. on September 26, 2016, 05:07:38 PM
Quote from: Real on September 26, 2016, 10:09:43 AM
Quote from: Scott. on September 26, 2016, 09:46:52 AM
Quote from: TAE! on September 24, 2016, 08:55:46 PM
Lol a little. I feel like it's someone's way of saying I'm average or not desirable, but then again I overthink shyt a lot.
hell thats how I feel about myself all the time tbh

How tall are you?

I feel like if you're under a certain height, "cute" is the first go-to  :hmph:

w
Title: Re: Is being called Cute or Handsome an insult?
Post by: Zankou. on September 26, 2016, 05:07:56 PM
Quote from: Corporate Cannibal. on September 26, 2016, 05:05:30 PM
...thanks. :)

:kii: :kii: :plzstop: :plzstop:
Title: Re: Is being called Cute or Handsome an insult?
Post by: FlowerBomb on September 26, 2016, 05:08:25 PM
 :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop:
Title: Re: Is being called Cute or Handsome an insult?
Post by: Real on September 26, 2016, 05:20:28 PM
Quote from: Scott. on September 26, 2016, 12:22:52 PM
Quote from: Real on September 26, 2016, 10:09:43 AM
Quote from: Scott. on September 26, 2016, 09:46:52 AM
Quote from: TAE! on September 24, 2016, 08:55:46 PM
Lol a little. I feel like it's someone's way of saying I'm average or not desirable, but then again I overthink shyt a lot.
hell thats how I feel about myself all the time tbh

How tall are you?

I feel like if you're under a certain height, "cute" is the first go-to  :hmph:

6'1

Oh ok lol you look really young too....I could see how that equates to "cute" for people
Title: Re: Is being called Cute or Handsome an insult?
Post by: Rxxf on September 26, 2016, 09:40:15 PM
Quote from: Scott. on September 26, 2016, 12:22:52 PM
Quote from: Real on September 26, 2016, 10:09:43 AM
Quote from: Scott. on September 26, 2016, 09:46:52 AM
Quote from: TAE! on September 24, 2016, 08:55:46 PM
Lol a little. I feel like it's someone's way of saying I'm average or not desirable, but then again I overthink shyt a lot.
hell thats how I feel about myself all the time tbh

How tall are you?

I feel like if you're under a certain height, "cute" is the first go-to  :hmph:

6'1

Ooo Scotty
:ohwow:
Title: Re: Is being called Cute or Handsome an insult?
Post by: leftout on September 26, 2016, 09:40:36 PM
How is cute remotely an insult

Do y'all want somebody to lust after you right off the bat, "omff sexy as fuck, nigga." That's a turn off for me
Title: Re: Is being called Cute or Handsome an insult?
Post by: Rxxf on September 26, 2016, 09:41:14 PM
Quote from: Corporate Cannibal. on September 26, 2016, 05:05:30 PM
...thanks. :)

Cute is actually good.
:dead:

Title: Re: Is being called Cute or Handsome an insult?
Post by: Rxxf on September 26, 2016, 09:41:51 PM
He is so cute.
He looks so good.

Are terms that I use a lot for guys I'd actually date/entertain.
Title: Re: Is being called Cute or Handsome an insult?
Post by: Rxxf on September 26, 2016, 09:42:28 PM
Quote from: Damnation on September 26, 2016, 09:40:36 PM
How is cute remotely an insult

Do y'all want somebody to lust after you right off the bat, "omff sexy as fuck, nigga." That's a turn off for me

!!!!!
Title: Re: Is being called Cute or Handsome an insult?
Post by: b7 on September 26, 2016, 09:59:14 PM
Quote from: Damnation on September 26, 2016, 09:40:36 PM
How is cute remotely an insult


dssdddddd
Title: Re: Is being called Cute or Handsome an insult?
Post by: FINE. on September 26, 2016, 09:59:58 PM
Quote from: Damnation on September 26, 2016, 09:40:36 PM
How is cute remotely an insult

Do y'all want somebody to lust after you right off the bat, "omff sexy as fuck, nigga." That's a turn off for me
:ohwow:
Title: Re: Is being called Cute or Handsome an insult?
Post by: Harlem on September 26, 2016, 10:49:56 PM
It does matter how someone says cute thou... cuz I def be like "damnnn he's cute ass fuck" to me that means he looks good... compared to "oh he's cute" that's more like he iiight lol
Title: Re: Is being called Cute or Handsome an insult?
Post by: Rxxf on September 26, 2016, 10:52:31 PM
Quote from: Harlem on September 26, 2016, 10:49:56 PM
It does matter how someone says cute thou... cuz I def be like "damnnn he's cute ass fuck" to me that means he looks good... compared to "oh he's cute" that's more like he iiight lol

THERE U GO!!!
Title: Re: Is being called Cute or Handsome an insult?
Post by: GRAND on September 26, 2016, 11:09:09 PM
I don't care what anyone calls me

If they're interested they must think I'm attractive and that's all I care about

Title: Re: Is being called Cute or Handsome an insult?
Post by: KING BENTLEY. on March 02, 2017, 09:05:09 AM
Quote from: TAE! on September 24, 2016, 08:55:46 PM
Lol a little. I feel like it's someone's way of saying I'm average or not desirable, but then again I overthink shyt a lot.
I just learned this yesterday and had to review this thread!
I never knew it was offensive to some ppl.
learn knew things everyday tho.
Title: Re: Is being called Cute or Handsome an insult?
Post by: FlowerBomb on March 02, 2017, 09:33:52 AM
Quote from: Bougi?. on September 26, 2016, 09:59:58 PM
Quote from: Damnation on September 26, 2016, 09:40:36 PM
How is cute remotely an insult

Do y'all want somebody to lust after you right off the bat, "omff sexy as fuck, nigga." That's a turn off for me
:ohwow:
:plzstop:
Title: Re: Is being called Cute or Handsome an insult?
Post by: 'ology on March 02, 2017, 09:39:28 AM
Quote from: Bad Gorl Tinker on September 24, 2016, 09:00:22 PM
Quote from: Young on September 24, 2016, 08:59:11 PM
I mean we all give different teas

n

A compliment is a compliment IMO
i see wat ure sayin

but it kinda sound like...'take wat u can get faggot! lols'  :omgwatshappening:

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Title: Re: Is being called Cute or Handsome an insult?
Post by: 'ology on March 02, 2017, 09:41:14 AM
Quote from: Bad Gorl Tinker on September 24, 2016, 09:08:34 PM
now tht i think 'bout it..good as i fckin look

i onl' wanna hear gorge' or beaut'
thas jus me tho

:dead:
Title: Re: Is being called Cute or Handsome an insult?
Post by: 'ology on March 02, 2017, 09:43:10 AM
Quote from: stillpretti. on September 24, 2016, 10:02:37 PM
mjlnvyhi;cgltuxrylucgt;

now that "today" mess is borderline insulting
what about the other 364 days? :usureuok:

Zzzzzzzzzzzz

That's how I always feel when somebody says this to somoeone lol soooo how did they look yesterday  :ohwow:
Title: Re: Is being called Cute or Handsome an insult?
Post by: 'ology on March 02, 2017, 09:45:27 AM
Quote from: hewritez on September 25, 2016, 01:57:23 AM
m
I hate when people ask me "Do I look cute?"

:uhh:

Bitch don't ask me that. I'll tell you if you do, you won't even have to fish.
I usually just say "yeah" and quickly turn my head so they don't see the dishonesty in my eyes

:pourup:

Zzzzzzzzzzz