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Title: Have you figured out what makes you....
Post by: GRAND on November 16, 2016, 04:08:49 PM
Happy?

:cheerup:

Is it a thing? A person? A hobby? A task?

Is it everlasting or temporary?

Do you think it's possible to have an everlasting feeling of bliss?

What makes you smile inside and out?

:wellheythere:


(You don't necessarily have to say WHAT, btw. I don't need to know about your coke or phone sex addictions)
Title: Re: Have you figured out what makes you....
Post by: XXX. on November 16, 2016, 04:09:27 PM
Waking up Saturday morning panicking that I'm late for work and then remembering it's Saturday.

And I don't work on Saturday.
Title: Re: Have you figured out what makes you....
Post by: D.I.E.G.O. on November 16, 2016, 04:09:40 PM
Yes.  :stressed:
Title: Re: Have you figured out what makes you....
Post by: XXX. on November 16, 2016, 04:10:02 PM
When Beyonce slays live performances and the fans of other GORLS crumble across the web.  :-D
Title: Re: Have you figured out what makes you....
Post by: FlowerBomb on November 16, 2016, 04:10:12 PM
Yes, just found it out recently.
Title: Re: Have you figured out what makes you....
Post by: XXX. on November 16, 2016, 04:11:00 PM
How dope my relationship and friendship is with my mom and that she accepts me 100%. 
Title: Re: Have you figured out what makes you....
Post by: XXX. on November 16, 2016, 04:11:27 PM
Ok, I'm done.  :-D
Title: Re: Have you figured out what makes you....
Post by: Young on November 16, 2016, 04:12:01 PM
Yes!

AAACCCKKKK! :stressed:
Title: Re: Have you figured out what makes you....
Post by: Real on November 16, 2016, 04:12:39 PM
Yall getting deep today :usuresis:
Title: Re: Have you figured out what makes you....
Post by: Lazarus on November 16, 2016, 04:13:20 PM
Quote from: Real on November 16, 2016, 04:12:39 PM
Yall getting deep today :usuresis:

!!!!!!
Title: Re: Have you figured out what makes you....
Post by: Kurama on November 16, 2016, 04:13:23 PM
Yeah in essence.


Grand scheme:
I really like being interconnected with other people. I love growing and sharing experiences together. I like feeling the entire spectrum of emotions and the experiences that elicit them with these same people. Its spiritual for me.

I also find happiness in escaping reality most times(which may no be a good thing). Im really imaginative so however Im able to tap into that via video games, stimulants, writing, nature, etc. I enjoy.
Title: Re: Have you figured out what makes you....
Post by: GRAND on November 16, 2016, 04:14:32 PM
Quote from: Blond?. on November 16, 2016, 04:10:02 PM
When Beyonce slays live performances and the fans of other GORLS crumble across the web.  :-D
v

I didn't know an artist could make me feel pure bliss for HOURS until I saw Ciara and Kanye West live

:kii: :kii: :kii: :kii: :kii: :kii:

It's why I have to see Bey, cause watching her concerts just on Youtube make me LIVE.
Title: Re: Have you figured out what makes you....
Post by: GRAND on November 16, 2016, 04:15:03 PM
Quote from: Baeomi on November 16, 2016, 04:10:12 PM
Yes, just found it out recently.
Glad I could be that person for you

:sistas:
Title: Re: Have you figured out what makes you....
Post by: Kurama on November 16, 2016, 04:15:04 PM
Quote from: Real on November 16, 2016, 04:12:39 PM
Yall getting deep today :usuresis:

LOLZ
Title: Re: Have you figured out what makes you....
Post by: Lazarus on November 16, 2016, 04:17:39 PM
Life in general. The little/simple things we take for granted like friends, family, etc. A multitude of things in essence. The moments I've shared with others and continue to do so while I'm here.
Title: Re: Have you figured out what makes you....
Post by: GRAND on November 16, 2016, 04:19:23 PM
For me, it's a combination of things.

Having a close circle is part of what makes me feel good. My immediate friends, lover, and my sisters/mom/dad.

Me doing anything I want and not having worry about approval has also brought me a ton of happiness. I didn't know WTF freedom was until I had to depend 100% on myself.

Little things like food :dead:, my dog, automobiles, music.

I feel like all of these things add into a pie and when I have them all, the pie is complete. And I feel good.

I used to think Happiness was sorta like a 'high', that would last forever. But I'm starting to see now it comes and goes, and during those moments I don't feel like I'm on a high, I'm not sad -- I'm just content. But my spirit is happy. And that's pretty much how I've always been.

I couldn't imagine being an unhappy person, or miserable. The few times I ever felt like that, I literally felt like death was the only option. But that was when I was younger and everything felt like it was the end.

I'm really just happy to be on this Earth and experiencing all it has to offer.
Title: Re: Have you figured out what makes you....
Post by: Cartierline on November 16, 2016, 04:19:57 PM
Music, in general. I've known since I was a kid.

I'm pretty sure I'd be dead without it.
Title: Re: Have you figured out what makes you....
Post by: GRAND on November 16, 2016, 04:20:48 PM
And I can honestly say 2016 was one of the best years I've ever experienced.

I made SOOOOOOO many changes, and they were all worth it. I hope every one of you live how you want and know what makes you smile.
Title: Re: Have you figured out what makes you....
Post by: Kurama on November 16, 2016, 04:21:06 PM
Oh yeah food and music>
Title: Re: Have you figured out what makes you....
Post by: Real on November 16, 2016, 04:22:02 PM
Tonio, you're like.....human and sensible :uhh:
Title: Re: Have you figured out what makes you....
Post by: GRAND on November 16, 2016, 04:22:43 PM
Quote from: Kurama on November 16, 2016, 04:13:23 PM
Yeah in essence.


Grand scheme:
I really like being interconnected with other people. I love growing and sharing experiences together. I like feeling the entire spectrum of emotions and the experiences that elicit them with these same people. Its spiritual for me.

I also find happiness in escaping reality most times(which may no be a good thing). Im really imaginative so however Im able to tap into that via video games, stimulants, writing, nature, etc. I enjoy.
No I get that. I think it's healthy tbh.

Fiction and creative space can bring new ideas and peace to oneself.
Title: Re: Have you figured out what makes you....
Post by: GRAND on November 16, 2016, 04:22:59 PM
Quote from: Real on November 16, 2016, 04:22:02 PM
Tonio, you're like.....human and sensible :uhh:
rihanna has AIDS
Title: Re: Have you figured out what makes you....
Post by: GRAND on November 16, 2016, 04:23:50 PM
Quote from: Young on November 16, 2016, 04:12:01 PM
Yes!

AAACCCKKKK! :stressed:
What?


:young:
Title: Re: Have you figured out what makes you....
Post by: Admin on November 16, 2016, 04:24:56 PM
Yea. Pizza!
Title: Re: Have you figured out what makes you....
Post by: Cartierline on November 16, 2016, 04:25:56 PM
Quote from: GRAND SUPREME MARSHALL on November 16, 2016, 04:20:48 PM
And I can honestly say 2016 was one of the best years I've ever experienced.

I made SOOOOOOO many changes, and they were all worth it. I hope every one of you live how you want and know what makes you smile.
Awww happy to hear that babe.


Hoping I can be in the same place soon. Life has kinda been a bit.. well.. SHIT this year.


:melmel:


Can't wait till I graduate. I need to cut loose from my family a bit. I feel like having that safety net there is holding me back.
Title: Re: Have you figured out what makes you....
Post by: Vonc2002 on November 16, 2016, 04:26:07 PM
As long as i feel like I'm growing in life and being proactive to continue growing, im happy.  Also being healthy, exercising and all that makes me have a better quality of life.  Ive been reading and all that stuff co-mingles. I personally have noticed when i eat shit and dont stay active, i feel like shit. Im sure it's mostly mental but your mental effects everything else, so yea
Title: Re: Have you figured out what makes you....
Post by: Cartierline on November 16, 2016, 04:26:33 PM
Quote from: Real on November 16, 2016, 04:22:02 PM
Tonio, you're like.....human and sensible :uhh:
fffff I love when we see a bit of the human Ton' PUSH thru


:traciandchelle:
Title: Re: Have you figured out what makes you....
Post by: Kurama on November 16, 2016, 04:26:44 PM
Quote from: GRAND SUPREME MARSHALL on November 16, 2016, 04:20:48 PM
And I can honestly say 2016 was one of the best years I've ever experienced.

I made SOOOOOOO many changes, and they were all worth it. I hope every one of you live how you want and know what makes you smile.
:stressed:
Title: Re: Have you figured out what makes you....
Post by: GRAND on November 16, 2016, 04:26:48 PM
Would you guys say you NEED some of these things?

Like, if one thing were missing, you'd feel terrible?

Or can any and everything be supplemented?

:receipts:
Title: Re: Have you figured out what makes you....
Post by: FINE. on November 16, 2016, 04:27:04 PM
Music.

Being secure in all facets. I get really depressed when things aren't going my way.

Laying in bed not having to do anything or go anywhere.
Title: Re: Have you figured out what makes you....
Post by: Kurama on November 16, 2016, 04:29:32 PM
Quote from: GRAND SUPREME MARSHALL on November 16, 2016, 04:26:48 PM
Would you guys say you NEED some of these things?

Like, if one thing were missing, you'd feel terrible?

Or can any and everything be supplemented?

:receipts:
Probably the escapes from reality.
Title: Re: Have you figured out what makes you....
Post by: Real on November 16, 2016, 04:30:37 PM
Quote from: GRAND SUPREME MARSHALL on November 16, 2016, 04:22:59 PM
Quote from: Real on November 16, 2016, 04:22:02 PM
Tonio, you're like.....human and sensible :uhh:
rihanna has AIDS

Whew. That's better :blessed:
Title: Re: Have you figured out what makes you....
Post by: GRAND on November 16, 2016, 04:31:23 PM
Quote from: Cartier on November 16, 2016, 04:25:56 PM
Quote from: GRAND SUPREME MARSHALL on November 16, 2016, 04:20:48 PM
And I can honestly say 2016 was one of the best years I've ever experienced.

I made SOOOOOOO many changes, and they were all worth it. I hope every one of you live how you want and know what makes you smile.
Awww happy to hear that babe.


Hoping I can be in the same place soon. Life has kinda been a bit.. well.. SHIT this year.


:melmel:


Can't wait till I graduate. I need to cut loose from my family a bit. I feel like having that safety net there is holding me back.
You'll get there

One day you'll say fck it

And it may get a little rough  :dead: :dead: :dead: but it'll definitely be worth it.

Family, if they truly love and respect you, will support your decisions.
Title: Re: Have you figured out what makes you....
Post by: yummy on November 16, 2016, 04:33:00 PM
Quote from: Kurama on November 16, 2016, 04:21:06 PM
food and music>
Title: Re: Have you figured out what makes you....
Post by: MelMel on November 16, 2016, 04:33:45 PM
when I drink :stressed:
Title: Re: Have you figured out what makes you....
Post by: BAPHOMET. on November 16, 2016, 04:52:15 PM
Yeah. I have.

Nature, Animals & Sculpting/painting/baking (basically being creative and doing things with my hands). Just letting it all flow.

Between 6th grade and Highschool I definitely suppressed a lot of myself to fit in with the crowd. Not going to go into full detail about that shit. 
But when I got home to myself I just let it all go.
My mom has so many things that I had sculpted/painted while growing up. On the nature/animal side of my happiness nothing made me happier growing up than going to the zoo and going on nature trips with the school. Seeing a picture of those exotic locations in the world gets my heart racing. Thats how I know.

However... getting to be around it and to do those things a lot more would be amazing.
Right now I have 3 pets and I want a snake.


also... I like making people happy.

Im being kinda vague but umm.... Im not trying to get too deep into detail. :udontlookok:
Title: Re: Have you figured out what makes you....
Post by: Cartierline on November 16, 2016, 04:59:48 PM
Aww Bath'

:stressed:

And I agree with you on being creative. I think that's part of the reason I've been feeling a bit depressed lately. I feel like I'm in a creative block and I have no ideas/will to do create. Sucks because during the summer, I was doing so well and creating music/art like I used to when I was younger.
Title: Re: Have you figured out what makes you....
Post by: CHOKE on November 16, 2016, 05:38:41 PM
Power and control

:ohwow:
Title: Re: Have you figured out what makes you....
Post by: Fairy Godfaggot on November 16, 2016, 05:40:52 PM
Cheetos
Title: Re: Have you figured out what makes you....
Post by: Chameleon on November 16, 2016, 05:43:21 PM
 the simple fact dat i have my younger siblings to look up to me.
and my dad is proud of da man ive become.


da money is icing on da cake :cheerup:
Title: Re: Have you figured out what makes you....
Post by: BranLover on November 16, 2016, 05:48:51 PM
I'm happy whenever I take care of my responsibilities without getting distracted or lazy.
Title: Re: Have you figured out what makes you....
Post by: SouravMay on November 16, 2016, 05:53:30 PM
Sanity and physical health makes me happy.
Title: Re: Have you figured out what makes you....
Post by: BranLover on November 16, 2016, 06:07:31 PM
Quote from: Kurama on November 16, 2016, 04:21:06 PM
Oh yeah food and music>

!!!! + herbs. So fckin happy.
Title: Re: Have you figured out what makes you....
Post by: KingOfHearts on November 16, 2016, 06:15:56 PM
Being around my family my brothers & sisters makes me happy

Good music and going to the beach.
Title: Re: Have you figured out what makes you....
Post by: DVDDY. on November 16, 2016, 06:28:42 PM
Still learning but things that bring me joy are:

People genuinely appreciating stuff that I make - music, food, my work, my body etc

Travelling to foreign lands

Getting a raise/promotion that I've worked hard for
Title: Re: Have you figured out what makes you....
Post by: Palladium on November 16, 2016, 07:05:13 PM
Quote from: Real on November 16, 2016, 04:30:37 PM
Quote from: GRAND SUPREME MARSHALL on November 16, 2016, 04:22:59 PM
Quote from: Real on November 16, 2016, 04:22:02 PM
Tonio, you're like.....human and sensible :uhh:
rihanna has AIDS

Whew. That's better :blessed:

sssssssss
Title: Re: Have you figured out what makes you....
Post by: Eternal Bell on November 16, 2016, 07:09:36 PM
life

tha ups & downs! (not a big fan of tha downs tho  ^o) )
i like bein 'round ppl
i like takin care of my siblings & i luv travelin'!

but overall bein truthful to me is wat makes me happ'
i see ppl livin miserable lives doin things they dnt wanna do

make tha most of this life & do wat ya want! :sistas: