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[BranLover]

it was all cute and mess until she started calling me chocolate thunder..

now ur crossing the line a bit that's sexual

nvm. I think your curls may be getting her off. 

[Stewie]

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they really do be gassing you up

the women at your workplace seem really ghetto

[L0NZ.]

afro

[L0NZ.]

where is that oprah gif of her pressing on her temples

[GRAND]

[GRAND]

And if you're looking for something more dramatic....

[RAY7]

Afro you got a girlfriend huh?
I knew you'd break outta that phase sooner or later

[Rxxf]

i don't get the obsession with hair tbh

As long as it's healthy
thats all that matters

i really cannot wrap my head around it either.

i wasn't raised in a household where we talked about good hair and all this other mess. and light skindeded and dark skin, ..... and heritage, and being "mixed" sdsdbsbdsd

this is shit I've been exposed to since I started growing my hair.

One black woman barber pulled my hair from the roots down south to examine it, then ended it with an ignorant ass..."Wow, this is really ur hair...it's weird because only light skindeded people have this type of hair usually...u got Indian in ur family?"

I swear the shit I hear is so DUMB that I can understand why some people would think it's a lie

i can't even be mad

Ignorance

[Rxxf]

All things aside, this just screams self-hate
It's sad

[Rxxf]

And I don't see why people would think you're lying?

Like, who does that?
They're most likely just making fun of the situation in general

[Nine]

So there's one woman @ my job....she's Black and a bit older...maybe 40's...I swear she is always giving me shady looks. Even when I try to say hi and be nice she gives me a dry ass "hi."

It even got to the point where I thought maybe she was homophobic or something. But there's another gay guy there and she's real friendly to him so that's not it. She's like "  " with everyone else, then when I say hi it's "  "

I'm just not used to people not using me for no apparent reason, and she doesn't even try to hide it and be fake. She makes it very clear and I almost wanna be a bitch back to her . Like bitch I will shade the fuck out of your wrinkle faced ass. Keep it cute if someone's tryna be nice to you. Bitter bitch

I hate to say it but something tells me it's slight jealousy. There's no other way I can explain it....I am nice to you...I don't know you, you're nice to EVERYONE else. What's your beef with me bitch?

The woman below admitted that when she first saw me, she didn't use. And she felt that I was tryna make her look bad because she wears a wig sdsdsd. But since she sees that I am a NICE person, she's friends with me, but she can NOT stop talking about my hair.

This is what I now hear from her on a daily basis. Mind you, this is only what's TYPED. I hear even more in person. The one that creeped me out is when she started going IN talking about how people would die for my hair and mess. Like...calm down I get it. You live.

I think you gorls think I be exaggerating, well look at this. It's an OBSESSION. What is with Black women and hair





Something tells me this other Black lady doesn't use me for the same reason she didn't . But this bitch seems like she is gonna KEEP not using me. Imma end up shading her right back. Then she's REALLY not gonna like me.

I have NO problem being a total bitch to you, in fact, I can do it better.

v

[Nine]

'hmmmm hey curls hehe'

i'm crying

[KING BENTLEY.]

And I don't see why people would think you're lying?

Like, who does that?
They're most likely just making fun of the situation in general

[Vonc2002]

[Rxxf]

All things aside, this just screams self-hate
It's sad

I mean yes it's a kii cackle and sometimes I am flattered

but after a while. when u see a woman obsessed with that u also see their jealousy.

she's even come out and said she wishes she had hair like mine, skin like mine....people just think theyre complimenting you but they don't take the time to realize how uncomfortable they may make u feel.

she didn't even think I was Black when she saw me. She thought I was Dominican. I keep telling her I am Black from Southside Jamaica Queens, not the DR, but she still calls me Dominican.

You can see here, I tried to put the attention back on HER. Like "no YOURE beautiful." "YOU'RE so pretty". Stop worshipping me



So here you have, a Black woman obsessing over what she assumes to be a non-Black person's hair. SHe randomly mentioned to me that her daughter has "nappy hair", but she had to take that "mess" from the OTHER side of the family, because her grandfather was Native American.  I'm looking at her like ok

it seems fun to read this kinda stuff, it's a kii, but it's not a cool feeling to know someone is so obsessed with u and wish they had what you had. it's kind of sad and sometimes stuff like this makes me want to cut my hair off. because it clearly makes other people feel bad about themselves. she constantly exalts me and puts herself down.

Disgusting to be honest