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I knew IR dating was at an all time high for a reason between black men and other women.
Girl stfu
That tweet is creepy af :plzstop:
Not her tryna educate while spelling words wrong & using incorrect grammar. :loose2when:
This 2nd sentence already is a mess.
:dead: :dead: :dead:
well clap back then
It's a real issue. I think it's more with women than it is men.
I rarely see men sitting around talking about how they want to manufacture their bvy. Or seriously cringing at the thought of their children coming out with kinky hair.
While I was researching hair care I ran across a FEW videos of dark skinned, kinky haired women who were on Youtube showing off their mixed children's hair. It kinda made me cringe. Of course they presented it as an "educational video", but there definitely was an underlying self hate. One woman actually said "Don't know what type of hair my child has, but it's DEFINITELY not type 4." And the sad part is that her child actually had beautiful, soft type 4 hair. :dead: Which some of the commenters pointed out to her. :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: embarrassing. on so many levels
Imma try to find the vidya.
It's interesting how she says her hair is "definitely" type 3, but her daughter doesn't even have very loose spirals or corkscrews that make 3c. She does absolutely no research on hair types, but simply jUMPS to the conclusion that her daughter is "definitely not type 4"
:uhh:
The commenters shaded the fuck out of her.
I'm in here crying
SDDDSSSSSD
This little girls hair is thick as hell
Is she really trying it
"Look at her curl pattern :ohwow: Look...look..look at the wavy texture. r u looking? :wellheythere: "
i am CRYING.
I hear guys do it alot too! "Oh cant date a chick darker than me, I want pretty babies" even heard a dude say "I want a North not a Blue".
Seems like alot of women from other races are catching wind that these black guys desire to be with them is rooted in some issues. I feel latina women specifically are slowly not digging it.
Quote from: GYNandTONIC on November 04, 2015, 10:34:26 PM
I hear guys do it alot too! "Oh cant date a chick darker than me, I want pretty babies" even heard a dude say "I want a North not a Blue".
Seems like alot of women from other races are catching wind that these black guys desire to be with them is rooted in some issues. I feel latina women specifically are slowly not digging it.
It's kind of sad.
We joke and hehe haha about this stuff but these are children these people are messing with. Their own children at that, forcing them in front of cameras to show off their hair and mess. Let them be a fucking child, not your Youtube model. Stop living vicariously through them.....make a vidya on how you take care of YOUR hair.
it worries me because it almost makes me feel their own mother may be jealous of them in some way.
Quote from: Herbie on November 04, 2015, 10:33:34 PM
"Look at her curl pattern :ohwow: Look...look..look at the wavy texture. r u looking? :wellheythere: "
i am CRYING.
:plzstop:
It's sad though
Quote from: GYNandTONIC on November 04, 2015, 10:34:26 PM
" even heard a dude say "I want a North not a Blue".
I'm the fuck sorry but SDRFVBHHNB/BMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMVVBNMMMN
:usureuok:
For people like that I would be comfortable hoping that their child would come out the EXACT opposite of they wanted, no matter who who they mated with.
You just never know. My grandmother is light as a bulb, and my mother came out dark skinned, looking like my great grandma Chief. Anyone getting with my grandmother hoping the child would come out giving a "mixed" mess out would have disappointed. My uncle (her brother) is also dark skinned. The same tone as me. My aunt is the ONLY one in my immediate family who is very light skinned like my grandmother. :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: DNA is very random with its selection at times.
But then my concern would be the psychological welfare of the child -- having a parent who is disappointed with them from birth. So I'll hope these idiots get what they want.
I think it's a case by case thing honestly
If I were straight and had a baby with someone that didn't look like and the kid was a splitting inside of my spouse, I'd think it's adorablele dsss
Quote from: SUPREME on November 05, 2015, 09:23:16 AM
I think it's a case by case thing honestly
If I were straight and had a baby with someone that didn't look like and the kid was a splitting inside of my spouse, I'd think it's adorablele dsss
Right. But there's a difference between accepting that a child doesn't look much like you, and purposely searching for a mate that will produce a child that doesn't look like you. It's sick and dangerous. Cuz DNA guarantees nothing.
I'll never understand why anyone would want a bvy that doesn't look like them and their family. I'd want my bvy to perch right next to me and my siblings and fit right in. Ideally. I know that isn't guaranteed but I don't think there's anything wrong with wanting that. If it came out otherwise that would be fine, too. A DNA test may be in order if the bvy is a little TOO far from me...(white with blue eyes, as if there's not one black gene in their bahvey sss) but I'd love my child regardless.
Quote from: Herbie on November 05, 2015, 09:32:08 AM
Quote from: SUPREME on November 05, 2015, 09:23:16 AM
I think it's a case by case thing honestly
If I were straight and had a baby with someone that didn't look like and the kid was a splitting inside of my spouse, I'd think it's adorablele dsss
Right. But there's a difference between accepting that a child doesn't look much like you, and purposely searching for a mate that will produce a child that doesn't look like you. It's sick and dangerous. Cuz DNA guarantees nothing.
I'll never understand why anyone would want a bvy that doesn't look like them and their family. I'd want my bvy to perch right next to me and my siblings and fit right in. Ideally. I know that isn't guaranteed but I don't think there's anything wrong with wanting that. If it came out otherwise that would be fine, too. A DNA test may be in order if the bvy is a little TOO far from me...(white with blue eyes, as if there's not one black gene in their bahvey sss) but I'd love my child regardless.
!! I agree
And speaking of
My mom and i think my 2nd nephew has a different dad
That boy is our color but looks nothing like us or his "dad" or brother
:udontlookok:
My sister is always like HUH LOL
:hehe: