Morn guys,
A special good morning to my sweetheart Bath lolz.
I think forgiveness depends on circumstances. How significant the person is to you, whatever it is that they did to slight you, and your outlook on life in general.
For me, forgiveness comes easier when Ive fully processed whats happening. It comes even faster when I process it with the person who I had an issue it. Why did the shit happen? what made you feel this way? Can we move forward from this? Especially if both of us or whatever parties involved can be completely truthful about shit. Transparent and truth are vital tbh.
Of course this is ideal cause ppl don't really do vulnerable shit like this. You may not get the opportunity to do that so then it becomes forgiveness for the sake of your own well being. Getting closure is really for your benefit because regardless I still feel like the issue can fester and affect the way you see the world/ppl.
I also admit its easier to cut someone off, especially if yall not close. I constantly have to check myself about this because the easier route can be the most damaging imo.
