I'm pretty sure my roommate is gay and in love with me

Started by hewritez, October 03, 2016, 02:45:02 AM

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hewritez

I've always considered him "straight"
But we've had this really weird intense "friendship".
I, admittedly, had a crush on him in college. And I made it known through my obsessive crazy behavior  :dead: :'(

But then I got over it and moved on.
He, however, has been weird with me.
Very touchy feely. He grinds on me. He talks about me sucking his dick.
He has this thing called "huggy time", where he comes and hugs me and then we fall onto the bed and cuddle for a while.

All of this changed when his "girlfriend" moved to L.A.
Now he's very tense, very strange.
He gets jealous, I think, of my other friends.
He's very bitter towards me. He has actually been quite cruel to me, and vindictive.

His girlfriend his fucking clueless. She once said, "you guys have a weird relationship"
But that's it.
Do you think I should address this? Should I talk to his gf? Should I just mind my business and leave? I'm moving out at the end of November. I don't see myself being friends with him after I leave. But I just can't believe that girl is with him and buying his hetero bullshit.  :uhh:

I almost want to tell her everything...but...iono

Should I just leave it? What would you do?


Lane Bryant Jumpsuit

it doesnt sound like there is much to tell
its not wrong or weird for friends to be close physically its actually quite adorable

it does seem like something is bothering him about where your friendship is right now
but

if you guys are really friends it should work itself out



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hewritez

he asked to see my dick, and talks about me sucking his dick.

how is that not something to tell?  :dead:

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October 03, 2016, 03:26:13 AM #4 Last Edit: October 03, 2016, 03:27:33 AM by TheNextLew
Quote from: hewritez on October 03, 2016, 03:15:50 AM
he asked to see my dick, and talks about me sucking his dick.

how is that not something to tell?  :dead:

so whats wrong with that line of conversation  :plzstop: :plzstop:

how did you respond to these questions and hypothetical scenarios?





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hewritez

Quote from: TheNextLew on October 03, 2016, 03:26:13 AM
Quote from: hewritez on October 03, 2016, 03:15:50 AM
he asked to see my dick, and talks about me sucking his dick.

how is that not something to tell?  :dead:

so whats wrong with that line on conversation  :plzstop: :plzstop:

how did you respond to these questions and hypothetical scenarios?




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I'm pretty sure I indulged a bit  :ohwow:
But I'm openly gay and he's with a girl who moved all the way from Texas to be with him.
She think they're gonna get married. What a dumb cunt

Lane Bryant Jumpsuit

Quote from: hewritez on October 03, 2016, 03:28:10 AM
Quote from: TheNextLew on October 03, 2016, 03:26:13 AM
Quote from: hewritez on October 03, 2016, 03:15:50 AM
he asked to see my dick, and talks about me sucking his dick.

how is that not something to tell?  :dead:

so whats wrong with that line on conversation  :plzstop: :plzstop:

how did you respond to these questions and hypothetical scenarios?




f
I'm pretty sure I indulged a bit  :ohwow:
But I'm openly gay and he's with a girl who moved all the way from Texas to be with him.
She think they're gonna get married. What a dumb cunt

listen dont break the bro code ok
they can be happy
but it seems like since shes moved hes pulled back a bit
most likely due to the fact that that ruins the chances of you guys getting closer

i say leave it nothing really outside of "boys being boys" has happened




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GRAND

Don't tell her, especially since you're leaving soon. It'll just be a big mess for the next month.

He hasn't really done anything incriminating. But, you should open the conversation up with him. "Umm, do you want me FUCK me or something? LOL"

hewritez

True.
I just hate that, because I'm gay, that bitch prolly thinks I"m the one who's trying to pervert her man. And if it came down to it, I know that's what he would say.

ugh. straight people are so irritating. But i'ma  leave it alone.

Buy The Stars✨

 I get what you're saying about her thinking you're the one trying to convert him ..

This is what I would do ... I would get some video or audio of him asking to see your dick or talking about you sucking his dick. Don't show it to her but keep it in the case of emergency. So she won't think you're one of these fags trying to turn a straight guy out

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Vonc2002

Ur moving soon, so why bother with it? I think it's pretty messy to involve urself in this, especially when it comes to his girlfriend.
This is my pass to say WHATEVER tf I wanna say about the mess she releases so I don't wanna hear SHIT! Baby mama is a mess of a song btw





Vonc2002

Quote from: hewritez on October 03, 2016, 03:15:50 AM
he asked to see my dick, and talks about me sucking his dick.

how is that not something to tell?  :dead:
It's not really ur place imo. Do u want him or something? What's the benefit of telling his girlfriend u THINK he's gay other than being spiteful?
This is my pass to say WHATEVER tf I wanna say about the mess she releases so I don't wanna hear SHIT! Baby mama is a mess of a song btw





KING BENTLEY.

You've slept with this man before huh

Spill the tea!

H.#.G.*.Z

KING BENTLEY.

Quote from: COCO on October 03, 2016, 11:57:59 AM
Ask if he's a faggot or not
'!!!!!!

The first confrontation should be with him first!

Especially if he's been vindictive... no ma'am
"we've got shit to talk about or a fade to catch ... your choice"
:tistheseas:

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