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Title: If you've had sex with a friend in the past ... then it's obligatory for you to
Post by: KING BENTLEY. on June 04, 2018, 11:11:02 PM
..... let your current situation know.

am mean .... this is just common knowledge .... right?
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Title: Re: If you've had sex with a friend in the past ... then it's obligatory for you to
Post by: GRAND ETERNAL SUPREME on June 04, 2018, 11:13:50 PM
Never stayed friends with anyone I fucked
Title: Re: If you've had sex with a friend in the past ... then it's obligatory for you to
Post by: KING BENTLEY. on June 04, 2018, 11:19:16 PM
Quote from: ton on June 04, 2018, 11:13:50 PM
Never stayed friends with anyone I fucked
the ideal solution imo! especially not close friends.
:letsmessfag:
Title: Re: If you've had sex with a friend in the past ... then it's obligatory for you to
Post by: BAPHOMET. on June 04, 2018, 11:20:07 PM
Quote from: ton on June 04, 2018, 11:13:50 PM
Never stayed friends with anyone I fucked
Title: Re: If you've had sex with a friend in the past ... then it's obligatory for you to
Post by: Kaeli. on June 04, 2018, 11:24:11 PM
Never fucked a friend
Title: Re: If you've had sex with a friend in the past ... then it's obligatory for you to
Post by: Kaeli. on June 04, 2018, 11:24:20 PM
Twice
Title: Re: If you've had sex with a friend in the past ... then it's obligatory for you to
Post by: African Queen on June 04, 2018, 11:30:57 PM
Never fucked a friend but if I did I would never tell the current...
Title: Re: If you've had sex with a friend in the past ... then it's obligatory for you to
Post by: Mariah4ever on June 04, 2018, 11:33:34 PM
its hard to stay jus friends wit tha straight niggas i fck wit
cuz they stay fallin'...its impossible for me
Title: Re: If you've had sex with a friend in the past ... then it's obligatory for you to
Post by: Buy The Stars✨ on June 04, 2018, 11:43:20 PM
my very first bf i fucked on the first meeting and we were together for 2 years lolz
Title: Re: If you've had sex with a friend in the past ... then it's obligatory for you to
Post by: Drogon on June 05, 2018, 01:32:13 AM
I've NEVER had sex with friends

Title: Re: If you've had sex with a friend in the past ... then it's obligatory for you to
Post by: MelMel on June 05, 2018, 01:35:22 AM
Quote from: Kaeli. on June 04, 2018, 11:24:20 PM
Twice
young slut
Title: Re: If you've had sex with a friend in the past ... then it's obligatory for you to
Post by: 🦚 on June 05, 2018, 01:36:49 AM
If it ain?t a recurrent thing ...it ain?t nobody?s business.

I don?t believe in the whole exchanging lists and full disclosure mess.

A need to know tea basis.
Title: Re: If you've had sex with a friend in the past ... then it's obligatory for you to
Post by: Navyman on June 05, 2018, 01:50:40 AM
Quote from: KING BENTLEY. on June 04, 2018, 11:11:02 PM
..... let your current situation know.

am mean .... this is just common knowledge .... right?
(http://i.imgur.com/52T7bRW.jpg)
Yes! So I can watch u fuckers. May just drop you, don't got time to play the what If game when yall "hanging out"
:fuming:
Title: Re: If you've had sex with a friend in the past ... then it's obligatory for you to
Post by: b7 on June 05, 2018, 02:50:36 AM
Quote from: KING BENTLEY. on June 04, 2018, 11:11:02 PM
..... let your current situation know.

am mean .... this is just common knowledge .... right?
(http://i.imgur.com/52T7bRW.jpg)
i think so. only for the simple fact that it'll look FAR more suspicious when it comes up later, cuz u KNOW it will  :kii: it's just too risky to go without giving ur dude a heads up IMO. Especially since most gays i know, are often pretty affectionate with their friends or best male friends.

Idk. i guess if it was just one time, and it wasn't some consistent fuck buddy thing, you could maybe get away
with deeming it insignificant and keeping that under wraps, but i certainly wouldn't go that route myself. For my own conscience, i just simply would NOT.

Plus, whomever i end up choosing to build with, will most definitely be a secure man through and through, and I'll be more than confident sharing my truth, no matter what that may be.

:sup:
Title: Re: If you've had sex with a friend in the past ... then it's obligatory for you to
Post by: b7 on June 05, 2018, 02:53:26 AM
Quote from: Sl?i?s Faxxx Machine on June 05, 2018, 01:36:49 AM
If it ain?t a recurrent thing ...it ain?t nobody?s business.

I don?t believe in the whole exchanging lists
and full disclosure mess.

A need to know tea basis.
this part i agree with, but if ima be around someone one of ur friends all the time, i really think it's something i would wanna know. Not saying I'd be able to handle it though. Right now, i can say i would probably feel some kinda way  :dead: i aint there yet
Title: Re: If you've had sex with a friend in the past ... then it's obligatory for you to
Post by: Cartierline on June 05, 2018, 03:37:44 AM
Fucking friends is a no for me anyway. I don't know how people do that.

It's best just to keep sexual and platonic relationships distinct.
Title: Re: If you've had sex with a friend in the past ... then it's obligatory for you to
Post by: b7 on June 05, 2018, 03:51:29 AM
Quote from: Cartier on June 05, 2018, 03:37:44 AM
Fucking friends is a no for me anyway. I don't know how people do that.

It's best just to keep sexual and platonic relationships distinct.
i think in the gay world, many friendships can start off that way even if you dont go all the way.
Let's say you meet on an app, and go out on a date or two, mess around and then realize you're better off channeling this energy and chemistry into a genuine friendship, and you aren't necessarily as compatible in terms of a relationship. It seems to be pretty common

not always what people assume, like "oh ya'll are friends but ya'll be fucking too!?" although that definitely DOES go on as well sssdsdsd
Title: Re: If you've had sex with a friend in the past ... then it's obligatory for you to
Post by: Cartierline on June 05, 2018, 05:44:43 AM
Quote from: 1RIG on June 05, 2018, 03:51:29 AM
Quote from: Cartier on June 05, 2018, 03:37:44 AM
Fucking friends is a no for me anyway. I don't know how people do that.

It's best just to keep sexual and platonic relationships distinct.
i think in the gay world, many friendships can start off that way even if you dont go all the way.
Let's say you meet on an app, and go out on a date or two, mess around and then realize you're better off channeling this energy and chemistry into a genuine friendship, and you aren't necessarily as compatible in terms of a relationship. It seems to be pretty common

not always what people assume, like "oh ya'll are friends but ya'll be fucking too!?" although that definitely DOES go on as well sssdsdsd


sssss oh that's a different case I guess.


But personally, I couldn't imagine being close friends with someone I've been intimate with in the past. It's almost like being close friends with an ex.


Acquaintances or whatever is cool tho.
Title: Re: If you've had sex with a friend in the past ... then it's obligatory for you to
Post by: FlowerBomb on June 05, 2018, 05:59:02 AM
That was the issue I had with my last relationship, all these fags coming out of nowhere reminiscing about the "good times"
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Title: Re: If you've had sex with a friend in the past ... then it's obligatory for you to
Post by: GRAND ETERNAL SUPREME on June 05, 2018, 07:26:44 AM
Quote from: 1RIG on June 05, 2018, 03:51:29 AM
Quote from: Cartier on June 05, 2018, 03:37:44 AM
Fucking friends is a no for me anyway. I don't know how people do that.

It's best just to keep sexual and platonic relationships distinct.
i think in the gay world, many friendships can start off that way even if you dont go all the way.
Let's say you meet on an app, and go out on a date or two, mess around and then realize you're better off channeling this energy and chemistry into a genuine friendship, and you aren't necessarily as compatible in terms of a relationship. It seems to be pretty common

not always what people assume, like "oh ya'll are friends but ya'll be fucking too!?" although that definitely DOES go on as well sssdsdsd
yeah one of my best friends and I started out talking

But every blue moon he gets drunk and asks to eat my ass :plzstop: I just go lol! Go to bed!  :-P

We're completely platonic though
Title: Re: If you've had sex with a friend in the past ... then it's obligatory for you to
Post by: Kurama on June 05, 2018, 07:32:10 AM
Yeah that would be ideal. Not with the whole fucking friends movement. Thats a strong no in my book.
Title: Re: If you've had sex with a friend in the past ... then it's obligatory for you to
Post by: 🦚 on June 05, 2018, 07:35:30 AM
Quote from: 1RIG on June 05, 2018, 02:53:26 AM
Quote from: Sl?i?s Faxxx Machine on June 05, 2018, 01:36:49 AM
If it ain?t a recurrent thing ...it ain?t nobody?s business.

I don?t believe in the whole exchanging lists
and full disclosure mess.

A need to know tea basis.
this part i agree with, but if ima be around someone one of ur friends all the time, i really think it's something i would wanna know. Not saying I'd be able to handle it though. Right now, i can say i would probably feel some kinda way  :dead: i aint there yet

That?s exactly why I don?t disclose. Now we creating a situation where there shouldn?t be any. It?s not hiding or being secretive either. It?s just not current or relevant to what we have going on.
Title: Re: If you've had sex with a friend in the past ... then it's obligatory for you to
Post by: Stunna Gor’ on June 05, 2018, 07:39:15 AM
Never fucked any of my friends. :dead:
Title: Re: If you've had sex with a friend in the past ... then it's obligatory for you to
Post by: FlowerBomb on June 05, 2018, 06:53:41 PM
Quote from: Trey on June 05, 2018, 07:39:15 AM
Never fucked any of my friends. :dead:
I have  :ohwow:
Title: Re: If you've had sex with a friend in the past ... then it's obligatory for you to
Post by: LOONA. on June 05, 2018, 07:24:41 PM
fjjkkfff

Never slept with a friend but this is so common with gays.

"oh you know so and so?"
"yeah we used to talk/mess around"

:uhh: :dead:

That's an automatic turn off. IDK why gays have a problem keeping things strictly platonic.

   

Title: Re: If you've had sex with a friend in the past ... then it's obligatory for you to
Post by: b7 on June 05, 2018, 07:39:53 PM
Quote from: Andrais. on June 05, 2018, 07:24:41 PM
fjjkkfff

Never slept with a friend but this is so common with gays.

"oh you know so and so?"
"yeah we used to talk/mess around"

:uhh: :dead:

That's an automatic turn off. IDK why gays have a problem keeping things strictly platonic.

   

fggggghhhh don?t put that on gays!
Title: Re: If you've had sex with a friend in the past ... then it's obligatory for you to
Post by: Scott. on June 05, 2018, 07:41:42 PM
I had sex with my best Friend and nothing changed
Title: Re: If you've had sex with a friend in the past ... then it's obligatory for you to
Post by: KING BENTLEY. on June 05, 2018, 07:43:09 PM
Quote from: Scott. on June 05, 2018, 07:41:42 PM
I had sex with my best Friend and nothing changed
:ummwhat:

How long had yawl been besties before it happened?
Title: Re: If you've had sex with a friend in the past ... then it's obligatory for you to
Post by: Scott. on June 05, 2018, 08:01:01 PM
Quote from: KING BENTLEY. on June 05, 2018, 07:43:09 PM
Quote from: Scott. on June 05, 2018, 07:41:42 PM
I had sex with my best Friend and nothing changed
:ummwhat:

How long had yawl been besties before it happened?

Well this happened in 2014. So at that point it was 12 years ago and he was curious and wanted to experiment so we did it