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Title: I honestly didn?t know waves were still a thing N
Post by: GLOCK on April 18, 2018, 12:16:31 PM
https://instagram.com/p/BhKS-Gzno6r/

https://instagram.com/p/BhSBkrulnYS/


Boy
https://instagram.com/p/Bg7QSGEHPzE/
Title: Re: I honestly didn?t know waves were still a thing N
Post by: HUGO on April 18, 2018, 12:17:45 PM
Uhhh yeah. They?re making a comeback along with everything from the late 90?s early 2000?s
A nice fade and some waves


:gorlonfire:
Title: Re: I honestly didn?t know waves were still a thing N
Post by: Ma Lo on April 18, 2018, 12:18:25 PM
waves will always be a thing..
Title: Re: I honestly didn?t know waves were still a thing N
Post by: FlowerBomb on April 18, 2018, 12:21:42 PM
Quote from: The Serpent & The Rainbow on April 18, 2018, 12:18:25 PM
waves will always be a thing..
!!
As long as black hair exists
Title: Re: I honestly didn?t know waves were still a thing N
Post by: GLOCK on April 18, 2018, 12:22:06 PM
Quote from: HUGO on April 18, 2018, 12:17:45 PM
Uhhh yeah. They?re making a comeback along with everything from the late 90?s early 2000?s
A nice fade and some waves


:gorlonfire:
I damn guess dd dnd
Title: Re: I honestly didn?t know waves were still a thing N
Post by: Gilgamesh. on April 18, 2018, 12:23:21 PM
Yeah, it's made a comeback.

I know a lot of guys 25 and younger rocking waves these days. I think it's cute.
Title: Re: I honestly didn?t know waves were still a thing N
Post by: Young on April 18, 2018, 12:24:13 PM
The way it just brings me back to 2000 looking at this :dead:
Title: Re: I honestly didn?t know waves were still a thing N
Post by: 4 fucking k on April 18, 2018, 12:28:44 PM
When did they ever go out? Don't nobody want to see NAPS and kinks!
Title: Re: I honestly didn?t know waves were still a thing N
Post by: Young on April 18, 2018, 12:29:19 PM
 :omgwatshappening:
Title: Re: I honestly didn?t know waves were still a thing N
Post by: AIDS on April 18, 2018, 12:32:46 PM
Quote from: element on April 18, 2018, 12:28:44 PM
When did they ever go out? Don't nobody want to see NAPS and kinks!

!!!
Title: Re: I honestly didn?t know waves were still a thing N
Post by: Heated🔥 on April 18, 2018, 12:33:33 PM
Quote from: The Serpent & The Rainbow on April 18, 2018, 12:18:25 PM
waves will always be a thing..
Title: Re: I honestly didn?t know waves were still a thing N
Post by: AIDS on April 18, 2018, 12:36:57 PM
the girls are gathering you glock
Title: Re: I honestly didn?t know waves were still a thing N
Post by: Heated🔥 on April 18, 2018, 12:38:10 PM
Glock u giving a Brillo pad mess owt huh?
(http://i68.tinypic.com/2yjoaqg.jpg)
Title: Re: I honestly didn?t know waves were still a thing N
Post by: GLOCK on April 18, 2018, 12:39:44 PM
n

Calm down girls
I just haven?t seen this mess in quite some time
Title: Re: I honestly didn?t know waves were still a thing N
Post by: GLOCK on April 18, 2018, 12:40:01 PM
The same girl girl..
Have y?all noticed?
Title: Re: I honestly didn?t know waves were still a thing N
Post by: FlowerBomb on April 18, 2018, 12:41:15 PM
Quote from: M'Baku on April 18, 2018, 12:40:01 PM
The same girl girl..
Have y?all noticed?
always
Title: Re: I honestly didn?t know waves were still a thing N
Post by: AIDS on April 18, 2018, 12:42:23 PM
sup jayden
Title: Re: I honestly didn?t know waves were still a thing N
Post by: KING BENTLEY. on April 18, 2018, 12:53:04 PM
ssssssss

during a youtube binge I found these one night

it's a very serious thing I guess

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bKxuwqkCLB4

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Pm57Gb5plvA
Title: Re: I honestly didn?t know waves were still a thing N
Post by: GLOCK on April 18, 2018, 12:53:50 PM
Quote from: Guilty on April 18, 2018, 12:41:15 PM
Quote from: M'Baku on April 18, 2018, 12:40:01 PM
The same girl girl..
Have y?all noticed?
always
its crazy smh
Title: Re: I honestly didn?t know waves were still a thing N
Post by: KING BENTLEY. on April 18, 2018, 12:54:36 PM
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WIjyHCq72l0
Title: Re: I honestly didn?t know waves were still a thing N
Post by: GLOCK on April 18, 2018, 12:54:43 PM
Quote from: SAINT BENTLEY. on April 18, 2018, 12:53:04 PM
ssssssss

during a youtube binge I found these one night

it's a very serious thing I guess

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bKxuwqkCLB4

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Pm57Gb5plvA
not clippering waves in  :dead:
Title: Re: I honestly didn?t know waves were still a thing N
Post by: FlowerBomb on April 18, 2018, 12:54:54 PM
Quote from: M'Baku on April 18, 2018, 12:53:50 PM
Quote from: Guilty on April 18, 2018, 12:41:15 PM
Quote from: M'Baku on April 18, 2018, 12:40:01 PM
The same girl girl..
Have y?all noticed?
always
its crazy smh
damn weird
Def? has a crush on you
Title: Re: I honestly didn?t know waves were still a thing N
Post by: AIDS on April 18, 2018, 12:58:22 PM
Quote from: M'Baku on April 18, 2018, 12:53:50 PM
Quote from: Guilty on April 18, 2018, 12:41:15 PM
Quote from: M'Baku on April 18, 2018, 12:40:01 PM
The same girl girl..
Have y?all noticed?
always
its crazy smh

it's*
Title: Re: I honestly didn?t know waves were still a thing N
Post by: Heated🔥 on April 18, 2018, 01:12:32 PM
Quote from: Guilty on April 18, 2018, 12:54:54 PM
Quote from: M'Baku on April 18, 2018, 12:53:50 PM
Quote from: Guilty on April 18, 2018, 12:41:15 PM
Quote from: M'Baku on April 18, 2018, 12:40:01 PM
The same girl girl..
Have y?all noticed?
always
its crazy smh
damn weird
Def? has a crush on you
who y?all subbing?
(http://i68.tinypic.com/2yjoaqg.jpg)
Title: Re: I honestly didn?t know waves were still a thing N
Post by: HUGO on April 18, 2018, 01:14:39 PM
Quote from: element on April 18, 2018, 12:28:44 PM
When did they ever go out? Don't nobody want to see NAPS and kinks!

Which makes me wanna know what?s on Glocks head ?
Title: Re: I honestly didn?t know waves were still a thing N
Post by: GLOCK on April 18, 2018, 01:15:02 PM
Quote from: Guilty on April 18, 2018, 12:54:54 PM
Quote from: M'Baku on April 18, 2018, 12:53:50 PM
Quote from: Guilty on April 18, 2018, 12:41:15 PM
Quote from: M'Baku on April 18, 2018, 12:40:01 PM
The same girl girl..
Have y?all noticed?
always
its crazy smh
damn weird
Def? has a crush on you
I see it
Wow.
Eww
Title: Re: I honestly didn?t know waves were still a thing N
Post by: GLOCK on April 18, 2018, 01:15:32 PM
Quote from: HUGO on April 18, 2018, 01:14:39 PM
Quote from: element on April 18, 2018, 12:28:44 PM
When did they ever go out? Don't nobody want to see NAPS and kinks!

Which makes me wanna know what?s on Glocks head ?
im fem.
So I have a man bun
Title: Re: I honestly didn?t know waves were still a thing N
Post by: Heated🔥 on April 18, 2018, 01:17:07 PM
Quote from: M'Baku on April 18, 2018, 01:15:32 PM
Quote from: HUGO on April 18, 2018, 01:14:39 PM
Quote from: element on April 18, 2018, 12:28:44 PM
When did they ever go out? Don't nobody want to see NAPS and kinks!

Which makes me wanna know what?s on Glocks head ?
im fem.
So I have a man bun
(http://i51.tinypic.com/vzze40.jpg)
Title: Re: I honestly didn?t know waves were still a thing N
Post by: Aalonso. on April 18, 2018, 01:17:57 PM
Really? Lol. I was just saying to myself I wish my hair DIDNT have them. I always had them with no effort, so I guess I'm kinda stuck with them unless I stop grooming
Title: Re: I honestly didn?t know waves were still a thing N
Post by: Heated🔥 on April 18, 2018, 01:20:04 PM
Natural waves!!!
Drowning!!!
SurfboardT!!!

(http://i51.tinypic.com/vzze40.jpg)
Title: Re: I honestly didn?t know waves were still a thing N
Post by: GLOCK on April 18, 2018, 01:20:38 PM
Bbxnnz

Me too
But I don?t go out of my way to display them Bdhsjsjs

Or play them up like i did as a kid
Title: Re: I honestly didn?t know waves were still a thing N
Post by: Aalonso. on April 18, 2018, 01:21:12 PM
Quote from: M'Baku on April 18, 2018, 01:20:38 PM
Bbxnnz

Me too
But I don?t go out of my way to display them Bdhsjsjs

Or play them up like i did as a kid

ahhh, yea.
Title: Re: I honestly didn?t know waves were still a thing N
Post by: Eternal Bell on April 18, 2018, 01:34:45 PM
my man got waves
Title: Re: I honestly didn?t know waves were still a thing N
Post by: BAPHOMET. on April 18, 2018, 01:35:17 PM
Quote from: element on April 18, 2018, 12:28:44 PM
When did they ever go out? Don't nobody want to see NAPS and kinks!
ffdffghjjbfg
Title: Re: I honestly didn?t know waves were still a thing N
Post by: yummy on April 18, 2018, 01:37:00 PM
xcvavcac

I used to stay with a durag on my head tryna get waves and all I got was a damns headache and a crease on my forehead as big as Rih's thighs

:bvy:
Title: Re: I honestly didn?t know waves were still a thing N
Post by: STUNNA GOD on April 18, 2018, 01:38:28 PM
Ddsdddd

Waves will always be a thing. Black men can't really do but so much with their hair. Sdddx
Title: Re: I honestly didn?t know waves were still a thing N
Post by: BAPHOMET. on April 18, 2018, 01:40:49 PM
Also I get what that Lonz user is saying. I'd post a pic of my hair when it was shorter and it's definitely wavy without me doing anything. It just laid flat.
Title: Re: I honestly didn?t know waves were still a thing N
Post by: HUGO on April 18, 2018, 01:41:41 PM
Quote from: Guilty on April 18, 2018, 12:54:54 PM
Quote from: M'Baku on April 18, 2018, 12:53:50 PM
Quote from: Guilty on April 18, 2018, 12:41:15 PM
Quote from: M'Baku on April 18, 2018, 12:40:01 PM
The same girl girl..
Have y?all noticed?
always
its crazy smh
damn weird
Def? has a crush on you


fffffffff
Title: Re: I honestly didn?t know waves were still a thing N
Post by: yummy on April 18, 2018, 01:42:07 PM


(http://i.imgur.com/Wu1LiGK.gif)
Title: Re: I honestly didn?t know waves were still a thing N
Post by: AIDS on April 18, 2018, 01:42:24 PM
hey hugo. you still pressed?
Title: Re: I honestly didn?t know waves were still a thing N
Post by: GLOCK on April 18, 2018, 01:42:33 PM
Clock it gorls
Title: Re: I honestly didn?t know waves were still a thing N
Post by: HUGO on April 18, 2018, 01:42:45 PM
Quote from: M'Baku on April 18, 2018, 01:20:38 PM
Bbxnnz

Me too
But I don?t go out of my way to display them Bdhsjsjs

Or play them up like i did as a kid

:plzstop:

seasick!
Title: Re: I honestly didn?t know waves were still a thing N
Post by: HUGO on April 18, 2018, 01:43:56 PM
Kept my name out your fonts


Weird bipolar self
Title: Re: I honestly didn?t know waves were still a thing N
Post by: Aalonso. on April 18, 2018, 01:44:58 PM
Quote from: Trey on April 18, 2018, 01:38:28 PM

Black men can't really do but so much with their hair.

i meant to say i disagree
Title: Re: I honestly didn?t know waves were still a thing N
Post by: AIDS on April 18, 2018, 01:47:19 PM
Quote from: HUGO on April 18, 2018, 01:43:56 PM
Kept my name out your fonts


Weird bipolar self

HUGO
Title: Re: I honestly didn?t know waves were still a thing N
Post by: GLOCK on April 18, 2018, 01:50:24 PM
Quote from: HUGO on April 18, 2018, 01:42:45 PM
Quote from: M'Baku on April 18, 2018, 01:20:38 PM
Bbxnnz

