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Only if the friend is worth it.
Yes. I don't like negative energy or harboring shit that no longer matters to me
I've started to in the last couple years... holding on to a grudge or negative energy is def not worth it... id rather just cut them off or distance myself from them after clearing the air
Quote from: Scott. on September 04, 2017, 09:58:29 PM
Yes. I don't like negative energy or harboring shit that no longer matters to me
nigga you gone learn to RESPECT me!
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Quote from: Malian Prince on September 04, 2017, 09:53:37 PM
No. Unless I care enough about them to.
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I can see that. Me too, but I'm getting a lot better.
But Cancers by nature are VERY vengeful. I'll definetly forgive.
.... but only after I'm done clawing or I feel I've had my fill of vengeance
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I need to do a lot better, I don't want to hurt anybody anymore.
I'm very good at it
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ill be back in the morning. G' night
I still hate my uncle so no
I forgive easily.
Quote from: Kurama on September 04, 2017, 11:02:43 PM
ill be back in the morning. G' night
pls don't wake up.
Yea,but only if I feel like the person is genuinely sorry and I feel a need to repair the friendship
I'm terrible at forgiving people after they wrong me.
It's something I'm trying to work on, but it's really hard to let shit go sometimes.
It's actually easier to cut people off than to forgive them sometimes.
Quote from: MΛΥDΛΥ on September 04, 2017, 11:33:01 PM
It's actually easier to cut people off than to forgive them sometimes.
oh i agree with this. I think this is a scorpio thing tho. Ill cut a mufucka loose in a damn minute
Morn guys,
A special good morning to my sweetheart Bath lolz.
I think forgiveness depends on circumstances. How significant the person is to you, whatever it is that they did to slight you, and your outlook on life in general.
For me, forgiveness comes easier when Ive fully processed whats happening. It comes even faster when I process it with the person who I had an issue it. Why did the shit happen? what made you feel this way? Can we move forward from this? Especially if both of us or whatever parties involved can be completely truthful about shit. Transparent and truth are vital tbh.
Of course this is ideal cause ppl don't really do vulnerable shit like this. You may not get the opportunity to do that so then it becomes forgiveness for the sake of your own well being. Getting closure is really for your benefit because regardless I still feel like the issue can fester and affect the way you see the world/ppl.
I also admit its easier to cut someone off, especially if yall not close. I constantly have to check myself about this because the easier route can be the most damaging imo.
eh, fag why'd you make this thread.
So, that former bff of mine (ive mentioned several times over the years) who I hadnt spoken with since I moved here and we fell out was here a few weeks ago.
We ran into each other at a festival. At first I acted like I didnt see him and then he literally came to stop me and all this magic we use to share just flooded back in after years of not speaking.
We were able to admit we still loved each other and how we missed one another but when it came down to why we stopped speaking he still wouldn't own his part in the mess and shy'd away from processing it. We had a good weekend but now its back to not speaking until the next time we cross paths. Forgive but no forget I guess.
eh, life.
Quote from: Kurama on September 05, 2017, 09:08:14 AM
eh, fag why'd you make this thread.
So, that former bff of mine (ive mentioned several times over the years) who I hadnt spoken with since I moved here and we fell out was here a few weeks ago.
We ran into each other at a festival. At first I acted like I didnt see him and then he literally came to stop me and all this magic we use to share just flooded back in after years of not speaking.
We were able to admit we still loved each other and how we missed one another but when it came down to why we stopped speaking he still wouldn't own his part in the mess and shy'd away from processing it. We had a good weekend but now its back to not speaking until the next time we cross paths. Forgive but no forget I guess.
eh, life.
I don't know if it would be a good idea to rekindle things if he can't admit and own up to his mess. Sounds like he hasn't changed much.
yes
I don't hold grudges
I kinda just write people off and forget they exist
Quote from: ANIMMAI on September 05, 2017, 09:17:40 AM
Quote from: Kurama on September 05, 2017, 09:08:14 AM
eh, fag why'd you make this thread.
So, that former bff of mine (ive mentioned several times over the years) who I hadnt spoken with since I moved here and we fell out was here a few weeks ago.
We ran into each other at a festival. At first I acted like I didnt see him and then he literally came to stop me and all this magic we use to share just flooded back in after years of not speaking.
We were able to admit we still loved each other and how we missed one another but when it came down to why we stopped speaking he still wouldn't own his part in the mess and shy'd away from processing it. We had a good weekend but now its back to not speaking until the next time we cross paths. Forgive but no forget I guess.
eh, life.
I don't know if it would be a good idea to rekindle things if he can't admit and own up to his mess. Sounds like he hasn't changed much.
You're absolutely right. Im standing my ground as he knows. It still affects me in a weird way sometimes though.
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Quote from: Uzi on September 04, 2017, 11:07:21 PM
I forgive easily.
And I exile bitches out of my life easily too
Yup
Way too easily
Lead to some mess in my life
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It takes too much energy to stay mad.
Forgiving someone means you are taking your power back.