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Title: so the woman @ my job finally stopped shading me.
Post by: Ashley Bank$ on October 29, 2016, 01:47:34 PM
so she finally talked to me....but the bitch wouldn't shut up :uhh: it's like flood gates of Katrina finally opened or something. once the bitch popped she wouldn't stop. :cheerup:

i think it has something to do with the fact that i debuted my fall/winter look mess owt yesterday and all the gorls were raving about it in the office (literally I was getting kudos in my instant messenger before i even sat down in my chair sss "hey ! just saw u walk by! lovin that sweater!!! " ) :plzstop: :udontlookok:

I think she finally realized she's on the wrong team or something. :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: She could NOT stop talking to me  :uhh: :uhh:

like omfg she was telling me her life story.  :uhh: and also telling me stuff she asked about me to other people in the office...like bitch, u were around the office ASKING about me but couldn't talk to me? sdsd :uhh: :uhh: wats really good?

and she kept flipping and playing in her faux braids as she talked to me. ss like ok hun i see ur hair.

this bitch really just let it RIP yesterday. :plzstop: :plzstop:

:calmdownsis: like OK i didn't like that bitchy mess u were doing but don't give me the polar opposite now. we're not besties hun
Title: Re: so the woman @ my job finally stopped shading me.
Post by: Stewie on October 29, 2016, 02:50:06 PM
Quote from: sadiddy? on October 29, 2016, 01:47:34 PM
so she finally talked to me....but the bitch wouldn't shut up :uhh: it's like flood gates of Katrina finally opened or something. once the bitch popped she wouldn't stop. :cheerup:

i think it has something to do with the fact that i debuted my fall/winter look mess owt yesterday and all the gorls were raving about it in the office (literally I was getting kudos in my instant messenger before i even sat down in my chair sss "hey ! just saw u walk by! lovin that sweater!!! " ) :plzstop: :udontlookok:

I think she finally realized she's on the wrong team or something. :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: She could NOT stop talking to me  :uhh: :uhh:

like omfg she was telling me her life story.  :uhh: and also telling me stuff she asked about me to other people in the office...like bitch, u were around the office ASKING about me but couldn't talk to me? sdsd :uhh: :uhh: wats really good?

and she kept flipping and playing in her faux braids as she talked to me. ss like ok hun i see ur hair.

this bitch really just let it RIP yesterday. :plzstop: :plzstop:

:calmdownsis: like OK i didn't like that bitchy mess u were doing but don't give me the polar opposite now. we're not besties hun

Quote from: sadiddy? on October 29, 2016, 02:02:08 PM
BUT, even though I was just a bit disturbed at this sudden outburst of friendliness yesterday... :udontlookok: I'm glad she broke the ice. cuz it was ICY. :uhh:

I don't like tension where I work and I definitely felt it from her. I enjoy getting along with everyone , glad we can kii kii a bit now. I can definitely tell that maybe she didn't genuinely dislike me but was just cautious about interacting with me.

Some people (not all people) really assume things about you...that u must think u all that, u must think u cute....and they put a guard up. i have a feeling she was one of those people. the "coily curls" woman @ my job admitted to having those feelings about me when she saw me. just didn't take her MONTHS to figure owt that I'm cool peoples.

:diddraispoot:
Title: Re: so the woman @ my job finally stopped shading me.
Post by: monk al-taqi on October 29, 2016, 03:58:50 PM
this is great news.
Title: Re: so the woman @ my job finally stopped shading me.
Post by: FINE. on October 29, 2016, 04:03:43 PM
Quoteand she kept flipping and playing in her faux braids as she talked to me. ss like ok hun i see ur hair.


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Title: Re: so the woman @ my job finally stopped shading me.
Post by: Zankou. on October 29, 2016, 04:05:05 PM
Quote from: sadiddy? on October 29, 2016, 01:47:34 PM
so she finally talked to me....but the bitch wouldn't shut up :uhh: it's like flood gates of Katrina finally opened or something. once the bitch popped she wouldn't stop. :cheerup:

i think it has something to do with the fact that i debuted my fall/winter look mess owt yesterday and all the gorls were raving about it in the office (literally I was getting kudos in my instant messenger before i even sat down in my chair sss "hey ! just saw u walk by! lovin that sweater!!! " ) :plzstop: :udontlookok:

I think she finally realized she's on the wrong team or something. :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: She could NOT stop talking to me  :uhh: :uhh:

like omfg she was telling me her life story.  :uhh: and also telling me stuff she asked about me to other people in the office...like bitch, u were around the office ASKING about me but couldn't talk to me? sdsd :uhh: :uhh: wats really good?

and she kept flipping and playing in her faux braids as she talked to me. ss like ok hun i see ur hair.

this bitch really just let it RIP yesterday. :plzstop: :plzstop:

:calmdownsis: like OK i didn't like that bitchy mess u were doing but don't give me the polar opposite now. we're not besties hun

Quote from: sadiddy? on October 29, 2016, 02:02:08 PM
BUT, even though I was just a bit disturbed at this sudden outburst of friendliness yesterday... :udontlookok: I'm glad she broke the ice. cuz it was ICY. :uhh:

I don't like tension where I work and I definitely felt it from her. I enjoy getting along with everyone , glad we can kii kii a bit now. I can definitely tell that maybe she didn't genuinely dislike me but was just cautious about interacting with me.

Some people (not all people) really assume things about you...that u must think u all that, u must think u cute....and they put a guard up. i have a feeling she was one of those people. the "coily curls" woman @ my job admitted to having those feelings about me when she saw me. just didn't take her MONTHS to figure owt that I'm cool peoples.

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Title: Re: so the woman @ my job finally stopped shading me.
Post by: FINE. on October 29, 2016, 04:05:05 PM
She sounds like a fake ass bitch
Title: Re: so the woman @ my job finally stopped shading me.
Post by: LOONA. on October 29, 2016, 04:06:52 PM
I'm sor but you need to pay her.       
Title: Re: so the woman @ my job finally stopped shading me.
Post by: Real on October 29, 2016, 04:07:45 PM
Quote from: Stewie on October 29, 2016, 02:50:06 PM
Quote from: sadiddy? on October 29, 2016, 01:47:34 PM
so she finally talked to me....but the bitch wouldn't shut up :uhh: it's like flood gates of Katrina finally opened or something. once the bitch popped she wouldn't stop. :cheerup:

i think it has something to do with the fact that i debuted my fall/winter look mess owt yesterday and all the gorls were raving about it in the office (literally I was getting kudos in my instant messenger before i even sat down in my chair sss "hey ! just saw u walk by! lovin that sweater!!! " ) :plzstop: :udontlookok:

I think she finally realized she's on the wrong team or something. :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: She could NOT stop talking to me  :uhh: :uhh:

like omfg she was telling me her life story.  :uhh: and also telling me stuff she asked about me to other people in the office...like bitch, u were around the office ASKING about me but couldn't talk to me? sdsd :uhh: :uhh: wats really good?

and she kept flipping and playing in her faux braids as she talked to me. ss like ok hun i see ur hair.

this bitch really just let it RIP yesterday. :plzstop: :plzstop:

:calmdownsis: like OK i didn't like that bitchy mess u were doing but don't give me the polar opposite now. we're not besties hun

Quote from: sadiddy? on October 29, 2016, 02:02:08 PM
BUT, even though I was just a bit disturbed at this sudden outburst of friendliness yesterday... :udontlookok: I'm glad she broke the ice. cuz it was ICY. :uhh:

I don't like tension where I work and I definitely felt it from her. I enjoy getting along with everyone , glad we can kii kii a bit now. I can definitely tell that maybe she didn't genuinely dislike me but was just cautious about interacting with me.

Some people (not all people) really assume things about you...that u must think u all that, u must think u cute....and they put a guard up. i have a feeling she was one of those people. the "coily curls" woman @ my job admitted to having those feelings about me when she saw me. just didn't take her MONTHS to figure owt that I'm cool peoples.

:diddraispoot:


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Title: Re: so the woman @ my job finally stopped shading me.
Post by: FINE. on October 29, 2016, 04:09:24 PM
Quote from: sadiddy? on October 29, 2016, 04:07:19 PM
Quote from: FINE. on October 29, 2016, 04:03:43 PM
Quoteand she kept flipping and playing in her faux braids as she talked to me. ss like ok hun i see ur hair.


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she usually doesn't play in her hair like that...but she was straight OD'ing... :udontlookok: i was lookin at her like wtf :plzstop: :plzstop:

and was grouping us together..."people like us like to go owt hehe!!!!"...hun u jUST stopped giving me shady ice queen teas...how do u suddenly know me so well :udontlookok:
sounds like she's competing sdsdfffdfffffffffffffff

Gorl be phony and fake right back

"Mmmmm hmmmmm yeah gorl

Right?! Lmao"

:udontlookok:
Title: Re: so the woman @ my job finally stopped shading me.
Post by: Stunna Gor’ on October 29, 2016, 04:13:40 PM
Quote from: sadiddy? on October 29, 2016, 02:55:48 PM
u forgot the one in the title :supluv:
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Ton' forgot to pay ha fucking taxes.

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Title: Re: so the woman @ my job finally stopped shading me.
Post by: Freemala Harris on October 29, 2016, 04:16:09 PM
She sounds fake/crazy
Title: Re: so the woman @ my job finally stopped shading me.
Post by: monk al-taqi on October 29, 2016, 04:22:46 PM
Quote from: sadiddy? on October 29, 2016, 04:00:59 PM
Quote from: m.monk on October 29, 2016, 03:58:50 PM
this is great news.
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hey bew :wub:
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Title: Re: so the woman @ my job finally stopped shading me.
Post by: GLOCK on October 29, 2016, 04:27:33 PM
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Title: Re: so the woman @ my job finally stopped shading me.
Post by: Eternal Bell on October 29, 2016, 04:29:46 PM
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i need to meet this gorl if shes continuin' to bother u hun
so we can team up & take u out curl' curls!
Title: Re: so the woman @ my job finally stopped shading me.
Post by: pettypatty on October 29, 2016, 04:37:53 PM
Quote from: Tinker Hell on October 29, 2016, 04:29:46 PM
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i need to meet this gorl if shes continuin' to bother u hun
so we can team up & take u out curl' curls!
ddddddd

Can u outdo this  :ohwow:
Title: Re: so the woman @ my job finally stopped shading me.
Post by: LOONA. on October 29, 2016, 05:19:29 PM
Yeah she does sound fake.

And IDK why but women in the workplace love to "compete" with gay men.       

Shit is weird. This is why I pay most of my coworkers dust. I talk to like 2 people on the regular at my job.
Title: Re: so the woman @ my job finally stopped shading me.
Post by: KING BENTLEY. on October 29, 2016, 05:27:14 PM
Quote from: Drais. on October 29, 2016, 05:19:29 PM
Yeah she does sound fake.

And IDK why but women in the workplace love to "compete" with gay men.       

Shit is weird. This is why I pay most of my coworkers dust. I talk to like 2 people on the regular at my job.

do you feel yourself come off as bougie or bitchy toward them?

They may be in an awkward place tryna decide if it's safe to talk to you or not.
Title: Re: so the woman @ my job finally stopped shading me.
Post by: LOONA. on October 29, 2016, 05:42:39 PM
I usually get told I look mean but that doesn't stop people from approaching me. I rarely just waltz up to someone and strike up conversation at work. People usually approach me.

It's only once some women find out that I'm into guys and see I get attention from other guys that the competition mess happens. Like just because I have a convo with a guy doesn't mean we're having sex or that I'm trying to compete. I don't understand women in the workplace.



       

Title: Re: so the woman @ my job finally stopped shading me.
Post by: KING BENTLEY. on October 29, 2016, 05:53:23 PM
:dead:
That's true too. If they see a cute guy and men striking up conversations with him they'll secretly hate the "phagg"

It's a bitter rivalry. It's like they think you're taking something that should be theirs :plzstop:
Title: Re: so the woman @ my job finally stopped shading me.
Post by: LOONA. on October 29, 2016, 06:02:47 PM
Always a black woman too

No shade       

Title: Re: so the woman @ my job finally stopped shading me.
Post by: LOONA. on October 29, 2016, 06:14:32 PM
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Title: Re: so the woman @ my job finally stopped shading me.
Post by: Monika on October 29, 2016, 06:23:47 PM
Quote from: Stewie on October 29, 2016, 02:50:06 PM
Quote from: sadiddy? on October 29, 2016, 01:47:34 PM
so she finally talked to me....but the bitch wouldn't shut up :uhh: it's like flood gates of Katrina finally opened or something. once the bitch popped she wouldn't stop. :cheerup:

i think it has something to do with the fact that i debuted my fall/winter look mess owt yesterday and all the gorls were raving about it in the office (literally I was getting kudos in my instant messenger before i even sat down in my chair sss "hey ! just saw u walk by! lovin that sweater!!! " ) :plzstop: :udontlookok:

I think she finally realized she's on the wrong team or something. :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: She could NOT stop talking to me  :uhh: :uhh:

like omfg she was telling me her life story.  :uhh: and also telling me stuff she asked about me to other people in the office...like bitch, u were around the office ASKING about me but couldn't talk to me? sdsd :uhh: :uhh: wats really good?

and she kept flipping and playing in her faux braids as she talked to me. ss like ok hun i see ur hair.

this bitch really just let it RIP yesterday. :plzstop: :plzstop:

:calmdownsis: like OK i didn't like that bitchy mess u were doing but don't give me the polar opposite now. we're not besties hun

Quote from: sadiddy? on October 29, 2016, 02:02:08 PM
BUT, even though I was just a bit disturbed at this sudden outburst of friendliness yesterday... :udontlookok: I'm glad she broke the ice. cuz it was ICY. :uhh:

I don't like tension where I work and I definitely felt it from her. I enjoy getting along with everyone , glad we can kii kii a bit now. I can definitely tell that maybe she didn't genuinely dislike me but was just cautious about interacting with me.

Some people (not all people) really assume things about you...that u must think u all that, u must think u cute....and they put a guard up. i have a feeling she was one of those people. the "coily curls" woman @ my job admitted to having those feelings about me when she saw me. just didn't take her MONTHS to figure owt that I'm cool peoples.

:diddraispoot:

:dead: :dead: :dead: :dead:
Title: Re: so the woman @ my job finally stopped shading me.
Post by: leftout on October 29, 2016, 09:32:47 PM
Black women stay insecure bout somethin
Title: Re: so the woman @ my job finally stopped shading me.
Post by: Rxxf on October 29, 2016, 09:35:24 PM
The people at your job have low self esteem as fuck
:dead:
Title: Re: so the woman @ my job finally stopped shading me.
Post by: Real on October 29, 2016, 09:35:49 PM
Quote from: Damnation on October 29, 2016, 09:32:47 PM
Black women stay insecure bout somethin

I wish yall would let this silly idea go.
Title: Re: so the woman @ my job finally stopped shading me.
Post by: Rxxf on October 29, 2016, 09:40:04 PM
Quote from: Drais. on October 29, 2016, 05:42:39 PM
I usually get told I look mean but that doesn't stop people from approaching me. I rarely just waltz up to someone and strike up conversation at work. People usually approach me.

It's only once some women find out that I'm into guys and see I get attention from other guys that the competition mess happens. Like just because I have a convo with a guy doesn't mean we're having sex or that I'm trying to compete. I don't understand women in the workplace.



       


I find it odd when women discuss how fit your body is, etc.
:dead:
Like how can you compare a male's physicality to yours?
Title: Re: so the woman @ my job finally stopped shading me.
Post by: Rxxf on October 29, 2016, 09:40:52 PM
This woman is every fucking thing.
My goodness.

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Title: Re: so the woman @ my job finally stopped shading me.
Post by: leftout on October 29, 2016, 09:57:25 PM
Quote from: Real on October 29, 2016, 09:35:49 PM
Quote from: Damnation on October 29, 2016, 09:32:47 PM
Black women stay insecure bout somethin

I wish yall would let this silly idea go.
it's the truth. I'm not saying us black women are the only ones with insecurities (every person has at least some) but a LOT of black women are def the worst at hiding them

Nigga :youready:
Title: Re: so the woman @ my job finally stopped shading me.
Post by: leftout on October 29, 2016, 09:58:38 PM
Stan Ralf :stressed:
Title: Re: so the woman @ my job finally stopped shading me.
Post by: LOONA. on October 30, 2016, 12:07:11 AM
Quote from: R on October 29, 2016, 09:40:04 PM
Quote from: Drais. on October 29, 2016, 05:42:39 PM
I usually get told I look mean but that doesn't stop people from approaching me. I rarely just waltz up to someone and strike up conversation at work. People usually approach me.

It's only once some women find out that I'm into guys and see I get attention from other guys that the competition mess happens. Like just because I have a convo with a guy doesn't mean we're having sex or that I'm trying to compete. I don't understand women in the workplace.



       


I find it odd when women discuss how fit your body is, etc.
:dead:
Like how can you compare a male's physicality to yours?

Well some men are "shapely" so it's not all that uncommon for women to compare and ask for workout tip.
Title: Re: so the woman @ my job finally stopped shading me.
Post by: LOONA. on October 30, 2016, 12:08:47 AM
Quote from: Damnation on October 29, 2016, 09:57:25 PM
Quote from: Real on October 29, 2016, 09:35:49 PM
Quote from: Damnation on October 29, 2016, 09:32:47 PM
Black women stay insecure bout somethin

I wish yall would let this silly idea go.
it's the truth. I'm not saying us black women are the only ones with insecurities (every person has at least some) but a LOT of black women are def the worst at hiding them

Nigga :youready:

!!!!!!

I blame society somewhat though.

Title: Re: so the woman @ my job finally stopped shading me.
Post by: FINE. on October 30, 2016, 01:56:59 AM
Quote from: sadiddy? on October 29, 2016, 04:29:22 PM
Quote from: FINE. on October 29, 2016, 04:09:24 PM
Quote from: sadiddy? on October 29, 2016, 04:07:19 PM
Quote from: FINE. on October 29, 2016, 04:03:43 PM
Quoteand she kept flipping and playing in her faux braids as she talked to me. ss like ok hun i see ur hair.


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she usually doesn't play in her hair like that...but she was straight OD'ing... :udontlookok: i was lookin at her like wtf :plzstop: :plzstop:

and was grouping us together..."people like us like to go owt hehe!!!!"...hun u jUST stopped giving me shady ice queen teas...how do u suddenly know me so well :udontlookok:

"Mmmmm hmmmmm yeah gorl

Right?! Lmao"

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Title: Re: so the woman @ my job finally stopped shading me.
Post by: Lane Bryant Jumpsuit on October 30, 2016, 07:52:35 AM
Quote from: Stewie on October 29, 2016, 02:50:06 PM
Quote from: sadiddy? on October 29, 2016, 01:47:34 PM
so she finally talked to me....but the bitch wouldn't shut up :uhh: it's like flood gates of Katrina finally opened or something. once the bitch popped she wouldn't stop. :cheerup:

i think it has something to do with the fact that i debuted my fall/winter look mess owt yesterday and all the gorls were raving about it in the office (literally I was getting kudos in my instant messenger before i even sat down in my chair sss "hey ! just saw u walk by! lovin that sweater!!! " ) :plzstop: :udontlookok:

I think she finally realized she's on the wrong team or something. :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: She could NOT stop talking to me  :uhh: :uhh:

like omfg she was telling me her life story.  :uhh: and also telling me stuff she asked about me to other people in the office...like bitch, u were around the office ASKING about me but couldn't talk to me? sdsd :uhh: :uhh: wats really good?

and she kept flipping and playing in her faux braids as she talked to me. ss like ok hun i see ur hair.

this bitch really just let it RIP yesterday. :plzstop: :plzstop:

:calmdownsis: like OK i didn't like that bitchy mess u were doing but don't give me the polar opposite now. we're not besties hun

Quote from: sadiddy? on October 29, 2016, 02:02:08 PM
BUT, even though I was just a bit disturbed at this sudden outburst of friendliness yesterday... :udontlookok: I'm glad she broke the ice. cuz it was ICY. :uhh:

I don't like tension where I work and I definitely felt it from her. I enjoy getting along with everyone , glad we can kii kii a bit now. I can definitely tell that maybe she didn't genuinely dislike me but was just cautious about interacting with me.

Some people (not all people) really assume things about you...that u must think u all that, u must think u cute....and they put a guard up. i have a feeling she was one of those people. the "coily curls" woman @ my job admitted to having those feelings about me when she saw me. just didn't take her MONTHS to figure owt that I'm cool peoples.

:diddraispoot:


Lmfao the fact that u went thru and highlighted all that lol

Me my im

Well saddidy i honestly dont think it was the sweater
But some ppul especialy the harder ones to crack can fall into the social construct
I think also some ppul take a while to warm up than others and if shes hearing positive water cooler talk im sure it brought down her defenses
Title: Re: so the woman @ my job finally stopped shading me.
Post by: KING BENTLEY. on November 05, 2016, 10:22:25 AM
Quote from: sadiddy? on November 05, 2016, 10:15:58 AM

at the end of the day, i'm still a man
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Title: Re: so the woman @ my job finally stopped shading me.
Post by: Opposites Attract. on November 05, 2016, 10:23:17 AM
lmfaooooooooooo
Title: Re: so the woman @ my job finally stopped shading me.
Post by: KING BENTLEY. on November 05, 2016, 10:33:09 AM
Quote from: sadiddy? on November 05, 2016, 10:24:15 AM
Quote from: BENTLEY. on November 05, 2016, 10:22:25 AM
Quote from: sadiddy? on November 05, 2016, 10:15:58 AM

at the end of the day, i'm still a man
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twin :omgwatshappening:
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you've been a very bad girl the past 12 hours twinzy
stop messin lolz