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Title: What do y'all think of this? I'm conflicted...
Post by: Gilgamesh. on January 30, 2019, 08:18:45 AM
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Title: Re: What do y'all think of this? I'm conflicted...
Post by: RAY7 on January 30, 2019, 08:43:38 AM
Hmmm
White women will do ANYTHING
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Post by: NewNu on January 30, 2019, 08:48:20 AM
:uhh:

This is a mess.
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Post by: fedswatchin on January 30, 2019, 08:49:54 AM
I think it's sweet. Alzheimer's is nasty enough, it's good that she has a strong support system as unconventional as it is
Title: Re: What do y'all think of this? I'm conflicted...
Post by: Gilgamesh. on January 30, 2019, 08:50:02 AM
When I say i'm conflicted what I mean is, should he divorce her? Clearly she doesn't have any living relatives cause I can't see a Black family letting this shit fly, so if he leaves her she's alone.
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Post by: Kurama on January 30, 2019, 08:56:40 AM
I heard he's  living off of her too. Lemme see...
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Post by: African Queen on January 30, 2019, 09:13:20 AM
I don't blame him one bit. This disease not only destroys the person but those around them too. You can't really judge this situation unless you have experienced it first hand.
Title: Re: What do y'all think of this? I'm conflicted...
Post by: Gilgamesh. on January 30, 2019, 09:20:08 AM
Quote from: ZAIYE on January 30, 2019, 09:05:47 AM
Hmmm...I don't think I like that he has a girlfriend while he's still married to B. Even though the explanation he gave (sorta) makes sense, he made a promise to stick by this woman and remain faithful to her through thick and thin.

It just doesn't seem right

All this!

It makes sense when you listen to hs side but the reality is, you're married and you've moved your gf/mistress in to your WIFE's home.
Title: Re: What do y'all think of this? I'm conflicted...
Post by: GLOCK on January 30, 2019, 09:33:08 AM
This is a lot to digest
When i think of marriage I think of it as a lifetime commitment
It?s just unfortunate that he would have to live everyday waiting for her to die so that he can continue to live..

Eek.
I couldn?t imagine counting the days and subconsciously hoping they die before u
Maybe they should place her into a home..

But I honestly could see myself just remaining invested in my husband
And just cheating on the side .. away from the home :unsure:

I don?t see anything wrong with that imo
The human body and mind has needs
But actually getting into a relationship while being married

Nahhh
But i can?t judge .. they seem to have a system
Title: Re: What do y'all think of this? I'm conflicted...
Post by: RAY7 on January 30, 2019, 09:40:03 AM
Quote from: Glock on January 30, 2019, 09:33:08 AM
This is a lot to digest
When i think of marriage I think of it as a lifetime commitment
It?s just unfortunate that he would have to live everyday waiting for her to die so that he can continue to live..

Eek.
I couldn?t imagine counting the days and subconsciously hoping they die before u
Maybe they should place her into a home..

But I honestly could see myself just remaining invested in my husband
And just cheating on the side .. away from the home :unsure:

I don?t see anything wrong with that imo
The human body and mind has needs
But actually getting into a relationship while being married

Nahhh
But i can?t judge .. they seem to have a system
all of this !!!
Title: Re: What do y'all think of this? I'm conflicted...
Post by: GLOCK on January 30, 2019, 09:44:05 AM
Quote from: ZAIYE on January 30, 2019, 09:41:44 AM
Quote from: Glock on January 30, 2019, 09:33:08 AM
This is a lot to digest
When i think of marriage I think of it as a lifetime commitment
It?s just unfortunate that he would have to live everyday waiting for her to die so that he can continue to live..

Eek.
I couldn?t imagine counting the days and subconsciously hoping they die before u
Maybe they should place her into a home..

But I honestly could see myself just remaining invested in my husband
And just cheating on the side .. away from the home :unsure:

I don?t see anything wrong with that imo
The human body and mind has needs
But actually getting into a relationship while being married

Nahhh
But i can?t judge .. they seem to have a system
I wouldn't have a problem with this system if
1. He wasn't still married to B
2. He didn't MOVE this new bitch into her house
3. He cared for B from a reasonable distance or maybe got her a live in maid/caregiver
mess

Its definitely messy
Title: Re: What do y'all think of this? I'm conflicted...
Post by: HUGO on January 30, 2019, 09:46:55 AM
Oh no... :-/

I think the fact that he knows if B was still well she wouldn?t be okay with this white woman living in her house, fucking her man, and being friendly with her doesn?t sit well with me. I think the right thing to do would be to divorce her. You can still care for her
Title: Re: What do y'all think of this? I'm conflicted...
Post by: Gilgamesh. on January 30, 2019, 10:18:23 AM
He ain't divorcing her cause he wants those coins lol.

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Post by: FlowerBomb on January 30, 2019, 10:22:57 AM
Quote from: Gilgamesh. on January 30, 2019, 09:20:08 AM
Quote from: ZAIYE on January 30, 2019, 09:05:47 AM
Hmmm...I don't think I like that he has a girlfriend while he's still married to B. Even though the explanation he gave (sorta) makes sense, he made a promise to stick by this woman and remain faithful to her through thick and thin.

It just doesn't seem right

you're married and you've moved your gf/mistress in to your WIFE's home.
excuse me?
Title: Re: What do y'all think of this? I'm conflicted...
Post by: FlowerBomb on January 30, 2019, 10:23:36 AM
fdfd well Glock move me in when Hugo starts to lose it a bit ok
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Post by: GLOCK on January 30, 2019, 10:25:17 AM
Bbbbnnnnnnnn deal
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Post by: HUGO on January 30, 2019, 10:25:27 AM
Quote from: NAOMI!!! on January 30, 2019, 10:23:36 AM
fdfd well Glock move me in when Hugo starts to lose it a bit ok

Sksksksksk




I don?t want Glock. Get that through your skull faggot. Enjoy having no orgasms

:dead:
Title: Re: What do y'all think of this? I'm conflicted...
Post by: HUGO on January 30, 2019, 10:26:31 AM
Quote from: Glock on January 30, 2019, 10:25:17 AM
Bbbbnnnnnnnn deal
snsnsnsnjs

Knew you wasn?t shit
Title: Re: What do y'all think of this? I'm conflicted...
Post by: GLOCK on January 30, 2019, 10:26:37 AM
Nbnnnnnnn :damselindistress:

Have the symptoms already kicked in
Title: Re: What do y'all think of this? I'm conflicted...
Post by: HUGO on January 30, 2019, 10:27:03 AM
Quote from: Gilgamesh. on January 30, 2019, 10:18:23 AM
He ain't divorcing her cause he wants those coins lol.
Then he doesn?t love her like he claims he does cuz that?s just plain up selfish
Title: Re: What do y'all think of this? I'm conflicted...
Post by: HUGO on January 30, 2019, 10:27:46 AM
Quote from: Glock on January 30, 2019, 10:26:37 AM
Nbnnnnnnn :damselindistress:

Have the symptoms already kicked in

I heard limp dick was a symptom of syphilis Luv? Go get help

:stressed:
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Post by: FlowerBomb on January 30, 2019, 10:28:00 AM
Quote from: Glock on January 30, 2019, 10:26:37 AM
Nbnnnnnnn :damselindistress:

Have the symptoms already kicked in
Yh the double posting of threads, misspellings...

Hugo you want the upstairs or downstairs bedroom hun'

:butwait!:
Title: Re: What do y'all think of this? I'm conflicted...
Post by: HUGO on January 30, 2019, 10:29:55 AM
Quote from: NAOMI!!! on January 30, 2019, 10:28:00 AM
Quote from: Glock on January 30, 2019, 10:26:37 AM
Nbnnnnnnn :damselindistress:

Have the symptoms already kicked in
Yh the double posting of threads, misspellings...

Hugo you want the upstairs or downstairs bedroom hun'

:butwait!:

:plzstop:
You can have it all.
Title: Re: What do y'all think of this? I'm conflicted...
Post by: Opposites Attract. on January 30, 2019, 11:36:34 AM
Quote from: HUGO on January 30, 2019, 09:46:55 AM
Oh no... :-/

I think the fact that he knows if B was still well she wouldn?t be okay with this white woman living in her house, fucking her man, and being friendly with her doesn?t sit well with me. I think the right thing to do would be to divorce her. You can still care for her
yeah

He's clearly taking advantage of her. Only a white woman would be cool with this. They fucking and sucking under the same roof as his sick wife? Hell nah. Sounds like some Tyler Perry shit here.
Title: Re: What do y'all think of this? I'm conflicted...
Post by: Vonc2002 on January 30, 2019, 12:22:06 PM
I actually think it's kinda cute.  I've worked with Alzheimer's patients and I've seen spouses turn into caregivers and that's what the relationship is.  There is no more marriage or affection in that kinda way.  I'm not mad at this AT ALL tbh
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Post by: Vonc2002 on January 30, 2019, 12:22:41 PM
Quote from: Promise. on January 30, 2019, 08:49:54 AM
I think it's sweet. Alzheimer's is nasty enough, it's good that she has a strong support system as unconventional as it is
!!!!!!!
Title: Re: What do y'all think of this? I'm conflicted...
Post by: Vonc2002 on January 30, 2019, 12:24:23 PM
Quote from: HUGO on January 30, 2019, 09:46:55 AM
Oh no... :-/

I think the fact that he knows if B was still well
But she isn't. 
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Post by: African Queen on January 30, 2019, 12:25:17 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on January 30, 2019, 12:22:06 PM
I actually think it's kinda cute.  I've worked with Alzheimer's patients and I've seen spouses turn into caregivers and that's what the relationship is.  There is no more marriage or affection in that kinda way.  I'm not mad at this AT ALL tbh

BITCH!!!! You ain't made this much sense in over a year.
Title: Re: What do y'all think of this? I'm conflicted...
Post by: African Queen on January 30, 2019, 12:28:12 PM
Quote from: ZAIYE on January 30, 2019, 09:43:33 AM
My POV might be skewed, but idgaf. This is wrong.

It is not skewed but it is idealistic. I would have had the same POV at 17 too but when life starts hitting you with all kinds of shit your POV shifts.
Title: Re: What do y'all think of this? I'm conflicted...
Post by: GLOCK on January 30, 2019, 12:33:21 PM
Mikey...
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Post by: 'ology on January 30, 2019, 01:38:25 PM
Nah this ain't it
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Post by: I. Hate. Monica. on January 30, 2019, 01:54:48 PM
idk about this.

is he still fckin her?
she obviously doesn't realize that the lady is fckin her man.


edit: this is disgusting
Title: Re: What do y'all think of this? I'm conflicted...
Post by: Nine on January 30, 2019, 01:58:04 PM
No ma'am.

He's trash and so is this white HO.
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Post by: Gilgamesh. on January 30, 2019, 02:09:21 PM
Quote from: Nine on January 30, 2019, 01:58:04 PM
No ma'am.

He's trash and so is this white HO.

drrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr
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Post by: I. Hate. Monica. on January 30, 2019, 02:09:50 PM
Quote from: Gilgamesh. on January 30, 2019, 10:18:23 AM
He ain't divorcing her cause he wants those coins lol.

yeah he aint slick. someone drag this old mf
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Post by: Vonc2002 on January 30, 2019, 02:12:43 PM
I would almost bet he isn't fckn this lady with Alzheimers. They also said she had early onset which means this lady probably started going thru this in her 50s. There's no reason this man's life should end  that early and he should be relegated to being nurse  to his fckn wife
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Post by: I. Hate. Monica. on January 30, 2019, 02:13:58 PM
then he needs to divorce queen and let their daughter take care of her
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Post by: Vonc2002 on January 30, 2019, 02:14:16 PM
And i doubt this is just about not divorcing her for money.  Have u people every really dealt with someone whose had Alzheimers :dead:
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Post by: Vonc2002 on January 30, 2019, 02:14:43 PM
Quote from: MARS. on January 30, 2019, 02:13:58 PM
then he needs to divorce queen and let their daughter take care of her
Yea, u haven't  :dead:
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Post by: I. Hate. Monica. on January 30, 2019, 02:15:19 PM
go stand outside fag
Title: Re: What do y'all think of this? I'm conflicted...
Post by: Vonc2002 on January 30, 2019, 02:16:28 PM
His love for this lady didn't end because she lost her fckn mind (which is essentially whats happened) so no he shouldn't divorce her.  Actually THAT would be disgusting imo. She's just not able to give him alot of what a wife would give typically give her husband. 
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Post by: I. Hate. Monica. on January 30, 2019, 02:17:26 PM
yeah he's in it for the money
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Post by: Nine on January 30, 2019, 02:22:59 PM
Quote from: MARS. on January 30, 2019, 02:17:26 PM
yeah he's in it for the money
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Post by: Young on January 30, 2019, 02:36:59 PM
This ain?t cute and I?m not even clicking play
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Post by: novmbrchild on January 30, 2019, 02:38:27 PM
I was a little disturbed by this at first but now I see that it?s really the best situation for all parties. He could have easily thrown her in a nursing home or some mess and been living it up with his new white wife :young: but he found a way to integrate her into his new life. Seems like they all help take care of her and that?s beautiful.
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Post by: Vonc2002 on January 30, 2019, 02:46:38 PM
Quote from: november on January 30, 2019, 02:38:27 PM
He could have easily thrown her in a nursing home or some mess and been living it up with his new white wife
PERIOD! This is what alot of people do because taking care of someone with Alzheimers is VERY hard and a full time job. It's heartbreaking too because you're essentially watching someone die a lil bit every damn day and there aint a damn thing u can do to help it.  Her brain is  Deteriorating and in a min she aint gon know who tf nobody is.  She dont give af about this man getting him a GF. He's still young enough to want that kinda relationship with a woman, so he should have it. 
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Post by: Gilgamesh. on January 30, 2019, 03:10:20 PM
Out of respect for their marriage and the fact that her millions that built the home they're in, that yt womuh shouldn't be coming around. Take her to a motel or something. Shit.
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Post by: Vonc2002 on January 30, 2019, 03:15:48 PM
Do we know what this man does for a living?  Do we know if his money isn't what ran that home? Y'all be killing me.  Fck yo white woman and care for your wife king. Had it been me, I'd surely had tossed this old bitch in a home lolz
Title: Re: What do y'all think of this? I'm conflicted...
Post by: RAY7 on January 30, 2019, 03:26:37 PM
I wonder if Becky ever wants to get married because it can?t be to him if he?s gonna stay married until B dies
Title: Re: What do y'all think of this? I'm conflicted...
Post by: Vonc2002 on January 30, 2019, 03:57:43 PM
 She has Alzheimers. She'll be dead in a few
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Post by: MelMel on January 30, 2019, 04:51:49 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on January 30, 2019, 03:57:43 PM
She has Alzheimers. She'll be dead in a few
why are you so rude
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Post by: RAY7 on January 30, 2019, 04:54:16 PM
if its "just a few" then he should've waited
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Post by: GLOCK on January 30, 2019, 05:18:03 PM
Ccbnvvvvv :uhh:
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Post by: fedswatchin on January 30, 2019, 05:27:32 PM
Quote from: november on January 30, 2019, 02:38:27 PM
I was a little disturbed by this at first but now I see that it?s really the best situation for all parties. He could have easily thrown her in a nursing home or some mess and been living it up with his new white wife :young: but he found a way to integrate her into his new life. Seems like they all help take care of her and that?s beautiful.
It really is

He still loves her or he woulda did what you said
Title: Re: What do y'all think of this? I'm conflicted...
Post by: Vonc2002 on January 30, 2019, 05:37:51 PM
Quote from: MelMel on January 30, 2019, 04:51:49 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on January 30, 2019, 03:57:43 PM
She has Alzheimers. She'll be dead in a few
why are you so rude
Awww :blush:
Title: Re: What do y'all think of this? I'm conflicted...
Post by: Vonc2002 on January 30, 2019, 05:38:09 PM
Why wait when he can fuck now?