So there's one woman @ my job....she's Black and a bit older...maybe 40's...I swear she is always giving me shady looks. :uhh: Even when I try to say hi and be nice she gives me a dry ass "hi."
It even got to the point where I thought maybe she was homophobic or something. But there's another gay guy there and she's real friendly to him so that's not it. She's like " :ohhey: " with everyone else, then when I say hi it's " :udontlookok: "
I'm just not used to people not using me for no apparent reason, and she doesn't even try to hide it and be fake. She makes it very clear and I almost wanna be a bitch back to her . Like bitch I will shade the fuck out of your wrinkle faced ass. Keep it cute if someone's tryna be nice to you. Bitter bitch
I hate to say it but something tells me it's slight jealousy. There's no other way I can explain it....I am nice to you...I don't know you, you're nice to EVERYONE else. What's your beef with me bitch?
The woman below admitted that when she first saw me, she didn't use. And she felt that I was tryna make her look bad because she wears a wig sdsdsd. But since she sees that I am a NICE person, she's friends with me, but she can NOT stop talking about my hair. :uhh:
This is what I now hear from her on a daily basis. Mind you, this is only what's TYPED. I hear even more in person. :plzstop: The one that creeped me out is when she started going IN talking about how people would die for my hair and mess. Like...calm down :calmdownsis: :uhh: I get it. You live.
I think you gorls think I be exaggerating, well look at this. It's an OBSESSION. :plzstop: What is with Black women and hair :plzstop:
(http://i66.tinypic.com/24xkwtu.jpg)
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Something tells me this other Black lady doesn't use me for the same reason she didn't . But this bitch seems like she is gonna KEEP not using me. Imma end up shading her right back. Then she's REALLY not gonna like me.
I have NO problem being a total bitch to you, in fact, I can do it better. :supluv:
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hey curl' curls! hehe
all the women at your place of employment seem annoying and needy
:overit:
and she probably just doesnt want to talk cause she doesnt know you :dead:
i wouldnt take offense
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"i see you playing with those curls :jarvwhereru: "
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curls blowin' in tha winds..blindin' ya! :letsmessfag:
:sup:
Quote from: ANIMMAI on October 17, 2016, 09:21:29 PM
"i see you playing with those curls :jarvwhereru: "
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was she fingering herself under that desk
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Quote from: GRAND SUPREME on October 17, 2016, 09:24:03 PM
Quote from: ANIMMAI on October 17, 2016, 09:21:29 PM
"i see you playing with those curls :jarvwhereru: "
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was she fingering herself under that desk
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I, for one, owe you a big apology.
Quote from: da trade b thirstay on October 17, 2016, 09:09:36 PM
So there's one woman @ my job....she's Black and a bit older...maybe 40's...I swear she is always giving me shady looks. :uhh: Even when I try to say hi and be nice she gives me a dry ass "hi."
It even got to the point where I thought maybe she was homophobic or something. But there's another gay guy there and she's real friendly to him so that's not it. She's like " :ohhey: " with everyone else, then when I say hi it's " :udontlookok: "
I'm just not used to people not using me for no apparent reason, and she doesn't even try to hide it and be fake. She makes it very clear and I almost wanna be a bitch back to her . Like bitch I will shade the fuck out of your wrinkle faced ass. Keep it cute if someone's tryna be nice to you. Bitter bitch
I hate to say it but something tells me it's slight jealousy. There's no other way I can explain it....I am nice to you...I don't know you, you're nice to EVERYONE else. What's your beef with me bitch?
The woman below admitted that when she first saw me, she didn't use. And she felt that I was tryna make her look bad because she wears a wig sdsdsd. But since she sees that I am a NICE person, she's friends with me, but she can NOT stop talking about my hair. :uhh:
This is what I now hear from her on a daily basis. Mind you, this is only what's TYPED. I hear even more in person. :plzstop: The one that creeped me out is when she started going IN talking about how people would die for my hair and mess. Like...calm down :calmdownsis: :uhh: I get it. You live.
I think you gorls think I be exaggerating, well look at this. It's an OBSESSION. :plzstop: What is with Black women and hair :plzstop:
(http://i66.tinypic.com/24xkwtu.jpg)
(http://i67.tinypic.com/333buw3.jpg)
Something tells me this other Black lady doesn't use me for the same reason she didn't . But this bitch seems like she is gonna KEEP not using me. Imma end up shading her right back. Then she's REALLY not gonna like me.
I have NO problem being a total bitch to you, in fact, I can do it better. :supluv:
:plzstop:
i don't get the obsession with hair tbh
:dead:
As long as it's healthy
thats all that matters
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Wtf. Is she about to cum
Quote from: Nice Stereo. on October 17, 2016, 09:32:15 PM
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Wtf. Is she about to cum
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wheres that fingering gif Baph uses
'hmmmm hey curls hehe'
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she may b one of them weird fetish gorls
b careful 'fro..
Quote from: GRAND SUPREME on October 17, 2016, 09:34:48 PM
'hmmmm hey curls hehe'
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Werk them runway curls 'fro
i can see her chasin 'em thru tha office
"..hey curl' tops...."
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i see you playing wit those curls boy lols
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keep playin with em hehe
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I would be cautious with the curly curls lady. Seems like she's being fake or low key shady.
Quote from: ANIMMAI on October 17, 2016, 09:39:59 PM
i see you playing wit those curls boy lols
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keep playin with em hehe
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Quote from: da trade b thirstay on October 17, 2016, 09:36:19 PM
it was all cute and mess until she started calling me chocolate thunder..
now ur crossing the line a bit :calmdownsis: that's sexual
nvm. I think your curls may be getting her off. :uhh:
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they really do be gassing you up
the women at your workplace seem really ghetto
afro
where is that oprah gif of her pressing on her temples
(http://i25.tinypic.com/2nr3u5s.jpg)
And if you're looking for something more dramatic....
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Afro you got a girlfriend huh?
I knew you'd break outta that phase sooner or later
:blessed:
Quote from: da trade b thirstay on October 17, 2016, 10:04:08 PM
Quote from: R on October 17, 2016, 09:30:33 PM
i don't get the obsession with hair tbh
:dead:
As long as it's healthy
thats all that matters
i really cannot wrap my head around it either.
i wasn't raised in a household where we talked about good hair and all this other mess. and light skindeded and dark skin, ..... and heritage, and being "mixed" sdsdbsbdsd
this is shit I've been exposed to since I started growing my hair.
One black woman barber pulled my hair from the roots down south to examine it, then ended it with an ignorant ass..."Wow, this is really ur hair...it's weird because only light skindeded people have this type of hair usually...u got Indian in ur family?"
I swear the shit I hear is so DUMB that I can understand why some people would think it's a lie :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop:
i can't even be mad
Ignorance
:plzstop:
All things aside, this just screams self-hate
It's sad
And I don't see why people would think you're lying?
:dead:
Like, who does that?
They're most likely just making fun of the situation in general
Quote from: da trade b thirstay on October 17, 2016, 09:09:36 PM
So there's one woman @ my job....she's Black and a bit older...maybe 40's...I swear she is always giving me shady looks. :uhh: Even when I try to say hi and be nice she gives me a dry ass "hi."
It even got to the point where I thought maybe she was homophobic or something. But there's another gay guy there and she's real friendly to him so that's not it. She's like " :ohhey: " with everyone else, then when I say hi it's " :udontlookok: "
I'm just not used to people not using me for no apparent reason, and she doesn't even try to hide it and be fake. She makes it very clear and I almost wanna be a bitch back to her . Like bitch I will shade the fuck out of your wrinkle faced ass. Keep it cute if someone's tryna be nice to you. Bitter bitch
I hate to say it but something tells me it's slight jealousy. There's no other way I can explain it....I am nice to you...I don't know you, you're nice to EVERYONE else. What's your beef with me bitch?
The woman below admitted that when she first saw me, she didn't use. And she felt that I was tryna make her look bad because she wears a wig sdsdsd. But since she sees that I am a NICE person, she's friends with me, but she can NOT stop talking about my hair. :uhh:
This is what I now hear from her on a daily basis. Mind you, this is only what's TYPED. I hear even more in person. :plzstop: The one that creeped me out is when she started going IN talking about how people would die for my hair and mess. Like...calm down :calmdownsis: :uhh: I get it. You live.
I think you gorls think I be exaggerating, well look at this. It's an OBSESSION. :plzstop: What is with Black women and hair :plzstop:
(http://i66.tinypic.com/24xkwtu.jpg)
(http://i67.tinypic.com/333buw3.jpg)
Something tells me this other Black lady doesn't use me for the same reason she didn't . But this bitch seems like she is gonna KEEP not using me. Imma end up shading her right back. Then she's REALLY not gonna like me.
I have NO problem being a total bitch to you, in fact, I can do it better. :supluv:
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Quote from: GRAND SUPREME on October 17, 2016, 09:34:48 PM
'hmmmm hey curls hehe'
(http://i.imgur.com/nvH4os5.gif)
i'm crying
Quote from: R on October 17, 2016, 10:20:55 PM
And I don't see why people would think you're lying?
:dead:
Like, who does that?
They're most likely just making fun of the situation in general
(http://i25.tinypic.com/2nr3u5s.jpg)
:dead:
Quote from: da trade b thirstay on October 17, 2016, 10:32:42 PM
Quote from: R on October 17, 2016, 10:19:42 PM
All things aside, this just screams self-hate
It's sad
I mean yes it's a kii cackle and sometimes I am flattered
but after a while. when u see a woman obsessed with that u also see their jealousy.
she's even come out and said she wishes she had hair like mine, skin like mine....people just think theyre complimenting you but they don't take the time to realize how uncomfortable they may make u feel.
she didn't even think I was Black when she saw me. She thought I was Dominican. I keep telling her I am Black from Southside Jamaica Queens, not the DR, but she still calls me Dominican.
You can see here, I tried to put the attention back on HER. Like "no YOURE beautiful." "YOU'RE so pretty". Stop worshipping me :uhh: :uhh:
(http://i64.tinypic.com/1zfu1zk.png)
So here you have, a Black woman obsessing over what she assumes to be a non-Black person's hair. SHe randomly mentioned to me that her daughter has "nappy hair", but she had to take that "mess" from the OTHER side of the family, because her grandfather was Native American. :plzstop: I'm looking at her like ok :udontlookok:
it seems fun to read this kinda stuff, it's a kii, but it's not a cool feeling to know someone is so obsessed with u and wish they had what you had. it's kind of sad and sometimes stuff like this makes me want to cut my hair off. because it clearly makes other people feel bad about themselves. :'( she constantly exalts me and puts herself down.
Disgusting to be honest
And it only affects people who feel bad about themselves TO BEGIN WITH
Honestly
It's not normal behavior for someone to demean themselves over someone else like that
Quote from: da trade b thirstay on October 17, 2016, 11:08:42 PM
Quote from: R on October 17, 2016, 10:53:57 PM
And it only affects people who feel bad about themselves TO BEGIN WITH
Honestly
that's very true.
i see people with all types of hair and mess but I would never sit and wish I had someone else's tea.
i love mine just the way it is. even though there are plenty of people who think straight hair is the BEST hair.
u gotta luv who u r.
Exactly
GORL this is normal work mess
and i dont even have much work experience
there is this dude at my job ive literally said hi and spoke with everyone on the floor and even the people that work downstairs but he he acts like im invisible and i do the same to him
he tried to check me via email about a collections acct as well and had to set him str8 but i pretend he aint there as well
cus everyone else talks about how lew is bomb.com so
even the bitch i trained with
now i thought since we trained together wed be friends first up in there but nah once she got on the floor and started she acted like she aint even know me but now that im getting known she gon try to be friendly bitch its been 4 months poof
some ppul just aint worf it
n I think this happens with a lot of people. If she's not signing your checks, pay her and her Hawaiian Silky no mind.
Quote from: da trade b thirstay on October 18, 2016, 08:53:07 AM
And I think she's insecure. I was walking behind her after leaving a meeting, talking to one of my coworkers, laughing and telling them that I needed some lotion for my hands , they were feeling ashy. (i love kii'ing like that with my Black coworkers because there's only but so many of us in there...and we bond on lil silly stuff like that. :plzstop: )
She turned around, and then looked at her her hands. It's almost like she thought I was laughing at her or something. I think she thinks I'm a shady faggot.
:kii: :kii: :kii: :kii: :kii: She seems like a nightmare. Terrorize ha until she quits.
What kinda mess
She seems obsessed!
Is her hair nappy? No shade
Flip them curls
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just tell the bitch to fuck off
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That is pure fucking MESS
And I can definitely believe it. I have my share of experiences too. :plzstop:
The sad part is to me it just stems from a bit of self hate.
But with the way society is I almost can't blame them.
We've been taught to hate everything about us.
So sad.
But yeah she seemed obsessed with your mess; that's why I was wondering if her tea was on the kinkier side :dead:
Quote from: da trade b thirstay on October 18, 2016, 11:49:59 AM
Quote from: Young on October 18, 2016, 11:16:18 AM
Is her hair nappy? No shade
:omgwatshappening:
She wears a wig
But she says they have "good hair" in her family ... Which is why she's sure her daughters "mess" came from her fathers side of the family.
She told me her father is half Native American. So maybe there's a wet and wavy mess waiting under her wig
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I'm honestly disgusted.
We've got to learn to appreciate our Godgiven mess.
Our hair defies the very laws of gravity naturally.
So to me; the tougher the better!
Especially if you learn to groom and treat it properly . Ugh
Our coils>>>
Yeah I don't like mess like "I wish I had that like yours" or whatever. Those type of comments make me feel uncofomfortable because they're really just lowkey hating.
Quote from: Young on October 18, 2016, 11:53:21 AM
We've got to learn to appreciate our Godgiven mess.
Our hair defies the very laws of gravity naturally.
So to me; the tougher the better!
Especially if you learn to groom and treat it properly . Ugh
Our coils>>>
nb
then whyd you ask if her hair was nappy
:omgwatshappening:
Quote from: GRAND SUPREME on October 18, 2016, 12:10:11 PM
Quote from: Young on October 18, 2016, 11:53:21 AM
We've got to learn to appreciate our Godgiven mess.
Our hair defies the very laws of gravity naturally.
So to me; the tougher the better!
Especially if you learn to groom and treat it properly . Ugh
Our coils>>>
nb
then whyd you ask if her hair was nappy
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Yh young?
Why
why are ppl obsessed with curls?
:dead:
You need to read her
Quote from: GRAND SUPREME on October 18, 2016, 12:10:11 PM
Quote from: Young on October 18, 2016, 11:53:21 AM
We've got to learn to appreciate our Godgiven mess.
Our hair defies the very laws of gravity naturally.
So to me; the tougher the better!
Especially if you learn to groom and treat it properly . Ugh
Our coils>>>
nb
then whyd you ask if her hair was nappy
:omgwatshappening:
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Because it's just typical behavior sadly