Me too
But I don?t go out of my way to display them Bdhsjsjs

Or play them up like i did as a kid

:plzstop:

seasick!
:letsmessfag:
Title: Re: I honestly didn?t know waves were still a thing N
Post by: GRAND on April 18, 2018, 01:50:36 PM
Quote from: element on April 18, 2018, 12:28:44 PM
When did they ever go out? Don't nobody want to see NAPS and kinks!
I'm crying
Title: Re: I honestly didn?t know waves were still a thing N
Post by: Kaeli. on April 18, 2018, 01:51:55 PM
Quote from: element on April 18, 2018, 12:28:44 PM
When did they ever go out? Don't nobody want to see NAPS and kinks!
. Vvvvccddgvduhxdx
Title: Re: I honestly didn?t know waves were still a thing N
Post by: Kaeli. on April 18, 2018, 01:52:03 PM
yea
Title: Re: I honestly didn?t know waves were still a thing N
Post by: GLOCK on April 18, 2018, 01:53:47 PM
U date whites
U wouldn?t kno
Title: Re: I honestly didn?t know waves were still a thing N
Post by: Kaeli. on April 18, 2018, 01:54:36 PM
I don?t talk to whites anymore nigger
Title: Re: I honestly didn?t know waves were still a thing N
Post by: HUGO on April 18, 2018, 01:54:48 PM
Quote from: Same Girl? on April 18, 2018, 01:47:19 PM
Quote from: HUGO on April 18, 2018, 01:43:56 PM
Kept my name out your fonts


Weird bipolar self

HUGO

Feel accomplished?  :uhh:
Title: Re: I honestly didn?t know waves were still a thing N
Post by: AIDS on April 18, 2018, 01:56:39 PM
faggot stop following me around :uhh:
Title: Re: I honestly didn?t know waves were still a thing N
Post by: HUGO on April 18, 2018, 02:01:52 PM
follow!

You typed my fucking name.  damn dummy.
Title: Re: I honestly didn?t know waves were still a thing N
Post by: Eternal Bell on April 18, 2018, 02:04:24 PM
like forreall yall...my mans waves are outta this worl'!
Title: Re: I honestly didn?t know waves were still a thing N
Post by: Vonc2002 on April 18, 2018, 02:04:34 PM
Quote from: The Serpent & The Rainbow on April 18, 2018, 12:18:25 PM
waves will always be a thing..
Title: Re: I honestly didn?t know waves were still a thing N
Post by: GLOCK on April 18, 2018, 02:04:47 PM
Kae plea
Title: Re: I honestly didn?t know waves were still a thing N
Post by: GLOCK on April 18, 2018, 02:04:55 PM
White mans hoe
Title: Re: I honestly didn?t know waves were still a thing N
Post by: Kaeli. on April 18, 2018, 02:06:25 PM
:usureuok:
Title: Re: I honestly didn?t know waves were still a thing N
Post by: Scott. on April 18, 2018, 02:14:44 PM
They never left FAG
Title: Re: I honestly didn?t know waves were still a thing N
Post by: Drogon on April 18, 2018, 02:18:10 PM
My hair thick and curly

:flamebroiled:

:charon:
Title: Re: I honestly didn?t know waves were still a thing N
Post by: Kalifornia. on April 18, 2018, 02:21:22 PM
Quote from: ...but mess on April 18, 2018, 02:03:39 PM
(https://pbs.twimg.com/media/DZ5z7yWVoAA_maO.jpg)

(https://media.giphy.com/media/LVPVnxSpfSt1K/giphy.gif)
Title: Re: I honestly didn?t know waves were still a thing N
Post by: GLOCK on April 18, 2018, 02:27:51 PM
Quote from: Scott. on April 18, 2018, 02:14:44 PM
They never left FAG
hdhhx

Show me ur waves king :enchantress:
Title: Re: I honestly didn?t know waves were still a thing N
Post by: Palladium on April 18, 2018, 02:28:33 PM
Quote from: Guilty on April 18, 2018, 12:21:42 PM
Quote from: The Serpent & The Rainbow on April 18, 2018, 12:18:25 PM
waves will always be a thing..
!!
As long as black hair exists
Title: Re: I honestly didn?t know waves were still a thing N
Post by: Sinpool on April 18, 2018, 02:31:35 PM
Bd

I never saw the big whoop.

I love a nigger that embraces his naps and let that long hair grow out.

I want me a damns Tarzan nigger.
Afro, Dreads, Braids, curls

Mmmm

Fades do nothings for me. I need a tarzan nigger grunting in my hole like an ape.
Title: Re: I honestly didn?t know waves were still a thing N
Post by: Aalonso. on April 18, 2018, 02:42:38 PM

Quote from: Trey on April 18, 2018, 01:38:28 PM

Black men can't really do but so much with their hair.

i meant to say i disagree
Title: Re: I honestly didn?t know waves were still a thing N
Post by: Sinpool on April 18, 2018, 03:20:09 PM
It took my a long ass time to geow out my hair cause i?d start and keep cutting it because people would also tell me basically ?nigger your naps and kinks are present cut it!? They didnt care when my hair was long enough to brush because it looked smooth and people wanted to touch it, but when I started growing my hair longer blacks couldnt take. He longer it got younger blacks cooled down, but older blacks hated it the more it grew.

But when my hair was at its longest, i got compliments and now that i have dreads the girls are really living for it.

It shouldn't have been such a struggle for me to grow my hair out because niggers were so against it, but now the girls are like oohh luv ur hair.

Why did non blacks love my hair but it took blacks 5 years to acceot my hair.
Title: Re: I honestly didn?t know waves were still a thing N
Post by: GLOCK on April 18, 2018, 03:23:16 PM
Stop lying boy
Title: Re: I honestly didn?t know waves were still a thing N
Post by: Lazarus on April 18, 2018, 03:36:44 PM
Waves will always be a thing for black men. I just never personally cared for them.
Title: Re: I honestly didn?t know waves were still a thing N
Post by: FlowerBomb on April 18, 2018, 04:01:52 PM
Quote from: ...but mess on April 18, 2018, 02:58:15 PM
i used to comb my curls out every day because i wanted a high-top afro look.
(like the one keith photoshopped on me years ago  :dead: :dead: )

I've always loved the look of big Afro hair. So naturally..
i wanted to have a big voluminous look . i get kinda jealous when i see people with big afro hair. and wish my hair was real thick like that.

they get to do MORE  to it IMO . my cousin tried a twist out for me down south...i was SO fucking excited ...I woke up the next morning to unravel it, and it looked a thin struggling mess. Nothing like the people i saw on youtube.  :'( :'( and she did it perfectly in terms of the process.

people may think u feel ur all of that because u have certain hair but they have no clue how you really feel or what u wish you had.

taking thousands of pics of it and mess...the same hair pose pic a million times...thats really underlying insecurity at work - a need of validation of some sort. but im so used to having hair now that the less I have to talk about it or handle it, the better.

I do the bare minimum with it and it looks 100x better to me. I stopped all the combing it and mess. and just perch in confidence with what God gave you.

People of color >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>

We're all naturally beautiful, age better and all. Aside from privilege, I have no clue why anyone would wanna be White.
(https://uploadir.com/u/mhy7xbg9)
Title: Re: I honestly didn?t know waves were still a thing N
Post by: Young on April 18, 2018, 04:04:17 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on April 18, 2018, 02:42:38 PM

Quote from: Trey on April 18, 2018, 01:38:28 PM

Black men can't really do but so much with their hair.

i meant to say i disagree

Yeah I disagree

We can do the most with our hair
Title: Re: I honestly didn?t know waves were still a thing N
Post by: 🦚 on April 18, 2018, 04:05:13 PM
These forced looking messes in the OP  :kii:

My natural wavy Brazilian  :howfestive:
Title: Re: I honestly didn?t know waves were still a thing N
Post by: GLOCK on April 18, 2018, 04:05:52 PM
Oh wow ur so interna? sle :ohwow:
Title: Re: I honestly didn?t know waves were still a thing N
Post by: FlowerBomb on April 18, 2018, 04:06:08 PM
Not forced
Title: Re: I honestly didn?t know waves were still a thing N
Post by: 🦚 on April 18, 2018, 04:07:11 PM
Quote from: M'Baku on April 18, 2018, 04:05:52 PM
Oh wow ur so interna? sle :ohwow:

Very exotical   :ohwow:
Title: Re: I honestly didn?t know waves were still a thing N
Post by: Young on April 18, 2018, 04:10:53 PM
Quote from: ...but mess on April 18, 2018, 04:03:00 PM
we have a couple new Black people in the office who rock their natural hair..beautiful afros and twists.

they were havin a discussion -  a couple guys and girls...about hair care, what they do with it, etc. perms they've gotten, flat irons...twist outs..the usual Black hair convo which I am VERY familiar with...as a BLACK fucking person from a BLACK neighborhood and a BLACK fucking church with BLACK fucking friends

but i felt so excluded. they didn't even find a way to include me as they did everyone else...and im thinking like HELLO im black too and i have natural hair...why is everyone included but me. but the question surely is rhetorical for me at this point as i know the answer is already.

im sure they're thinking "oh he has 'good' hair...he aint part of this convo".

and i know it sounds so trivial but it kinda hurts me when i feel excluded like that. its those little moments when u feel just a bit of shade from ur own people. i dont think its done purposely but thats not my point.

and whats even more hurtful is that some people assume because u look a certain way that u think ur better than them. they dont even know u. oh i know he mixed with something so he must automatically think he better than me. oh his hair curly so he think he the bomb.

i'm brown and have curly/wavy hair with nice skin so i must be Dominican. I'm not fully Black. gotta be mixed with something...he aint REALLY one of us. meanwhile i have two whole ass black parents who put me into this world. doesn't get any fucking blacker than my father. :dead:

and some people wonder why the hell i damn near lost my mind tryna figure out whats so different about me. what r people seeing?  u dont realize it until other people point it out and kinda exclude u from shit. i don't even think they realize that they're doing it sometimes but its really fucking hurtful .

at least I have brown skin ...my nose....theres no denying my Blackness. if anyone ever really questions it i can always point to the color of my fucking hand. i can only imagine what its like for light skin people WITH the "good hurr" . which is why when i see them share their stories im not quick to give a "ooooh boo hoo mixed boy....so hard being mixed and light  skin with good hair huh? :-(  :'( :'( :'( :'( " mess owt.

if i feel excluded and envied at times and i clearly have africa runnin all up inside of me i can only fucking imagine.

sorry for the thesis btw. but this was a bit therapeutic actually. cried just a bit. :plzstop:


That?s really weird sis

Because you have hair like MANY black people I know  :uhh: :dead:
Black hair isn?t one texture . And I?m sure they all didn?t have the same texture.  :plzstop:

If they really excluded you because you leave your curls out then that?s absolutely crazy dbdbdbdbdb
Title: Re: I honestly didn?t know waves were still a thing N
Post by: Ma Lo on April 18, 2018, 04:12:50 PM
Quote from: Young on April 18, 2018, 04:04:17 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on April 18, 2018, 02:42:38 PM

Quote from: Trey on April 18, 2018, 01:38:28 PM

Black men can't really do but so much with their hair.

i meant to say i disagree

Yeah I disagree

We can do the most with our hair

I LOVED YOUR MAN BUN..DO YOU STILL HAVE IT? SEXY SELF.
Title: Re: I honestly didn?t know waves were still a thing N
Post by: Young on April 18, 2018, 04:16:00 PM
Quote from: The Serpent & The Rainbow on April 18, 2018, 04:12:50 PM
Quote from: Young on April 18, 2018, 04:04:17 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on April 18, 2018, 02:42:38 PM

Quote from: Trey on April 18, 2018, 01:38:28 PM

Black men can't really do but so much with their hair.

i meant to say i disagree

Yeah I disagree

We can do the most with our hair

I LOVED YOUR MAN BUN..DO YOU STILL HAVE IT? SEXY SELF.

Thanks luv muffin  :wub:

I?m rockig a swoop most days but I can still put it in a bun

It?s actually in a top knot right now around the house  :dead:
Title: Re: I honestly didn?t know waves were still a thing N
Post by: GLOCK on April 18, 2018, 04:16:36 PM
Quote from: Sl?i Tengo Dinero en Bolsa on April 18, 2018, 04:07:11 PM
Quote from: M'Baku on April 18, 2018, 04:05:52 PM
Oh wow ur so interna? sle :ohwow:

Very exotical   :ohwow:
wow  :ohwow:
Title: Re: I honestly didn?t know waves were still a thing N
Post by: Ma Lo on April 18, 2018, 04:16:59 PM
Quote from: Young on April 18, 2018, 04:16:00 PM
Quote from: The Serpent & The Rainbow on April 18, 2018, 04:12:50 PM
Quote from: Young on April 18, 2018, 04:04:17 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on April 18, 2018, 02:42:38 PM

Quote from: Trey on April 18, 2018, 01:38:28 PM

Black men can't really do but so much with their hair.

i meant to say i disagree

Yeah I disagree

We can do the most with our hair

I LOVED YOUR MAN BUN..DO YOU STILL HAVE IT? SEXY SELF.



Thanks luv muffin  :wub:

I?m rockig a swoop most days but I can still put it in a bun

It?s actually in a top knot right now around the house  :dead:

Jesus..
Title: Re: I honestly didn?t know waves were still a thing N
Post by: GLOCK on April 18, 2018, 04:17:01 PM
Quote from: Young on April 18, 2018, 04:16:00 PM
Quote from: The Serpent & The Rainbow on April 18, 2018, 04:12:50 PM
Quote from: Young on April 18, 2018, 04:04:17 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on April 18, 2018, 02:42:38 PM

Quote from: Trey on April 18, 2018, 01:38:28 PM

Black men can't really do but so much with their hair.

i meant to say i disagree

Yeah I disagree

We can do the most with our hair

I LOVED YOUR MAN BUN..DO YOU STILL HAVE IT? SEXY SELF.

Thanks luv muffin  :wub:

I?m rockig a swoop most days but I can still put it in a bun

It?s actually in a top knot right now around the house  :dead:
hbnjgjjj

What kinda swoop king?
Title: Re: I honestly didn?t know waves were still a thing N
Post by: LiiVE on April 18, 2018, 04:24:45 PM
Quote from: ...but mess on April 18, 2018, 04:03:00 PM
we have a couple new Black people in the office who rock their natural hair..beautiful afros and twists.

they were havin a discussion -  a couple guys and girls...about hair care, what they do with it, etc. perms they've gotten, flat irons...twist outs..the usual Black hair convo which I am VERY familiar with...as a BLACK fucking person from a BLACK neighborhood and a BLACK fucking church with BLACK fucking friends

but i felt so excluded. they didn't even find a way to include me as they did everyone else...and im thinking like HELLO im black too and i have natural hair...why is everyone included but me. but the question surely is rhetorical for me at this point as i know the answer is already.

im sure they're thinking "oh he has 'good' hair...he aint part of this convo".

and i know it sounds so trivial but it kinda hurts me when i feel excluded like that. its those little moments when u feel just a bit of shade from ur own people. i dont think its done purposely but thats not my point.

and whats even more hurtful is that some people assume because u look a certain way that u think ur better than them. they dont even know u. oh i know he mixed with something so he must automatically think he better than me. oh his hair curly so he think he the bomb.

i'm brown and have curly/wavy hair with nice skin so i must be Dominican. I'm not fully Black. gotta be mixed with something...he aint REALLY one of us. meanwhile i have two whole ass black parents who put me into this world. doesn't get any fucking blacker than my father. :dead:

and some people wonder why the hell i damn near lost my mind tryna figure out whats so different about me. what r people seeing?  u dont realize it until other people point it out and kinda exclude u from shit. i don't even think they realize that they're doing it sometimes but its really fucking hurtful .

at least I have brown skin ...my nose....theres no denying my Blackness. if anyone ever really questions it i can always point to the color of my fucking hand. i can only imagine what its like for light skin people WITH the "good hurr" . which is why when i see them share their stories im not quick to give a "ooooh boo hoo mixed boy....so hard being mixed and light  skin with good hair huh? :-(  :'( :'( :'( :'( " mess owt.

if i feel excluded and envied at times and i clearly have africa runnin all up inside of me i can only fucking imagine.

sorry for the thesis btw. but this was a bit therapeutic actually. cried just a bit. :plzstop:
nndjdjdjd wth kinda black  ppl do you be around
Title: Re: I honestly didn?t know waves were still a thing N
Post by: Ma Lo on April 18, 2018, 04:25:41 PM
Quote from: M'Baku on April 18, 2018, 04:17:01 PM
Quote from: Young on April 18, 2018, 04:16:00 PM
Quote from: The Serpent & The Rainbow on April 18, 2018, 04:12:50 PM
Quote from: Young on April 18, 2018, 04:04:17 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on April 18, 2018, 02:42:38 PM

Quote from: Trey on April 18, 2018, 01:38:28 PM

Black men can't really do but so much with their hair.

i meant to say i disagree

Yeah I disagree

We can do the most with our hair

I LOVED YOUR MAN BUN..DO YOU STILL HAVE IT? SEXY SELF.

Thanks luv muffin  :wub:

I?m rockig a swoop most days but I can still put it in a bun

It?s actually in a top knot right now around the house  :dead:
hbnjgjjj

What kinda swoop king?

nnnnnnnnnnn
Title: Re: I honestly didn?t know waves were still a thing N
Post by: Young on April 18, 2018, 04:30:34 PM
Quote from: M'Baku on April 18, 2018, 04:17:01 PM
Quote from: Young on April 18, 2018, 04:16:00 PM
Quote from: The Serpent & The Rainbow on April 18, 2018, 04:12:50 PM
Quote from: Young on April 18, 2018, 04:04:17 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on April 18, 2018, 02:42:38 PM

Quote from: Trey on April 18, 2018, 01:38:28 PM

Black men can't really do but so much with their hair.

i meant to say i disagree

Yeah I disagree

We can do the most with our hair

I LOVED YOUR MAN BUN..DO YOU STILL HAVE IT? SEXY SELF.

Thanks luv muffin  :wub:

I?m rockig a swoop most days but I can still put it in a bun

It?s actually in a top knot right now around the house  :dead:
hbnjgjjj

What kinda swoop king?

Ccccccc


A blonde curly mess owt
Title: Re: I honestly didn?t know waves were still a thing N
Post by: GLOCK on April 18, 2018, 04:31:11 PM
Quote from: Young on April 18, 2018, 04:30:34 PM
Quote from: M'Baku on April 18, 2018, 04:17:01 PM
Quote from: Young on April 18, 2018, 04:16:00 PM
Quote from: The Serpent & The Rainbow on April 18, 2018, 04:12:50 PM
Quote from: Young on April 18, 2018, 04:04:17 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on April 18, 2018, 02:42:38 PM

Quote from: Trey on April 18, 2018, 01:38:28 PM

Black men can't really do but so much with their hair.

i meant to say i disagree

Yeah I disagree

We can do the most with our hair

I LOVED YOUR MAN BUN..DO YOU STILL HAVE IT? SEXY SELF.

Thanks luv muffin  :wub:

I?m rockig a swoop most days but I can still put it in a bun

It?s actually in a top knot right now around the house  :dead:
hbnjgjjj

What kinda swoop king?

Ccccccc


A blonde curly mess owt
bzvzbzb

Like Li or wha?

Post it a bit if ur willing
Title: Re: I honestly didn?t know waves were still a thing N
Post by: Ma Lo on April 18, 2018, 04:35:03 PM
Quote from: Young on April 18, 2018, 04:30:34 PM
Quote from: M'Baku on April 18, 2018, 04:17:01 PM
Quote from: Young on April 18, 2018, 04:16:00 PM
Quote from: The Serpent & The Rainbow on April 18, 2018, 04:12:50 PM
Quote from: Young on April 18, 2018, 04:04:17 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on April 18, 2018, 02:42:38 PM

Quote from: Trey on April 18, 2018, 01:38:28 PM

Black men can't really do but so much with their hair.

i meant to say i disagree

Yeah I disagree

We can do the most with our hair

I LOVED YOUR MAN BUN..DO YOU STILL HAVE IT? SEXY SELF.

Thanks luv muffin  :wub:

I?m rockig a swoop most days but I can still put it in a bun

It?s actually in a top knot right now around the house  :dead:
hbnjgjjj

What kinda swoop king?

Ccccccc


A blonde curly mess owt

lemme see
Title: Re: I honestly didn?t know waves were still a thing N
Post by: Kurama on April 18, 2018, 05:16:15 PM
Trey needs his ass kicked
Title: Re: I honestly didn?t know waves were still a thing N
Post by: FAMÈ on April 18, 2018, 05:16:59 PM
I like my waves. My hair does it naturall?

:oof:
Title: Re: I honestly didn?t know waves were still a thing N
Post by: Kaeli. on April 18, 2018, 05:26:32 PM
Quote from: StarKitty on April 18, 2018, 02:21:22 PM
Quote from: ...but mess on April 18, 2018, 02:03:39 PM
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Title: Re: I honestly didn?t know waves were still a thing N
Post by: LOONA. on April 19, 2018, 01:17:26 PM
All I see whenever I go out are either guys with dreds or guys with that Odell cut.

Haven't seen waves or braids on a guy in forever.   

Title: Re: I honestly didn?t know waves were still a thing N
Post by: GLOCK on April 19, 2018, 01:19:18 PM
Quote from: Andrais. on April 19, 2018, 01:17:26 PM
All I see whenever I go out are either guys with dreds or guys with that Odell cut.

Haven't seen waves or dreds on a guy in forever.   

!!!

Dead ass
:plzstop:

Title: Re: I honestly didn?t know waves were still a thing N
Post by: Vonc2002 on April 19, 2018, 01:20:15 PM
Quote from: Young on April 18, 2018, 04:04:17 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on April 18, 2018, 02:42:38 PM

Quote from: Trey on April 18, 2018, 01:38:28 PM

Black men can't really do but so much with their hair.

i meant to say i disagree

Yeah I disagree

We can do the most with our hair
!!!!!!!!!
Title: Re: I honestly didn?t know waves were still a thing N
Post by: Vonc2002 on April 19, 2018, 01:20:33 PM
Quote from: Sl?i Tengo Dinero en Bolsa on April 18, 2018, 04:05:13 PM
These forced looking messes in the OP  :kii:

My natural wavy Brazilian  :howfestive:
!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Title: Re: I honestly didn?t know waves were still a thing N
Post by: Vonc2002 on April 19, 2018, 01:21:06 PM
Quote from: Guilty on April 18, 2018, 04:06:08 PM
Not forced
He's right.  Those "Box" waves
Title: Re: I honestly didn?t know waves were still a thing N
Post by: LOONA. on April 19, 2018, 01:21:59 PM
I mean waves or braids*   
Title: Re: I honestly didn?t know waves were still a thing N
Post by: Vonc2002 on April 19, 2018, 01:22:16 PM
Quote from: november on April 18, 2018, 04:24:45 PM
Quote from: ...but mess on April 18, 2018, 04:03:00 PM
we have a couple new Black people in the office who rock their natural hair..beautiful afros and twists.

they were havin a discussion -  a couple guys and girls...about hair care, what they do with it, etc. perms they've gotten, flat irons...twist outs..the usual Black hair convo which I am VERY familiar with...as a BLACK fucking person from a BLACK neighborhood and a BLACK fucking church with BLACK fucking friends

but i felt so excluded. they didn't even find a way to include me as they did everyone else...and im thinking like HELLO im black too and i have natural hair...why is everyone included but me. but the question surely is rhetorical for me at this point as i know the answer is already.

im sure they're thinking "oh he has 'good' hair...he aint part of this convo".

and i know it sounds so trivial but it kinda hurts me when i feel excluded like that. its those little moments when u feel just a bit of shade from ur own people. i dont think its done purposely but thats not my point.

and whats even more hurtful is that some people assume because u look a certain way that u think ur better than them. they dont even know u. oh i know he mixed with something so he must automatically think he better than me. oh his hair curly so he think he the bomb.

i'm brown and have curly/wavy hair with nice skin so i must be Dominican. I'm not fully Black. gotta be mixed with something...he aint REALLY one of us. meanwhile i have two whole ass black parents who put me into this world. doesn't get any fucking blacker than my father. :dead:

and some people wonder why the hell i damn near lost my mind tryna figure out whats so different about me. what r people seeing?  u dont realize it until other people point it out and kinda exclude u from shit. i don't even think they realize that they're doing it sometimes but its really fucking hurtful .

at least I have brown skin ...my nose....theres no denying my Blackness. if anyone ever really questions it i can always point to the color of my fucking hand. i can only imagine what its like for light skin people WITH the "good hurr" . which is why when i see them share their stories im not quick to give a "ooooh boo hoo mixed boy....so hard being mixed and light  skin with good hair huh? :-(  :'( :'( :'( :'( " mess owt.

if i feel excluded and envied at times and i clearly have africa runnin all up inside of me i can only fucking imagine.

sorry for the thesis btw. but this was a bit therapeutic actually. cried just a bit. :plzstop:
nndjdjdjd wth kinda black  ppl do you be around
I swear......
Title: Re: I honestly didn?t know waves were still a thing N
Post by: MelMel on April 19, 2018, 01:22:54 PM
Quote from: Kurama on April 18, 2018, 05:16:15 PM
Trey needs his ass kicked
I don't know what he did but I agree
Title: Re: I honestly didn?t know waves were still a thing N
Post by: Vonc2002 on April 19, 2018, 01:23:30 PM
Quote from: M'Baku on April 19, 2018, 01:19:18 PM
Quote from: Andrais. on April 19, 2018, 01:17:26 PM
All I see whenever I go out are either guys with dreds or guys with that Odell cut.

Haven't seen waves or dreds on a guy in forever.   

!!!

Dead ass
:plzstop:
And both of y'all are in Georgia. Go figure :dead:
Title: Re: I honestly didn?t know waves were still a thing N
Post by: LOONA. on April 19, 2018, 01:26:05 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on April 19, 2018, 01:23:30 PM
Quote from: M'Baku on April 19, 2018, 01:19:18 PM
Quote from: Andrais. on April 19, 2018, 01:17:26 PM
All I see whenever I go out are either guys with dreds or guys with that Odell cut.

Haven't seen waves or dreds on a guy in forever.   

!!!

Dead ass
:plzstop:
And both of y'all are in Georgia. Go figure :dead:

Wow you're so smart.

Should've been obvious Glock was speaking from his experience where he lives. Y'all coming in here shouting "still a thing!" was kinda dumb and redundant when y'all live on the other side of the fckn country.

:udontlookok:

Title: Re: I honestly didn?t know waves were still a thing N
Post by: Vonc2002 on April 19, 2018, 01:28:00 PM
U ok?
:diddraispoot:
Title: Re: I honestly didn?t know waves were still a thing N
Post by: LOONA. on April 19, 2018, 01:29:35 PM
I'm fine just keep is cute on Goergia monkey.

:udontlookok:   

Title: Re: I honestly didn?t know waves were still a thing N
Post by: GLOCK on April 19, 2018, 01:31:52 PM
Bbjdjdjd

Von doesn?t see waves
He sees fucking bullets

Zoo living NIGGER
Title: Re: I honestly didn?t know waves were still a thing N
Post by: Vonc2002 on April 19, 2018, 01:33:08 PM
Quote from: Andrais. on April 19, 2018, 01:29:35 PM
Goergia


What? This country dummy
Title: Re: I honestly didn?t know waves were still a thing N
Post by: Vonc2002 on April 19, 2018, 01:33:56 PM
Quote from: M'Baku on April 19, 2018, 01:31:52 PM
Bbjdjdjd

Von doesn?t see
YOU! Now move fag
Title: Re: I honestly didn?t know waves were still a thing N
Post by: GLOCK on April 19, 2018, 01:38:28 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on April 19, 2018, 01:33:56 PM
Quote from: M'Baku on April 19, 2018, 01:31:52 PM
Bbjdjdjd

Von doesn?t see
YOU! Now move fag
faggot I?ll kill u
Title: Re: I honestly didn?t know waves were still a thing N
Post by: Vonc2002 on April 19, 2018, 01:40:00 PM
Von this, Von that
Now i see what Afro deals with. 
Title: Re: I honestly didn?t know waves were still a thing N
Post by: Vonc2002 on April 19, 2018, 01:40:07 PM
Shit
Title: Re: I honestly didn?t know waves were still a thing N
Post by: GLOCK on April 19, 2018, 01:40:33 PM
Gxvbbbhjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjj
Title: Re: I honestly didn?t know waves were still a thing N
Post by: Vonc2002 on April 19, 2018, 01:43:04 PM
Quote from: ...but mess on April 19, 2018, 01:40:38 PM
not even a fraction hun

...but mess
f
U bring it on yourself, extra ass
Title: Re: I honestly didn?t know waves were still a thing N
Post by: LOONA. on April 19, 2018, 01:46:39 PM
The way I'm about to leave BULLETS and CURLS all throughout this thread.


Title: Re: I honestly didn?t know waves were still a thing N
Post by: MelMel on April 19, 2018, 01:53:38 PM
Quote from: M'Baku on April 19, 2018, 01:31:52 PM
Bbjdjdjd

Von doesn?t see waves
He sees fucking bullets

Zoo living NIGGER
oh noooo
Title: Re: I honestly didn?t know waves were still a thing N
Post by: FlowerBomb on April 19, 2018, 02:25:07 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on April 19, 2018, 01:21:06 PM
Quote from: Guilty on April 18, 2018, 04:06:08 PM
Not forced
He's right.  Those "Box" waves
they look like..waves to me
How do they look forced :guys:
Title: Re: I honestly didn?t know waves were still a thing N
Post by: Lane Bryant Jumpsuit on April 19, 2018, 03:00:13 PM
they never left

how else can you be stylish in corporate without braids or a fro

Title: Re: I honestly didn?t know waves were still a thing N
Post by: Lane Bryant Jumpsuit on April 19, 2018, 03:08:48 PM
Quote from: ...but mess on April 18, 2018, 06:49:14 PM
Quote from: Queen Mother on April 18, 2018, 03:20:09 PM
It took my a long ass time to geow out my hair cause i?d start and keep cutting it because people would also tell me basically ?nigger your naps and kinks are present cut it!? They didnt care when my hair was long enough to brush because it looked smooth and people wanted to touch it, but when I started growing my hair longer blacks couldnt take. He longer it got younger blacks cooled down, but older blacks hated it the more it grew.

But when my hair was at its longest, i got compliments and now that i have dreads the girls are really living for it.

It shouldn't have been such a struggle for me to grow my hair out because niggers were so against it, but now the girls are like oohh luv ur hair.

Why did non blacks love my hair but it took blacks 5 years to acceot my hair.
ive seen that happen before.

when i was down south, some of the black women would ALERT the men if their hair reached a certain point of growth.

"wat u gonna do with that?  :unsure: whats the plan? its gettin kinda ... :udontlookok: "

its like they couldn't stand the sight of his own natural hair growing out of his fucking scalp. it didnt even look sloppy. it really pissed me off but i really try to keep my mouth shut on certain things because i automatically feel i dont deserve to put my dog in certain fights. id definitely get the "shut the fuck up curly boy" treatment.

but becoming less common as more black people embrace their natural mess.

the men at my job are proudly rocking their fros and twists. its so sexy to me.

and its a lot more diversity here in NYC and its more "trendy" here...so its less controversial and political here when someone rocks their natural hair.

(it shouldnt be controversial or political to begin with ,... ANYWHERE... since its only someone rocking their own fucking natural hair ...but mess)

yes im so glad things are changing
i also think the toxic masculinity is fading a bit as well
cause your natural hair and styling it is considered not manly lol by
Title: Re: I honestly didn?t know waves were still a thing N
Post by: Lane Bryant Jumpsuit on April 19, 2018, 03:09:43 PM
Quote from: Guilty on April 19, 2018, 02:25:07 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on April 19, 2018, 01:21:06 PM
Quote from: Guilty on April 18, 2018, 04:06:08 PM
Not forced
He's right.  Those "Box" waves
they look like..waves to me
How do they look forced :guys:

those are fingerwaves

you slap gel

and use ur finger to create the wave and a gel to hold it

vs

your hair with constant grooming creating its own wave pattern
Title: Re: I honestly didn?t know waves were still a thing N
Post by: FlowerBomb on April 20, 2018, 04:09:01 AM
Quote from: TheNextLew on April 19, 2018, 03:09:43 PM
Quote from: Guilty on April 19, 2018, 02:25:07 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on April 19, 2018, 01:21:06 PM
Quote from: Guilty on April 18, 2018, 04:06:08 PM
Not forced
He's right.  Those "Box" waves
they look like..waves to me
How do they look forced :guys:

those are fingerwaves

you slap gel

and use ur finger to create the wave and a gel to hold it

vs

your hair with constant grooming creating its own wave pattern
these don?t look like no damn finger waves
They look like the latter which you described
Title: Re: I honestly didn?t know waves were still a thing N
Post by: b7 on April 20, 2018, 04:12:37 AM
Quote from: Same Girl? on April 18, 2018, 12:36:57 PM
the girls are gathering you glock
ffgggggggggg the same damn girls huh
Title: Re: I honestly didn?t know waves were still a thing N
Post by: Gilgamesh. on April 20, 2018, 05:02:58 AM
Quote from: november on April 18, 2018, 04:24:45 PM
Quote from: ...but mess on April 18, 2018, 04:03:00 PM
we have a couple new Black people in the office who rock their natural hair..beautiful afros and twists.

they were havin a discussion -  a couple guys and girls...about hair care, what they do with it, etc. perms they've gotten, flat irons...twist outs..the usual Black hair convo which I am VERY familiar with...as a BLACK fucking person from a BLACK neighborhood and a BLACK fucking church with BLACK fucking friends

but i felt so excluded. they didn't even find a way to include me as they did everyone else...and im thinking like HELLO im black too and i have natural hair...why is everyone included but me. but the question surely is rhetorical for me at this point as i know the answer is already.

im sure they're thinking "oh he has 'good' hair...he aint part of this convo".

and i know it sounds so trivial but it kinda hurts me when i feel excluded like that. its those little moments when u feel just a bit of shade from ur own people. i dont think its done purposely but thats not my point.

and whats even more hurtful is that some people assume because u look a certain way that u think ur better than them. they dont even know u. oh i know he mixed with something so he must automatically think he better than me. oh his hair curly so he think he the bomb.

i'm brown and have curly/wavy hair with nice skin so i must be Dominican. I'm not fully Black. gotta be mixed with something...he aint REALLY one of us. meanwhile i have two whole ass black parents who put me into this world. doesn't get any fucking blacker than my father. :dead:

and some people wonder why the hell i damn near lost my mind tryna figure out whats so different about me. what r people seeing?  u dont realize it until other people point it out and kinda exclude u from shit. i don't even think they realize that they're doing it sometimes but its really fucking hurtful .

at least I have brown skin ...my nose....theres no denying my Blackness. if anyone ever really questions it i can always point to the color of my fucking hand. i can only imagine what its like for light skin people WITH the "good hurr" . which is why when i see them share their stories im not quick to give a "ooooh boo hoo mixed boy....so hard being mixed and light  skin with good hair huh? :-(  :'( :'( :'( :'( " mess owt.

if i feel excluded and envied at times and i clearly have africa runnin all up inside of me i can only fucking imagine.

sorry for the thesis btw. but this was a bit therapeutic actually. cried just a bit. :plzstop:
nndjdjdjd wth kinda black  ppl do you be around

vvvvv

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Title: Re: I honestly didn?t know waves were still a thing N
Post by: 4 fucking k on April 20, 2018, 09:07:14 AM
Quote from: Guilty on April 18, 2018, 04:01:52 PM
Quote from: ...but mess on April 18, 2018, 02:58:15 PM
i used to comb my curls out every day because i wanted a high-top afro look.
(like the one keith photoshopped on me years ago  :dead: :dead: )

I've always loved the look of big Afro hair. So naturally..
i wanted to have a big voluminous look . i get kinda jealous when i see people with big afro hair. and wish my hair was real thick like that.

they get to do MORE  to it IMO . my cousin tried a twist out for me down south...i was SO fucking excited ...I woke up the next morning to unravel it, and it looked a thin struggling mess. Nothing like the people i saw on youtube.  :'( :'( and she did it perfectly in terms of the process.

people may think u feel ur all of that because u have certain hair but they have no clue how you really feel or what u wish you had.

taking thousands of pics of it and mess...the same hair pose pic a million times...thats really underlying insecurity at work - a need of validation of some sort. but im so used to having hair now that the less I have to talk about it or handle it, the better.

I do the bare minimum with it and it looks 100x better to me. I stopped all the combing it and mess. and just perch in confidence with what God gave you.

People of color >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>

We're all naturally beautiful, age better and all. Aside from privilege, I have no clue why anyone would wanna be White.
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Title: Re: I honestly didn?t know waves were still a thing N
Post by: 4 fucking k on April 20, 2018, 09:10:00 AM
Quote from: ...but mess on April 18, 2018, 04:03:00 PM
we have a couple new Black people in the office who rock their natural hair..beautiful afros and twists.

they were havin a discussion -  a couple guys and girls...about hair care, what they do with it, etc. perms they've gotten, flat irons...twist outs..the usual Black hair convo which I am VERY familiar with...as a BLACK fucking person from a BLACK neighborhood and a BLACK fucking church with BLACK fucking friends

but i felt so excluded. they didn't even find a way to include me as they did everyone else...and im thinking like HELLO im black too and i have natural hair...why is everyone included but me. but the question surely is rhetorical for me at this point as i know the answer is already.

im sure they're thinking "oh he has 'good' hair...he aint part of this convo".

and i know it sounds so trivial but it kinda hurts me when i feel excluded like that. its those little moments when u feel just a bit of shade from ur own people. i dont think its done purposely but thats not my point.

and whats even more hurtful is that some people assume because u look a certain way that u think ur better than them. they dont even know u. oh i know he mixed with something so he must automatically think he better than me. oh his hair curly so he think he the bomb.

i'm brown and have curly/wavy hair with nice skin so i must be Dominican. I'm not fully Black. gotta be mixed with something...he aint REALLY one of us. meanwhile i have two whole ass black parents who put me into this world. doesn't get any fucking blacker than my father. :dead:

and some people wonder why the hell i damn near lost my mind tryna figure out whats so different about me. what r people seeing?  u dont realize it until other people point it out and kinda exclude u from shit. i don't even think they realize that they're doing it sometimes but its really fucking hurtful .

at least I have brown skin ...my nose....theres no denying my Blackness. if anyone ever really questions it i can always point to the color of my fucking hand. i can only imagine what its like for light skin people WITH the "good hurr" . which is why when i see them share their stories im not quick to give a "ooooh boo hoo mixed boy....so hard being mixed and light  skin with good hair huh? :-(  :'( :'( :'( :'( " mess owt.

if i feel excluded and envied at times and i clearly have africa runnin all up inside of me i can only fucking imagine.

sorry for the thesis btw. but this was a bit therapeutic actually. cried just a bit. :plzstop:

v
Title: Re: I honestly didn?t know waves were still a thing N
Post by: 4 fucking k on April 20, 2018, 09:12:17 AM
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Title: Re: I honestly didn?t know waves were still a thing N
Post by: GLOCK on April 20, 2018, 09:15:41 AM
Quote from: 1RIG on April 20, 2018, 04:12:37 AM
Quote from: Same Girl? on April 18, 2018, 12:36:57 PM
the girls are gathering you glock
ffgggggggggg the same damn girls huh
ddddd
Same damn girls
Title: Re: I honestly didn?t know waves were still a thing N
Post by: Inject My Lips on April 28, 2018, 08:32:18 PM
ddd Not everyone on Bsource havin good hair

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Title: Re: I honestly didn?t know waves were still a thing N
Post by: ton on April 28, 2018, 08:42:50 PM
i have -1c hair