So, this woman at work was being targeted because she is probably a lesbian. I was disgusted at the way they were all bad talking her. And giving her the side eye. And then laughing and talking with her like it's all good.
I took it upon myself to give homegirl the heads up on what's going on. She thanked me and that was that. The next day I got the day off. And returned the following day.
I returned to homegirl talking and laughing with everyone being all besties. And as I enter they office everyone starts giving me the side eye. And everyone all of a sudden starts avoiding me.
Now ain't life a nasty bitch. I'm never getting involved in something like this again. These help a person out always backfires on me.
DOnt feel bad. You did the right thing.
This says more about them than it does about you.
Yeah you should've keep your mouth shut!
Co-workers are just what they are. You're there for a CHECK not friends and fuck her and the rest of them as well.
Keep it moving. Now you have no reason to talk to none of them.
cbncbcbcbcvc
Quote from: Sl? on July 16, 2017, 09:06:36 AM
DOnt feel bad. You did the right thing.
This says more about them than it does about you.
Awwwwwww... I still feel crappy.
Quote from: FM on July 16, 2017, 09:10:50 AM
Yeah you should've keep your mouth shut!
Co-workers are just what they are. You're there for a CHECK not friends and fuck her and the rest of them as well.
Keep it moving. Now you have no reason to talk to none of them.
Well I do get your point. But, I did feel so bad for her.
Quote from: Blackpantha on July 16, 2017, 09:38:24 AM
Quote from: FM on July 16, 2017, 09:10:50 AM
Yeah you should've keep your mouth shut!
Co-workers are just what they are. You're there for a CHECK not friends and fuck her and the rest of them as well.
Keep it moving. Now you have no reason to talk to none of them.
Well I do get your point. But, I did feel so bad for her.
And look what the dumb bitch did. She wants to fit so much that she is willing to put up with being talked about
Quote from: FM on July 16, 2017, 09:41:07 AM
Quote from: Blackpantha on July 16, 2017, 09:38:24 AM
Quote from: FM on July 16, 2017, 09:10:50 AM
Yeah you should've keep your mouth shut!
Co-workers are just what they are. You're there for a CHECK not friends and fuck her and the rest of them as well.
Keep it moving. Now you have no reason to talk to none of them.
Well I do get your point. But, I did feel so bad for her.
And look what the dumb bitch did. She wants to fit so much that she is willing to put up with being talked about
You're right... Fuck her!
Quote from: Blackpantha on July 16, 2017, 09:47:28 AM
Quote from: FM on July 16, 2017, 09:41:07 AM
Quote from: Blackpantha on July 16, 2017, 09:38:24 AM
Quote from: FM on July 16, 2017, 09:10:50 AM
Yeah you should've keep your mouth shut!
Co-workers are just what they are. You're there for a CHECK not friends and fuck her and the rest of them as well.
Keep it moving. Now you have no reason to talk to none of them.
Well I do get your point. But, I did feel so bad for her.
And look what the dumb bitch did. She wants to fit so much that she is willing to put up with being talked about
You're right... Fuck her!
I hate when gay ppl be timid and afraid to put pressure on a bitch. Giving homophobs the impression they can do that to other's
Quote from: FM on July 16, 2017, 09:10:50 AM
Yeah you should've keep your mouth shut!
Co-workers are just what they are. You're there for a CHECK not friends and fuck her and the rest of them as well.
Keep it moving. Now you have no reason to talk to none of them.
:omf:
But yeah!
I agree 100%!
More importantly never get involved with shit regarding women
I hope they staple her pussy lips together with that red stippling machine.
The only way i wouldve said sumn is if she was a friend of mine, otherwise idgaf. People are always gonna talk about people and smile in their face like it's cool, which is the reason i wouldn't give AF about them talking about me. That's actually why i don't delude myself into thinking people at work are "friends". If u don't expect much, u arent surprised when they do shit like this
Quote from: Blackpantha on July 16, 2017, 09:47:28 AM
Quote from: FM on July 16, 2017, 09:41:07 AM
Quote from: Blackpantha on July 16, 2017, 09:38:24 AM
Quote from: FM on July 16, 2017, 09:10:50 AM
Yeah you should've keep your mouth shut!
Co-workers are just what they are. You're there for a CHECK not friends and fuck her and the rest of them as well.
Keep it moving. Now you have no reason to talk to none of them.
Well I do get your point. But, I did feel so bad for her.
And look what the dumb bitch did. She wants to fit so much that she is willing to put up with being talked about
You're right... Fuck her!
ssssssssssssssssssssssssssss
Quote from: Vonc2002 on July 16, 2017, 10:12:41 AM
RANT RANT RANT RANT That's actually why i don't delude myself into thinking people at work are "friends". RANT RANT RANT RANT
Yes!!!!!
Wish i wouldve carried that mentality with me here as well btw
Quote from: Vonc2002 on July 16, 2017, 10:12:41 AM
The only way i wouldve said sumn is if she was a friend of mine, otherwise idgaf. People are always gonna talk about people and smile in their face like it's cool, which is the reason i wouldn't give AF about them talking about me. That's actually why i don't delude myself into thinking people at work are "friends". If u don't expect much, u arent surprised when they do shit like this
I agree. I have 2 friends at work and we've been friends for about 10 years now. I let ppl know off top if you say anything about them I'm cussin you out and telling
Quote from: FM on July 16, 2017, 10:18:19 AM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on July 16, 2017, 10:12:41 AM
The only way i wouldve said sumn is if she was a friend of mine, otherwise idgaf. People are always gonna talk about people and smile in their face like it's cool, which is the reason i wouldn't give AF about them talking about me. That's actually why i don't delude myself into thinking people at work are "friends". If u don't expect much, u arent surprised when they do shit like this
I agree. I have 2 friends at work and we've been friends for about 10 years now. I let ppl know off top if you say anything about them I'm cussin you out and telling
:kii: :kii: :kii:
Yea cause other than us being close id rather not deal with petty bullshit at work. That's why people think I'm an asshole at work sumtimes. I give an ABOVE IT sorta thing
And i am btw :sup:
Quote from: Vonc2002 on July 16, 2017, 10:17:55 AM
Wish i wouldve carried that mentality with me here as well btw
:kii:
:guys:
Quote from: Vonc2002 on July 16, 2017, 10:20:52 AM
Quote from: FM on July 16, 2017, 10:18:19 AM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on July 16, 2017, 10:12:41 AM
The only way i wouldve said sumn is if she was a friend of mine, otherwise idgaf. People are always gonna talk about people and smile in their face like it's cool, which is the reason i wouldn't give AF about them talking about me. That's actually why i don't delude myself into thinking people at work are "friends". If u don't expect much, u arent surprised when they do shit like this
I agree. I have 2 friends at work and we've been friends for about 10 years now. I let ppl know off top if you say anything about them I'm cussin you out and telling
:kii: :kii: :kii:
Yea cause other than us being close id rather not deal with petty bullshit at work. That's why people think I'm an asshole at work sumtimes. I give an ABOVE IT sorta thing
Her kids and grandchildren call me uncle that's just how close we are.
No shade, but I feel like lesbians sometimes do give a backstabbing tea. Teaming up with straights before gays.
*sigh*
Hi jayden
Hhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhjjjjjjjjkkkkkkkk
Quote from: squid on July 16, 2017, 10:31:15 AM
No shade, but I feel like lesbians sometimes do give a backstabbing tea. Teaming up with straights before gays.
!!!
Always wannabe one of the guys!
Quote from: squid on July 16, 2017, 10:31:15 AM
No shade, but I feel like lesbians sometimes do give a backstabbing tea. Teaming up with straights before gays.
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You're not supposed to do that shit
Let them read her. She's not your damns sister or momma
Quote from: squid on July 16, 2017, 10:31:15 AM
No shade, but I feel like lesbians sometimes do give a backstabbing tea. Teaming up with straights before gays.
Dykes HATE me idk why tho
I'll drag a stud real talk
Hmmmmm
I don't really have any real life interactions with dykes like that.
s
Quote from: FM on July 16, 2017, 12:03:16 PM
Quote from: squid on July 16, 2017, 10:31:15 AM
No shade, but I feel like lesbians sometimes do give a backstabbing tea. Teaming up with straights before gays.
Dykes HATE me idk why tho
I'll drag a stud real talk
Do u have sumn against dykes?
I hate studs
d
Sounds like bsource. I echo the same sentiments as a few folks here though. If you dont have a solid relationship with a coworker its best to just not touch it at all. I tried to do the same thing with the few black coworkers at my last org, they didnt believe me at first then they got super stressed and eventually got fired. Pity.
Quote from: Blackpantha on July 16, 2017, 09:37:03 AM
Quote from: Sl? on July 16, 2017, 09:06:36 AM
DOnt feel bad. You did the right thing.
This says more about them than it does about you.
Awwwwwww... I still feel crappy.
AT least you know none of them heffas are ppl you want to kick it with. I'd still pump in with my head held high. Work ain't the place to make friends anyway.
Quote from: Sl? on July 16, 2017, 12:10:30 PM
Quote from: Blackpantha on July 16, 2017, 09:37:03 AM
Quote from: Sl? on July 16, 2017, 09:06:36 AM
DOnt feel bad. You did the right thing.
This says more about them than it does about you.
Awwwwwww... I still feel crappy.
I'd still pump in with my head held high. Work ain't the place to make friends anyway.
!!!!!!!!!!
This is me. Im walking in confident af no matter the situation.
s
Am mean .... quite simply... I feel like you did what you did. Period!
:letsmessfag:
Shouldn't have regrets.
You did what you felt was needed.
Bbys, in life don't get into the regret mode, questioning your mess. It happened! Lolz
if anything just reflect and know they aren't the right ppl to really entertain anyway.
Only thing I would've done differently is confront those ppl while they were cackling, otherwise it may have looked messy to her on your end.
Listen, If ANYBODY comes to me and repeats every single bad thing someone says about me, I'm automatically skeptical because they clearly SAT and listened to the entirety of the lashings!
So In those situations now as I'm getting old, I just call the mess out in front of EVERYBODY!
Now if leaving it alone isn't in your playbook.
Take control! You not weak boy! Own that workplace!
Gather everyone, the dyke too, in that damn break room and begin the session bby!
"Hey Sarah sis .... why did you say Anne was a nasty pig shaped bull dyke? And Jacob you agreed... why?"
(http://i68.tinypic.com/e7m82e.jpg)
I don't play that ignore child games mess.
BLOW up the spot panther. Don't let ANYBODY take away your comfort in any situation.
Quote from: Kurama on July 16, 2017, 12:10:17 PM
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Sounds like bsource.
!!
Baph and I were reading you in PMs the other day lolz
BENT I agree I would've confronted them. Like is anyone going to address homegirl or are y'all going to be high school and cackle behind her back.
And to the OP them giving you the cold shoulder shouldn't bother you ...they are not ppl you want to kick it with anyway. N that bitch is just desperate to belong. Part of the circle! Accepted!
Bitch they still cackle behind your back just like before.
Quote from: Sl? on July 16, 2017, 12:19:57 PM
BENT I agree I would've confronted them.
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This is messy for no reason :dead:
Quote from: Vonc2002 on July 16, 2017, 12:25:00 PM
Quote from: Sl? on July 16, 2017, 12:19:57 PM
BENT I agree I would've confronted them.
f
This is messy for no reason :dead:
It wouldn't have been messy. I would've just said that it wasn't cute. Let them know I'm not fucking with it n keep it moving.
Quote from: GLOW on July 16, 2017, 10:14:33 AM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on July 16, 2017, 10:12:41 AM
RANT RANT RANT RANT That's actually why i don't delude myself into thinking people at work are "friends". RANT RANT RANT RANT
Yes!!!!!
!!
It always baffles me how quickly people will call their coworkers their friend(s)..
Yea cause If Pant' was unbothered, then it wouldn't be an issue.
But if your spidey senses are tingling, don't WAIT and go tell Anne after they roasted ha!
Just set them str8 and don't even mention it to Anne. They're still gonna cackle at ha, just not around Pant' anymore :dead:
But lemme clarify .... if we cool, and I'm sure of that, and Anne does indeed look a fckn MESS.
Roast ha
(http://www.brandysource.net/Smileys/Bsource%20Smileys/omf.png)
Quote from: ORORO MUNROE-UDAKU on July 16, 2017, 12:34:38 PM
But lemme clarify .... if we cool, and I'm sure of that, and Anne does indeed look a fckn MESS.
Roast ha
(http://www.brandysource.net/Smileys/Bsource%20Smileys/omf.png)
If we cool Anne would've been had a make over. I don't befriend anything below an 8
Quote from: Kurama on July 16, 2017, 12:10:17 PM
d
Sounds like bsource. I echo the same sentiments as a few folks here though. If you dont have a solid relationship with a coworker its best to just not touch it at all. I tried to do the same thing with the few black coworkers at my last org, they didnt believe me at first then they got super stressed and eventually got fired. Pity.
am mean ... I ain't gone lie
There's been MANY a time I've seen a sig or went into that damn picture thread and raced to PMs, like buddy did you see this shit right here?
:omf:
I'll say it to their face too!
... a cackle amongst friends is a very precious and priceless thing!
:sistas:
xvzvvzvxvzvxv
every dyke I've encountered has been nice :guys:
Quote from: Kaeli. on July 16, 2017, 12:39:22 PM
xvzvvzvxvzvxv
every dyke I've encountered has been nice :guys:
how many :enchantress:
Oh I see what this is now
u get that mind outta the gutter hun! & on a Sunday? :diddraispoot:
Kaeli likes strong pussy.
:usureuok:
You tried to do the right thing but yea work can be a social cesspool. Everyone is love king for a leg up. I go to work, collect my coins and leave.
Quote from: Sl? on July 16, 2017, 12:27:55 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on July 16, 2017, 12:25:00 PM
Quote from: Sl? on July 16, 2017, 12:19:57 PM
BENT I agree I would've confronted them.
f
This is messy for no reason :dead:
It wouldn't have been messy. I would've just said that it wasn't cute. Let them know I'm not fucking with it n keep it moving.
Eh
Honestly I still feel like that's too much. They're grown and are gonma do wtf ever it is they wanna do. They dont need some chastizing ass rant from me. I would simply remove myself from the situation and take away that these arent the people to surround myself with because this is the kinda shit they get into. All that other shit is energy and i ain't got time. Comments cause a chain reaction. some shit aint even worth engaging in
Quote from: ORORO MUNROE-UDAKU on July 16, 2017, 12:39:13 PM
Quote from: Kurama on July 16, 2017, 12:10:17 PM
d
Sounds like bsource. I echo the same sentiments as a few folks here though. If you dont have a solid relationship with a coworker its best to just not touch it at all. I tried to do the same thing with the few black coworkers at my last org, they didnt believe me at first then they got super stressed and eventually got fired. Pity.
am mean ... I ain't gone lie
There's been MANY a time I've seen a sig or went into that damn picture thread and raced to PMs, like buddy did you see this shit right here?
:omf:
I'll say it to their face too!
... a cackle amongst friends is a very precious and priceless thing!
:sistas:
:kii: :kii: :kii: :kii: :kii: :kii:
I have gotten some rude ass texts from people about the mess on here. My response is always "don't send me this type of mess because I'm above it"
LOLZ!
Quote from: Kaeli. on July 16, 2017, 12:39:22 PM
xvzvvzvxvzvxv
every dyke I've encountered has been nice :guys:
Im sure
Quote from: Vonc2002 on July 16, 2017, 12:05:48 PM
Quote from: FM on July 16, 2017, 12:03:16 PM
Quote from: squid on July 16, 2017, 10:31:15 AM
No shade, but I feel like lesbians sometimes do give a backstabbing tea. Teaming up with straights before gays.
Dykes HATE me idk why tho
I'll drag a stud real talk
Do u have sumn against dykes?
Well they seem to hate me and the feelings are mutual
:plea:
Quote from: Bre's Husband on July 16, 2017, 10:32:28 AM
Quote from: squid on July 16, 2017, 10:31:15 AM
No shade, but I feel like lesbians sometimes do give a backstabbing tea. Teaming up with straights before gays.
!!!
Always wannabe one of the guys!
She's trying to win the guys approval and trying to be liked by the girls at the same time.
DAMN SHAME
so sorry that happened
Quote from: ORORO MUNROE-UDAKU on July 16, 2017, 12:34:38 PM
But lemme clarify .... if we cool, and I'm sure of that, and Anne does indeed look a fckn MESS.
Roast ha
(http://www.brandysource.net/Smileys/Bsource%20Smileys/omf.png)
Dreadlocks, tattoos on her face. Always in boots and loose fitting joggers. And they do laugh and critique all of that. I just thought it wasn't nice. And it did bother me because she seemed sad.
But now the bitch is dancing and smiling with the same people.
Quote from: Blackpantha on July 16, 2017, 01:23:22 PM
Quote from: ORORO MUNROE-UDAKU on July 16, 2017, 12:34:38 PM
But lemme clarify .... if we cool, and I'm sure of that, and Anne does indeed look a fckn MESS.
Roast ha
(http://www.brandysource.net/Smileys/Bsource%20Smileys/omf.png)
Dreadlocks, tattoos on her face. Always in boots and loose fitting joggers. And they do laugh and critique all of that. I just thought it wasn't nice. And it did bother me because she seemed sad.
But now the bitch is dancing and smiling with the same people.
Well u gave her that so im sure she thanks u :dead:
Quote from: ORORO MUNROE-UDAKU on July 16, 2017, 12:39:13 PM
Quote from: Kurama on July 16, 2017, 12:10:17 PM
d
Sounds like bsource. I echo the same sentiments as a few folks here though. If you dont have a solid relationship with a coworker its best to just not touch it at all. I tried to do the same thing with the few black coworkers at my last org, they didnt believe me at first then they got super stressed and eventually got fired. Pity.
am mean ... I ain't gone lie
There's been MANY a time I've seen a sig or went into that damn picture thread and raced to PMs, like buddy did you see this shit right here?
:omf:
I'll say it to their face too!
... a cackle amongst friends is a very precious and priceless thing!
:sistas:
sdddddqweeeee
im blocking you.
Bent :omf:
Tanna!
lemme get to this fckn phone
:omf: