I've always considered him "straight"
But we've had this really weird intense "friendship".
I, admittedly, had a crush on him in college. And I made it known through my obsessive crazy behavior :dead: :'(
But then I got over it and moved on.
He, however, has been weird with me.
Very touchy feely. He grinds on me. He talks about me sucking his dick.
He has this thing called "huggy time", where he comes and hugs me and then we fall onto the bed and cuddle for a while.
All of this changed when his "girlfriend" moved to L.A.
Now he's very tense, very strange.
He gets jealous, I think, of my other friends.
He's very bitter towards me. He has actually been quite cruel to me, and vindictive.
His girlfriend his fucking clueless. She once said, "you guys have a weird relationship"
But that's it.
Do you think I should address this? Should I talk to his gf? Should I just mind my business and leave? I'm moving out at the end of November. I don't see myself being friends with him after I leave. But I just can't believe that girl is with him and buying his hetero bullshit. :uhh:
I almost want to tell her everything...but...iono
Should I just leave it? What would you do?
n
it doesnt sound like there is much to tell
its not wrong or weird for friends to be close physically its actually quite adorable
it does seem like something is bothering him about where your friendship is right now
but
if you guys are really friends it should work itself out
he asked to see my dick, and talks about me sucking his dick.
how is that not something to tell? :dead:
Quote from: hewritez on October 03, 2016, 03:15:50 AM
he asked to see my dick, and talks about me sucking his dick.
how is that not something to tell? :dead:
so whats wrong with that line of conversation :plzstop: :plzstop:
how did you respond to these questions and hypothetical scenarios?
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Quote from: TheNextLew on October 03, 2016, 03:26:13 AM
Quote from: hewritez on October 03, 2016, 03:15:50 AM
he asked to see my dick, and talks about me sucking his dick.
how is that not something to tell? :dead:
so whats wrong with that line on conversation :plzstop: :plzstop:
how did you respond to these questions and hypothetical scenarios?
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I'm pretty sure I indulged a bit :ohwow:
But I'm openly gay and he's with a girl who moved all the way from Texas to be with him.
She think they're gonna get married. What a dumb cunt
Quote from: hewritez on October 03, 2016, 03:28:10 AM
Quote from: TheNextLew on October 03, 2016, 03:26:13 AM
Quote from: hewritez on October 03, 2016, 03:15:50 AM
he asked to see my dick, and talks about me sucking his dick.
how is that not something to tell? :dead:
so whats wrong with that line on conversation :plzstop: :plzstop:
how did you respond to these questions and hypothetical scenarios?
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f
I'm pretty sure I indulged a bit :ohwow:
But I'm openly gay and he's with a girl who moved all the way from Texas to be with him.
She think they're gonna get married. What a dumb cunt
listen dont break the bro code ok
they can be happy
but it seems like since shes moved hes pulled back a bit
most likely due to the fact that that ruins the chances of you guys getting closer
i say leave it nothing really outside of "boys being boys" has happened
Don't tell her, especially since you're leaving soon. It'll just be a big mess for the next month.
He hasn't really done anything incriminating. But, you should open the conversation up with him. "Umm, do you want me FUCK me or something? LOL"
True.
I just hate that, because I'm gay, that bitch prolly thinks I"m the one who's trying to pervert her man. And if it came down to it, I know that's what he would say.
ugh. straight people are so irritating. But i'ma leave it alone.
I get what you're saying about her thinking you're the one trying to convert him ..
This is what I would do ... I would get some video or audio of him asking to see your dick or talking about you sucking his dick. Don't show it to her but keep it in the case of emergency. So she won't think you're one of these fags trying to turn a straight guy out
Ask if he's a faggot or not
Ur moving soon, so why bother with it? I think it's pretty messy to involve urself in this, especially when it comes to his girlfriend.
Quote from: hewritez on October 03, 2016, 03:15:50 AM
he asked to see my dick, and talks about me sucking his dick.
how is that not something to tell? :dead:
It's not really ur place imo. Do u want him or something? What's the benefit of telling his girlfriend u THINK he's gay other than being spiteful?
You've slept with this man before huh
Spill the tea!
Quote from: COCO on October 03, 2016, 11:57:59 AM
Ask if he's a faggot or not
'!!!!!!
The first confrontation should be with him first!
Especially if he's been vindictive... no ma'am
"we've got shit to talk about or a fade to catch ... your choice"
:tistheseas:
If he didn't ask if he was gay when they were cuddling and spooning, why ask now? Y'all so damn messy :dead:
Quote from: Vonc2002 on October 03, 2016, 12:24:53 PM
If he didn't ask if he was gay when they were cuddling and spooning, why ask now? Y'all so damn messy :dead:
cuddling and spooning??? :dead:
Lemme re-read this mess :kii:
I would just straight up ask, 'do you want to fuck me?'
All these subliminals and mess, ch..
Quote from: hewritez on October 03, 2016, 02:45:02 AM
He grinds on me. He talks about me sucking his dick.
He has this thing called "huggy time", where he comes and hugs me and then we fall onto the bed and cuddle for a while.
s
So was all this before he had the GF or during .. cause 2 things
Friends don't cuddle after dick talk, IMHO
If it was before the girlfriend you don't have the right to speak on it to her
If it was during his relationship, you need to determine what your interpretation of the cuddling was and address it with him.
Long story short, don't say shit.
Judging from the story tho
Your friend is the worst type of phagg imaginable. Stay with family until November and delete all his info
Quote from: Vonc2002 on October 03, 2016, 12:24:53 PM
If he didn't ask if he was gay when they were cuddling and spooning, why ask now? Y'all so damn messy :dead:
well men do stupid shit like that all the time
but when it becomes excessive, you gotta WONDER a bit
was he supposed to ask the first time? the second time? :omgwatshappening:
its clearly bothering him -- that alone is enough reason to ask WTF
Sounds like just some white frat boy type BS
nothing to upset his GF over and she probably knows
I'm getting jealous vibes from you in this post though
like if you break them up you can have him for yourself
More like ANNOYED
Why are y'all even defending this fag that's trying to take advantage of him
:usureuok:
Quote from: GRAND SUPREME on October 03, 2016, 12:31:08 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on October 03, 2016, 12:24:53 PM
If he didn't ask if he was gay when they were cuddling and spooning, why ask now? Y'all so damn messy :dead:
well men do stupid shit like that all the time
but when it becomes excessive, you gotta WONDER a bit
was he supposed to ask the first time? the second time? :omgwatshappening:
its clearly bothering him -- that alone is enough reason to ask WTF
They've been friends for yrs it sounds like. Talkin bout huggy time n shit, that woulda been the perfect time to ask his intentions/feelings WHATEVER! At this point, they are no longer cool and it just seems like he wants to create some drama.........but that's my opinion
Quote from: AYR on October 03, 2016, 12:33:28 PM
Sounds like just some white frat boy type BS
nothing to upset his GF over and she probably knows
I'm getting jealous vibes from you in this post though
like if you break them up you can have him for yourself
s
So grabbing dick, cuddling, and asking friends to suck your dick is normal str8 behavior.
Got it.
Just taking a few notes lolz
Quote from: BENTLEY! on October 03, 2016, 12:39:26 PM
Quote from: AYR on October 03, 2016, 12:33:28 PM
Sounds like just some white frat boy type BS
nothing to upset his GF over and she probably knows
I'm getting jealous vibes from you in this post though
like if you break them up you can have him for yourself
s
So grabbing dick, cuddling, and asking friends to suck your dick is normal str8 behavior.
Got it.
Just taking a few notes lolz
n
Quote from: AYR on October 03, 2016, 12:33:28 PM
Sounds like just some white frat boy type BS
nothing to upset his GF over and she probably knows
I'm getting jealous vibes from you in this post though
like if you break them up you can have him for yourself
TBH! And i agree with the white frat boy shit. I had a white roommate in college and he did alot of stuff that made me :everythingok:
I definitely couldve taken that as him being on some gay shit but it doesn't make me any damn difference so why tf would i inquire?
If ur try to stir this up, it's for a reason.........and i doubt its for the GF's benefit
lol you're leaving in 2 moths
just go
Quote from: BENTLEY! on October 03, 2016, 12:39:26 PM
Quote from: AYR on October 03, 2016, 12:33:28 PM
Sounds like just some white frat boy type BS
nothing to upset his GF over and she probably knows
I'm getting jealous vibes from you in this post though
like if you break them up you can have him for yourself
s
So grabbing dick, cuddling, and asking friends to suck your dick is normal str8 behavior.
Got it.
Just taking a few notes lolz
If this guy is white, ud be surprised tbh
ssssvsvsvsvvvssddss
title has me in tears
this memeber is like lew reincarnate 😂😂
Quote from: AYR on October 03, 2016, 12:33:28 PM
I'm getting jealous vibes from you in this post though
like if you break them up you can have him for yourself
!
Quote from: TheNextLew on October 03, 2016, 03:26:13 AM
Quote from: hewritez on October 03, 2016, 03:15:50 AM
he asked to see my dick, and talks about me sucking his dick.
how is that not something to tell? :dead:
so whats wrong with that line of conversation :plzstop: :plzstop:
how did you respond to these questions and hypothetical scenarios?
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Im just reading this. Lew, u are so disgusting :kii:
He sounds crazy. Having a roommate who likes you is always a bad thing, especially if they can't have you but still have to see you every day and live in the same space as you.
Just pay him dust and leave it alone before you wake up with a knife to ur throat one morning.
Quote from: Tahj Zezo. on October 03, 2016, 01:16:34 PM
What does he look like?
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lmaoooo
youre leaving in less than a month and you dont see a future friendship with him..so enjoy your last month and mind your business..
Quote from: hewritez on October 03, 2016, 02:45:02 AM
I've always considered him "straight"
But we've had this really weird intense "friendship".
I, admittedly, had a crush on him in college. And I made it known through my obsessive crazy behavior :dead: :'(
But then I got over it and moved on.
He, however, has been weird with me.
Very touchy feely. He grinds on me. He talks about me sucking his dick.
He has this thing called "huggy time", where he comes and hugs me and then we fall onto the bed and cuddle for a while.
All of this changed when his "girlfriend" moved to L.A.
Now he's very tense, very strange.
He gets jealous, I think, of my other friends.
He's very bitter towards me. He has actually been quite cruel to me, and vindictive.
His girlfriend his fucking clueless. She once said, "you guys have a weird relationship"
But that's it.
Do you think I should address this? Should I talk to his gf? Should I just mind my business and leave? I'm moving out at the end of November. I don't see myself being friends with him after I leave. But I just can't believe that girl is with him and buying his hetero bullshit. :uhh:
I almost want to tell her everything...but...iono
Should I just leave it? What would you do?
:uhh:
No shade but what type of friend would you be to him telling her some shit like that??
What would that do for You? For him? For her? I say mind your business. If you gonna let go of him then do that.
What would you gain from telling her?
Don't tell his girlfriend.
Honestly, it sounds like he's straight -- but he enjoyed the attention he got from you, even if he didn't like it.
You said you pulled back?
Now that you have, he misses that attention you gave him.
Straight men are weird like that.
And oh yeah, this is another reason why I avoided roommates
Ch
The foolery that could go on
Sounds like you still like him tho
I can't believe what I'm reading!
You guys are saying hes giving this boys advances too much
I'm sorry but this roommate is GAY
and he's wanted his cake n eat it too
He shouldn't talk to her
But he does need to talk to this PHAGGIT and put him in his place
I roomed with a best white friend freshman year
Str8 guys play ...
But "huggy time" n suckin dick :dead:
Put him in his place for what exactly? Detaching because his girlfriend is in town now? Even if he is gay, it aint this man's business to put it out there, especially considering he doesn't know for sure. He's leaving in a month and said he doesn't plan on continuing a friendship, so what's the point? I hope this isn't the way you guys live ur real lives :dead:
e
yea hon..leave eht!
if u want tho
u can have a talk with HIM
but not her
Quote from: Vonc2002 on October 03, 2016, 02:50:50 PM
Put him in his place for what exactly? Detaching because his girlfriend is in town now? Even if he is gay, it aint this man's business to put it out there, especially considering he doesn't know for sure. He's leaving in a month and said he doesn't plan on continuing a friendship, so what's the point? I hope this isn't the way you guys live ur real lives :dead:
n
Only thing I see wrong with the guy is what wasn't elaborated on
the "cruel and vindictive" parts.
I need examples cuz that's very vague, and doesn't make sense if he's "in love" like the title says. Yea he's not over this guy
Come thru Doctor Raye!
Yea, i guess talking to him would be fine if ur trying to salvage a relationship. Other than that reason, i just don't know why tbh. If my mind is set on discontinuing the friendship, there doesn't need to be any words and i wouldn't care less what his bitch thought about me and my intentions. I really want the poster to come back and answer what his motivation for saying something is. Like why is it at all necessary
Quote from: AYR on October 03, 2016, 03:06:59 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on October 03, 2016, 02:50:50 PM
Put him in his place for what exactly? Detaching because his girlfriend is in town now? Even if he is gay, it aint this man's business to put it out there, especially considering he doesn't know for sure. He's leaving in a month and said he doesn't plan on continuing a friendship, so what's the point? I hope this isn't the way you guys live ur real lives :dead:
n
Only thing I see wrong with the guy is what wasn't elaborated on
the "cruel and vindictive" parts.
>>>>><<<<<<<
EXACTLY what i was thinking. Now if he did some underhanded shit and u wanna just be a bitch then LOLZ :cheerup:
i needa have a talk wit 'vonc
We aint on speaking terms
Quote from: BENTLEY! on October 03, 2016, 02:44:42 PM
I can't believe what I'm reading!
You guys are saying hes giving this boys advances too much
I'm sorry but this roommate is GAY
and he's wanted his cake n eat it too
He shouldn't talk to her
But he does need to talk to this PHAGGIT and put him in his place
I roomed with a best white friend freshman year
Str8 guys play ...
But "huggy time" n suckin dick :dead:
!!!!!
Dunno why they're defending the straight fag
FAGwritez hasn't done a thing wrong
Crazy queers
Quote from: GRAND SUPREME on October 03, 2016, 03:16:43 PM
Quote from: BENTLEY! on October 03, 2016, 02:44:42 PM
I can't believe what I'm reading!
You guys are saying hes giving this boys advances too much
I'm sorry but this roommate is GAY
and he's wanted his cake n eat it too
He shouldn't talk to her
But he does need to talk to this PHAGGIT and put him in his place
I roomed with a best white friend freshman year
Str8 guys play ...
But "huggy time" n suckin dick :dead:
!!!!!
Dunno why they're defending the straight fag
FAGwritez hasn't done a thing wrong
Crazy queers
ssssss
"oh just move! let it go!"um.. NO! lolz
huggy time, now you wanna be cruel n vindictive :uhh:
yea there's gonna be a confrontation, and it becomes YOUR problem if it's in front of your girlfriend, so keep her away
you didn't give a shit when you were asking him to suck your dick .... so you deal with that part on your own time
you don't get to run around and DO whatever in the fck you want to DO and treat me any kinda way!
call the police, call family ... do what you gotta do
but ain't nobody leaving the fckn apartment until I have a CLEAR understanding of what huggy time was
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V
There's honestly nothing to even tell his girlfriend
So you would end up looking a fool
And anyone who wanted to push the issue sounds pressed tbh. Fck u care what huggy time was, he don't want it no more :dead:
He let himself get caught up with this person knowing full and well that he was "straight". They aint in no relationship, he don't owe him no answers. If "cruel and vindictive" isn't anything more than now he doesn't wanna be my friend and cuddle anymore, then he needs to move his bitter ass on :dead:
He doesn't expound on cruel and vindictive for a reason. Im guessing it's because it probably wasn't THAT cruel
He doesn't have to be gay.
Leave him alone.
Quote from: BrandySavedMyLife on October 03, 2016, 04:25:10 PM
He doesn't have to be gay.
Leave him alone.
This outpouring of support for the roommate :plzstop:
Thanks for all the responses guys.
I should just take the high road and leave it alone.
I think part of me wanted to WARN her...cause she's been with him for four years hoping for a ring and it hasn't happened. She's a nice girl and attractive, too. But her life is her life.
As for the "cruel and vindictive" part.
I just noticed a switch in his behavior when I stopped sweatin him.
It's like he no longer has control over me and he resents it.
He has cheated me out of money with regards to our living situation.
He told one of my best friends (a girl) that I'm not a good person and that she should watch out.
He texts my friends behind my back when I'm out of town asking to hang out with them (this isn't cruel but just weird to me)
He has threatened me, saying he would basically kick me out of the apartment
Also he does weird shit like wears my clothes when I'm gone and then puts them back in my closet so I won't know. (I saw him wearing my shirt once on Facebook)
I had no problem letting him borrow my clothes...but ask first :uhh:
anyways...ugh...yeah roommate shit. One more month left. Thanks guys.
you guys are dragging this gorl wtf
f
Yea, none of that sounds too cruel. Just sounds like a bad friend to cut off. Let it go
Quote from: BOOCHIE MANE on October 03, 2016, 04:19:39 PM
V
There's honestly nothing to even tell his girlfriend
So you would end up looking a fool
!!!!!!!
which is what's making me think they took this further, cause I think he wants a bit of revenge. That'd be pointless tho, she'd prolly just laugh at him.
Quote from: Vonc2002 on October 03, 2016, 04:23:10 PM
And anyone who wanted to push the issue sounds pressed tbh. Fck u care what huggy time was, he don't want it no more :dead:
He let himself get caught up with this person knowing full and well that he was "straight". They aint in no relationship, he don't owe him no answers. If "cruel and vindictive" isn't anything more than now he doesn't wanna be my friend and cuddle anymore, then he needs to move his bitter ass on :dead:
He doesn't expound on cruel and vindictive for a reason. Im guessing it's because it probably wasn't THAT cruel
ssssssssssss
you get on my nerves :dead:
anyways!
these boys have attachment, cuddling n mess :dead:
you cant deny this boy has been leading him on, now he's playing the str8 card game :dead:
Either way you flip the coin, this roommate doesn't get to skate away without some sort of a lashing
he doesn't get to play those games and now he just has to move and let it go
this dude needs to be told about himself.... mainly being ... you're GAY!
Quote from: hewritez on October 03, 2016, 04:30:48 PM
Thanks for all the responses guys.
I should just take the high road and leave it alone.
I think part of me wanted to WARN her...cause she's been with him for four years hoping for a ring and it hasn't happened. She's a nice girl and attractive, too. But her life is her life.
As for the "cruel and vindictive" part.
I just noticed a switch in his behavior when I stopped sweatin him.
It's like he no longer has control over me and he resents it.
He has cheated me out of money with regards to our living situation.
He told one of my best friends (a girl) that I'm not a good person and that she should watch out.
He texts my friends behind my back when I'm out of town asking to hang out with them (this isn't cruel but just weird to me)
He has threatened me, saying he would basically kick me out of the apartment
Also he does weird shit like wears my clothes when I'm gone and then puts them back in my closet so I won't know. (I saw him wearing my shirt once on Facebook)
I had no problem letting him borrow my clothes...but ask first :uhh:
anyways...ugh...yeah roommate shit. One more month left. Thanks guys.
NO!
he doesn't get to get away with this!
where are you located bby... let's confront this boy
It was a bad situation to begin with. His name is on the lease, not mine, because I wasn't sure how long I was going to stay.
So I found out recently that he lied saying our rent went up when actually it didn't.
I've been paying $50 more a month and he's been pocketing it.
Oh no fucking ma'am
Fuck telling his girl
It's time to beat that mufuckas ass
Quote from: hewritez on October 03, 2016, 02:45:02 AM
He has this thing called "huggy time", where he comes and hugs me and then we fall onto the bed and cuddle for a while.
:plzstop:
Does he happen to be white?
What is his race. This could be relevant.
f
Boy u sound a fool. He needs to concern himself WITH himself. We cuddled and u asked to see my dick, U OWE ME! Bent, grow up :dead:
Quote from: hewritez on October 03, 2016, 04:35:23 PM
It was a bad situation to begin with. His name is on the lease, not mine, because I wasn't sure how long I was going to stay.
So I found out recently that he lied saying our rent went up when actually it didn't.
I've been paying $50 more a month and he's been pocketing it.
OH GORL! this mess should've been in the original post. TELL HA!
Quote from: hewritez on October 03, 2016, 04:35:23 PM
It was a bad situation to begin with. His name is on the lease, not mine, because I wasn't sure how long I was going to stay.
So I found out recently that he lied saying our rent went up when actually it didn't.
I've been paying $50 more a month and he's been pocketing it.
Oh well how long has this been going on? Yea, id take him to court for this
Quote from: Nice Stereo. on October 03, 2016, 04:36:11 PM
Quote from: hewritez on October 03, 2016, 04:35:23 PM
It was a bad situation to begin with. His name is on the lease, not mine, because I wasn't sure how long I was going to stay.
So I found out recently that he lied saying our rent went up when actually it didn't.
I've been paying $50 more a month and he's been pocketing it.
OH GORL! this mess should've been in the original post. TELL HA!
bran :omgwatshappening:
Quote from: hewritez on October 03, 2016, 04:35:23 PM
It was a bad situation to begin with. His name is on the lease, not mine, because I wasn't sure how long I was going to stay.
So I found out recently that he lied saying our rent went up when actually it didn't.
I've been paying $50 more a month and he's been pocketing it.
OH HELL NO!
he's definitely a scandalous PHAGGIT!
that's exactly the type shit they do
f
He's Indian.
I don't think he owes me anything. Obviously I'm upset about the financial stuff cause that's just dirty to me. But yeah. Ima leave it alone and move on and let karma do its thing
Quote from: BOOCHIE MANE on October 03, 2016, 04:35:31 PM
Oh no fucking ma'am
Fuck telling his girl
It's time to beat that mufuckas ass
not huggy time, wearing your clothes, and stealing your rent money
sounds like a psycho, be careful
Quote from: hewritez on October 03, 2016, 04:30:48 PM
Thanks for all the responses guys.
I should just take the high road and leave it alone.
I think part of me wanted to WARN her...cause she's been with him for four years hoping for a ring and it hasn't happened. She's a nice girl and attractive, too. But her life is her life.
As for the "cruel and vindictive" part.
I just noticed a switch in his behavior when I stopped sweatin him.
It's like he no longer has control over me and he resents it.
He has cheated me out of money with regards to our living situation.
He told one of my best friends (a girl) that I'm not a good person and that she should watch out.
He texts my friends behind my back when I'm out of town asking to hang out with them (this isn't cruel but just weird to me)
He has threatened me, saying he would basically kick me out of the apartment
Also he does weird shit like wears my clothes when I'm gone and then puts them back in my closet so I won't know. (I saw him wearing my shirt once on Facebook)
I had no problem letting him borrow my clothes...but ask first :uhh:
anyways...ugh...yeah roommate shit. One more month left. Thanks guys.
waits now see
u shoulda put this in firs post
u needa talk to his gorlfrien
idk but i have a feelin' tha worst is yet to come
like wen ure movin' ur boxes hes gonna rape tha blood outta ur booty & run away!
either that or talk to HIM
confront him
mayb' sumthin will blossom <3
Quote from: Magnolia Maymuru on October 03, 2016, 04:35:58 PM
What is his race. This could be relevant.
Lowkey my roommate was white and did the SAME shit! My name wasn't on the lease and his was. He decided he was leaving early and i owef him money. I said I'm not giving u that money because i can't get back my security deposit or last month's rent. He called the cops trying to have me put out. They told him they couldn't do that (which i knew) and he insisted i go. I was like PUT me out, i DARE ya :nowgorl:
A mess :dead:
Quote from: hewritez on October 03, 2016, 04:35:23 PM
It was a bad situation to begin with. His name is on the lease, not mine, because I wasn't sure how long I was going to stay.
So I found out recently that he lied saying our rent went up when actually it didn't.
I've been paying $50 more a month and he's been pocketing it.
n
What in the hell? :uhh:
I refuse to believe this, did you just want a big thread?
How does him being gay or his relationship become the big issue
when this cracker stole from you? You should dog that nigga, sue, and then leave now :uhh:
Ok he deserves it
Sleep with him, film it, expose him
He'll probably commit suicide lolz
Quote from: hewritez on October 03, 2016, 04:37:32 PM
f
He's Indian.
I don't think he owes me anything. Obviously I'm upset about the financial stuff cause that's just dirty to me. But yeah. Ima leave it alone and move on and let karma do its thing
Yea, i think this is best. How much money have u overpayed tho. Id kinda walk away with some of his belongings or something tbrfhwy
If he was white he maybe could have been straight. But since he's Indian sis, I'm pretty sure he's one of the Gorls but just not confident in it yet.
Is he Dravidian (Tamil) or Indo-Aryan (Punjab)?
Quote from: Magnolia Maymuru on October 03, 2016, 04:42:00 PM
If he was white he maybe could have been straight.
Yea, i think he's gay now :dead:
Still aint his place, but yea
Quote from: AYR on October 03, 2016, 04:40:09 PM
Quote from: hewritez on October 03, 2016, 04:35:23 PM
It was a bad situation to begin with. His name is on the lease, not mine, because I wasn't sure how long I was going to stay.
So I found out recently that he lied saying our rent went up when actually it didn't.
I've been paying $50 more a month and he's been pocketing it.
n
What in the hell? :uhh:
I refuse to believe this, did you just want a big thread?
How does him being gay or his relationship become the big issue
when this cracker stole from you? You should dog that nigga, sue, and then leave now :uhh:
sorry i was drunk when i created the thread :dead:
It's the issue to me now because it seems like the catalyst to all this behavior.
We used to be really cool. And he has been a good friend in the past.
Suing isn't worth it to me. I've had people take advantage of me like this before.
I don't have money but my family does and they think "well why not?" i guess.
It's my fault for not being more careful. Lesson learned.
Quote from: AYR on October 03, 2016, 04:40:09 PM
Quote from: hewritez on October 03, 2016, 04:35:23 PM
It was a bad situation to begin with. His name is on the lease, not mine, because I wasn't sure how long I was going to stay.
So I found out recently that he lied saying our rent went up when actually it didn't.
I've been paying $50 more a month and he's been pocketing it.
n
What in the hell? :uhh:
I refuse to believe this, did you just want a big thread?
How does him being gay or his relationship become the big issue
when this cracker stole from you? You should dog that nigga, sue, and then leave now :uhh:
s
that's what I was tryna say
I feel like he was leading him on sexually and emotionally to get what he wanted
LOTS of gay men do this and pull the str8 card
:dead: trust me, there is no court system for this type of stuff, you have to pull up to his sisters house, call everybody out for a fade, and taze the shit outta him before you leave, trust me
Quote from: hewritez on October 03, 2016, 04:37:32 PM
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He's Indian.
I don't think he owes me anything. Obviously I'm upset about the financial stuff cause that's just dirty to me. But yeah. Ima leave it alone and move on and let karma do its thing
i was gonna guess middle east but sames thing
my firs ex was muslim (LOLS)
shit got rlly weird wen he started askin me 'bout gay sex
i lied n told him i was virgin so many times to get him to stfu 'bout it
he took it a step further & actually SLEPT in my bed wit me one nite, claim his room was too cold4
long stoire short, we had a thing but he got a gorlfrien to appease his fat hijab wearin mama
Quote from: BENTLEY! on October 03, 2016, 04:43:43 PM
Quote from: AYR on October 03, 2016, 04:40:09 PM
Quote from: hewritez on October 03, 2016, 04:35:23 PM
It was a bad situation to begin with. His name is on the lease, not mine, because I wasn't sure how long I was going to stay.
So I found out recently that he lied saying our rent went up when actually it didn't.
I've been paying $50 more a month and he's been pocketing it.
n
What in the hell? :uhh:
I refuse to believe this, did you just want a big thread?
How does him being gay or his relationship become the big issue
when this cracker stole from you? You should dog that nigga, sue, and then leave now :uhh:
s
that's what I was tryna say
I feel like he was leading him on sexually and emotionally to get what he wanted
LOTS of gay men do this and pull the str8 card
:dead: trust me, there is no court system for this type of stuff, you have to pull up to his sisters house, call everybody out for a fade, and taze the shit outta him before you leave, trust me
ghfgggfd
I can't
Quote from: BENTLEY! on October 03, 2016, 04:43:43 PM
Quote from: AYR on October 03, 2016, 04:40:09 PM
Quote from: hewritez on October 03, 2016, 04:35:23 PM
It was a bad situation to begin with. His name is on the lease, not mine, because I wasn't sure how long I was going to stay.
So I found out recently that he lied saying our rent went up when actually it didn't.
I've been paying $50 more a month and he's been pocketing it.
n
What in the hell? :uhh:
I refuse to believe this, did you just want a big thread?
How does him being gay or his relationship become the big issue
when this cracker stole from you? You should dog that nigga, sue, and then leave now :uhh:
s
:dead: trust me, there is no court system for this type of stuff
"This type of stuff" is like LITERALLY what civil court is for :dead:
Quote from: Tinker Hell on October 03, 2016, 04:44:46 PM
Quote from: hewritez on October 03, 2016, 04:37:32 PM
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He's Indian.
I don't think he owes me anything. Obviously I'm upset about the financial stuff cause that's just dirty to me. But yeah. Ima leave it alone and move on and let karma do its thing
i was gonna guess middle east but sames thing
my firs ex was muslim (LOLS)
shit got rlly weird wen he started askin me 'bout gay sex
i lied n told him i was virgin so many times to get him to stfu 'bout it
he took it a step further & actually SLEPT in my bed wit me one nite, claim his room was too cold4
long stoire short, we had a thing but he got a gorlfrien to appease his fat hijab wearin mama
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If you paid in checks or money orders and can get a copy of the lease, you're good
But it depends if you wanna go to court for a few hundred bucks
Quote from: Vonc2002 on October 03, 2016, 04:46:09 PM
Quote from: BENTLEY! on October 03, 2016, 04:43:43 PM
Quote from: AYR on October 03, 2016, 04:40:09 PM
Quote from: hewritez on October 03, 2016, 04:35:23 PM
It was a bad situation to begin with. His name is on the lease, not mine, because I wasn't sure how long I was going to stay.
So I found out recently that he lied saying our rent went up when actually it didn't.
I've been paying $50 more a month and he's been pocketing it.
n
What in the hell? :uhh:
I refuse to believe this, did you just want a big thread?
How does him being gay or his relationship become the big issue
when this cracker stole from you? You should dog that nigga, sue, and then leave now :uhh:
s
:dead: trust me, there is no court system for this type of stuff
"This type of stuff" is like LITERALLY what civil court is for :dead:
nnnnnnnnnn
Bent is a bag of trail mix
I quit discussing this with him
Quote from: GRAND SUPREME on October 03, 2016, 04:47:27 PM
If you paid in checks or money orders and can get a copy of the lease, you're good
But it depends if you wanna go to court for a few hundred bucks
Yea, and it sounds like he just doesn't think it's worth it. A nigga like me would fight to the death for my few hundred bucks for the mere principle of it
DUFFY is a fool and I can tell that Malaysia doesn't really use :dead:
leave it to tha two heteros to miss bents point
Quote from: Gilgamesh. on October 03, 2016, 04:49:44 PM
DUFFY is a fool and I can tell that Malaysia doesn't really use :dead:
:omgwatshappening:
Quote from: Gilgamesh. on October 03, 2016, 04:49:44 PM
DUFFY is a fool and I can tell that Malaysia doesn't really use :dead:
ghggfddfffffff
Quote from: Vonc2002 on October 03, 2016, 04:46:09 PM
Quote from: BENTLEY! on October 03, 2016, 04:43:43 PM
Quote from: AYR on October 03, 2016, 04:40:09 PM
Quote from: hewritez on October 03, 2016, 04:35:23 PM
It was a bad situation to begin with. His name is on the lease, not mine, because I wasn't sure how long I was going to stay.
So I found out recently that he lied saying our rent went up when actually it didn't.
I've been paying $50 more a month and he's been pocketing it.
n
What in the hell? :uhh:
I refuse to believe this, did you just want a big thread?
How does him being gay or his relationship become the big issue
when this cracker stole from you? You should dog that nigga, sue, and then leave now :uhh:
s
:dead: trust me, there is no court system for this type of stuff
"This type of stuff" is like LITERALLY what civil court is for :dead:
s
now you know that isn't going to bring any closure
Quote from: Gilgamesh. on October 03, 2016, 04:49:44 PM
DUFFY is a fool and I can tell that Malaysia doesn't really use :dead:
Boy take yo simple ass outta hea
n
whoops
Quote from: Gilgamesh. on October 03, 2016, 04:49:44 PM
DUFFY is a fool and I can tell that Malaysia doesn't really use :dead:
asda'sd
sadasd
wtf
Thanks for all the advice everyone.
My friend is sick of hearing about it and she's hated him from the beginning.
I needed to vent. :dead:
I'll be much better off next month when I'm out of there.
So .... all the huggy time stuff aside
should he tell his girlfriend that he's a scammer and can't be trusted?
as a concerned friend
:usuresis:
No, that aint his friend nor is it his place. She aint gon break up with him cause he scammed him outta some fckn money. Boy, ur so messy smh
hj ngvmmd
was tryna figure out if hewritez real name was duffy & was frm malayasia or sumthin ns
but yea hon
leave eht!
that kinda drama nvr end well unless its a bad written gay logo movie
Unless she IS your friend, in which case id tell her then
Is he cute
I mean he probably was buying her gifts & stuff with the money already
they're probably in cahoots to get him to move out faster tbh
Quote from: BENTLEY! on October 03, 2016, 04:55:07 PM
So .... all the huggy time stuff aside
should he tell his girlfriend that he's a scammer and can't be trusted?
as a concerned friend
:usuresis:
yea
u do needa tell her since he scam u
jus let HER kno tht u KNO tht she SHOULD kno..tht his dick was pressed 'gainst ur backside many nites
Quote from: Vonc2002 on October 03, 2016, 04:57:03 PM
No, that aint his friend nor is it his place. She aint gon break up with him cause he scammed him outta some fckn money. Boy, ur so messy smh
:dead:
I've already said me and him would have it out :dead:
me personally I wouldn't deal with her
I'm just trying to figure out what yawl advice would be
Quote from: Gilgamesh. on October 03, 2016, 04:49:44 PM
DUFFY is a fool and I can tell that Malaysia doesn't really use :dead:
:omgwatshappening:
Quote from: AYR on October 03, 2016, 04:58:30 PM
I mean he probably was buying her gifts & stuff with the money already
they're probably in cahoots to get him to move out faster tbh
Right, cause tbh they probably chuckling over a candlelight dinner that he paid for. If someone told me something like that I'd laugh and giggle over pillowtalk like
woo, u so craz' :jackiessales:
Quote from: BENTLEY! on October 03, 2016, 04:59:28 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on October 03, 2016, 04:57:03 PM
No, that aint his friend nor is it his place. She aint gon break up with him cause he scammed him outta some fckn money. Boy, ur so messy smh
:dead:
I've already said me and him would have it out :dead:
me personally I wouldn't deal with her
I'm just trying to figure out what yawl advice would be
Outside of addressing him about my money, all of this shit is menial and immature
talkin bout me to friends. Hanging out with my buddiesThere's nothing to address. I don't like u, so I'll disassociate. The only thing worth addressing is the money, other than that none of this is his business nor should it be his concern tbh
Quote from: hewritez on October 03, 2016, 04:30:48 PM
Thanks for all the responses guys.
I should just take the high road and leave it alone.
I think part of me wanted to WARN her...cause she's been with him for four years hoping for a ring and it hasn't happened. She's a nice girl and attractive, too. But her life is her life.
As for the "cruel and vindictive" part.
I just noticed a switch in his behavior when I stopped sweatin him.
It's like he no longer has control over me and he resents it.
He has cheated me out of money with regards to our living situation.
He told one of my best friends (a girl) that I'm not a good person and that she should watch out.
He texts my friends behind my back when I'm out of town asking to hang out with them (this isn't cruel but just weird to me)
He has threatened me, saying he would basically kick me out of the apartment
Also he does weird shit like wears my clothes when I'm gone and then puts them back in my closet so I won't know. (I saw him wearing my shirt once on Facebook)
I had no problem letting him borrow my clothes...but ask first :uhh:
anyways...ugh...yeah roommate shit. One more month left. Thanks guys.
Oh in that case, if you'd like to get even...tell her. Still no guarantee it will do much damage, you know how women are with this kind of thing.
Quote from: Kurama on October 03, 2016, 05:04:58 PM
Quote from: hewritez on October 03, 2016, 04:30:48 PM
Thanks for all the responses guys.
I should just take the high road and leave it alone.
I think part of me wanted to WARN her...cause she's been with him for four years hoping for a ring and it hasn't happened. She's a nice girl and attractive, too. But her life is her life.
As for the "cruel and vindictive" part.
I just noticed a switch in his behavior when I stopped sweatin him.
It's like he no longer has control over me and he resents it.
He has cheated me out of money with regards to our living situation.
He told one of my best friends (a girl) that I'm not a good person and that she should watch out.
He texts my friends behind my back when I'm out of town asking to hang out with them (this isn't cruel but just weird to me)
He has threatened me, saying he would basically kick me out of the apartment
Also he does weird shit like wears my clothes when I'm gone and then puts them back in my closet so I won't know. (I saw him wearing my shirt once on Facebook)
I had no problem letting him borrow my clothes...but ask first :uhh:
anyways...ugh...yeah roommate shit. One more month left. Thanks guys.
Oh in that case, if you'd like to get even...tell her. Still no guarantee it will do much damage, you know how women are with this kind of thing.
!!!!!!!
It won't damage anything with them tbh :dead: