Was watching this vidya of queen https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BgMT_usip9k
she kinda lashed black men for their "preference" of dating outside of Blk women.
How do you all view preferences? How do you know when it's either or?
Are preferences inherently discriminatory ?
Do preferences become more discriminatory sexually, inter-personally, socially etc. and vise versa?
:ohwow: :ohwow: :ohwow: :ohwow:
I don't think it has to be either or. Some people's preference is to be prejudiced and discriminatory. I find it problematic when ANYone of ANY race claims that they only date a specific group of people.
preference is never discriminatory because there are always exceptions to preference discrimination leaves no room
I prefer not to have carrots in my soup but damn this soup is good (preference)
Im not eating that orange shit in my soup ever (discrimination)
Quote from: TheNextLew on December 28, 2016, 02:12:25 PM
I prefer not to have carrots in my soup but damn this soup is good (preference)
Im not eating that orange shit in my soup ever (discrimination)
No.
Quote from: \dē-ˈā-gō\ on December 28, 2016, 02:13:55 PM
Quote from: TheNextLew on December 28, 2016, 02:12:25 PM
I prefer not to have carrots in my soup but damn this soup is good (preference)
Im not eating that orange shit in my soup ever (discrimination)
No.
yes its that simple dear
So can having a preference be protective tactic rather than a discriminatory one?
Quote from: TheNextLew on December 28, 2016, 02:16:57 PM
Quote from: \dē-ˈā-gō\ on December 28, 2016, 02:13:55 PM
Quote from: TheNextLew on December 28, 2016, 02:12:25 PM
I prefer not to have carrots in my soup but damn this soup is good (preference)
Im not eating that orange shit in my soup ever (discrimination)
No.
yes its that simple dear
:guys:
Quote from: Kurama on December 28, 2016, 02:18:42 PM
So can having a preference be protective tactic rather than a discriminatory one?
I dont think so whatever reason the preference is there it can still lead to discrinination
say like last dude without a car u deallt with was a user and totaled your car
so now u say i dont date guys without a car now
well you have established that rule to prevent some mess like before but at the same time
this guy without the car could be great lol
Lew, focus on race and can the silly examples and late anecdotes.
Quote from: \dē-ˈā-gō\ on December 28, 2016, 02:24:03 PM
Lew, focus on race and can the silly examples and late anecdotes.
nope because the same silly anecdotes can be applied to anything
i dont see why race would make it different :dead: :uhh:
Quote from: TheNextLew on December 28, 2016, 02:25:00 PM
Quote from: \dē-ˈā-gō\ on December 28, 2016, 02:24:03 PM
Lew, focus on race and can the silly examples and late anecdotes.
nope because the same silly anecdotes can be applied to anything
i dont see why race would make it different :dead: :uhh:
n because you can't control race or attraction. You're not born with carrots in your soup or with a car in your driveway. You're not this dense.
She must post on LipstickAlley. I remember when Taron told me it gives him "single bitter moms". nnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn So tired of this conversation.
Black women get so enraged when Allison & Becky snag a DayQuan. DayQuan still cheating & fucking them over too. But no really, you don't have to date your race. And it's not self hatred if you have a preference - even if that preference is not inclusive of everyone.
Anywho, love and date who you want. Just make sure it's legal & don't get all judgy wudgy with what other people are doing.
I find single people are the most passionate about this shit.
Quote from: \dē-ˈā-gō\ on December 28, 2016, 02:26:08 PM
Quote from: TheNextLew on December 28, 2016, 02:25:00 PM
Quote from: \dē-ˈā-gō\ on December 28, 2016, 02:24:03 PM
Lew, focus on race and can the silly examples and late anecdotes.
nope because the same silly anecdotes can be applied to anything
i dont see why race would make it different :dead: :uhh:
n because you can't control race or attraction. You're not born with carrots in your soup or with a car in your driveway. You're not this dense.
So because you arent necessarily wired to like someone of a certain race that means you couldnt possibly be attracted to and date someone of that race
thats discrimination
Quote from: TheNextLew on December 28, 2016, 02:27:49 PM
Quote from: \dē-ˈā-gō\ on December 28, 2016, 02:26:08 PM
Quote from: TheNextLew on December 28, 2016, 02:25:00 PM
Quote from: \dē-ˈā-gō\ on December 28, 2016, 02:24:03 PM
Lew, focus on race and can the silly examples and late anecdotes.
nope because the same silly anecdotes can be applied to anything
i dont see why race would make it different :dead: :uhh:
n because you can't control race or attraction. You're not born with carrots in your soup or with a car in your driveway. You're not this dense.
So because you are necessarily wired to like someone of a certain race that means you couldnt possibly be attracted to and date someone of that race
thats discrimination
Never said that. :dead: And you've missed the point yet again. God bless you, babe.
I prefer white men. Always have.
I like black men too but they generally don't dress the way that I like.
Quote from: \dē-ˈā-gō\ on December 28, 2016, 02:28:59 PM
Quote from: TheNextLew on December 28, 2016, 02:27:49 PM
Quote from: \dē-ˈā-gō\ on December 28, 2016, 02:26:08 PM
Quote from: TheNextLew on December 28, 2016, 02:25:00 PM
Quote from: \dē-ˈā-gō\ on December 28, 2016, 02:24:03 PM
Lew, focus on race and can the silly examples and late anecdotes.
nope because the same silly anecdotes can be applied to anything
i dont see why race would make it different :dead: :uhh:
n because you can't control race or attraction. You're not born with carrots in your soup or with a car in your driveway. You're not this dense.
So because you are necessarily wired to like someone of a certain race that means you couldnt possibly be attracted to and date someone of that race
thats discrimination
Never said that. :dead: And you've missed the point yet again. God bless you, babe.
you are saying that
what if im not attracted to indian men?
then my preference is justified
no mam
Quote from: Chokeme on December 28, 2016, 02:32:07 PM
I prefer white men. Always have.
I like black men too but they generally don't dress the way that I like.
:uhh: :uhh: :uhh: discrimination
v
Yeah I agree wtf she's saying even though she sounds kinda HOT lol
It's kinda annoying how these fags always have to announce how they dont date black women
I have innate preferences and bias, I try for it not to dictate my dating life though.
Quote from: شيطان on December 28, 2016, 02:36:17 PM
I have innate preferences and bias, I try for it not to dictate my dating life though.
I can agree with this
Let people love who they want. Most ppl here are gay, are you discrimitatory towards women because you love men? No.
If it wasn't for interracial love I wouldn't even exist.
Depends
Some people choose to use the word preference when all they're really doing is excluding an entire group of people. Saying shit like you don't find blacks attractive and won't date them isn't a preference.
Quote from: TheNextLew on December 28, 2016, 02:22:36 PM
Quote from: Kurama on December 28, 2016, 02:18:42 PM
So can having a preference be protective tactic rather than a discriminatory one?
I dont think so whatever reason the preference is there it can still lead to discrinination
say like last dude without a car u deallt with was a user and totaled your car
so now u say i dont date guys without a car now
well you have established that rule to prevent some mess like before but at the same time
this guy without the car could be great lol
But the guy with the car could also be a user who totals the car as well, right?
Quote from: Blond?. on December 28, 2016, 02:26:52 PM
She must post on LipstickAlley. I remember when Taron told me it gives him "single bitter moms". nnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn So tired of this conversation.
Black women get so enraged when Allison & Becky snag a DayQuan. DayQuan still cheating & fucking them over too. But no really, you don't have to date your race. And it's not self hatred if you have a preference - even if that preference is not inclusive of everyone.
Anywho, love and date who you want. Just make sure it's legal & don't get all judgy wudgy with what other people are doing.
I find single people are the most passionate about this shit.
g
I think sis is a lil bit above lipstick'
Quote from: TheNextLew on December 28, 2016, 02:33:46 PM
Quote from: Chokeme on December 28, 2016, 02:32:07 PM
I prefer white men. Always have.
I like black men too but they generally don't dress the way that I like.
:uhh: :uhh: :uhh: discrimination
b
good example.
Quote from: Blond?. on December 28, 2016, 02:26:52 PM
She must post on LipstickAlley. I remember when Taron told me it gives him "single bitter moms". nnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn So tired of this conversation.
Black women get so enraged when Allison & Becky snag a DayQuan. DayQuan still cheating & fucking them over too. But no really, you don't have to date your race. And it's not self hatred if you have a preference - even if that preference is not inclusive of everyone.
Anywho, love and date who you want. Just make sure it's legal & don't get all judgy wudgy with what other people are doing.
I find single people are the most passionate about this shit.
Quote from: Kurama on December 28, 2016, 02:46:48 PM
Quote from: TheNextLew on December 28, 2016, 02:22:36 PM
Quote from: Kurama on December 28, 2016, 02:18:42 PM
So can having a preference be protective tactic rather than a discriminatory one?
I dont think so whatever reason the preference is there it can still lead to discrinination
say like last dude without a car u deallt with was a user and totaled your car
so now u say i dont date guys without a car now
well you have established that rule to prevent some mess like before but at the same time
this guy without the car could be great lol
But the guy with the car could also be a user who totals the car as well, right?
of course but if you are discriminating against him because of it then you will never find out
Quote from: Genesis on December 28, 2016, 02:40:57 PM
If it wasn't for interracial love I wouldn't even exist.
Well in that case...stop dating outside of your race, guys.
Quote from: Gilgamesh. on December 28, 2016, 02:48:37 PM
Quote from: Blond?. on December 28, 2016, 02:26:52 PM
She must post on LipstickAlley. I remember when Taron told me it gives him "single bitter moms". nnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn So tired of this conversation.
Black women get so enraged when Allison & Becky snag a DayQuan. DayQuan still cheating & fucking them over too. But no really, you don't have to date your race. And it's not self hatred if you have a preference - even if that preference is not inclusive of everyone.
Anywho, love and date who you want. Just make sure it's legal & don't get all judgy wudgy with what other people are doing.
I find single people are the most passionate about this shit.
Preference
The time she took making the video she coulda found Her a black man who wanted her. There are tons why are you worried about the few that don't want you
Yeah definitely discrimination
Quote from: TEXASbama on December 28, 2016, 03:18:22 PM
Preference
The time she took making the video she coulda found Her a black man who wanted her. There are tons why are you worried about the few that don't want you
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Quote from: TEXASbama on December 28, 2016, 03:18:22 PM
Preference
The time she took making the video she coulda found Her a black man who wanted her. There are tons why are you worried about the few that don't want you
did u watch the video
Quote from: ANIMMAI on December 28, 2016, 03:15:46 PM
Quote from: Genesis on December 28, 2016, 02:40:57 PM
If it wasn't for interracial love I wouldn't even exist.
Well in that case...stop dating outside of your race, guys.
omg
Anytime I decide to press further whenever someone says it's a just a "preference", their reasons (if they don't just say "just cuz") are normally rooted in racism, so I dunno.
Date whoever you want, I just wish more people with these "preferences" challenged WHY they have these preferences, instead of just accepting it as such.
I think Nick has a mentality disabilty.
Quote from: Jayda on December 28, 2016, 03:26:32 PM
I think Nick has a mentality disabilty.
m
You mean a mental disability?
Quote from: pCj on December 28, 2016, 03:25:29 PM
Anytime I decide to press further whenever someone says it's a just a "preference", their reasons (if they don't just say "just cuz") are normally rooted in racism, so I dunno.
Date whoever you want, I just wish more people with these "preferences" challenged WHY they have these preferences, instead of just accepting it as such.
Quote from: Kurama on December 28, 2016, 02:04:25 PM
Was watching this vidya of queen https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BgMT_usip9k
she kinda lashed black men for their "preference" of dating outside of Blk women.
How do you all view preferences? How do you know when it's either or?
Are preferences inherently discriminatory ?
Do preferences become more discriminatory sexually, inter-personally, socially etc. and vise versa?
:ohwow: :ohwow: :ohwow: :ohwow:
I dunno
I mean ... I can see it... it's deeply imbedded in some black men
The part I don't get about it is
You can't MAKE nobody want you :dead:
And black women have to realize that
That'd be like us sitting on here all day crying and begging Nick to date blacks.
Black women always tryna MAKE somebody see them as beautiful and worth something
Girl go be worth something to yourself first and love the ones who actually DO want you.
Black women are notorious for passing up good things to be with a bad man or get into toxic situations.
Be the most fucked up ones and wanna blame it on everything else
"Oh my hair is nappy and beautiful!!!"Um .... ok sure. But why are you shouting at me?
:hmph:
"Black men need to stop dating white women"Um .... so you really want somebody that don't want you in the first place?
:hmph:
"Gay men are the reason I'm in the position I am in life"Um .... you wouldn't have a good man anyway because you let Tyrone lay up on your couch and ruin your credit. Deal with it.
:hmph:
Quote from: BENTLEY. on December 28, 2016, 03:43:42 PM
Quote from: Kurama on December 28, 2016, 02:04:25 PM
Was watching this vidya of queen https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BgMT_usip9k
she kinda lashed black men for their "preference" of dating outside of Blk women.
How do you all view preferences? How do you know when it's either or?
Are preferences inherently discriminatory ?
Do preferences become more discriminatory sexually, inter-personally, socially etc. and vise versa?
:ohwow: :ohwow: :ohwow: :ohwow:
I dunno
I mean ... I can see it... it's deeply imbedded in some black men
The part I don't get about it is
You can't MAKE nobody want you :dead:
And black women have to realize that
That's be like us sitting on here all day crying and begging Nick to date blacks.
Black women always tryna MAKE somebody see them as beautiful and worth something
Girl go be worth something to yourself first and love the ones who actually DO want you.
Black women are notorious for passing up good things to be with a bad man or get into toxic situations.
Be the most fucked up ones and wanna blame it on everything else
"Oh my hair is nappy and beautiful!!!"
Um .... ok sure. But why are you shouting at me?
:hmph:
"Black men need to stop dating white women"
Um .... so you really want somebody that don't want you in the first place?
:hmph:
"Gay men are the reason I'm in the position I am in life"
Um .... you wouldn't have a good man anyway because you let Tyrone lay up on your couch and ruin your credit. Deal with it.
:hmph:
n
Yeah some black women like to blame everybody else for their problems.
Yall....are we watching the same video?
:shannonsmissing:
:dead:
Well ... I haven't watched yet per se. I just saw the thumbnail and assumed she was an angry black woman
Clicking play now babe
:stressed:
I didn't watch the mess.
problem?
(http://i.imgur.com/jgmunGU.jpg)
fuckin see :fuming: